Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 March 1937 — Page 12

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Father Has Dislike for

Young Girl

Mother May Pay Her Too | Much Attention, Jane Says.

Jane Jordan will help vou gain more insight inte vour problems by her answers to your letters in this column.

EAR JANE JORDAN-—I | am a constant reader of | vour column, and I think you give some very good advice. But in March 17's paper when | a woman asked about her son | and his stepfather you told her it was jealousy. I have a daughter and her own father does her the same | way. He never lays eyes on the child | but what he says something to make her cry. Everything she says or does | is wrong. He criticizes her and her brothers, but mostly her She is just entering her teens and these brawls are fast telling on her nerves and mine. She doesn't do anything to deserve such treatment, He doesn’t allow her to bring friends home at all. Boys as yet have not entered her head. He makes all manner of fun of her if she plays with her dolls, He can’t bear her in the same room with him, or the boys either. But he take other children regardless of how dirty or ugly they are and make over

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them. He says he is going to chase them all out they are old enough and maybe before. Do you call that jealousy, too? He is kind to me and evervone and is very seldom cross with me. We do not fuss. I have talked to him about ! his treatment of the children, so has | his mother and mine. We did quarrel about their bedtime. One doesn't | put half-grown children to bed at 7 o'clock. I can't stand it much | longer but I love them all. Can't | you put your finger on some other | cause? MRS. A. F. T. 'K. ANSWER—I can (and will) fend that a father’s jealousy of his | children often causes him to mistreat them, although 1 with you that in your case it is not necessarily the root of the trouble. We would like to believe | that all fathers are willing to put down self in favor of their children, but it simply isn't true. It is a well-known fact that many married people get along well together until | the appearance of children. Who has not seen the young fa- | ther with his nose completely out |

of joint because of a new baby? |

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else

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Many a man is honest enough to | f i I § time he believed |

admit that for a

the baby had robbed him of the | 3 love of his wife. Prior to the birth | A

of the child he had been the center | of his wife's universe, When a woman becomes too intensely preoccupied with her children, she leaves her husband out in the cold and he shows his resentment by impatience with the children. Because we hold mother love in such high esteem, a woman justifies herself and regards the father's feelings as unnatural. As a matter of fact, the relationship of a mother and her children should not stand above the relationship of husband and wife and the father's jealousy is entirely natural. No man wants to be shelved by his children. The fact that your husband is | kind to you and irritable with his| own children corroborates the the- | ory instead of refuting it. He trans- | fers his parental feelings onto | other children who are not rivals | for his wife's attention. No doubt | a little diplomacy on your vers more recognition of your husband | and less obvious siding with the | children would ease the situation | somewhat without curing it. As I said in the beginning ‘I do | not think jealousy explains everything. It doesn’t explain your hus- | band’s objections to his daughter's | friends or her dolls. It doesn’t ex- | plain why she irritates him more | than her brothers. I do not think |

it is well to delve too deeply into | activities or shopping, No. 8910 has | a soft jabot, becoming cowl neck- | The skirt is paneled with a flattering |

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Brother-and-sister coats, with | hats to match, for church on Easter | morning this year, come in the |

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Nurse Service Group To Meet Tomorrow

Miss Mary Portzline will “An American Doctor's Odyssey” at a meeting of the District, Indiana State Nurses in Ayres’ Auditorium. A stvle show is to follow.

Miss Wilhelmina Harris, arrange-

ments and program chairman, is being assisted by Misses Anna Louise

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Today’s Contract Problem

South has opened the biding with one spade, and West has overcalled with two clubs. Should North now show his diamond suit, with his good spade suport, or. make the more aggressive call of two spades? NORTH Hh 10832 vi2 ®AQJIS3 oh 64 N. & S. vul.

