Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 April 1937 — Page 8

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Wife, 19, Separated From’ Spouse, Is Told She Must Answer Problem Herself

R. S.’ Who Is to Become Mother, Asks Advice on Marrying Man of 37 Who Says He Is Willing to Cherish Her Child as His Own.

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s zs as EAR JANE JORDAN—I am 19 years old. I was married when I was 16 and have been separated from my husband for two years. Last fall we effected a reconciliation and lived together again. When he found that 1 was to become a mother Fe left. My mother has been wonderfully kind through my trouble and is perfectly willing to

take care of me and the aby when it comes. Now here is my problem: I have met a man of 37 who is very

much in love with me and wants'to marry me before the baby is born so that he can feel it is his own. He is exceedingly kind to me always. I believe that I love him, but since il has been such a short time ago that I thought I loved my husband, I feel that perhaps I am incapable, as yet, of being able to jecide such things. Is a girl of 19 able to judge her own feelings accurately? I don’t want another messed up marriage.. It would be disastrous for my coming child. 2 As I have said, mother is willing to take care of me and the baby until I can get a job} so I need not marry because of finances. However, I am not sure it would be fair to my mother that way since she has been so kind. Should I take a chance and marry this man whom 1 believe I love, or should I wait until I am sure that I have matured emotionally. I would also be taking a chance if I did not marry. 1 might not find another man who would be as generous in his attitude toward some other man’s child. Please help’me if you can.—R. S. ANSWER—This is one of those questions which no one can answer but yourself. “Anyone is wise to question an attachment which follows on the heels of a severe love disappointment. Then, if ever, when the pride is hurt and the spirit wounded, one is peculiarly ready to deceive oneself about a new love afizir. Persons who have been in love miss the fine feeling which gave meaning to life. They become so enamored of the feeling itself that they lose sight of the objective. Women in particular are given to play-acting. They're adepts in erecting an imaginary love which has all the semblance of reality until it is forced to stand the routine of daily association with the partner, Such a love is not prompted by instinct but convenience and seldom lives through the strains to which it is subjected. Sometimes it develops into real love and a satisfactory comradeship. Who can tell which would be true of your case? : : It also is risky to mary for a refuge when instinct plays no part in the choice. You have had a whirl at young love and failed to make it work. Your nexi, and natural, reaction is to feel that only older men are safe. This nian who is almost old enough to be your father represents the tenderness and protection of a parent, an advantage which you did no. enjoy in your first marriage. Whether or not you would be satisfied with him after the emergency has passed, I do not know. Perhaps the safest thing to do would be to wait. It is not so difficult as you think to find a ‘husband who ‘would accept your child as his own. Real love adjusts itsel{ to conditions which would be intolerable to one not moved by its warmth. I repeat that no one can advise you what to do. You must make up your own mind. JANE JORDAN.

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Mrs. Harold M. Cumberworth and Miss Shiela Brown are to entertain tonight with a personal shower for Miss Mabelle Sherman, whose marriage to Thomas J. Blackwell Jr. is to take place April 17. Guests with Miss Sherman and her mother, Mrs. N. S. Sherman, will be Mesdames John H. Blackwell, E. C. Badger Jr., E. P. Irwin and Jack Gulling and Misses Betty Conder, Bettie Sue Woolling, Betty Means, Mary Elizabeth Pell, Frances Moody, Emily Dorgan and Beatrice Hessee.

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‘Today’s Contract Problem

South’s contract is four spades. : North has bid clubs, and East hearts. East wins the first two tricks in hearts. He can beat the contract if "he chooggs the proper return. Should that be a club, a diamond, or a trump?

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| trumps, forced East to part with every heart to cover the spades showing in dummy. South now held the jack and seven of spades and the deuce of hearts. He laid down the deuce, then the jack of spades, and took

Solution to previous problem By WM. E. M'KENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary HEN a player can, by means of a squeeze, promote a deuce to the place where it takes the | spades in dummy. (Copyright. 1937. NEA Service. Inc.) thus fulfills a slam contract, he re may be pardoned for thinking well . » enough of the play to want it rey Party W ill Aid corded in print. It adds to the : interest to learn that other players, who held the same cards, went down at a contract of three no trump. South’s bidding was very optimistic, and the contract was an extremely lucky one to make. However, the manner in which he made, use of every resource to take 12 tricks perhaps justified his slam bid. The opening lead of the four of hearts was won with the ace and the ace of diamonds was laid down. The losing diamonds were

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It seemed that the hand might go down one trick, but South saw a chance. The four of hearts may have been a singleton, and, if West held the ace of spades, as his immediate overcall suggested, then there was a slight hope. A spade was led while a trump remained in dummy and, when West won and returned a trump, South continued with the trumps and was able to-read the complete distribution of the hands. This showed him that East's original holdirigy was four spades and six hearts. South,

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Child Often Benefits by Spring Move

Change of Scenes Trains Boy, Writer Says.

