Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 2 February 1937 — Page 10

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Jane Scolds Third Party In Triangle

Tells Woman Any Advice |.

She Might Give Would Be Unsatisfactory.

Jane Jordan will bring more light te |

vour problem by her answers te vour Jetters in this column. Write vour letfer now,

EAR JANE JORDAN-—-I have been going with a married man for three years and we are both madly in love. We know it is the wrong thing to do but when comes to two people they do not stop to consider the consequences. We are both professional people and the man’s wife has everything she could poswant. She has a beautiful nome and the husband will go to ny lengths to see that she is not neglected. She knows about us but she will not release him. I am

sibly a

still 37 and he is 44. find someone to take his place, for I feel that we never can mean anything to each other legally, but no how many different men I meet, there are none who can take We are both

his place in my heart.

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love |

I have tried te |

getting irritable with one another |

under this awful strain because we

have to be careful where we go and |

we can't be together very long at a time,

pretty soon I don't

do. ciate your

will advice. N. M.

ANSWER —There are three things |

vou can do about it: The man can his wife and marry he can give you up and stay with his wife, or you can goon as you are. the three paths open the latter the least admirable because it infers the inability to make a definite decision and abide by it. Yet it the course vou have chosen for traight vears and is therefore

divorce

three y some strange way the most satis-

factory to vou in spite of your irri- |

Why is this? I do not know the exact “whys” in vour case. I do know that some people are happy only when they form a third to a pair. Perhaps the word happy is a misnomer and that it would be closer to the truth te say that some secret need in love is satisfied by the triangular arrangement. A few guesses will show you what I mean although they may be far from accurate. This situation gives vou the satisfaction of taking a man away from another woman. This triumph is something which no honest angle of a triangle can deny. Nevertheless it is a triumph which vou cannot enjoy without a feeling

tation

f guilt. self in the position of sacrifice which provides a sort of satisfaction. For the wife's sake vou lead an unfulfilled life and take comfort in this knowledge. From the the

man’s viewpoint

riangle gives an opportunity to even |

scores with his wife. The element of revenge in an affair which has lasted three years is unmistakable although it is the last thing the partner fH revolt will adBy going to any length to see that the wife is not neglected and by depriving himself of his own desire to remarry, he satisfies the requirements of a stern conscience. Vet his generosity does not extend to concealing the facts from his wife, and who can call him kind in [ch a cruel arrangement? There always is more than heets the eve in an emotional friangle. . The wife in the case is not the innocent party which moralists would like to believe. She, too, finds outlet for unlovely qualities in exercising her power to punish the offending pair, although her position usually passes for righteousness. It does not call for so many defenses, No doubt if all of vou thoroughly understood your reactions to each other and the motives inspiring your actions vou wouldn't see much love in your unhappy arrangement. It a problem which only you ean Almost any solution which would suggest would be highly insatisfactory to all of you.

up oid

decide. I

Mission Society Board to Meet

The Indianapolis District Board

of the Methodist Episcopal Church | Women's Home Missionary Society |

is to hold its regular meeting at 10 a. m. tomorrow in the Y. W. C. A.

Mrs. L. D. Weathers is to give de-|the pattern above, send in just an |

votiohs on “The Appreciation of Our Founders.” Communications are to be read from Miss Nola Yoder, Glenburn mission deaconess, Linton, and from Miss Merle Newell, Riverton, Wyoming. A review of work and district auxiliary reports are to be other discussion topics. Plans for the March meetings, which are to be in charge of the Spiritual Life Department, also are to be presented.

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Concordia Officers Elected at Meeting

Miss Esther Becker is the new president of the Concordia Club.

Other officers, recently elected, are |

Miss Virginia Mae Bush, vice president; Miss Vera Jean Cauldwell, secretary; Miss treasurer; Miss Margarette Cross, publicity and program chairman; Miss Wilma Pendergast, sergeant at arms; Miss Mari Siegmann, counselor.

The election meeting was held |

with Miss Becker, 1515 N. Bevilie Ave, hostess. Plans were discussed for a club party and luncheon to be held next month. A contribution was sent to the Red Cross flcod relief committee. Installation of officers is to be held at the next meeting.

