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Suitor Wants Clandestine Marriage, and High School Girl Asks Jane for Advice

Boy Seems to Be Selfish Person With Infantile Desires

Who Wants His Own Way Without Assuming Proper Responsibilities, Miss Jordan Says.

Write to Jane Jordan before you make that important decision! Her answer will help you choose the right course.

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EAR JANE JORDAN—I am a young girl of 17, a senior in high school. TI have just returned from a date with a boy whom I love very much. We have been going with each other for three years. I feel that I must write you now (at 2 a. m.) as I am in a state of frenzy. All evening he has been begging me to run away and get married. He loves me as much as I love him but he is inclined to be flirtatious, and many girls would jump at the chance to get him. I cannot bear the thought of going on without him. Mamma is a widow and has made many sacrifices to clothe and educate me. She has done her best to give me the finer things in life, We would have to marry secretly as he has no position and thus is unable to support me. I fear that if I do not marry him now he will leave me. What shall I do? I am almost crazy trying to think what to do. B.'0. H. ANSWER—Life is a fight. It is made up of a series of conflicts. Nobody ever has been able to escape the battle between two opposing desires. You have encountered your first big conflict, and it is important that you solve it courageously. On the one hand you have your mother who has invested her entire capital in you. In return she asks nothing except that you establish yourself successfully in life. If the marriage which you consider would further your welfare she would not oppose it. On the other hand you have the pressure put on you by the boy whom you love, who has stirred your emotions to a tortuous pitch. In order to get his own way he has made you believe that you will lose him. He has nothing to offer but a clandestine marriage, devoid of the responsibilities which should go with such an adult step. Do you know what I think? I think the young man is decidedly selfish to throw you into such conflict. He is not thinking of you at all, but only of his own desires. He wants something for nothing, which is out of harmony with reality. Like an infant he tries to get what he wants by crying for it. As I often have said in this column, the difference between maturity and immaturity is the ability to postpone the desires of the present in favor of a future and more satisfactory goal. The infantile char-

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

TUESDAY, MARCH 9, 1937

Diet Makes |

Today’s Pattern

Child Teeth Grow Firm

Racial Tendencies and | Prenatal Influences | Important.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

Ingredients for Good Teeth

| This brings us to the general care | [of children’s teeth, from the baby | [on up, and why it is that some chil- | {dren have naturally good strong | | ivories™ while others have poor | ones. In the first place, racial tend- | | encies have something to do with it. [Sun dwellers run to hard white | teeth. Races deprived of ‘it, and | who also lack compensating foods, are likely to have soft ones. Next, comes prenatal influence. If | the expectant mother lacks sufficient {sun and a generous diet of fruits, vegetables and sun-foods rich in vitamins, her baby may have poor [ teeth, So actually baby's good teeth

pattern, including the pockets.

|vards of 32- or 35-inch fabric.

SMART apron (No. 8932) is a life saver for that good dress. There are only three pieces to this The [non-slip shoulder straps really stay lin place. Make it in gingham, percale, calico, dotted swiss, unbleached {muslin or chambray, Patterns come | in sizes 34 to 48. Size 36 requires 2%

Lucky Shamrock, Delight-

| should be anticipated long before he [is born.

necessary for finishing.

To secure a pattern and STEP- |Patron saint.

BY - STEP SEWING INSTRUC-

|yards of 1',-inch bias binding is | time When all loyal sons of Erin

St. Patrick’s Mind Your

Day Recipes Manners Spell Spring||* —

rT rect social usages by answering the following questions. then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. Is it necessary for a young girl to rise when a woman comes near? 2. Is it better to say “I beg your pardon” or “Excuse me” when interrupting a busy person? 3. Is it discourteous to read a letter or message before another person without first asking “May 1?” 4, Should a man ask permission to smoke when he is with a woman? 5. Should a man stop a wom-=-an on the street to talk with her?

ful Dish for Season Of Patron Saint.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer Spring and St. Patrick's Day— they come in hand and hand. Fresh greens and golden harps, delicate foods and strong devotion to old Erin, these things combine fortu- | nately into a time for celebration and most of the world goes to some sort of St. Patrick's Day party. For the bridge-playing section ot humanity, there's nothing quite so appropriate as a spring luncheon where little shamrocks and gay colleens give the table its proper note.

For a green and white luncheon, you'll find this menu fresh and tender, delicate and seasonal and very simple to prepare. Begin with such a bowl of spring salad as will cause the heart to dance with delight.

Dessert in Holiday Spirit

Follow with a second course of broiled young chicken, new potatoes in parsley and butter, tiny baking powder biscuits and your best mint Jelly. The third course bring in fresh asparagus, hot, with a smooth, golden Hollandaise sauce

What would you do if— You bring a stranger into a large roomful of people— (a) Take him around and introduce him to each one? Introduce him to the hostess, if there is one, and to a few persons close by, later moving on to a new group? Proclaim, “Everybody, this is Tom Moore?”