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Solution to Previous Problem (This is the fifth of a series)

By WM. E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary SYCHIC bids still are used even by master bridge players, and when the spot is chosen, they often are quite effective. If the bluff is | not too obvious, it may prevent a game or slam contract. Modern bidding methods, however, well designed to uncover

lare

| psychics, as is shown by the manner |

[in which Mr. Churchill and his part(ner, Walter J. Pray, of Indianapolis, reached a slam after their oppo- | nents, both

the bidding. The occasion was one of the Na-

| tional Masters’ Individual Tourna-

| League. This annual vent will again | be played at the Park Central Hotel, | New York, the week of April 5th. | The bidding is interesting in that | Mr. Churchill and Mr. Pray, West | and East respectively, had never be- | fore played as partners. | The first heart trick was held | by South with the queen. The sec{ond trick was won with West's ace of hearts, and his last heart was The king of dia- | monds was led and it revealed that South held four to the queen, The 10 of trumps held the next trick. Then the ace and king of | spades were cashed and a small spade led and trumped. A club

S noted master plavers, | had done all they could to obstruct |

ments held by the American Bridge |

Pass 4N.T. Pass 5d Pass 5¢ Pass 6¢ Opening lead—W 4. 15

[was led to dummy and the last [spade was trumped.

[ Dummy was re-entered with the | st high club, and then, when an- | was | Mr. Churchill over- | {ruffed and won the last trick in his

[1a | other club was | torced to ruff.

led, South

own hand.

[| Not only was the bidding diffi- | | cult, but the play required proper |

| timing as well. (Copvright, 1937. NEA Service. Inc.)

P.E.O. Chapter

| Mrs. Ida Miller is in charge of the |

{p. m. today in | Visiting members are invited to at- | tend.

The following officers have been |

| installed: Miss Ann Kellum, president;

lain, and Miss Dixie Toole, guard. Mrs. Ralph L. McKay and Mrs. | Ward are council

| Mrs. Guy O. Carpenter.

| | | | |

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To Meet at *‘Y’,

| program for the Chapter G, P. E. O. | Sisterhood meeting to be held at 6 | ‘the Y. W. C. A |

Miss Laura C. Holden, vice | president; Miss Mildred Foster, re- | cording secretary, Miss Iva Pearcy, | treasurer; Mrs. W. B. Ward, chap- |

Study Urged

In Discipline

For Children

(Punishment Is Termed

Least Desirable of All Methods.

(First of a Series)

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Discipline is easily stood, because it has so angles. It may mean anything ( from boxing h child's ears to training him to say his prayers, but few parents readize that anything not | associated with punishment is wor{thy of the word. How different is the real case, |nowever. The least disciplined | child is the one who gets the most | punishment The word itself comes from | “disciple,” or pupil, “one who be- | lieves and practices the teaching of | another.” Next, discipline is de{fined as “strict and regular mental

TUESDAY, MARCH 23, 1937

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misunder- | many |

| | |

land moral training and develop- |

| ment of character.” The definition | places third, | mission to control.” { measures” comes fourth in the list | —and last. Not that punishment is | unimportant, but because it is a by-

“obedience and sub- | “Corrective |

{ product of discipline, and not dis- |

| eipline itself. Cultivate Capacity as Leader

discipline is leadership. And the

| wise to cultivate the

qualities of a good leader,

The mother and father {command respect and

particularly fortunate. | understanding and fairness, and they have the qualifications of the almost perfect leader. Yet it takes

| one more attribute to complete the

picture. Strength-of -will that cancels the | foregoing sentence. Not an overbearing manner that blows {ahead of it like a frade wind gone { wrong, but a certain innate force | that can rule without ruin, | comfort as well as compel.

the “almost”

phrase in the

The

| kind of will that gets respect and |

| contiderice, but at the same time

has authority behind it. Self Discipline Tailure

This brings us to self-discipline, which many behaviorist parents have thought could be instilled in the child best by dispensing with leadership. This has failed in two lways. The “abandoned child,” left | almost entirely to his own devices from babyhood, and developing in utter freedom, did not prove to be a useful member of society after all. And his opposite, the over-regu-lated child, governed only by daily mechanical routine, grew into life unready for the hundreds of daily experiences that had not before come on his expected list. He was { helpless ouiside of his track. Next: Two Kinds of Discipline 1937. NEA Service, Inc.)

