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College Man| Wield 7 rowels on Eve of Home Show

Deserted by His Fiancee|

Can She Love Another on Short Acquaintance, Jane Asks.

Jane Jordan will study your problems for you and answer your letters in this column each day. Write now!

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not want his letter pub-|

lished has been engaged to a school mate for some years. Now a surprising thing happens. The young lady announces that she is in love with another young man who is a comparative stranger to her. The gquestion is, can a person really fall in love after four or five dates? This involves the Phenomenon of love at first sight. That there is such a thing as Jove at first sight we cannot doubt, although we can doubt its validity as much as -we please. Literature is full of accounts of the instantarieous flaring up of an attraction between two persons. Everyone is familiar with the story of Romeo and Juliet, of Marguerite and Faust and many others. It is a theme much stressed in the movies and one which carries a powerful appeal for the human race. The longevity of love at first sight is open to question. Sometimes it lasts a lifetime; sometimes a few years or just a few months; sometimes it does not survive the first disappointments. Nevertheless, it is a real experience while it lasts and leaves a deep impression because of the element of fascination which is

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never absent. ‘In order to fall in love at first! sight one must be in a state of love readiness. Perhaps no person | lacks the wish to be completely overwhelmed by love except those

Hanging over the garden gate

represents work. Mrs. Paul R. Browning (left) and P. Willwer'hs heave ho with

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who are already emotionally contained in one partner. Your young | © lady could not have been won by | another so easily if her requirements in love had been completely met by you. You must face the probability that her dissatisfaction did not arise as hastily as you think, but must have existed secretly over a period of ‘time, unknown to you and only half known to herself. This | need not have been due to any se- | rious lack in yourself, but simply to | the absence of some infantile love requisite acquired by the girl in childhood. When understood, love at first sight perhaps always results from | the satisfaction of an infantile wish. | Somebody comes along who corresponds to the secret ideal ahd all the infantile feeling attitudes which | constitute love-readiness flare into | active being. Love at first sight | instantly cancels all critical faculties. | Therein lies its danger. Sometimes the sound of a voice is sufficient to stir half hidden yearnings which were quiet before the voice was heard. Sometimes it is the hair of the loved one, the eyes, ears, hands and even feet. Other times it is not the physical characterics at | all but some psychic requisite (which has been met. I say this A the hope that the loss of the young lady will ‘not cause you to feel inferior. For example, can you help it if your hair is not the same color as your rival’s? In the last analysis it is fairly certain that all love is really love of self. Either we fall in love through self-identification with another, or we fall in love with the self we would like| to be if we were the other sex. erwhelming love infers complete self-subjection, which is impossible unless the lower corresponds .to one’s own beloved ego as it is, or as it wishes to be. I cannot tell you how.to win the young lady away from your rival for I do not know. A move which would work with one girl would fail with another. If you drove your rival away with blows, one girl might adore you for it: whereas another would despise you. There are no rules which work in every case. The best solution well may be for you to light your fires on other altars. JANE JORDAN.

Narrators to Hear Hurst Book Review

“Great Laughter” by Fannie Hurst is to be reviewed by Mrs. Thomas Carlin at a meeting of the Narrators tonight at the home of Mrs. Agnes Hall, 4020 Rockwood Ave. Mrs. Albert G. Neff and Mrs. Joe

W. Sovine will read original stories. Mrs. Sovine is the recently named delegate and Mrs. Paul Duckwall, alternate, to the Indianapolis Council of Women. The club has announced a donation of, books to the Methodist and Riley Hospitals.

Missionary Society

To Sponsor Lecture

Woman’s Home Missionary Society of the Meridian Street M. E. Church is to sponsor a talk by Mrs. Demarchus Brown at 8 p. m. today in the church auditorium. Her subject will be “India.” The church quartet is to sing “The Golden Threshold” under the direction of Mrs. Myra Goodnow Clippinger. Ushers will be Joan Mick, Claire Patten, Martha Jo Cantwell, Peggy

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Assembly Club

Plans Reception

A reception and tea are to be given by the Indianapolis Branch. State Assembly Women's Club, | 3 p. m. today at Mrs. Walter | E. Treanor's home, 5707 N. Me-| New club members will be honor guests. Mrs. William: Storen is arrange-| Other commit |

Shortemeier, William H. Harrison, { Thomas A. Daily, Ella - Gardner; Clarence Wysong, Clarence R. Mar- | tin, William A. Arnold and Frank | Finney. | Mrs. Charles Miller and Mrs. Walter Behmer will pour. Music | is to be provided by Miss Virginia Hitchcock, pianist, and Miss Char : lotte. Reeves, violinist.