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Relief Speakers’ Bureau Formed

Mrs. B. B. McDonald, Indianapolis

Council of Women president, is to |

direct the activities of a speakers’ bureau, formed by the United Club Women's Flood Relief Organization. The bureau is to offer assistance in arranging projects for the Red Cross relief fund, as well as provide speakers to explain the Red Cross’ need. Mrs. McDonald's assistants include Mesdames John W. Thorn- | burgh, Jules 2Z2inter | Caplinger.

Club Meetings

THURSDAY

Lincoln an

Election of

. Mrs. Max Norris, chairman. Irvington Fortnightly Club. Mrs. Martha McGaughey, Mrs. Wayne Reddick, hostesses. Mrs. C. W. Wat- | son, “The Origin of the Latin Lan- | guage and Its Use Today.” Mrs. | F. B. Gill, current events. | Story a Month Club. Mrs. L. H. | Brink, hostess. Anniversary dinner. | Woman's Round Table Club. Mrs. | D. A. Murphy, hostess. | Garrett, “Art and Architecture.” Culture Club. Mrs. Fred Warner, { hostess. Mrs. Charles Remy, “Presrent Day Statesmen.” Indianapolis Woman's | Propylaeum. Miss I. Hilda Stewart, “Gilbert and Sullivan.” Mrs. Harvey J. Elam, “The Land of Rush- | ing Water.”

SATURDAY

Saturday Afternoon Literary Club. | Mrs. Hollis Nay, Mrs, A. L. McColloum, hostesses. Mrs. W. S. Bovle,

“John Masefield.”

| | “Willa Cather.” Mrs. C. F. Badger, ! 1 |

| 4 ‘Announce Troth Of Harrison Kin |

| By United Press | GREENWICH, Conn, Feb, 2— Miss Ednee Reisinger, great-grand-daughter of President Benjamin

Harrison, is to be married to Joseph i C. Morseman Jr. Chicago, here on | Feb. 16, her mother announced to- | day. {

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Teaching of Poise Held Child I Need

‘Backseat’ Youngster Can Be Taught Better Understanding.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON “See here, Mary,” said Mrs. Brown's older and affluent sister, “you will have to do something about Junior.” “Just what?” mother. “Well, it’s just this. When I had him those two days while you were sick, I discovered that the boy is a regular backseater. It won't do, I

smiled Junior's

tell you.”

“A backseater? Why, what do

| you mean, Angela?”

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“Well, everything. In the first place, he actually was afraid of my house. I know it's big and pretty full of fine things. That's where our money has gone, since we never had any children. “After all, the boy is our blood, and he should feel at home. But he kept sitting on the edges of things and running his little finger over silk draperies as though he had never seen anything like them. What's worse, though, is the way he scuttled off to the kitchen or some-

| where when some of my friends

| came in.

Sister Is the Opposite “They wanted to talk to him and

| be friendly, but he would just stand

| an

there and look self-conscious and rub his toe on his leg, and go ‘Tee hee,’ if they asked him a question. | My goodness, he gave everyone the | impression he had grown up in a | cave in the hills. I never saw a | child as killed with inferiority. | “Now, your Connie is different. | When she comes in she acts as | though she owned the place, 8s | though she had lived in a castle | all her life, and if she hadn't, it was | where she rightfully belonged. She's | got both manner and spirit.” “Why, Angela, you surprise me. | Junior isn’t that way here. And I | think our place is pretty nice. It's ‘not grand, like yours, but it should | give both the children a feeling of | background. I can't understand | Junior.” “Well. I'd try to teach him to | hold his head up and give people idea that he's of some im- | portance, at least. People always | judge you by your own estimate of | yourself.” “Yes. IT know. I have to admit | that Junior nearly always gets the | short end of things when he's out playing with the boys. He never gets to be leader. He always holds ' back and seems to be satisfied with any place he gets. It's part of his make-up, I guess.