(Copvright

all |

and |

The most important factor in all |

parent who would qualify would be | necessary |

who | confidence | through their own self-control are | To his acd |

Clayton Ridge, Board [ Commissioners member, is to talk | on “Educational Trends” at the | Daughters of the Union 12th an[nual state convention Saturday in | the Indiana War Memorial Con- |

Mrs.

| vention hall and Indianapolis Ath- |

[ letic Club | Mrs. Walter Baxter, tainment. Miss Sophia Macy and [ Mrs, Willard Birtch will play “Gen. { Burnside's March.” They are | members of the Gen. Ambrose Ev- | erett Burnside Chapter at Liberty, | the birthplace of Gen. Burnside. | Mrs. John Paul Ragsdale is to sing, | accompanied by Mrs. Carl R. Schwitzer. Mrs. Philip Heltz and Mrs. Murry Hart, Winchester, also are to play piano numbers, The luncheon and program are to be held at the Indianapolis Athi letic Club. All business sessions | will be conducted in the Memorial. Mrs. Belle Dow,

of |

program |

chairman, has arranged the enter-| ~ | William

War | nomi- !

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School Commissioner to Speak At Daughters otf Union Parley

nating committee chairman, is to present five officers for election. New by-laws are to be considered. “Comrade John Nickols, honorary state member, is to attend the convention and give greetings. Mrs. Bloomfield H. Moore and Mrs. William regents, are to be hostesses and Mrs. J. Ransdell, sergeant-at-arms. Mrs. William DePeough will act as page, and Mrs. George E. Dunn and Mrs. Goldia McKelvy, as ushers. Miss Carrie M. Hoag and Mrs. Leonard Cougill head a reception committee,

Auxiliary to Meet The Grand International Auxiliary to the Brotherhood of Locomotive Engineers 552 is to celebrate its 22d anniversary with a covereddish luncheon at noon today in

Castle Hall. Mrs, Philip Ahl, presi- | dent, is to honor Mrs. F. E. Ryan, |

Arnold, city chapter |

Gives Drama To All Meals

| | — | Weds Buckwheat Cakes in Morning and Cream At Night.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX | NEA Service Staff Writer A good dramatist can round out any triangle. A batch bucke= wheat cakes can do this same to the triangle of spring, a he-man appetite and new maple syrup. But ali clever wives understand that drama of the breakfast hou Young maple syrup likes to stay up nights, Wed this natural sweet ness to the smoothness of cream, pack in ice and salt—behold a dese sert as regal as any ever conceived by the most ambitious of I'rench chefs.

Vermont Parfait (4 to 6 servings) 1 cup maple spring eggs, 2 cups cream, pinch salt. Beat eggs well, Heat mapla syrup, stir gradually into eggs. Over hot water, cook until mixture begins to thicken, stirring constantly. Remove from reat, beat until cool. Whip the cream. Slowly pour the maple mixture into the cream, beating constantly. Pack in mold, cover tightly Surround with ice and salt in equal parts and stand for 3 hours. Or else

syrup, 3

beaten

about 3 place in freezing tray of your mes chanical refrigerator. For the full flavor of this of the maple to struggling mane | kind, serve it plain, merely fan= [ cified with a few chopped nuts, hot | over pudding or over ice cream. For (a cup of maple syrup use ahout 2 tablespoons chopped nuts. Boil the syrup first for 4 minutes, then add nuts, and watch vour customers do the rest. Tt's a “natural.” Pure maple syrup is simply the of evaporation of maple | sap, or of dissolving of mavle su= [gar in water, with the resulting | syrup not over 35 per cent water (and weighing mno less than 11 { pounds to the gallon. Such the {regulation of the Food and Drug | Administration. So if you pay [maple syrup prices, be sure von | get maple syrup, not a mixture of sugar syrup and maple sugar. These | mixtures often are called “cane and | maple syrup.” That may mean that | You are buying plain sugar syrup | flavored with a few drops of maple | syrup. The typical “cane and maple” | mixture contains from 12 to 20 per | cent maple. It's wholesome cnouglh, (but it's not maple syrup, so dont | expect it to taste like the genuine | product. And now for a lighter | subject,

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| Attend Annual Meeting | Miss Blanche Stoughton and Miss | Gertrude Corbin of Lambda Mu | Chapter and Mrs. Hal Shultz of Rho | Chapter attended the annual nas tional presidents’ luncheon of Sigma | Beta Sorority in Ft. Wavne last | week-end. Miss Sophie Miers, Pt. Wayne, sorority founder, was a special guest,

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MARCH s Meal of

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