Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 14 June 1937 — Page 4
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PAGE 2 i Wife Should Discover Failing When Husband
Little Good Can Come From Visit to Rival or Court Action s.gainst Her, Puzzled Woman Told; Treat-Hushand Like Adult, Advice.
Jane Yordan w u study your problems for you and answer your letters in this column daily. ® o ” # » 2
DEAR JAN E JORDAN—I read with interest the étter of Puzzled 21 Years (in love with a married man). 1 am the wife ih the triangle. This girl is young, just half my husband’s age. She meets him secretly and writes to him if he fails to m=et her. She is being divorced, I suppose to marry my husband.
We have a 1 ce little family so of course I will not divorce him. Now should I go to his young woman and give her a chance to break off |
with my husbaiid or should I use ‘the legal means in my possession? She thinks I do ot know about her and that I do not know my husband gives her mone. Her mother knows he is a married man but she thinks he has rioney and a job, whichis a mistake, for soon he will have no job if tI is ‘gets cut. What shall I do? A PUZZLED WIFE. 2 = = ” : aT ANSWER—I you are afraid your husband will lose his job if his behavior become: known, why would you be willing to make it public by litigation agains: the girl? I see no reason why you should shield and protect her in ar 7 way but I see plenty of reason why you should guard the source of yo ir own and your children’s income. You can’t punish your husband ii this manner without punishing yourself and the children, What could yi u possibly hope to: accomplish by visiting the girl? Nearly every wii: whose husband courts another woman has the impulse to visit her rival and demand that she give up the man. Is your husband a child who has to be protected from a girl half his age, or is he a full-grow: man, as responsible as she for their affair? You are in 2 bad spot, I know, but you can’t improve your situation by acts whi h belittle your husband. Even if he behaves like a naughty child yi u can’t treat him as one and get away with it. I take it that you vant him to be his age and recognize his responsibilities as a husba:d and father, How can you hope to awaken this mature response by treating him as a bad little boy who must be controlled by for e? ; : . Of course you can’t. The more you act like a domineering mother exercising her aut iority, the more h¢ will resent your efforts to manage him. Many an @ Tair would have Hied by itself if the wife had not aroused her hisbe. 1d’s obstinacy by Ler will to rule. Granted that | ‘ou are right in objective, you are wrong in method— as you will find cit for yourself if you continue. The wisest thing you can do is to eR Hut what is wrong at home. It is hardly conceivable that the man|has no complaints ag st you worth listening to. You may be a model héusekeeper, a good | ther and a virtuous wife. Nevertheless your husbind turns to' a giil ©1alf his age for admiration and diversion. is ot all pure cusseiiness on his part but the expression of a need. Accept [art of the blame for it and you'll have a better chance fharriage. : JANE. JORDAN.
Child May Become Fearful Af Laughed ar, at, Writer Says
~ By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON
Do not laugh ''t the wisdom of babes, or the funny words they use. When one of them says, “It’s a perfectly dangerous day,” meaning gorge- _ ous, merely look inpressed and agre¢ that it is certainly fine weather. * Soon enough, they will learn the: right words in the right place, but: 3g smile, repeat lor criticize will {And she made a swooping motion
make them shy aid afraid. { with her little fat hand.
’em off.”
nfaithful, Jane Says
We have a small visitor of 3. She: “Hook delights me beyorii words. Today in the b:throom, she had: splashed water @verywhere with: two blue glasses bowl. “I'm wetting t& e bunnies,” she said sternly, fixin. me with great: blue eyes.
and a well-filled | :
“They hop right up and. nice one.
Superb. I
| thought her word exactly right.
