Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 June 1937 — Page 10

Wife, 21, Sepa ated From Husband, Asks Advice on Love for Married Man

Lack of Courage Causes Woman to Accept Another’s Mate ds Suitor, Jane Says, and Suggests Affair

Hit

Put your problems in a letter to Jane Jordan,

Is Only Interlude in Girl's Life.

who will answer

your questions in this column daily.

lk ' ie =

8 # 8

DEAR JANE J ORDAN_I have been separated from my

husband for three years.

I wrote you at that time

and took your advice and I appreciate it. Now I need help

more than 1 did then.

man and|I think the-world and all of him.

thinks a great deal of me.

I have been going with a married

I believe he I knew him seven years ago

before we were married. At that time I was nothing but a kid to him. Now I am ¢lder and He says we should have been married for years by

now. Herel is my question:

How in the world can he get by coming

to see me fyithout his wife wondering where he goes? I know it’s wrong, but when you love anybody you'll do a lot of

things jus} to be near that person.

He never says things about his

wife to me, but he tells me not to go here and not to go there, but

just stay hime and wait for him. he won't. I should for get him?

because I don’t think he’ll give up his wife for me.

i | |

Then maybe he’ll come and maybe

{Do you think he is making. a fool of me, and do you-think I have no future to look forward to with him

Please help me. PUZZLED 21 YEARS.

. ANSWER—The hopeful thing about your letter is that you have not placed] your complete trust in the man.as so many women in the

same sithiajion have done. his wife out him Befor mind. I All you. courage.

herself With’ a married man as a suitor. | expect a.man to take the responsibility for her. tite of a girl who has failed in an early marriage.

does not ticularly

You do not*believe that he intends to leave and marry you. You have not said that you cannot live withor instructed me not to tell you to give him up. e you wrote your letter you already had your answer weil in believe you realize that this is only an interlude in your life. need is a shove from somebody who has confidence in your It is really lack of .courage that impels a woman to content

She is so diffident. that she This is parShe is

id she isn’t worth another man’s trouble. the | niirried man cannot assume responsibility for the girl he

courts.

SHe must take it all, including the social condemnation.

Remeniper that it is easy to attract a married man who is dis-

with his wife. no grudges to avenge.

gruntled who has personal and one

It is much more difficult to win a single man When you are convinced of your own worth * you won't accept such an unsatisfactory arrangement s¢ uncomplimentary tc yourself.

In other words, if you

thought you could get a single man, you certainly wouldn't bother with

a married ne. will do better. 2 n »

EAR JANE JORDAN—I am a young girl in my early teens. can I find out if a boy really likes me? often but le would rather listen to the radio than talk to me. when we gc to the theater he seems to like me.

When you believe you can do better, undoubtedly you

2 n " How 1 go over to his house quite But Should I make it my

business tc see him or make him come to me or just forget about this?

PATTY.

ANSWER—You are getting to be too big a girl to stroll over to a

boy’s hous? is self- conscious and embarrassed.

He pays attention to the radio instead of you because he

Stay home and let him come to

see you when he wants to. WHy forget him if he takes you to the show

and you bo ’h enjoy going.

Today’ S Pattern

F you want to look your prettiest even in your kitchen, see what this Wery simple but very becoming dress willl do for you! hs easy ta] make | with pattern 865 nd you will enjoy the comForvage round neck and full, cap sleeves, details which add a young freshness. I'o accent this effect, there is a Santly fitted and lifted waistline and button-down-the-back

bodice.. You're -sure to adore this simple - morning frock and you'll want it i, two or three materials— dimity, gingham, voile, seersucker. Designed |in sizes 14, 16, 18, 20, 32, 34, 38,1140, 42, 44. Size 16

"requires 4% [yards of 39-inch mate-

rial: To trim as pictured 2% yards of edging are needed. To obtain a pattern and STEP-BY-STEP [SEWING INSTRUCTIONS inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor The Indianapolis Times, 214 W.