Todays Pattern |

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| Mrs.

i cille Calvert

(nostes. P. M. Dill, | ebration.

E.. E. Eschbach, hostess. Luncheon

UMMER'S almost here and that means clothes for out-of-doors activties. The frock sketched (No. 8945) fills the bill. sheer wool skirt and lawn blouse, or both skirt and blouse could be made from one of the new cotton or silk prints, The pattern is in sizes 12 to 20 (30 to 38 bust). Size 14 requires 1% yards of 35 or 39inch material for the blouse and 15% yards of 54-inch material for the skirt, 3% yards for both matching blouse and skirt. To obtain a pattern and STEP-BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCTIONS inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indiandpolis Times, 214 W. Maryland St., Indianapolis.

Mrs. James Griffith To Read Barrie Play

Mrs. James: Griffith is to read Barrie's play, ‘Mary Rose,” and Miss Margaret Spencer, harpist, is to accompany her at the Saturday | Afternoon Literary Club SRring | guest day this week. The party is to be held in the D. A. R. Chapter | House. Mrs. George Kolb, president, is to preside and Mrs. Hollis Nay, pro-

+ Winslow, Judy Hamer and Jo Ann % ; - | ‘

| gram chairman, is to assist her.

Make with a |

in this instance ed [flowers and | garden exhibits.

By MARJORIE B Three hundred women are keepi

trowels,

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as they, and other garden club members,

—Times Fhoto.

plantshrubs today in the Home Show

INFORD WOODS ng their fingers crossed today. It is

the eve of the opening of the Indianapolis Home Show at the Indiana

| State Fair Grounds. . The show must go on without a

hitch at 6 p. m. tomorrow and these

women know that much depends upon the moods of the weather man.

into bloom.

Club Meetings

TODAY

Literary - Club. MesLloyd Kirk, Mrs. R. “Unusual Birds.” Mrs. F. H. Dedert, “Queer Companions.” Zetathea Club. Mrs. Fred Bokelon, hostess Mrs. Murray Lumley, A. C. Caldwell, papers. Service Study Club. Mrs. Adolf Wagner, hostess. Mrs. J. L. Rock=ener, devotions. Mrs. L. V. Hadin, “Mothers of the Bible, Sarah, Re-| | becea.” Mrs. B. E. Moon, “Rachel, | | Louise, Inza ” Discussion. Woman's Department Club. Gen- |: eral Club. Business meeting. Lu- | dramatic reading. Mu Phi Epsilon Patroness Club. | | Mrs” F. E. Glass, hostess. “Folk | Melodies in Opera.” subject. THURSDAY Review Circle. Miss Julia Walk, | Mrs. Fred Gardner, Mrs. assistants. Mrs. Clare Bispham, book review di Club. Mrs. John | |

Ephamar dames Mack Parker,

Nettie Sports,”

Aftermath Club. Mrs. Kane, hostess. ‘Modern {{ Mrs. John A. Sink. Elsa Huebner Olsen Club. Mrs.

FRIDAY Irvington Union of Clubs. 8:15 p. m. George W. Julian School Auditorium. Program by Bomar Cramer, pianist. Wheel and Distaff Society. Mes- | dames F. A. Albershardt, Howard | E. Nyhart, Carl W. Piel, William 0. Weber, hostesses. Mrs. Sylvan L. Mauser, musicale Irvington Garden Club. Mrs. Garfield Walker, hostess. Mrs. Oscar Wadsworth, “All Season Bloom -in the Garden.” Irvington Fortnightly Club. Mis. H. H. Prescott Mrs. C. L. Stubbs, hostesses. Mrs. George Buck, “Cultural Contribution Made to the World by Spain and Spanish Speaking People.” Mrs. J. H Fee, current cvents. Woman's Round Table Club. Mrs. Carl Steeg, hostess. Mrs. Gaylord Rust, “Guatemala and Salvador.” Culture Club. Mrs. Frank Chiles, hostess. Mrs. O. E. Stanfield “The Living Jefferson” by James Truslow Adams. Indianapolis

Woman’s Club.

