Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 18 March 1937 — Page 14

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Older Man Deserted by Schoolgirl

He Should Seek Someone Nearer His Age, Jane Says. Jane Jordan will help you with your

problems by her answers to your letters in this column daily.

EAR JANE JORDAN—I|

have a problem which means life or death to me. About two months ago I met a girl who means all the world to me. She is still in high school, a junior. I am 10 years her senior, but we got along well together at first. I fell for her in a big way from the start. I love her so much, Everything went along smoothly until last week when she told me she was going to leave me for another fellow. He is in high school. She likes to dance but I never was a very good dancer. He is a good dancer and took her toe Indianapolis to a dance the other Saturday night. The sad part of it all is that he is a heavy drinker and doesn't amount to anything, He has fed her a line and makes her think he will re-

form. They say he has made these foolish promises many times before. She is such a sweet and good girl | and never cares for anything like | this. She never drinks, smokes or | uses profane language. I will some- | time soon have a good home and farm. The folks think she is O. K, She doesn’t object to being a farms | er’s wife. I have tried to give her | a ring since we parted but had no | Juck. It is queer how she changed | so suddenly over nothing. She seems | to be as crazy in love with this boy | now as she once was with me. Isn't | there any way I can win her back? BROKEN HEARTED. ANSWER—A mature man should know better than to look in the high | schools for a wife. No matter how sweet the girl is she is giddy and | frivolous and enjoys pastimes which | vou outgrew years ago. Would you rob her of her youth, her dances and flirtations, to saddle her with | responsibilities which she isn't equipped to carry? Quick changes in emotion are quite characteristic of the high | school age. Rare is the girl who sticks to the first infatuation of her teens, or even the second and | third. In my opinion your young lady is no more in love with her present choice than she was with you. It is merely that the boy is young and gay like herself, and enjoys dancing, merriment and irresponsible courtship. She may | have several like him before she | settles down, The trouble is that you have en- | dowed the girl with qualities she | does not possess. You regard her as | a woman whereas she is only a child. You want her to leap the dis- | tance between her age and yours | without having the intermediate experiences which teach and strengthen. To set your heart on a goal] which is foreign to reality is to court | defeat. - You might ask yourself why you | have chosen such a young and foolish girl instead of someone closer to your age and more in tune with your interests. Her youth and charm captivated you to be sure, but underneath you must have felt older and wiser and more equal to an unawakened girl. Aren't you a little afraid of a woman who knows as much as you do? Believe me, the wisest thing you can do is let the girl alone. Let her have her fling and leave her to make her own mistakes. Your atti- | tude toward her is too parental. She may be cute enough as a playmate | but she would disappoint you as al wife. JANE JORDAN,

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Today’s Contract Problem

South has opened the bidding with one spade, and North has responded with one no trump. After South's forcing bid of three clubs, North has replied with three diamonds. What further action should South take? AG2 ¥YQ9T72 $KQ986 84

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Performing Tasks Alone Aid to Child

Increases Confidence and Helps to Banish Fear.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

The way to make a child confident is to let him do things for himself. It not only makes him more selfreliant, but tends to decrease fear and inferiority. Guide him and train him to do things a little better each time he tries; but it is wisdom indeed to do this without breaking down his assurance by criticism. Little Harry has dressed himself and put his shoes on the wrong feet, perhaps. Well then, for illus=tration of the point in question, be a little excited and pleased over his performance at first and let him walk about for awhile, if he can, with them just as they are.

Let Him Enjoy It

When his hunger for praise has dunk its fill and things settle back to normal, then take him in your lap and say, “Darling, I think maybe you'd be more comfortable if you took this shoe off and put it on the other foot, and change the other one, too. Feet get accustomed to certain shoes and they don’t like strangers.” Then, if you can, show him by marks which is which. He won't mind. He will be very interested. And next time, or the next after, he'll get them right.

He'll Strive to Please

To continue this homely little example, two things make it important to Harry to do better. The first is to please us, or to please his feet, and the second is that it feels better when done the right way. This is typical of everything the child is struggling to learn. Things done better always have these two appeals, whether it be pulling on | shoes, learning to play ball, or learn- | ing French verbs. It continues to be | true long after the school stage is | past. We need praise until we die. | But should a child always be praised? If he gets applause for | only half a try will be ever be ambitious? Won't he learn to resent all correction? Indeed yes. are serious ones because we have to scek a balance of power. can ruin effort by criticism, | we can ruin endeavor earned approval.

Avoid Unmerited Praise The best that any parent,

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and look hard at that effort rather | than the perfection of results. | (Copyright, 1937. NEA Service, Inc.)

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THURSDAY, MARCH 18, 1937

Golden West

Dishes Bring On Appetite

Spring Fever Cured by, Recipes From Wide Open Spaces.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer

The wide open spaces make room for a restless appetite. Spring fever hits the palate, too. Better treat it to a few of these gayer dishes from out where the West begins. Barbecued Spareribs (4 to 6 servings) Four pounds spareribs, 1 large onion, sliced, ': cup catsup, salt, pepper, 1 cup water, 2 tablespoons

Mind Your Manners

Test your knowledge of correct social usages by answering the following questions, then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. When a woman wearing street clothes in the evening goes to a hotel to dance, does she wear a hat? 2. Is it poor taste for a girl to put on make-up while she is on the dance floor? 3. Must the men who have attended a dinner before going to a dance ask the hostess and other girls present at the dinner for a dance? 4. Is it polite to insist that another person drink when he once refuses? 5. Is it courteous for a hostess to offer cigarets to both men and women when she herself is not smoking?

What would you do if— You are at a dance where there is a stag line and you are having a miserable time being a wallflower— A. Leave? B. Try to grin and stick it out? C. Go to the dressing room and wait until the dance is over?

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1. Yes, a woman always wears a hat with street clothes. 2. Yes, she should go to the dressing room, 3. Yes, they are even spoken of as “duty dances.” 4, No, it is rude and inexcusable. 5. Yes.

Best “What Would You Do” solution—A. This is one time when if is wisest to admit defeat.

vinegar, 1!': tablespoons Worcester« shire sauce, 1 tablespoon salt, 1-3 | teaspoon red pepper (and that means “red” pepper), 1 teaspoon paprika, 12 teaspoon black pepper, 1 tea- | spoon chili powder, | Clean spareribs, {salt and pepper. Place in roasting | pan. Combine all the other ingredients and mix thoroughly. Pour over {the spareribs. Cover pan. Place in | moderate oven (350 degrees F.) and roast for 1': hours, uncovering for the last half hour. Baste frequently, Don't be surprised if you discover a dish of mashed potatoes peeking around the corner. Mashed potatoes are ‘that way” about barbecued spareribs. Maybe it's spring.

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Missionary Society Dinner to Be Held

Mrs. C. H. Sedam and Mrs. George B. Gannon are progran | chairmen for the Broadway Methe | odist Church Woman's Foreign Mis | sionary Society Founders’ Day dine | ner to be given at 6 p. m, today at the church. Tableaux enacting “Valorous Ad- | ventures,” the society's history, are | to be given at 7 p. m. Mrs. J. B. {| Andrews will give commentaries and | Dr. Richard Millard will lead the worship service,

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