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" Answers Yes. 2. “Excuse me” for a delib-

¥ tion. ur parAnd . ps . erate action. “I beg yo then the dessert—remember, don” when you have inadvert-

it, too, must be as light in spirit as y rend . a young lamb that gambols or the ay Si Spied ow new green hillside. Use sections of 4. Yes ‘until He Knows ‘that fresh pineapple, cut lengthwise in she never objects eighths, rolled in powdered sugar ; 5. No. if he speaks more than and served on green glass plates. a word or two he should fall With the pineapple serve special into step with her, even if he St. Patrick's Day confections such as had been walking the other Lucky Shamrocks and Macaroon wav when thev met. Horseshoes. Then small cups of thin : : china and as fragile as the breath of dawn, with coffee as clear as the spring beneath the rock. Such is the mood of the first week of spring, the

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Best “What Would You Do?” solution—(b), (a) is awkward and (¢) should be used only when you are sure the person won't be embarrassed by having all eyes turned his way.” 1937. NEA Service,

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Spring Salad—Rub the bowl light -

| "TIONS inclose 15 cents in coin oly with garlic and chill. Toss in (tinue the diet within a few weeks |pather with the above pattern num- | fresh crisp watercress, pieces of es-

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acter wants what it wants here and now without regard for consequences. The adult character postpones desire until it is able to take the responsibility for consequences. It is obvious that the strength for the mature decision which you must make will have to come from you. The boy is still a baby. What you do not realize is that a clandestine marriage will not increase your hold on him for long. It is an unfortunate fact that possession carries with it a certain amount of depreciation. Now the strong drive of unfulfilled desire keeps his interest in you at concert pitch. Without it, woman will spend an afternoon at home consulting her favorite cor-

his flirtatious tendencies would have more freedom to work in other | sectiere on the best type of foundation garment directions. | clothes. It takes a slender waist and faultless posture to do justice to | this bolero dress fashioned of navy opaque sheer and girdled with a bright green silk sash.

When he gets here, doctors con-

{ Tk Indi li: [given strained vegetables, tomato a | chopped parsley.

{ Juice and so on, Babies get egg yolk | < MM I much earlier, too, than used to be WNL iy a | the case. The idea is to set up bony | cajaction of late dress designs, now | structure in general, and teeth are |; "roaqyv It's 15 cents when pur- | teaspoon dry mustard, 2 tablespoons I part of it. : A : A | vinegar, 14 tablespoon lemon juice,

[other is indirect. A tiny soft tooth | [ Then add oil and stir, then the j — {brush may be used morning and | lemon juice and remaining vinegar. | | night. And through life this should Stir well, add a slice of onion or a!

Sister Selected As | Trousers Are | be kept up. It is a valuable habit, tiny piece of garlic. Chill before TRY re? . : * (and all habits must have early be- serving. A little sugar is sometimes Margar et Morris’ Aid \ | ginnings. used. That's a matter of taste, Miss Virginia Morris to be New Mode tor

Use this French dressing: 4 tea- | spoon salt, 1'4 teaspoon pepper, i |

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tain tonight for Miss Mary Helen Karnes, a bride-to-be. Her assist« ants will be her mother, Mrs. Harry Yelch, and Mrs. George Horst. Yellow and pink are to be used in the appointments. Linen gifts are to be presented to the honor guest. Guests will be ‘Mrs. Harry Unger, Misses Louise Haworth, Vera Suds- | brock, Dorothy Stewart, Helen John= ston, Lottie Irwin, Mary Eleanor Parrett, Maxine Hubbard, Margaret [and Betty Stayton.

Styles this spring call for perfect figure symmetry, and the wise

Talk on Textiles - T'o Be Given bv |

Make him wait. If he won't wait, all you've lost is an infantile | mate who would have made life miserable for vou every time you opposed his desires. The loss will hurt you, to be sure. But you would be hurt more in the long run by rushing into an ill-considered marriage in an effort to hang on to a charming boy who can't meet the demands of life with the fortitude which every women has a right to expect in her

is Brushing Minimizes Decay

husband. JANE JORDAN

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Today's Contract Problem

West has lost the first two tricks, on his contract of five clubs, doubled. South can take two more tricks, but he is after = more spectacular set.

{Mrs. Ernest Hadley, Dr. White's | parents are Mr. and Mrs. Joseph

which vary in length from knees to midcalf will be worn on the beach | And there should be enough crusts this year instead of the traditional and other tough subjects, not to | pajamas or slacks.

Beach Apparel

curl the hair, but to strengthen jaws | [and roots of teeth and gums. Good,

Mrs. Shadinger

Mrs. Guy H. Shadinger is to lec-

[ Macaroon Horseshoes |

ture on “Shuttlecraft Around the!