Propylaeum Club House. Mrs War- |

rack Wallace, “China New York.” Miss Blanche Stillson, “The Medieval Heaven.” Guest Day tea. SATURDAY

Magazine Club. Mrs. Alvin Jose, hostess. Miss Jeanette Henley, “Ruth Bryan Owen.” Mrs. Edward J. Wolfarth,” Anne Morrow Lindbergh.” Miss Helen Stockton, “Frances Allen.” Mrs. R. L. Pierce, ‘Helen Keller.” Mesdames J. Blaine Hoffman, Ralph Waldo, J B. Phillips, Albert G. Small, assistants.

Luncheon Is Held At Hillerest Club

Mrs. Vance Oathout and Mrs. C. E. Cox were hostesses for the Hillcrest Country Club’s luncheon and bridge party at 1 p. m.. today. The May party is to be omitted and a festival for members only is to be held May 12.

Mrs. Ogden to Entertain

| nome at 1 o’cleck luncheon tomor-

Mrs. James M. Ogden, 2801 N. Pennsylvania St., i to entertain members of the Median Street M. E. Church Stansfield Circle at her

row. Her assistants include Mesdames E. J. Bayer, Ray Patterson, Claus H. Best, Paul Buchanan,

{ Uf the sun shines warmly several thousand plants may burst suddenly If chill winds blow they must be coaxed into bloom.

They are trusting to more than : | luck, however. Andy Miller, Park ‘Board horticulturist, who has been {chief watchman of the Home Show’s | flowers for the last 16 years, has the | situation well in hand. If shrubs {show signs of fading he dashes the ‘roots with hot water.

Heat Conirol

“Heat control is the principal factor in the beauty of show plants,” Mr. Miller says. “All the king's horses and all the lking’s men” can't keep azaleas from blooming too soon if they are growing outdoors in a warm sun. But {indoors . . a simple turn of the furnace thermostat will do. wonders. Rhododendron, honeysuckel

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| and forsy thia are all raring to blos-

som today but they are being held back, perforce, by cool building temperatures, according to Mr. Miller. After shrubs burst into bloom they have been known to live indoors 15 days without folding up. | But that is only because they are sheltered from winds and rain, authorities explain. Roats continuously will be fed with moisture after the show opens—to keep them in a healthy state. The building heat will be allowed to die down to glowing coals while audiences are there to warm the atmosphere. You can’t always control the elements and the temperature, however, Frank Cantwell," Home Show director, confesses. He recalled last year’s dilemma when 1500 tulips faded at the crest of the show and had to be replaced hurriedly by new plants. Everything is in a state of hubbub on this day before the rising of the curtain. It's likela Van Gogh painting in the making.

Work Against Time

A multitude of workmen in blue denim buzzes about against a background of brown earth mounds and clumps of bright colored blossoms. Like ants in their hills they work in unison against time. It is planting day for -the garden club. members who are participating in the show. Women with trowels in hand meet at the numerous flower beds. Masculine club members are in the minority, but there's strength in their wheelbarrow muscles to make up for weakness of numbers. Mountains have been literally brought to Mohamet for this show. Carloads of bricks have been made into garden walks and summer | houses during the past week. Fifty tons of sand have been! dumped into the floor of the Industrial Building. More than 5000 square feet of sod arrived just yesterday to be placed over terraced surfaces. Enough trees to form a forest primeval along the garden walls. Rare flowers and shrubs from all parts of the country are assembled under this one roof in a panorama of color. Tomorrow is the opening but— today sets the tempo of the show. That's why 300 women have their fingers crossed.

Shower Is Arranged For Miss Ann Lepple

Miss Ann Lepple, a bride-to-be, is to be honored at a personal shower at 8 p. m. today at the home of Miss Edith Fibinger, 3331 N. Meridian St. Sigma, Alphi Chi Sorority is to entertain. The hostess will be assisted by Mrs. Chester Gibson and Mus. R. N. Hiatt.

meyer are to be married April 25.

INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

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are being transplanted |:

Miss Lepple and Everett Dam- |

‘If it covers the floor . . we have it” §

EI COMPANY 139 WEST WASHINGTON STREET

Howard Siispinge | and Frederica Wattel, :

Parents Need Division of Child’s Care Bad Results Noted if Mother or Father Dominates.

