Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 April 1937 — Page 8
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Home Ties Block Pair’s Marital Plan
They | Aren’t Mature Enough to Wed Yet, Jane Declares.
Put your problems in a letter to Jane
Jordan, who will answer your questions in this column.
EAR JANE JORDAN—I |
am a working girl almost 19 years old. My boy friend | is 19 also. We are very much | in love and want to get married. We both have good jobs. Here' is our problem: His home is far away from here and he hasn't been back in two years. He wants
to go home soon. My home is near | getting |
this city. We planned on married next month, but we do not feel that we can afford to quit our jobs to go out to his home. He could go alone but he would have to quit his job and take a chance on not getting it back. I know how he feels about wanting to go home; but what can we do? I don’t want to go out where he lives to stay permanently. Please give us some advice. WORRIED BOOTS. ANSWER—When a young man is more interested in going home that |getting married, it is not a good [sign. is still too great. It is stronger than ating urge. The same is true You want to marry pro-
en them, they take their yf owe for sympathy inof working them out toIt is true that many people do not free themselves of family dominance in their 20s, 30s, or 4Ps, if at all. But the teen is the normal period of tradiHere you see the struggle at its height. were you I wouldn't hurry
the young man. Let him have his |
ome first. When he is back, if he [comes back, and settled in a job again, a little older, a little nd a little richer, your marriage will have a better chance of
DEAR’ JANE JORDAN—I am a young] girl and I go to dances with my gi 1 friends. I have been asked for dates at dances. I give the boys my name and phone number. My name |is difficult to remember and as I do not permit them to write it
down, |if they remember it and call |
me up| I think it worth while to give | them a date. I neyer take boys seriously. them that I am going to be an old maid, but who knows but that the right one will change my mind. I used to be backward until I got a job where I had to meet the public, and then I got over most of it. Girls - sometimes are too backward and yet
they cannot be too forward. Am I|
right? M. E. ANSWER—This young lady has a good technique. She is not easy to get, but she holds out enough hope to make a boy want to try. She is correct when she says that some girls do too little and some girls too much in their efforts to attract boys. It is a good idea to be friendly, cordial and interested when you meet a boy and then forget all about him when you are not with him. No telephone calls, no notes, no invitations. Let him make all the moves, but when he does show up the young lady should not be afraid to meet
him with enthusiasm. JANE JORDAN.
Miss Jane Morgan, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Fred Morgan, has returned to the King-Smith Studio | School at Washington after spend- |
ing spring vacation with her par- |
ents. Miss Morgan has appeared in | several plays given in the King- | Smith Playhouse this season.
The pull of the family |
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By MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS
to match her face powder and eye
shadow—according to the latest vogue—then little girls’ bedrooms certainly should reflect “sugar and spice and everything nice.’ That is exactly what Blanche Jeanette (left) and Charlotte Ann | Cochran's peach-pink and leaf-green room does. When their mother and father, Mr. and Mrs. Homer H. Cochran, | 5621 Washington Blvd., recently built their new English brick home, the @choicest bedroom in the house was
planned: for thes€¢ tiny misses. Sunlight streams in from two sides of the rectangular room and north
room’s brightness. Daintiness is the keynote of ths
ivory lacquered furnishings. beds are the delight of the little sisters who share their books, dolls and playthings but enjoy having nests ‘of their own to curl up in when the sandman comes. And mother knows what she is doing when she spreads her youngsters’ beds with washable cofiton covers.
Inspiration for Housekeeping
With their own rocking chairs, low bookcases and miniature writing desks little housekeepers are bound to take more interest in tidying up rooms. Green lamps and shades blend with the soft green floor covering. Dusty pink offers a favored background for the flowered chintz draperies of provincial design. Ading a picturesque accent to the room Hi-Jo and Jo-L»n, twin monkeys, take their posts as niascots to their youthful mistresses.
|| The sisters’ bedroom and pink tile bath are as private a domain as ‘any growing girl could wish. Yet mcther and dad are nearby in a connecting suite with a smart little powder nook between rooms. A spritely effect is achieved by medallion figures built into the tile bathroom walls. Nursery motifs add their notes of cheerfulness and charm.