World,” under auspices of the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church Woman's Association tomorrow in Ayres’ Auditorium,

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Mrs. Shadinger is to arrange an | exhibit of her collection of textiles. |

(24 pieces) Two cups shredded coconut, cup sweetened condensed milk, teaspoon vanilla extract.

nw | Delta Zeta Mothers Mix shredded coconut and con- | Will Meet Today

densed milk. Add vanilla. Shape Mrs. J. H. Lamar is to be hostess into horseshoes. Bake in moderate | for the Delta Zeta Mothers’ Club oven (350 degrees F.) 10 minutes, or | meeting today, Following a business until delicately brown. Remove | meeting. Miss Barbara Hunt is to from baking sheet at once, | talk on “Cabbages and Kings.”

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| Pin-striped flannel is used for |gsolid, healthy gums are important. : el trousers to be worn on the French | Pirst-teeth should be preserved |. dp a) will be Mesdames Wil- | peaches where cool weather neces-|as long as they are not loosening. Pye M vo RE GE B sitates warm material, while linens, | It pays to have these looked after | 5 . ie] ay ; bi Nr Ambrose | | piques and printed cottons are | periodically and even filled. The Soo » Stewart ‘Ruch ‘and ‘Anita A style show and tea are to fol- |

shown for the American beaches. |second tecth will do better if this | | low the program.

In reaching for it, he permits West to make his contract. What play can South make to give West his contract?

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| der mannish lines, They are worn RE with backless blouses of silk or cotton prints and a short bolero Ny WHY NOT TELL or tailored jacket matching the ve) HER. SHE OUGHT trousers. B TO KNOW HOW Midcalf-length beach trousers MUCH MORE often are shown with a tunic top SUDS THE NEW RINSO GIVES

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By ALICIA HART NEA Service Staff Writer The perfectly groomed woman always looks younger than she actuLally is. The older you get, the more l importance you should attach to which ‘would ‘establish the ten ‘in | each and every rule for neatness and

dummy. | daintiness Declarer thus fulfil i - | ness. tract. Ten: ils Ate | Let a daily bath, regular use of

(Copyright. 1937. NEA Service, Tne) |d€odorants or antiperspirants, clean,

-— — carefully pressed clothes and weliLaterary Club American Bridge League Secretary ,

manicured hands be the basis of your grooming. Get into the abit 3 | fis. | \ HEN my friend, James H. Commemorates Holton of New York. looked [ts Anniversary

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which is sleeveless and backless, land cut with very slender, fitted | lines. Some short beach trousers are shown in quilted, intricately | stitched designs. Sometimes they | are shown in pastel colored cor- | duroy. Big, broad-brimmed straw hats, which can be turned up all the way around or dropped down to protect the face and neck from the sun, complete the costumes. One house | shows beach hats of amber cellu- | loid covered with loose meshed fish net and matched with a loose fish | net jacket crocheted of string. | Almost all beach dresses this | season are made to wrap around | apron style in printed linen or white |

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Solution to Previous Problem By W. E. M'KENNEY

{of brushing your coat, hat and dress { when you take them off, and again {before you put them on. Always ‘keep shoe trees in your shoes, have at the dummy, the North hand in today’s article, he was quite happy. His contract of seven diamonds, redoubled, looked to be just right,

1 KNOW ALL ABOUT IT. 1 USED IT LAST WEEK AND IT

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Fifty-two years of contributions

[new leather lifts put on the minute [the old ones get even slightly crookled, and polish leather shoes every if the spade suit broke three and three in the defending hands. This seemed improbable, how-

day. Suede ones ought to be | brushed twice a day. ever, because East had bid at the range of four and thus probably

was short in other suits to compensate for his lack of honor strength. The bidding marked him with the club honors and probably the king of hearts. On this assumption, Holton, who was playing in a duplicate game at the Brooklyn Heights Bridge

to. cultural advancement | marked today by the Fortnightly | Literary Club. Members and their | guests joined in a birthday program at the Proplacsum Club. Mrs. Albert Metzger showed mo- | tion pictures of her recent world cruise. Spring flowers appointed the tea | table, presided over by Mrs. J, Em- | mett Hall, chairman. Mrs. Hall was

| assisted by Mesdames Mitchell P. | Crist, Francis W. Dunn, John Ray | Newcomb and Harry Miesse. Mrs. Club, hoped for a spade break, but | Albert Rabb is club president. in the meantime took a precaution | ———————— to safeguard the hand, because he | could still make his contract by a | Century Club squeeze, if West held four el v and was forced to protect hearts. | The opening lead of the four of | To Hear Morgan diamonds was won with the ace in the dummy. Declarer drew a second | EE round of trump, cashed the ace of | Dr. Herman G. Morgan, Tndiahapclubs, and then led the queen of | lis Health Board Secretary, is to hearts from dummy. East covered | pe speaker at the Century "Club's with the king and declarer won with | third annual banquet Friday night the ace. in the Third Christian Church. The He now returned to the dummy | club is a unit of the Christian Men by ruffing his last club, and then | Builders’ Class. led out four more rounds of dia-| The club has provided more than monds. West, on the last diamond, | 500 eye glasses for underprivileged had to give up a small spade, as he | school children since its organizacould not discard the jack of hearts, tion in April, 1934. ECHR EEE

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