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15-Year-Old Girl Seeks Advice on Whether She Should Marry Boy of 19

A Smart Couple Would Wait Until Both Are Older And Others Would Be Almost Sure to Fail, Jane Tells ‘One Who Is Worried.’

Put your problems in a letter to Jane Jordan, who will answer your questions in this column daily. x

EAR JANE JORDAN and over

again that girls from the ages of 13 to 16 do not know what love really is. I am now 15 and 1 have loved a boy of 19 for two years. He has been away for two years and only comes home for 15 or 30 days at a time. He has a good future before him I am sure. He is now making $56 a month. The last time he was home he asked me to marry him. Of course I gave him no answer, If IT married him I would have to leave home. I would be miles away from everyone I know and I would have to live by myself most of the time. I have been the black sheep in our family for as long as I can remember. Everything my folks get for me is thrown up to me for days after. I wonder if since things are as they are at home if I should marry him when he comes back this May. I am quite sure I could be happy with I was thinking the other day that maybe I would marry him and at home and let him send money enough to take care of me. 1 marr ent. deci

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would also work out as I have ‘done before. I wonder if being to him and being away from him would make us feel differanswer this because your decision will be my ONE WHO IS WORRIED. -It only that a 15-year-old girl does not know what letter shows that she has no conception of what marriage is. Surely vou cannot seriously believe that a boy of 19 would marry a girl and let her live with her family far away simply for the pleasure of helping with her support! Men marry for a home, for companionship, for convenience. Usually they are willing to pay for it. But if they get neither one of the three, why should they put up the money for a woman's support? Please understand that even a husband wants something in return

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for his cash. It is rather signif the family, you are still not ready to break the ties of home. being a stranger in strange parts, with slender means. I assume that the boy's $56 are apart from his living expenses, though vou do not say what manner of job he has. Even so you will find that whereas the sum may be adequate for one it isn't exactly

ficant that even though you are the black sheep of You dread

affluence for two. 1 could not conscientiously advise any 15-year-old girl to marry any 19-year-old boy. The smart boys and girls would wait until they were older. The others would be almost sure to make a failure. ® n un u un DEAR JANE JORDAN-—I am a high school girl of 16 and have many friends. I went with a senior boy several times and thought a lot of him, but suddenly he stopped seeing me for some unknown reason. He speaks to me when he meets me but never has anything to say. ‘There are other boys I can go with but I can't think of anyone else. What is the best way to win his friendship? DAILY READER. ANSWER—Accept the dates with other boys whether you are interested or not. It boosts your stock to be in demand. Be pleasant to the boy vou prefer. Other than this you can do nothing. A young fancy is not very permanent anyway.

boy's JANE JORDAN.

x Mind Your Manners

Test your knowledge of correct social usage by answering the following questions then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. May one go from his berth to the dressing room of the Pullman in dressing gown and slippers? 2. Mav a young woman let a man, whom she knows, pay for her meal in a dining-car, if they happen to be on a short trip together? 3. Is it customary to leave word with the maid in a hotel as to the hour one wishes to be awakened? 4. Should one write his street address in a hotel register? 5. In an American plan hotel what is the customary weekly tip to the waitress?

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What would you do if— You are a woman making a day's journey by car with a man: due to car trouble you find that you will have to stay over night in a town where you have friends— (A) Explain the situation to vour friends and ask them to take you in? (B) Both of vou stay at the same hotel? (C) Go to different hotels? » Answers 1. Yes. 2. Yes. 3. No, telephone clerk. 4. No. 5. Five per cent of the cost of board. It would be less for a family.

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in the Easter fashion picture for | school of Education are to have tots. “The Goose That Laid the | felq practice with the Public Health Golden Egg” and “April Showers” | Nyrses here. Mrs. Benjamin D. Hitz, are two of the series. “Marionettes” pyplic Health Nursing Association | and “Penguins” are other prints | president, announced at a board that children had a hand in design- | meeting yesterday that arrangeing and which other children will | ments for the service had been Jove th Wear. | made with Dean Henry Lester

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Today's Contract Problem

After South has bid hearts and diamonds, East gets the contract for four spades, and is doubled. He has lost two heart tricks and ruffed the third lead of the suit, North discarding a diamond. Can declarer still make his contract, although he appears to have a losing club and trump?

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Solution to Previous Problem By WILLIAM E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary | ACRIFICE bidding plays an im- | portant part in both duplicate | and rubber bridge. | Today's hand exemplifies an unThe player

but his partner had the lead, and, unfor- |

| tunately, was bound to make the |

play that would probably give de-

ding. Realizing this, as a starting point, South, who had opened the sac-

| exceilent score. The defending side cashed the ace and king of diamonds and the ace of trump, | thus defeating the contract one | trick.

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WIRE is to carry the program. iss Beatrice Short, superintendreported 905 new cases and 448 visits during February.

rector, also spoke. Members attending included Mesfive henits | dames Marlow Manion, Robert M. | Bryce, James C. Todd, William A. with the | Eshbach, Mortimer ©. TFurscott, opening of a club or a low heart. | Oscar N. Torian, Louis Burckhardt, With either of these leads South Donald A. Morrison, Othniel Hitch, the ace of clubs. and | Charles F. Meyer Jr, Edwin McJ . give North | | Nally, George A. Kuhn, Montgom-

and South just enough to beat the | ery Lewis, Smiley Chambers and hand. Miss Helen Sheerin.