And her “buzz” was Tathgy good, ! too. Almost in the same Turon, and apropos of nothing, she planted i herself before me, hands | behind back, and said earnestly, “You're a You're nice, yes.” And then she turned without taking a
bite the kids.” I never heard her: hy y say “kids” before. | { breath and said, ‘“Where’d you get
: that?” meaning an electric fan on Words. Splengt idly fresh ; a table. "In a minute she had followed me Her mind jumps from this to that to mvl room to Batch’ me dress; : faster than one can easily follow, BM | but she knows just what she is say“What's that?” she demanded, ing. And not for worlds would I onus to a mark on my arm. | Slsourngs hu) happy prattle, and Prue » e adventure into words. She is I think it’s a fosquito bite, 1 {one of three grandchildren who are suggested. . J 8 | my dearest and |loveliest friends. “Well,” Ihe said “you have to They are all here, little steps of hook them off or ‘aey’ll buzz you.” humanity, in dots of suits and
i dresses against the heat. , Interest [in Creating Mind Your Man ners |
One, at the moment, is drawing ion the floor beside me. He is 5. I ‘am watching him from the corner Test your kncwledge of correct social usagss by answering the follow ing questions,
of my eye. His flair for form is amazing. He is not copying, but then’ checking :zainst the authoritative answ ars below:
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i |ing he drew a steam shovel to the call? | [she has her own ideas, too. I made telephone? be sure of that, regardless of age. What would ‘vou do if phone number ” piano recital at the D. A. R. chapMay I 2. The one :iaking the call.
| raving and c loring a tree. Now |the red goes on in dots. Oh, a i | Christmas tree. And if you could : | see it, it might astonish you. As : | symmetrical as a clock. This morn|life. His big interest is to make or _ |draw things. 1 ve 11 remember that, 1. Should on¢' open a tele- ¢|as early trai Ss are important and phone conversa ion with “Who | |can so easily be is this?” : : | through the years. 2. Which peison should .be (| Then, there is the baby, who trots the one to clcse a telephone |around imitating the others. Yet 3. Is it thou shtful to wait !|them all crovmns yesterday, but aluntil mealtime to telephone? | though the others wore theirs 4. How should a married || proudly, she. lifted hers off her curls, woman making a social tele-:|and put it on “Mister,” the black phone call aniiounce herself? || dog. 5. How shouid a clerk in a We laugh with them, never at department sttre answer the them. They know the difference —rrT— i | (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.) 3 ee Someone has left a telephone, © 7 7 number for you fo call, but has _ 37 P lanists to P lay not left his name? Call the | : Dob Jefe Dig om On Recital Program A. “Who wa its to speak to || Mrs EA. Thomas, who is affiliJohn Doe? nN t ibis: te] ated with the Sherwood School of B. “Who livis a €le- Music, Chicago, is to present 37 of her Ry r: Db speaks pupils Wednesday evening in a ing. Did sometne at this num- ter house, 824 N. Penns I} ylvania St. ber call me?” | She is to be assisted by Miss Ruth # Scheaegel, a voice student of Mrs. Ane vers . W. R. Sieber. 1. No. Say, “Hello: speak to Mr. E ank?” 3. No. Bette just before or Biter mealtime “This is] Lucy Fortune Sh 5. “This is McDonald's store, the fur departinent.”
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Today's Contract Problem
West's contract is seven no trump. He can make the hand, even though neither dia- % 1087 monds nor hearts break, but it N will require care in the timing of his trick taking. In what | E order should he cash his high S cards to squeeze out his thir- Dealer teenth trick?
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enough to justify the inferential force which he gave on the second round by his suit reversal. The bidding of a higher ranking
Solution to Previous Problem
By WILLIAM E. MKENNEY American Bridge League Secretary
MONDAY, JUNE 14, 1987 Ten-Cent Blood Pressure Tests May Cause Worry, Add to Trouble, Warning
“Traveling Mechanics’ Who Charge Dime a Measurement Find Good ‘Business Among Elderly in Health Resort Towns.
By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor American Medical Association Journal.
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As a result, innumerable people have become blood-pressure conscious. ‘Many of them worry so much about their blood pressure that they make it worse. These blood pressure mechanics are found especially in. health resorts in portions of the country like California and Florida where older peopie particularly are to be found. The reason is, of course, that our blood pressure rises as we get older and elders are more likely
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HE no trump response to an opening bid is regarded almost universally = as contract’s danger signal, and even the most enthusiastic bidders should stop, look and listen when it is sounded. However, it must be admitted that West on today’s hand, had a likely looking collection of cards, and quite
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Doctors measure your blood pres=sure with two types of machines. In one of these there is a column of mercury and the pressure is recorded in millimeters of mercury or atmospheric pressure. In the other type of machine there is a dial with a moving needle which is controlled by the tension of a spring! This type of machine is standardized with a mercury column so that [the readings on the dial pare with the readings of a mercury column. When\ the doctor measures the blood pressure he puts around the arm a cuff made of rubber. When air is blown into this cuff, it presses against the blood vessels and stops the circulation of the blood. The blood column then pushes against the air in the cuff and this
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