To Kalon Club Party To Be Held Tomorrow
To Kalon Club's tea is to be held tomorrow at Mrs. E. A. Kelly's home. Mrs. Robert W. E. McKay and Mrs. Otto N. Mueller are to preside at the tea table, and Mesdames Carl W. Bruenger, Frank Churchman, James Hornstein, Frank B. Hunter, Lawson O'Malley and Vern K. Reeder are to be assistant hostesses. Mrs. Vaughn Cornish is to talk on “Perfume and Personalities” and Miss Jeannette Robbins is to play the harp.
Aid Society to Mect Mrs. Louis Huesmann is to be hostess for a luncheon meeting of the Christamore Aid Society Wednesday.
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Today’s Contract Problem
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Solution to Previous Problem By WM. E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secrefary HE slam looked ‘like a laydown when South saw his dummy on today’s hand. True, he held only four trumps, but dummy also had four, and all that was needed to make 12 tricks was to find a three-two split in trumps even if
the queen did not drop. A bridge player, however, must be ready to meet every unfayorable adverse distribution, and that is what South found when he led the second round of trumps, with West holding the guarded queen, while he, following the ruff of the first lead, was down to one. The way in which Lewis REernard of Cincinnati, O.—one of the master players to participate in the National Masters’ Individual in New York the week of April 5th —solved the problem of losing only one trick is rather interesting. The opening lead was| ruffed by declarer, and the ace and king of spades were played. The second round showed that West still held the queen and nine. Bernard then abandoned the trump suit and began leading his hearts, discarding two diamonds from dummy. West had to follow suit three times, and after the two diamond discards it made no difference when he chose to, ruff, or what lead he elected | to make when he did ruff. ’ If West ruffed with the queen and returned -a trump, the ace of diamonds was an entry to the South hand. If he ruffed with the
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nine, dummy would overruff, and again West was helpless. As a matter of fact, West ruffed with the queen and returned a club, but Bernard ruffed with his last trump, ¢ontinued to lead hearts, and won all the remaining tricks. (Copyright, 1947. NEA Service, 1 Inc.)
Mos. 1. L. Conley Is Chairman of
Club Musicale
Mrs. Joseph L. L Conley is general chairman of 4 musicale tea to be given by the Carnelian Club at 2 p. m. tomorrow in the D. A. R. Chapter House. - Mrs. T. M. Engle and Mrs. H. H. Sunderland are in charge of the program. Those who are to participate include: Consuelo Couchman Dunmeyer, cellist; Mrs. Edgar Ellsworth, reader, and Lenore Ivey Frederickson, contralto. Mrs. D. B. Sullivan; hospitality chairman; is to be assisted by Mesdames William H. Swintz, Lena B. Ebert, Louis A. Fleury, John Connor, John C. Loucks, H. M. Chadwick, Forrest Danner, Robert Elliott, John Engelke, Robert Endsley, C. E. Eckinberg, M. E. Elstun, Russell Gilmore, Jesse T. Johnson, Elwood Ramsey, Hugh Thornburg, W. C. Smith, Ira Swartz and Clarence Tucker.
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Child Wants To Feel He Comes s First
Many Parents s Give Outside Interests Too Much Attention.
By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON
Children know instinctively that their parents have a grownup life
‘apart from them, and accept it usu-
ally without a thought. They know that mother has her
bridge clubs and luncheon parties,
that daddy has his business and his bowling; and it never occurs to them to intrude. They also know that their parents havé a private and a social life together that does not include them. This they accept very willingly, too. But, being smart, as most children are, John and Mary put a mental houndary on their tacit consent and get very unhappy if they feel that these outside = interests and friends are more important to their parents than they themselves are. Children always want to feel that they come first. They are quick to sense conditions that make them merely incidental. As their parents are practically all their world, bar none, they want it reciprocated.
Child Seeks to Escape It may be right, it may be wrong for parents to be so necessary, but this much is proved, that the child who learns to feel that he is always secondary to parents’ interests, never does well. " Either he seeks escapes from his hurt by retreat into himself (always bad), or he casts aside all brake on behavior and does as he pleases. He feels that he matters so little to anybody that his acts are not
important.
The number of mothers and fathers who feel they are doing their best if they come in late nightly and pull up the covers about John's neck is not as small as we think. It is particularly true of parents between thirty and forty. * The first flush of married life has worn away, and the more-or-less confining duties of early parenthood now leave some liberty. There is an intense pull back to the world and they want | some years of pleasure before middle age gets
Unfortunately this happens just when the children are most sensitive, when they need to be warmed by the glowing fires of motherly
and fatherly interest.