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points, however, had West opened

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anticipated spade | & . 5 Alok or end rae [Service Study Club Elects less. Thus South, although he felt | Mrs. J. L. Rockener is the new that there were defensive tricks | President of the Service Study Club. available to beat the contract, was | She was elected yesterday with Mrs. right in undertaking a contract|A. G. Marquis, vice president; on which he felt quite sure could not | George Dorn, secretary, and Mrs. Kassler, treasurer. They "take office in September.

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3 | tional habit, this crying of his.

Scenes in Public Health Nursing.” |

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Crying Child Not Helped

Too Much Sympathy Also May Be Harmful to Youngster,

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

What, exactly, makes some children sorry for themselves and others almost impervious to hard luck? Such a child needs all the help we can give him, but not open sym- | pathy and not scolding. It is emo-

The case of one child comes to mind. This little fellow was unconscious of “self,” almost absolutely, until he was well past two. | He could fairly knock his brains out by a hard bump, or skin his knees cruelly by a fall, then look up and grin and say, “I hurt myself.” That was all. In two minutes it was | forgotten. In his third year he began to cry about little things. Not only physical injury, but disappointments and things that hurt his feelings. Infant Undergoes Change | This might be laid to age, because in the third or fourth year, the child undergoes a sort of change, and comes out of the chrysalis of babyhood into an individual world of his own. He becomes conscious now of his own place in things, and | emotion develops very fast. Tt is the tenderest of all tender ages, this time between the second and fourth | birthdays. The mother's way of oversympathizing can increase this unfor- | tunate habit, too. Sympathy is all very well, but emotional demonstrations long continued, call a child's | attention to many things that would | otherwise pass off as a matter of | course. In any crisis, it is human nature to endure much alone, but let the nearest person drop a tear or give some other sign, and the dam is

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Once the child loses cast in his |

[own estimation, he does not want

his erying to be mentioned. Some- | times he will stop if he gets sym- |

pathy, but mostly he will cry harder than ever. He wants it, and he doesn't want it, you see. | The best thing to do is to take |

him entirely for granted. Don't pay |

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Rushees Invited to

Miss Beulah Hopping, 1150 W. 35th St., {the Alpha Chapter, Omega Phi Tau Sorority. Miss Maryellen Shelburn., Among the rushees who will be honor guests will be Mrs. Frank | Barnard, Mrs. Fred Hosler, Misses | Charlene Hawes, Claramae Calla- | way, Mary Jane Parkinson, Dorothy | Prosch, Ruby Breeding, Dorothy | Travis, Betty Prosch and Mary | Frances Spangler. or chapter is to entertain vith a Patrick's bridge party at 2 p. m. AR at the Silver Cup Ten Room, 2035 N, Meridian St. Miss Marjorie Mason, rush committee chairman, is in charge assisted by Miss Loretha | Harvey.

This will help him to master control. |

Sorority’s Meeting |

is to be hostess tonight to |

She is to be assisted by |

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MRS, GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Bervice Staff Writer Some desserts are only others just pretty. that have everything. Chocolate Banana Mountain (6 servings) Six eggs, 23 cup sugar, salt, 2 squares bitter colate, | melted, 1 quart scalded milk, 1 teas [spoon vanilla, %% pint whipping cream, 1 ripe banana. Beat eggs well, blend in sugar, salt and melted chocolate. Add scalded milk and vanilla, then “eat | well. Pour this mixture into wellbuttered 1'2-quart heat-resistant glass baking dish. Bake in slow [Sven (300 degrees F.) for 45 minutes. It is done when knife inserted | comes out clean, When cool, top with whipped | cream and sliced bananas. Serve from the dish it was baked in. And as one gala event deserves | another, take a try at this historical habit of food-loving Americans, both early and modern. Boston Cream Pie (2 layers)

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—Photo by Plowman-Platt. Mr, and Mrs. Frank Butcher have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Marjorie Butcher, to Patrick FP. McHugh, son of John McHugh. The wedding is to be Solemnized May 20.

Music Sorority Invited to Meet |

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Lily Pons, singer, is to be honored by Zeta Chapter, Sigma Alpha Iota, national professional musical sorority, Sunday afternoon following Miss Pons’ program at English's. Three tablespoons butter, 8 tahleMiss Pons, an honorary member, is | spoons shortening, 1% cups granu to be presented by Mrs. Nancy Mar- | jJated sugar, 1 teaspoon vanilla ex tens, a patroness. | tract, 3 eggs, 3% ‘cups sifted cake An informal reception is to be | flour, 3 teaspoons baking powder, held backstage following the per=| teaspoon salt, 1 cup milk, formance, Sorority members are | Cream butter and shortening invited to attend. | thoroughly, then a little at a time Members are to attend the pro- | add the sugar; continue to cream gram in a box. until mixture is fluffy. Add vanilla and unbeaten eggs, one at a time. | Beat until mixture is light, Measure and sift dry ingredients together, Add alternately with milk. Pour into

Dinner Arranged A dinner bridge 1s to be given to- | night at the Business and Profes- | sional Women's Club House by | greased pie tins. Bake in moderately Messrs. and Mesdames R. R. Ross | hot oven (375 degrees F.) for about D. F. Mitzner and E. J. Rennoe. 125 minutes,

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