"Maryland St. Indianapolis.

The SUMMER PATTERN BOOK, with a complete selection of late dress designs now is ready. It's 15 cents when purchased separately. Or, if you want to order it with the attern abcive, send in just an aditional 10 cents.

| light. | tinue beating and add lemon juice

with rotary beater adding lemon

JANE JORDAN,

3

Cooling Sauces Suggested for Warm Months

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer

some are not” is too often true Cold salads, vegetables, and iced sea food can be no gayer in taste than | the special sauces that go with | them. Try these perfect recipes for the hot weather buffet. Cold Sour Cream Sauce (1 pint) One cup sour cream, juice 1% lemon, 1 teaspoon salt, 1 1-16 teaspoon cayennz, 1 teaspoon ndinced parsley. Beat sour cream until thick and Add salt and cayenne. Con-

| The old joke “summer. sauces and 1 . a

one drop at a time. Fold in the fragrant minced parsley at the last moment. Chill. This Cocktail Sauce recipe for clams, shrimps, crab and other sea food dishes comes from a handy guide called “Soups and Sauces,” by Elliot & Jones. It is not new, | yet no new bride should be without | its smooth advice. Seafood Cocktail Sauce (1 pint) i One-half cup chili sauce, 2 tablespoons ‘mayonnaise, 1 tablespoon | freshly grated Horsptagisn, 15 tea- | spoon celery salt, teaspoon onion salt, 4 dashes rn sauce, 2 teaspons salt, !2 teaspoon black pepper, juice 1 lemon. Use large bowl. Combine all ingredients except lemon. Then beat

juice as you beat. Chill. All these sauces must be very cold. From the same benevolent writers comes this recipe for a tangy. re-

freshing salad dressing. Sauce Vinaigrette (lz pint) | Four sprigs parsley, |6 fresh tarragon leaves, 1 tablespoon olive oil, 14 teaspoon salt, boiled vinegar. Chop parsley and tarragon leaves and place in a cup. Add olive oil and salt, then fill up the cup with boiling hot vinegar. Stir, and stand for 1 hour. Then chill. That's a novel and superior version of Sauce Vinaigrette. Ice creams take kindly to sauces, too, according to our authors. Claret Sauce (12 pint) Two cups sugar, 2 cup water, 15 cup claret. Dissolve sugar in water, Boil without stirring until syrup forms a soft ball in cold water. Remove from fire, cool slightly, then stir in the claret. Chill thoroughly. It takes the plainness out of the plainest plain pudding.

Blue sailcloth overalls,

like . these designed by Patou, are great fun to pull over your bathing suit

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Oceralls Useful for Romp on Beach

when scampering on the beach. Voluminous pockets and plenty of stretching room are talking points.

ONE ENTRY DOES FOR TWO

Today’s Contract Problem

South has the contract for six spades. Should he hope for a favorable heart break, and plan to discard his losing diamonds on the long hearts in dummy? AAQI104 YAKI1032 1054 °° oh 6

N

Ww E

(Blind) (Blind)

Dealer

AKJI953 vQ6b6 ¢AQT6 oe A 8 All vul. Opener—sb J. , Solution in next issue.

Solution to Previous Prablem By WILLIAM E. M'KINNEY American Bridge League Secretary LL bridge players recognize the tremendous advantage of easy access to either hand. The first consideration in the play of the cards, after counting sure losers, is a survey of the entries needed, when the cards are so distributed that tricks in a suit will be lost if the weak hand cannot lead up to the strong. Morrie Elis, of New York, a member of the semifinalist team in the National Masters’ team of four of the American Bride League, solved this problem on today’s hand by the simple expedient of making one entry do the work of two.

