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Mother Who Is Drunkard Vexes Debra

Medical Treatment I Necessary, Jane Says.

Tut vour problems in a letter to Fane Jordan, who will answer your questions in this column,

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DEAR JANE JORDAN — |

My mother is 46

years

old and ever since I can re- | member she has drunk. I am | 26. The last two vears she has | been worse than ever. She |

Nh VES In a

small town near here and |

she has been put out of nearly ever:

beer tavern in it. I hived in this town until she caused me so much worry and embarrassment that I had te leave, I've done evervthing I know te make her quit drinking. She has a good husband and he is always threatening to leave her but hasn't done so yet. Perhaps 1 should be ashamed to say this but I am beginning to hate her. 1 can’t help it. I have first husband left me came to the house drunk and carShe hi: my presembar-

y NA A Tes been . My

marti

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because she

3 n & nA TIAA red on. S caused

ent husband some awfully

moments lately, as he is still working in the where she When my mother is sober she swears she will never drink again. but two days it is the same | thing all over. What can I Go? Do I owe her anything? DEBRA R. ANSWER — Drinking when ged & the drinker's 1S a mal- | than

rassing town

lives,

later

| { ine | |

against con- |

ul Scrous Will is an illness, It of th rather the body.

hospitaliz

angry

ady e personality should

All

reproaches

Your

mother treated. the |

you |

and and re powerless to help

ed tareats

Summon a

just as she is powerless to keep

resolutions to stop drinkDo not think she enjoys her plight any more than you do. It is & mistake to suppose that the true | drinker always enjoys his sprees. | He to drin but through his need for an anaesthetic. | Evel

well-being in

may feel the greatest aversion

is driven to do 0

Ning,

one strives for a feeling of

S out anxiet

that they only ate

life, some are so

torm by nameless 6S and deep depression 1 ment

they

am by mumbling the tor.

nk, When

the pressure

peace

with an mrroxicated ol their

escape

own inner struggles and the disap- ¥ wa 1s T 33 ~ 111% 1 ointments of reali her drunks

is a fig not

from something

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eNnNess the) ce. Many who have worked with dipsomaniacs claim that they are persons of impulsive temperament, impelled to stupifly themselves with alcohol in order to keep down some forbiddent impulses. Only when drunk do they feel at ease with their fellows or at all socially adjustable. Each What I say he

be hard to

do wish to fa

physicians

case is study itsel!

a in I'e Is very general and may

your

fit Into your idea of mother's behavior.

‘ou that

hope to convince weatment rather If you cannot afford to pay for th and

you

expert medical

paysical

which she needs nde

are un

r spoil your life

Qer orgies, for the sacrifice of

U Own peace will not help hex

htest. Move away where reach you duri If you cannot. save he save yourself.

JANE JORDAN

Chemistry to Be Subject of Talk

Pot-Pourri” h { a talk to be given bv Dr Reilley at a meeting of the tion of Women at gon tonight Mrs. Mary m chairman, and Broo, president.

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Party to Be Held At Country Club

Mrs. Paul Blakeslee and Mrs. E Snider for a uncheon and a bridge party to be 1 &t the Hillcrest Country Club L p. m. Wednesday, Both auction and contract bridge are to be plaved with S 10 be awarded the wine ners A 250-point bonus is to be nresented to members arriving by 1p m

Exvpt to Be Subject Of Illustrated Talk

Mrs. A. L. Rice is to give an illustrated travel talk on Egvpt be-

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sity Pi Beta Phi Mothers’ Club today at the sorority chapter house, 831 W. Hampton Drive. Robert Larrance will play a group piano numbers. The hostess committee, headed by Mrs. J. B. Du includes Mesdames H. C. Curtis, H. E. Screes, J. L. White, Glenn Bennett and E. W. Springer,

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| contrast without upsetting every [part of the winter ensemble. Black or brown or navy accessories are smart with a beige dress. The contrast While beige dresses under or brown coats are the order for January the formula may be reversed to light over dark by spring. Already the appearance of beige gloves, beige hats and beige dresses presage a spring vogue for this shade. Beige is getting more praise than

| white in clothes for Southern wear, |

Light beige linen dresses when you arrive, and deeper beiges to match deepening suntans, A beige tulle evening gown under a mink cape, or the same dress with a black lace redingote for warm evenings. The two dresses sketched today are especially wearable under fur coats. Their beige tints were picked from the vibrant palettes of Ruben n Dyck paintings that are