Neglected Too Much

“1 tell you what I think, Mary.

| Junior never gets places much. It's | always been Connie you've taken | around. She's learned to feel at

to one diamond. South can count | home almost anywhere. And Junior

nine tricks, at no trump, if North | can produce a heart stopper.

| has got too used to his environment. | Besides, these friends of his are

| older and a grabby lot of young- |

So far as this is concerned, both | sters, I've noticed. So the boy has

| roads lead to game, but with South's | learned to think | hand it would be quite easy for the |

holder to become excited and vision

he’s just an alsoran. He thinks anything is good enough. He'll never have a grain of ambition if he keeps on. He ought

|a possible slam, if he placed many | to feel at home anywhere.”

; high cards in his partner's hand on |

HILE for the most part bid- | the bidding.

ding has become standard- | ized in keeping with the principles | S. Garton |€

| Churchill, of Brooklyn, w s| the same time th w Fookitn, Whe as the Churchill bidding, |

which at once dismissed the pos- | very much of an individualist in | Sibility of greater things than game,

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of the nation’s ranking experts, is]

| sponse, | The final contract probably is the

prefer the more generally followed

admire the pre-

cision of

| With South's strong holdings. So far as the play is concerned, |

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the opening additional trick, but no play could

ustom of a heart response, but at|

lead gave North an|

have prevented him from taking at | least nine, as South held that num- |

ber in top cards. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.)

Guild Asks Clothes

For Flood-Stricken |

The Needlework Guild's executive committee is to meet at Mrs. Hart-

tomorrow.

| seater,” | help. | of poise,

| {

to disclose more than one high card | ley Sherwood’s horae at 2:30 p. m. | trick, insists upon a no trump re-!

“What can I do?” “You and I are going to start

For myself, I must admit that I|{aking him places. We'll show him

There are buildings and gardens and galleries and | beautiful stores. We'll widen his horizon so he won't feel self-con-scious in lovely places. And we'll see about some new friends who | won't take him too much for granted, and let him be leader once in a while. “It takes you, Angela, to put your

some beauty.

finger on things. You are Tight: |

We'll begin at once.” This type of child, the needs understanding, and He should have his feeling or what is known as “savoir faire,” developed. He cannot do it alone.

0 Attend Dinner Party Mr. and Mrs. Harry Altsman, Noblesville, entertained with a dinner

The Guild is collecting used gar- | party Sunday at their home for ments to be distributed for flood | Mrs. Altsman’s grandmother, Mrs.

| heart or a no trump is the response ments be clean and mended.

same in this instance, whether a !relief and requests that the gar- | Martha Peters.

Twenty guests attended.

| | Clean as a whistle and ready to meet the world . . . that's how you feel when you step smartly out in a freshly cleaned, trimly pressed suit or dress! Phone RI-2375 for prompt service in dry cleaning, pressing, hat cleaning and shoe rebuilding! Or stop in the DENISON SHOP at Ohio and Penna. Sts.

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It's February, and Valentine's Day isn’t so very far way « « « It’s high time to think about it! You can be just as original as you please when you're sending your Valentine wishes this year—so full are the shops with lovely gift ideas to make anyone happy on this day of sentiment! They'll wrap it up for you, too. You can slip in your own little message of affection or friendship!

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A jewel of a gift for a Valentine would be a stunning piece of costume jewelry. And a grand chance tt gives you, too, to show what a person of taste and discernment you are!

Tomorrow we go “Dining-Out,”

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Dance Chairman

Miss Agnes Roach is chairman of a Valentine dance to be sponsored by the Catholic Daughters of America Saturday in Holy Name Hall, Beech Grove. Music is to be provided by Noble McCormick’s orchestra.

Y. W. Group To Hear Talk By Wildman

The Y. W. C. A's membership committee is to entertain with a luncheon on Friday and a tea on Feb. 11.

membership will be invited to the tea at which Dr. Clyde E. Wildman, DePauw University president, principal speaker. Association members are anticipating the arrival on Feb. 9 of Miss Sue Perry, Y. W. C. A. secretary of Mexico City. A tea will be held the day of her arrival at the home of Mrs. Fermor S. Cannon. Girl Reon Saturday, Feb. 10. High School the same day at the Phyllis Wheatley branch and Junior High Girl Reserves will meet at the South Side Y, W. C. A. Center. The industrial department is to

fit of the summer conference. The Red Cross flood relief fund is to receive the proceeds from a

quarters at 8 p. m. tomorrow. Mrs. Diddel will review “Gone With the Wind.” A silver offering will be taken.