‘9 432 98178654 2 Q98

8 9 N Ww E S Dealer AKJI2 ¥-Q876 ®Q . J AKT765 Rubber—All vulnerable. South West North East leh Double 1 ¢ Pass 1¢ 2A Pass 3A Pass 4 4 ‘Pass Pass Pass

AAQIlO0S5 43

YKJS5 AK S42

Opening lead—# Q. 1

It was easy to see, when the opening lead was made, that two club tricks must be lost, and that there was danger of losing tricks in both trumps and hearts. Elis could afford to give up one trick outside the club suit but two would defeat him. If South held even a minimum

Corduroy Wins Favor For Summer Wear

Corduroy, which has slowly but surely been edging into the men’s style picture for some time, is enjoying a summer boom. Featherweight fine wale corduroy is used for sport shirts. and coarse wale, generally with a pattern of checks, plaids or stripes, is well-liked for sport jackets and slacks.

Our

We

Oenuine Oil $7. $3 8

Permanent $2, $2 valu for Pring a friend — divide the the Sa)

Evenywhene you §o you need 7 to Appear Your VERY BEST—

Especially our plete with hair trim, shampoo, rinse, pushup set. add much to your individual chaim and beauty. NO APPOINTMENTS NECESSAR

specialize

BEAUTE-ARTES

LOVELY Ege

“Modern” style com-“Nu-Life”

Will

All for only

in Grey-Dyed-Bleached gy Shirley Temple or Mae Murray sl amanents 601 Roosevelt Bldg., ‘s 0433

to-wave-hair 50 } 4 Bring the ty od Lor, ll. & Wash.

Medium |

opening bid, he would have the king and probably the jack of spades, and his heart bid seemed to locate the queen of that suit in his hand. Hence at least two leads up to West's hand were needed to make the contract. Elis ruffed the third round of clubs and led the jack of hearts to the dummy. The ace won, and a heart was returned at once. South did not cover and the 10 held. Now a spade was led and the queen finessed. When this held the ace was laid down, and a spade trick conceded to South. By very fine use of limited resources in dummy, Elis fulfilled a difficult contract. (Copyright, 1937, NEA. Service, Inc.)

Mind Your Manners

Test your knowledge of correct social usage by answering the following questions, then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. Is it good bridge to suggest that your partner take a finesse in a certain way because the bidding was thus and so? 2. May the dummy help the declarer play his hand by coaching him as to where the lead belongs? 3. Is it good bridge to review the bidding so that your partner will be sure to catch the significance of your bid? 4. Does it make any difference if ‘you complain about getting poor cards? 5. Is it good taste to replay the bridge hand verbally at a party?

What would you do if— You are dummy at a hridge table— A. Entertain others with interesting stories? 3 B. Sit quietly and watch the play? C. Help ‘your partner play? u 4 on

Answers

1. No. 2. No. 3. No. 4. Inexcusable during bidding or play. Anyway you wouldn't complain if your guests had larger helpings of dessert. 5. No.

Best “What Would You Do”

solution—B. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.)

Luncheon-Bridge Set Tomorrow At Riviera Club

The first of the women's luncheonbridge parties at the Riviera Club is to be held tomorrow. Luncheon reservations have been made by Mesdames R. C. €ashon, D. T. O'Conner, John Doughtery, Bertha Brenner, Rex Moonshower, D. J. Zimmerman, J. H. Powers, Harvey Dodge, Paul Whipple, C. B. Griener, Chester Schneider, Edward ‘L. St. Pierre, Walter Jones, H. W. Moody, O. L. Fevrier, N. E. Boyer and D. C. Newman. The Riviera Royal Reveliers are to hold their annual breakfast, swim and dance on July 4. Larry Sweeney is the general chairman. More than 1000 attended the club’s summer formal opening Sunday. Following a general inspection of thie clubhouse, Jimmy Miers and his orchestra gave a concert. A dinner dance followed. An exhibition of diving and swimming by members of the club's aquatic squad was given.