Calendar of

TOMORROW Independent Social Club. Mrs. A. M. Tarr, hostess. Luncheon. Butler University Kappa Alpha Theta Sorority. Chapter house. Mesdames F. T, Davenport, R. L. McKechnie, C. H. Becker, K. V. Ammerman, Albert E. Davis, Homer G. Meek, Earl Wells, J. C. White, Chester Zechiel, hostess. Luncheon. Mrs. Henry E. Ostrom, devotions, Albert attorney, speaker, Music, chapter, Indianapolis Alumnae Association,

| Kappa Kappa Gamma. Mrs, C. S.

hostess. Guest Mrs. Francis

Wheeler, meeting. chairman. Frances Willard W, C. T. U. Mrs. Floyd Knight, hostess, Mrs. Clara Nelson, devotions. Mrs, Ray Stanton, speaker, Mrs, Mary Buck to preside, Artemas Club. Mrs. EB. D. Hill hostess. Mrs, Steven Stringer, Mrs. Fred Hoermann, assistants, Luncheon. Business meeting,

American Association of Univer. sity women. Woman's Department Club. Mrs. Gladys M. Petch, English lecturer, “Sunlit Norway Calls.” Local Norwegians, guests, Mrs. lLeland R. Smith, Creative Writin, Class report. Mrs, James E. Jobes, Mrs. Donald Wright, arrangements chairmen, Australian Chapter, International Travel-Study Club, Inc. Mrs. W. F. King, hostess. Mrs. A. C, Broecker, Mrs. Robert Drum, assistants. William Rothenburger, “Poland.” Alpha Delta Latrei Donald Walker, George H. Corne William M. Hutchison, book review, Inter Alia Club. Mrs. Eugene McIntire, hostess, Mrs. Fred G. MarIse in the Foothills”

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inspiring many new colors in Paris clothes because of a current exhibition. The dress at the left shows the lower V neckline that is as much jor. The Vionnet twist continues into a sash, accented with two gold metal rings at the sides. There is soft shirring at the shoulders, [and sunbursts of shirring on each sleeve. It is worn with a special turban that matches the color and fabric of the dress. A lighter shade of beige identi | fies the dress at the right, with its four bow pockets, a draped neckline that is held by a metal ring. The attractive belt is made of rust colored snakeskin. The hat shown With it is one of the new bonnets. made of a stitched fabric to match the dress. The split brim is turned | back off the forehead, and is trimmed with tailored bows ‘and aft.

Club

[by Ella Enslow. Mrs. C. Fred | Fitchey, “Why Keep Them Alive?” {by Paul DeKruf, Alpha Delta Latreian Club. Mrs. [Fred Geyer, Mrs. Herschel Davis, | hostesses, William Rowland Allen, I. NS. Ayres & Co. personnel director, speaker, [ Amicitia Club. Mrs. E. P. Bren(man, hostess. Mrs. Ralph Caldwell, | assistant. Anniversary luncheon. | Alpha Beta Latreian Club, Mrs. | Robert Burnett, hostess. Mrs. A, W., | Metzger, assistant, Miss Bessy Greenwalt, “May I Find You a | Book?” Irvington Tuesday Club. Mrs. A. PF. | Wickes, hostess, Mrs. E. C. Rump[ler, “Uncle Sam and 1.” Mrs. C. M. | Cunningham, “Who Is a Leader,” discussion, Chapter U, P. E. O, Sisterhood. Mrs. M. S. Payne, hostess. Mrs. B, | H. Lybrook, Miss Evelyn Carpenter,

| stitutional quiz. Miss Carpenter, “Gleanings from Record.” Irvington Friendship Circle, Mrs. Raymond Stilz, hostess. Mrs. Alfred Ridley, assistant.

Mrs. N. B. Magoffin, hostess, Mrs. | L, M. Bingeman, program.

| Meridian Heights Inter-Se Club. | | Mrs, W. B, McCaw, hostess, Mrs, F. |

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SEARNRORSUCK

Two Days or| Chairman for Sigma Chi Dance

| ! German Dish Hasenpfeffer Is Test of Modern Housewife’s Patience.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer

Nothing for,

In our age of quick cooking, both | | sauerbraten and hasenpfeffer refuge |

[to be speeded. [nothing with these ancient and honorable German specialties, Stubborn in an era of kitchenettes, | they stand for the flavor that ripens only with time. Yeu might | investigate, | Hasenpfeffer is always a cons | troversial recipe. This particular