‘By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

There should "be a balance of

power between parents. It happens that when a father

‘| becomes too arbitrary and domi-

neering: (or let us just say ‘‘dominating”), that the mother, too, shares fear of his control, and allies herself with the childrer. If daddy is too cross or unreasonable, she hides and protects the lambs from his roar; and although we can forgive her and

is unfortunate indeed. For this is what happens. The children depend on her only for sanctuary and begin to question even her authority, unless she happens to be a person of unusual talent for keeping respect and the reins of rule. Must Be Reasonable We are| trying, of course, to instill in all children self-control, selfgovernment and honor. Theoretically it is an excellent idea. But this calls for the’ sane, just and entirely reasonable parent, both parents, which is too much to expect. But at that, it is well for all children to feel that above their own independence there are people The home is the miniature world and all of us must

thority. Johnny, whose father is mean, as he calls if, will learn to hide behind -his mother’s skirts. On the other hand, mother may be unreasonably strict, while the father attempts to excuse and make peace. Johnny will learn to select one parent to obey. If, at table, dad says, “Eat your beans,” and mother pleads, “He isn’t hungry Henry,” or “The beans aren't cooked the way he likes,” Master John is going to ease himself out of a tough spot. “Mom said I needn’t,” he says, and he doesn’t eat the beans. We must allow for the faults of growing chlidren and not be too hard on them, but we should not go te the other extreme and feel that each time dad gives an order, he is being cruel. Not unless he is cruel. Becomes Habit One of the hardest things in

quiet wheri her husband is using authority with a high hand. But where occasionally it is right enough for her to say, “Now, Henry, Johnny did the best he could,” or “He is really too tired to do that,”

monstrance before she knows it. Parents should co-operate, they cannot, always. have one other. as far as possible to see the good in each other's motives, and allow for it. The child should feel that each of his parents tacitly backs the other. And iif he thinks that things are a trifle unreasonable at times, he must get used to it. (Copyright. 1937. NEA Service,

but A man may idea and his wife an-

Inc.)

DePauw Alumni

To Hold Dance

John Hughes and Mrs. Fred Tucker are cochairmen of a supper dance to be given by the Indian- | apolis DePauw University Alumni Association tonight at the Indianapdlis Athletic Club. Members of the university dra- | matic society, Duzer Du, will en-: tertain the guests. is alumni president.

Mind Your Manners

EST your knowledge of correct social usages by answering the following questions, then checking against the .authoritative answers below: 1. Should you thank a delivery man when you take a package from him? 2. Is it proper to call a man by his title without using his name, as “Doctor”? : : . 3. How should a mother thank the friends who have sent gifts to a new baby? 4, Should a man refer to his wife as ‘the Mrs.”? 5. If you meet a friend who looks ill or tired, is it thought=ful to tell him so? :

What would you do if— You happen to see a child doing something likely to prove dangerous and his mother seems unaware of it— A. Stop and call his mother's attention to it? B. Warn the child in such a way that his mother will hear - you? : C. Say nothing?

» ” 2 Answers

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George Kadel ’

1. Yes. 2. No. It is better to say “Dr. Smith.” . 3. By a note. 4. No. She is “Eleanor” or “my wife.” 5. No. You only make him feel worse.

Best “What Would You Do?” solution—A. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service. Inc.)

even cheer her, the whole situation’

she can [all into the habit of re- |

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Each should try, however,

learn respect and obedience to au- |

the world is for a mother to keep |

“Two hearts with but a single tailor” seems to be the slogan of Denny Shute, P. G. A. champion, and his wife when they stroll out] to watch a golf match at the Miami Biltmore Country Club, where Denny is a member of the pro staff. The idea of twin “spectator sports”! ensembles comes straight from the southland. The Shutes’ jackets are made lof identical French blue serge, trousers and skirt of French Pleats at jacket backs are identical and trouser pleatings have their counterpart in the skirt’s front pleat.

flannel from the same bolt.

ALL HONORS AGAINST HIM

Today's Contract Problem

South, after opening the bidding with one spade, has jumped to four spades, and has redoubled when - West doubled. With five high cards that apparently should win tricks, what suit should West select for an opening? WEST

Hh98542 VAK2 ¢AKQ % Q 10 None vulnerable.

Solution in next issue.

Solution to Previous Problem By W. E. M'KENNEY

Ameliican Bridge League Secretary HEN a defending player holds four out of five trump honors, including the ace and king. as well as another king-queen combination, he cannot be accused of undue optimism| in thinking

defeat a contract of three.