P.-T. Congress Study Course To Be Offered

Classes sponsored.by the Indiana Congress of Parents and Teachers will be conducted by Dr. Edna Hatfield Edmondson Wednesday through Friday at the Severin Hotel. The school is to provide a knowledge of the workings of the State Congress and to increase efficiency in the various departments. Mrs. Logan G. Hughes, president, is to preside over both sessions of the board. A board meeting is to precede the school at 10 a. m. Wednesday. The classes are to start at 1 p. m. daily, continuing through Thursday. A board meeting on Friday morning is to conclude the session.

Engagement Announced Mrs. Gertrude Swope announces the engagement of her daughter, Virginia Lee, to Herschel Featherston, Linton. The wedding is to take place June 26.

NISLEY

Clear Chiffon

Pure Silk HOSIERY

59c¢ PERFECT

QUALITY 44 N. Penn.

Step right out and buy a package of crisp,delicious Shredded Wheat today! It’s a perfect energy-builder; packed with vital food essentials!

5M A Product of NATIONAL

“I’M TIRED OF STANDING HERE~ I'M GOING FOR SOME SHREDDED WHEAT AND STRAWBERRIES I¥

SHI REDDED U WHEAT

BISCUIT COMPANY

24 MORE THAN A BILLION SHREDDED WHEAT BISCUITS SOLD EVERY YEAR

BoysConceal

Softer Side,

Writer Says

One Subject of Study Likes Sister, but Won’t Admit It.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

Boys are funny. When I say funny, it is with a smile, following the *“Virginian’s” advice. We use

the word when things or people puz- |

zle us. : This is why they are funny. They would rather die almost, than show their real feelings. Oh, yes, they .will give ready demonstrations of the lustier emotions, quick indignation, braggadocio and all the so-called male attributes, but their softer side they hide at the risk of almost anything they own. There are a brother and sister, for instance, who could be much happier if the boy would merely concede that he likes his sister. But he won't, Key to Mystery

He admitted to his mother once that “Sis was a better guy than anyone he knew almost,” but in the same moment, he wase bawling her out unmercifully for asking him to take her to a movie

Their mother asked me what to do. “If I knew exactly what to do, I would know the answer to all boys,” I told her. “They are sphinxes, the best of them. But I believe that if caught young and encouraged in owning up to the softer emotions, they would grow into the habit.

“But this he-man stuff gets them, and suddenly they beat a retreat. Sometimes they continue to be close confidantes of their mothers - and admit their love for her, but again not so. They close like clams, not only to friends, sisters, and brothers but-to parents as well. Attitude Is Defense

“The reason is well enough known, of course. Boys, as a class, are more sensitive than girls, and their indifferent front to the world is a protection and defense. They dare not risk being thought soft, or held up to even the slightest hint of ridicule Teasing is agony, if it strikes a Vulnerable spot. “The mother, by beginning very

early to encourage frank demonstra- |

tions and a co-operative family spirit, may succeed in overcoming the boy’s growing diffidence, or

most of it, and he won't be afraid |

of the fellows sneering if he is nice to his sister.” A lad seems to put his friends’ opinions before anything else, but if he only knew the truth, they are all in the same boat with him, afraid of each other; and in their deepest hearts they respect the one who is’ really true to himself, regardless of what others may say. Such an one can be a very fine example to his crowd.

(Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.)

[own

Chairman

Miss Mary Ruth Holsclaw is chairman of the annual Mortar Board Hop to be held tonight by the Alpha Chapter of the Alpha Gamma Sorority at the Broadmoor Country Club.