Music Sorority To Hold Buffet Supper Tonight

The Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter of Sigma Alpha Iota, national professional musical sorority, is to entertain with a buffet supper at 6:3¢ p. m. today at Miss Emma Doeppers’ home. | A short business meeting is to | follow. Miss Esther Thornton is to talk on her recent trip abroad. A musical program is to be given by Miss Helen Von Willer, soloist, accompanied by Mrs. Paul Brown, pianist, and Miss Olive Kiler, soloist, accompanied ‘by Mrs. Mabel | Leive, pianist. | The hostess is to be assisted by Mesdames Opal Larsh, Lenore Roberts, Ruth Jones. Amelia Monninger and Miss Kiler.

The luncheon is to honor | the committee's retiring chairman, | { Mrs. J. W. Atherton. The general |

will be

|eyes of your family.

serves are to meet with Miss Perry | Girl Reserves will hold a luncheon | hold a carnival Feb. 18 for the bene- |

book review to be given by Mrs. | Margarita T. Diddel at the head- |

TUESDAY, FEB. 2, 1937 *

Put Fruit on

Top of Cake; Expert Says

Recipe Is Offered for a Different Kind of Dessert.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer

Fruit cake is one good thought, but cake with fruit on it, baked to= gether, is a second good thought. It's sometimes a lot better than the first.

Prune and Apricot Cake

One and one-fourth cups sifted cake flour, 1'2 teaspoons baking powder, !i teaspoon salt, 3% cup granulated sugar, 4 tablespoons

softened butter, 1 egg, well beaten, 12 cup milk, 1 teaspoon vanilla; for the fruit part—4 tablespoons butter, 12 cup brown sugar, firmly packed, 13 cooked apricots, 6 prunes, cooked, halved and pitted. Sift flour once, measure, add bake ing powder, salt and sugar and sift together three times. Adg butter. Combine egg, milk and vanilla. Add to flour mixture, stirring until flour is completely dampened. Beat vig orously for one minute. Melt 4 tablespoons pan 8 by 8 by 2 inches. Use low flame. Add brown sugar and stir and cook until thoroughly mixed with the butter. Into this caramel mixture place the prune halves and apricots, cut side up, neatly in order, a prune half alternating with an apricot. Over this pour the cake batter. Bake in moderate oven (350 degrees F.) for about 50 minutes until done. Loosen cake from sides of pan. Serve upside down, with fruit peering into the hungry A dash or two of whipped cream on top of | each serving won't hurt anybody's i feelings. Apricot Custard Cake

Cake batter: 2 cups flour, 2 tea= | spoons baking powder; 3% cup milk, 1 egg yolk, #i cup sugar, 1% table= | spoons butter, For fruit custard: 1 (can apricots (No. 2), using all | apricots and 3 cup syrup, 4 egg | yolks, 1 cup sugar, 1 cup sour cream. Cream butter, add sugar, then cream until fluffy. Beat egg yolk well, and stir into butter mixture, | Sift flour and baking powder to- | gether, adding alternately with milk. Beat. Pour into greased ring mold with spring sides, lined with | buttered wax paper. Bake in moderate oven (350 degrees F. about 40 minutes, until done. Beat egg yolks until lemon colored and fluffy. Add sugar and sour cream. Then beat until mixture becomes fluffy like whipped cream. Stir in the apricot juice, then add the apricots. Pour this over the baked cake. Return to oven and bake until top of custard mixture browns lightly. Remove from oven, cool, and remove sides | of spring mold. Serve with whipped cream. That's a dessert!

Sorority Outlines Midwinter Meeting

Three hundred fifty members of Psi Iota Xi Sorority Chapters in Indiana, Illinois and Ohio are to attend an annual midwinter meet= ing at 1 p. m. Saturday in the Indie anapolis Athletic Club. Mrs. Lillian Setser, Bloomington, grand president, is to meet with board members Friday and Saturday morning to arrange program details. At the luncheon a musical program and book review are to be given.

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