Time: Element Unimportant
It may be that both parents are at home a good average of the time, at that, and only go out into their gay world at intervals. The
time-element is not all-important. | sm
this and
outer sayings
But if the people of world, their doings and the have with them, become so important as to color all conversation, then John and Mary feel they have lost them. How they watch, if mother begins to tease dad about Molly Jones, or dad lets fall a sarcastic remark about Bob Smith dancing six dances with mother. Yes, dear mother and daddy, you will have to be careful—very careful—lest you bruise the children. They may be so far away from you when*you need them back that you will wish the years could recede so you might try again. It is the thinnest time of family life, in so many cases, and so few realize its danger. Insecurity, the; enemy of child happiness, can work in so many ways.
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Head Hostess
—Photo by Dexheimer-Carlon.
Mrs. Charles T. Moreland is chairman of hostesses for the women’s luncheon bridge party to be held tomorrow in the Indianapolis Athletic Club for members’ wives, daughters and their guests. Luncheon will be served in the green room at 12:30. Contract bridge play will follow.
Club, Meetings
TOMORROW
Inter Alia Club. Business and Professional Women's Club House. Mrs. Thomas E. Grinslade, hostess. Mrs. Eugene McIntire, “Jane Addams of Hull House.” Mrs. Frank B. Haney, “City Editor” by Stanley Walker.
Alpha Kappa Latreian Club. Mrs. Alvin C. Johnston, hostess. Mrs. Wood C. Wall, assistant. Miss Joan Pratt Johnson, speaker. Business meeting. Meridian Heights Inter-Se Club. Mrs. S. M. Ford hostess. Mrs. M. S. Cochrane, assistant. Mrs. W. E. King, “Literary Craft.” Mrs. J 'W. Brown, “Reviewing a Novel.” Irvington Tuesday Club. Mrs. L. A. Robertson, hostess. Mrs. T. W. Garrison, “Radio, an Asset or a
Liability in Education.” Miss Emily 4
McAdams, “Trends in Modern Education.” Mrs. E. S. Conner, discussion leader, “Shall Religion be Included in the Curriculum of Institutions of Higher Learning?” Irvington Friendship Circle. Mrs. P. T. MacDonald, hostess. Mrs_ P. E. Crosier, assistant. : Alpha Delta Latreian Club. Mrs. Eugene Sims, hostess. Mrs. Frank M. Cox, assistant. Wray E. Fleming, U. S. Collector of Ciistoms, speaker. Marion County Chapter, Ameri~ can War Mothers, 1:30 p. m. World War Memorial Mrs. Clara Pohlman, to report recent Frankfort
MONDAY, APRIL 12, 1937
Give a Care To Recipes For Nougats
Sugar, Corn Syrup and Water Must Be Boiled Gently.
By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX ‘NEA Service Staff Writer
These unusual recipes have been asked for by so many readers, that it has been impossible to reply indie vidually. And it's more fun, anye way, to pass along the good news
to everyone. Nougats
(A little under 1 pound.)
One and one-half cups sugar, '% cup corn syrup, s teaspoon salt, 4 cup water, 1 large egg white, 2 tablespoons butter, 4 cup finely, chopped almonds, 1: teaspoon va-' rilla.’ This recipe has required several weeks’ experimentation. So follow each of the eight steps accurately for good results: 1. Gently boil together sugar, corn syrup, salt and water until it reaches the hard boil stage or 250 degrees I. on candy thermometer. 2. Then reduce heat until syrup boils very slowly. 3. Continue to cook to soft crack stage or 270 degrees F. on candy thermometer. 4. Remove from heat; wipe crystals from the pouring side of the saucepan and allow syrup to cool for five minutes without stirring. 5. Pour the hot syrup into the stiffly beaten egg white, beating continually. / 6. Continue to /beat until the candy becomes somewhat stiff, Then add butter, chopped nuts and vanilla. 7. Stir until a satiny-like finish appears and the consistency is such that it will’ just flow. 8. Pour into lightly buttered heat resistant glass dish to about f % inch thickness.
Sausage in Blankets (For Sunday night supper—13 . servings.) . Twelve fine frankfurters, 2 large dill pickles, 12 rounds pie pastry about 6 inches in diameter, Skin frankfurters and cut each in quarters lengthwise. Lay one
entire sliced frankfurter on each round of pastry. Add a thin slice of pickle. Then roll up pastry and press edges together and moisten. Chill. Then bake in hot oven (400 degrees F.) until crisp, about 15 minutes. Serve with a
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