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Does it hurt a child to] move? This question is bothering thousands of parents who will soon be packing dishes and books and getting up some morning at 5 o'clock to be ready for the big vans. Harry is getting along so well at his present school, and besides, he knows every boy on the street as well as his own brothers. He knows every loose flagstone in four blocks and at what house the lady does, or doesn’t allow you to.sit on her steps. : To take him to a strange region, away from familiar haunts and people, establish all over again a place for himself in the community sun, and adjust himself to a new school, is possibly the most important item

to be considered in the spring trek

But although it seems a heart- | breaking thing to do in many cases, I do not think it hurts the boy or girl as much as we think. For one reason, his real security goes with him in his parents and family, in the familiar furniture and the same old rugs. He has the feeling that they're all in it together, and with them along he can face the world. Besides, schools in ‘cities now have a well worked-out co-operative, system that allows for easy transfer to other zones without “putting back” or losing time. j As for leaving the old stamping ground, the cronies and familiar day-to-day life, upon which his affections are fixed, there is something to be said in favor of change, provided the change promises a congenial outlook, and the new people he encounters are as favorable to his general happiness as the old ones. This is why parents should inquire about a neighborhood before they move into it. If the mother discovers conditions there, such as a mean gang or snobbish youngsters who will not be likely to make Harry a friend, or lonely surroungings where he will have no friends

ing to such a place. But if Harry finds himself in-a new place that approximates the old, or betters it, and has to cut a

ence should not hurt him in the least. (Copyright,

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Direct Party for Veterans

: mes oto. Twelfth District American Legion Auxiliary is to give its annual birthday party tomorrow for patients in the U. S. Veterans Hospital at Marion. Special gifts are to be given to the patients whose birthdays occur in April. Mrs. Jesse B| Ray, (left) rehabilitation chairman, and Mrs. D. V. S. Glubka, cochairman, are to be included in the group attending the party. Mrs. Max Norris is district president.

Officers Naihed By New Era Club

alternate. Mrs. May B. Miller is delegate to the Inp#lianapolis Cotincil of Women with { Miss - Carrie M. Hoag, alternate.

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Alpha Chi Omega Sorority Mothers’ Club has named Mrs. C. C. Price as its leader for the coming term.

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Chicken Pie Favored by Menin| Love

Individual - Dishes Help Flavor, Noted Chef Says.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer

A chicken in the pot is one thing, but an individual chicken pie is quite another. An internationally known chef reports that this pare ticular chicken delicacy is a favorite with young men in love who take their ladies to luncheon. : Individual Chicken Pot Pie (Ingredients make 2 pies)

One. fresh killed broiler, about 2 pounds, 3 pints water, 6 small white onions, 6 small new potatoes, 4 baby carrots, 4 baby turnips, 1 bouquet composed of celery, bay leaf, thyme, 4 large fresh mushrooms, 2

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lemon juice, 2 small slices salt pork, blanched, 1 tablespoon cooked green peas, 2 more tablespoons sweet butter, 1 tablespoon fleur, 2 cups broth, 1 tablespoon. minced fresh herbs, such as chervel, chives, parsley. Use a large saucepan. Cut chicke en in sections and toss into pot. Cut the vegetables in sections, too, and add to the pot, season with salt and pepper and toss in the bouquet. Add cold water. Simmer 30 minutes until chicken is just undertender. Remove chicken, cut off skin and take out some of the bones from the larger pieces and from the second joints. Now lay the chicken in individual earthenware or glass casseroles. Place the leg in first, then the rest of the chicken pieces and follow with vegetables.

Cook Mushrooms 5 Minutes

Heat 2 tablespoons butter, cook fresh mushrooms about five minutes, add lemon and cook another half minute, then remove mushrooms and lay on top of the other vegetables and over them place salt pork. In another saucepan, melt two tablespoons butter, stir in one tablespoon flour and blend well, Slowly add two cups strained chick= en broth. Stir, then cook to smooth stock for eight minutes. Next add the butter and lemon juice in which mushrooms were cooked, also the herbs. Cover’each pie with pie paste and brush it with beaten egg yolk to give a rich color. Bake in moderately hot oven (375 degrees F.) for 20 minutes. Potato cover| is another proper

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