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Dealer

N22 ¥87432 ®AK10943 oh A Duplicate—None vulnerable. South West North East lv Pass 16 Pass 2 Pass 2N.T. Pass 3¢ Pass 3v Double Pass Pass Pass

Opening lead—e 6. 7

Just this combination of cards, however, caused many players to double in today's hand ‘when the apparently overbold players opposing them had reached three, but was not enough to prevent ‘the declarer from taking nine tricks, so great was the power of favorable distribution. East feared that South would not bid again, so he doubled the contract of three because he could not let pass through his fingers a chance to collect what appeared to be a certain penalty. It would seem that the fact that South had shown a two-suiter should have been sufficient to make East cautious in his doubling. When the spade was opened, South” went right up with the ace in dummy, and quickly analyzed the situation. East, he reasoned, must hold at least four trumps for the double. If he held all five, nothing could be done. Declarer led two rounds of diamonds and, when the queen dropped from the West hand, he

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| four trumps, but that was all, and

members since 1897.

he can |

led a small trump., East cashed his

the contract was made. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service. Ine.)

Club Honors Two Mrs. John Downing Johnson and Mrs. Ollah P. Toph have been

awarded life memberships in the Monday Club. They have been

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 14, 1937 Wi Vije Proves Match for Golf Pro

Roast Lamb Shoulder Is Tasty Dish

With Spinach Stuffing, This Is an Economical = Meal, Expert Says.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer Keep your eyes wide open and. your purse half shut—the result will be good meat dishes that don’t wreck the family budget. Shop criti= cally and cook with imagination.

Roast Shoulder of Lamb with Spinach Stuffing (4 to 6 servings) Five pounds shoulder of lamb, 1, pound young spinach, 4 tablespoons butter, 1 teaspoon chopped green pepper, 1 tablespoon chopped celery, 1 tablespoon chopped radishes, 1 tablespoon chopped onion, 2 cups bread crumbs, 1. teaspoon salt, 4 teaspoon pepper. Ask the butcher to bone the meat for stuffing. Keep the bone for soup stock. Wash meat, dry and season well. Wash spinach carefully, first in warm water, then in cold waters, Drain and chop. Cook in 2 tablespoons butter together with all the other chopped vegetables. Melt the other 2 tablespoons butter and mix with bread crumbs. Combine vegetables and bread crumbs and stuff lamb. Skewer, Insert sliver of garlic deep in flesh of meat, dust lightly with flour, and

|| bake in very hot oven (450 degrees || F.) for 20 minutes then reduce heat

and continue in moderate oven (323 degrees F.) until done, allowing

|| about 30 minutes a pound in all,

Baste occasionally.

Mexican Steak (4 to 6 servings) Three pounds round steak, flour, seasoning, 3 small onions, 1. cup canned tomatoes, 1 teaspoon chili powder, prepared mustard. "Have meat cut about 2 inches thick. Cut off some of the fat and heat fat in heavy iron frying pan, Brown steak on both sides in pan. Chop onion, then remove browned mgat and turn in onions to brown. Spread the steak with prepared mustard, return to pan and add chili powder, browned onjon, tomatoes. Cover and simmer until ten-: der, about 1!4 hours. Add more water if needed. There should be a naturally thickened gravy, but if yours turns out too thin, thicken slightly with flour.

Contract Club to Woot

Woman's Contract Club of Indianapolis is to meet at 1:15 p. m, tomorrow in the Indianapolis Ath=-

letic Club.

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Spring—the time “when young man's - fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love” arrived officially in Indianapolis at 6:45 p. m., March 20th. Thoughts at this time of year also turn to beautifying the yard and home in order to capture the charm of this colorful season. Consequently, a spring check-up is in order.

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First, you need good garden lools. See that you have a rake, spade and trowel. For the yard, your clippers probably need sharpening end the

lawn mower adjusting.

(And here

may we suggest that you have your own equipment as your neighbors are probably busy using their ownk

addition, be prepared to furnish

your ground with adequate life-giving

water. Test your hose

for leaks and be

sure it is sufficiently long to throw

water to the farthe yard. Do you have will not needlessly well as a sufficient fo connect more th a time? Adequate «time and work.

If,

you find you requir

st corners of the a good spray that waste water as number of outlets one sprinkler at outlets save both.

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after taking complete inventory, ¢

additional equip-

ment consult with your licensed plumber or hardware dealer as the case demands. Then you are ready

for

a visit to the nursery or seed store

where helpful suggestions will be gladly offered in regard to your gar- * dening problems. Choose seeds. seedings, and shrubs that wiil heigi:en the beauty and charm of your yard

and enhance the value of your home.

COLT PY Vu

INDIANAPOLIS WATER COMPANY