It's two days or |

{ choice is offered with full honor to

{all the others. Hawsenpfeffer 4 to 6 servings) One earthenware crock, 1 pint vinegar, 1 pint water, | onion, finely sliced, 1 | salt, bay leaf, 4 whole cloves.

teaspoon

Your butcher will have just what you need, so Daddy won't have to go a-hunting. Clean rabbit and cut in pieces. Arrange pieces in large crock or glass dish. Cover with vinegar and

gredients. Cover securely and for get about the rabbit for two days. Then remove the pieces from the liquor, but don’t throw the liquor away. It is faithful to the end. Season rabbit with salt and pepper and dredge with flour. Heat bute ter in large iron pot and brown pieces on all sides. Strain the liquor and add to pot until it reaches depth of 4 inch. Cover the pot, place over low fire, and cook until rabbit is tender. The stew must never boil. When meat is {ender, remove from pot, then thicken stock with a little flour. When smooth, add 1% cup sour {cream. Heat through and pour over | the rabbit, | The result

is hasenpfeffer and

| the friendly mood it brings is known

[as “gemuetlichkeit.”

Sauwerbraten (6 to 8 servings)

{ pint claret and 1 pint wine vinegar |

| (do not use cider vinegar), 1 large | onion, cut in pieces, 1 large carrot, | cut in pieces, 1 tablespoon of mixed

spices (allspice, cloves, bay leaves, |

| black pepper).

| Into a large crock, place the beef |

{and the vegetables and spices and { pour in the claret and wine Vinegar. Cover and practice heavenly patence for two davs. When ready to use. remove beef. Place in roasting pan and roast in very hot oven for 20 minutes Remove, dust with flour and place in large casserole, Return to oven and bake at moderate temperature for about half an hour more until done, basting frequently with the brine it stood in for two days.

Remove meat when tender, strain Add 1 teaspoon | Cup canned tomatoes and

sauce in casserole. raisins, 14

water mixed and add the other in- |

Four pounds lean rump beef, 1

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Mrs. James Beattey 18 general chairman of

the Sigma |

Chi Fraternity dinner<dance for members’ wives and relatives Saturday. The party 18 to be held in the Columbia Club.

| AVOIDS LOSING FINESSE

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(and the imagined threat

| but you can help Imm do it

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MONDAY, FEB. 8 1987

Phobia Cure Lies in Child; Not Parent

| Mother Cannot Talk Son

Out of Fear, Writer Declares,

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON You cannot talk any child out of

| fear, Save your breath, dear mot her, Thin | have always been afraid of snak: s,

K of yourself, for instance. \ ou

even of worms. What good has 1% ever done for someone to pat you and say, "It won't hurt you.” The cure of fear lies between vou and the object itself. or between vou 0 your safety. Only the child can cure himself, He must not know that he is bei gq “cured.” He wants ho one to any part in it.

have

Fear Fights to Finish If outside help is suspected, ually either the fea or it sets up a wall to defend Fear of any sort will fight to a finish, It must be dealt with most carefully, And don’t expect to get every

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itself,

Today's Contract Problem

South is playing the con= tract at three no trump. He can count eight sure tricks, with possibly more in either diamonds or hearts. How should he manage the play of the club suit, having in mind the possibility that nether red suit might give him his ninth trick? 1

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a finesse should not be taken, but |

that instead he should play the ace,

Solution to Previous Probiem By WILLIAM E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary The safety play, the purpose of which is well described in its name, is one of the weapons much used by experts and only rarely by novices. The reason for this is that a beginner at bridge early learns the prin=

Central Avenue

| Guild Arranges Hospital [Lunch

enough pulverized ginger snaps to |

thicken the sauce slightly. With salt, pepper and a suspicion of sugar. Slice the beef and serve with its sauce, This time it's sauerbraten, but the mood is still “gemuetlichkeit.” ————

Pi Pht Alumnae ~ Will Celebrate

School Founding

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The Indianapolis Pi Beta Phi Sorority is to cele- | brate the 25th anniversary of the founding of Pi Beta Phi Settlement | Schoo! at Gatlinburg, Tenn. with a | luncheon meeting Feb, 13, Mrs. Robfert Terry, 5644 Central Ave, is to | be hostess, Mrs, Jasper P. Scott, president, is to speak on mentals of Pi Beta Phi.” The hostess committee members {are Mrs. Irving Palmer, chairman, | assisted b

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province “Funda-

and Robert Schetter, | At a business meeting following | the Iuncheon, Mrs. Robert Wild and Mrs. Scott are to report plans for a | Delta Province conference April 23 24 in Indianapolis, Representatives {from all Indiana and Michigan chap- | ters will be invited to attend.

au Sel So —— Stocking Cap Comes Back The good old “stocking cap” of your school days tu jen form as headgear for the smartly |of coarse wool in an unusually [heavy stitch. It has a very deep | turn-up and a white or contrasting | color pom-pom on top.