Exercises Best Means to Keep

Down W eight

BY ALICIA HART NEA Service Staff Writer

“1 never have been able to make myseif get up 20 minutes earlier in order to do exercises,” writes a business woman. . “But, years ago, 1 realized that I would have to figure

some way to keep from getting soft

and flabby. Since then, I have walked to work (20 blocks) three mornings a week and home at night twice a week. Sunday morning, I skip rope for 10 minutes before I take a shower.” The reader reports that her system has worked. actly what she did five years ago,

and her flesh is firm and smooth. | She adds that sweet dessert only |

three times a week is her only other weight-limiting rule. It seems to me that one who can take the’ basic rules for beauty and health, then build them into practical, workable rules to suit her requirements, deserves much praise. How much wiser to say, “Well, I don't like to do exercises, but I will walk to work several times a week,” than to dismiss the entire matter and just go on gaining a few pounds a year. It really doesn’t matter how you keep young and lovely so long as you do it—and

| without endangering your health!

It is a mistake to go on a rigid, starvation diet for three days, then eat everything in sight the fourth. How much more sensible always to eat smaller portions of everything, substitute a crisp, green salad for hot rolls and butter, stewed or fresh. fruit for pastries and rich desserts.

She weighs ex- |

TUESDAY, JUNF. 8, 1937

Lists Kinds Of Arthritis Treatment

Dr. Fishbein Cites Diet Rules, Physical Therapy And Vaccines.

By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor. American Medical Association Journal. In arthritis it is necessary to give the patient's body every possible help that can.be given in resisting infection. This means, of eourse, control of rest and avoidance of fatigue, fresh air and sunshine, adequate dieg with nlenty of viitamins, massage, tathing and other hygienic practices. In order to reduce- the pain and aid the resumption of free movement in the joints, suitable drugs may be used and physical therapy as

{well as orthopedic treatment applied

to the individual joints. A person with this type of arth=ritis should avoid alcohol and should avoid overcating of carbohydrates and sugars ‘except those - necessary to control the weight. There is an old superstition about excluding strawberries, tomatoes and citrus fruits from the diet because they are supposed to produce acid. This is without any scientific: foundation. Sometimes it is possible to use vaccine therapy with success for people with arthritis.

Protein | Also Used In some cases it is customary to try the effects of nonspecific protein shock. It is known that the body will react to the injection of protein substances by an increased production of the white blood cells which are valuable in the attack against disease. Various substances are used for such shock, including not only vace cines made from the patient's own germs, but also mixed vaccines of various germs commonly found in arthritis conditions. | In many instances, it is .recognized that the person with this type | of arthritis suffers with chronic constipation and infections in the intestinal tract. Of great value is the application | of heat in the many different forms. | Moist heat is applied by the use of poultices and packs, paraffin wax baths, steam cabinets and similar methods. Dry heat is applied with the rae diant heat from infrared lamps, packs of hot sand and also heat created within the joints by the passing through of electricity. In many <nstances the person with this type of arthritis will do

rest and treatment away from home. For this reason many of the spas in various parts of the United States specialize in the treatment of those with rheumatism or arthritis. The particular water in the re= sort is not important. Most mine eral waters are simply slightly laxative because of the salt that they contain.

YOU CAN FORGET IT ENTIRELY--IF YOU

Went w

WATER

HEATER

Yes, you can actually rent this most modern of all conven-

iences. Or you can try it

out on the rental basis and if

within four months you decide to buy it, ALL you have

previously paid will apply toward its purchase—and you

can pay the balance at an

easy monthly rate. Even after

the four-month period and within five years from instal-

lation date you may still purchase the heater and 80% of

the total amount paid as

rental will be credited on the

purchase price. Is there now any reason why any family

should put up with the inconveniences of the old non-

. . oo . automatic heater, the waiting for hot water, the trips to

the basement before and after every bath, when it is pos-

sible to do otherwise under our low cost Electric Watee

today.

WATER

People you know are most enthusiastic about ELECTRIC water beating. Read what they say in a FREE BOOKLET giving full information.

INDIANAPOLIS Power

Electric Building, 17 N. Meridian

Heater rental plan with its cheap electric rate? Investigate’

A A MONTH :

an Electric

HEATER

PY TITY

Phone, Riley 7622

better “if given an opportunity for