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Members of the Central Avenue Methodist White Cross Guild and [the White Cross Guild executive [board are to be hostesses at a luneh[eon Feb. 15 in the Methodist Hos[pital Nurses’ Home. nual meeting of the Indiana Methlodist Hospital Association board of Tribute will be paid to [the late Mrs. W, J, Marks, a Central Avenue Guild charter member. J. W. Noble, Mrs. T. D. Campbell and Miss Fay are members of a decorating com(mittee and Mesdames Harry Plummer, Carrie Basselt and Perry C. Kirtley general [committee members,

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| The Meridian Heights Guild met |

[today in the work rooms, The Grace unit is to work tomorrow, Broad-

way on Wednesday, Municipal Gar- |

dens and Temple Sisterhood groups on Thursday and the Garden Guild lon Friday, The guilds last month were ported to have completed a total of 102,622 dressings and 1457 articles

(of sewing at their meetings, setting | the White |

an all-time record for [Cross Center, Misses Eileen a | have returned from Florida where

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The luncheon is to follow an an-

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arrangements |

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nd Ruth Hunley |

| they have been visiting for several |

to safeguard the hand. | In today's hand, Robert W. Hale pin, one of the best bridge players in Chicago, used the safety play by

going up with the ace and dropping |

the lone king. Then he Rave up a

trick in the suit to protect his small |

slam contract, When the hand was spread, Halpin, sitting South, could see that

his one cause of worry was the | Apparently he could win (all the club tricks if East held the |

club suit. | king, as the third round could be [ruffed and thus no club tricks need be lost. However, he wisely ree | Jected this line of play. Winning the opening spade lead of the jack with the ace, he led

[a low club from dummy and went | West's king |

| right up with the ace. | dropped, and distribution of the | club suit was made plain, | Declarer could accept forces in | both hands, so he returned a small (club, which East won. returned a trump, and South made all the remaining tricks, ruffing | one {two more rounds of diamonds. | By playing the ace of clubs and [then conceding a club trick, the | contract was assured against almost any possible distribution of | the cards. Even had West ruffed

| the second club, and returned an. | | other spade or made any other re- |

| turn, beaten, (Copyright, i937, NEA Service. Ine.)

the contract could not be

| Mothers Plan Party

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| The Garfield Kindergarten Moth

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| quiet about him.

Now East | [| Mrs. M. J. Silver,

club in dummy after taking |

js Club is to entertain for mothers | and fathers of pupils at 7:45 p, m, |

wusical pro- |

dread out of the ove sensitive | child or the “cowardly” child, as we unfortunately dub him, It cannog | be done, Some children don’t even like to wake up. The day alead is itself only another potential source of more trouble to him. A born possi (mist? Yes, he can't help it,

| |

| Discourage Phobia

| But a few things may be done to discourage phobias. We can take almost any example to demonstrate what I mean. Say, a | sliding board. Yes, Billy is afraid to climb the ladder hime self go.

All the other children race over (the playground and scramble for | places. Poor, sweet little Billy | hangs back, He hates himself and [he's afraid of being laughed at. | Every time he has screwed up his courage it has failed him. He can no more get up on that side than he (could march into a dragon’s mouth. First of all make it a point for leach child in the group to keep He must feel that no one is conscious of him at all,

Pride Fells Fear

Next, something must enter his (ming that makes it very important for him to slide. So important thas | fear becomes secondary, And there must an What this is you will have to study out. Perhaps there is a younger child very fond of Billy, who will slide if Billy takes his hand. Billy, ballooned with sudden pride, may want to show off, Or the agent may be a shorter board that you may prop up quite unconcernediy againsg the fence, a low fence. of course, Again, solitude may be all Billy needs, If the other youngsters are out of the way and he has the place to himself, he may gradually whise tie up his own courage. (Copyright, 1837. NEA Service, Ine.) Mr. and Mrs, Irving Silver and 2918 Washington Blvd, have returned home after a month's visit in Miami, Fla.

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