Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 15 January 1937 — Page 22

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Domineering . Youth Vexes ‘Heartache’

(He Would Probably Be

Domestic Tyrant, Jane Warns.

Jane Jordan will help you with your problems by her answers to your letters in this column.

DEAR JANE - JORDAN— I met a boy last summer nd he rushed me from the oment he first met me. I

“always kept him guessing be-

“°C 4rink or smoke. - for about four months and he was

‘cause I don’t like to let a boy now just how much I like him. We re both 18 years old. He comes rom a fine family and doesn’t We went steady

ery respectful and sweet toward e. | Then last month he suddenly ‘stopped coming to see me. I asked him if there was somebody else, but e said that I would always be the only one for him. He said that I

~~Had been thinking only of myself

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"1 ink I cared about him. He told my girl friend that he was crazy about me, but that I smoked and he

a “couldn't stand to see a girl smoke.

" 1had promised him again and again that I would quit, but always broke y promise and that was the rea-

san he stopped coming over.

He told her to tell me to write im a letter telling him that I had uit smoking and that if he did ot answer I would know that he id not care about me. I wrote the letter and haven’t received a I saw him in church

“ih a friendly way, but didn’t mention anything about the letter. hat is wrong? Is he tired of me or does he just want me to chase

always have to be given in to. Should I forget him, which is hard tol do, or should I call him up and tell chim that I want to see him? > HEARTACHE.

NSWER—If you have written

"the letter and made the concession

__. which the young man required, what

more can you do? Even if you humbled yourself still further it might not bring the desired result. It may pel that -he enjoys ycur discomfiture and thinks well of himself as

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Such a boy would be anathema to a spirited girl. She would look ahead through the long, trying years in which her ego would be

_. continuously squashed by a dom-

* ineering and self-righteous husband. She would not be able to

bear this Slant attitude toward women as ¢ res who

_ exist to do the bidding of men.

The cigaret episode would not be the last conflict of opinion. It is easy for you to give up cigarets but how would you like this continusus dictation in other and more important matters?

Would you like to be told when you should come and where you Yoould go? What friends you should tultivate; what clothes you should perk. how your house should be run and so on, ad infinitum? Very few women could stand constant supervision because it keeps them in an “hfantile position, subject to the : game authority they accepted as : When all women were in the |same boat, such a life didn't

: seer) so tough; but now that most “women are regarded as intelligent

grown ups, I am afraid you would be unhappy when you compared your|lot with theirs. I cannot advise you with authority. [For all I know you may crave the very situation I have outlined. Maybe you like the concept of man as master, and could not love one who |didn’t exercise his power over you. | Because I do not know your needs in love your instinct is a betuide than mine,” Do as you ut face the facts first. They’ re rather obvious in this case. . JANE JORDAN.

Mothers” Chib

To Play Bridge

Mrs. C. F. Driggs is to act as host at the Alpha Chi Omega Sorority Mothers’ Club benefit. ‘bridge party to be given at 2 p. m.

Monday at the chapter house, 725

+ ‘Hampton Drive.

Assisting hostesses are to be Mesdames A. D. Connor, M. T. Howard, 8. A. Kleinhaus, E. I. Isle-

man and H. G. Hayes. Ne E President Chosen

Mrs. Phillip Ahl has taken over

her duties as ‘president of G. I. A.

installed officers are: Mrs. Warren vice ' president; Mrs. John Sefton] guide; Mrs. Donald Wilson, . §neasurer; Mrs. W. B. Sequartz, secetary; + Mrs. Charles’ Myer, chap- : Mrs. William Haviland, relief ecret ry;. Mrs. W. M. Aust, scnti- ; s. James Alley, flagbearer; enjamin Schuck and Mrs. F. Foster, marshals, and Mesdames

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‘Gone With the Wind’ Frock

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elle” fashions, inspired by Scarlett the Wind.” The dress is plaid

taffeta, with snug bodice, and a very full skirt that billows over a musThe velvet ribbon choker and the old-fashioned bouquet are fecalled for today’s “buds.”

- By GERTRUDE BAILEY

Times Special Writer

the Southern belle of the ball. To over a muslin hooped petticcat and he ohes worn by Scarlett O'Hara, ith a 17-inch waistline, “the smallest

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Jealousy in Children Has Deep Causes

Much Juvenile Behavior Has Roots Buried In Envy.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

We think of a jealous child as one who pouts when another is petted or who snatches a new toy from his playmate and steps on it. But not so. Usually the jealous child guards his secret with his life. We cannot tell when a child 4s eating himself up inside with envy. Maybe he lies around and maybe he is bad. More unfortunate conduct can be traced to this feeling of jealousy than many parents suspect. They know Billy won't play with a certain boy or anybody that boy goes with.

his spelling. Who would suspect that his dislike of spelling lies at Tommy Smith’s door because Tommy one day, got a star when he, Billy, didn’t?

Jealousy and Hate

And why does Billy hate Tommy? Oh, yes, he hates him. Jealousy is nearly always the cause of hate. Because Tommy has more clothes and bigger toys? Not at all. He is jealous because the happy-go-lucky rival has “friends. Tommy grew up in a house with a sister, brother, \and a stepJrother. ere was not much money in those former days, either. And the mother, fearful lest\the boy beher second husband would feel/odd and lonely, became very wary of showing preference at any time \to any one child. [They were all treated exactly aliké and not allowed to make much of themselves. Emotionally, that is.) They soon developed a hearty

Billy was an o aunts and uncles and aha all concentrating on him. He gradually withdrew from the society of other children, especially when he

He found that the world of chiidren took something from him that he was not ready to give.

Pampered at Home

At home there was everything just the way he liked it. He gravitated to this world more and more and his mother had a time of it, trying to get him out to play with the neighbors. Tommy was the one person he would play with, for Tommy seemed to let him have his way when he wanted it. Then the world took them both, School began. And now Tommy could no longer step aside and let Billy make all the marks, or give up his friends. And Jealousy began to sizzle, and like blueing in a tub, spread from the source to anything even - distantly associated with Tommy. And from there to still remoter things. If a child begins to act oddly and stay alone, it is wise if possible to get at causes. It is not easy. But cause once known, by tact and happily-corrective measures, it: may be removed or reduced. The cause is important. All children need company, not solitude.

(Copyright, 1937. NEA Service. Inc.)

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The young and charming frocks that dressed the popular heroine ot the popular book have intrigued New York designers. Her apple green watered silk ball dress and her little, green slippers have inspired a new season color—“Scarlett green.” Her billowing lace|and linen petticoats, her rose organdy with the long pink sash, her! lavender bayred muslin have revived fashion interest in spreading skirts, demure rdgues, bonnets and veils|and fresh flower nosegays. : Today’s debutantes may not refuse.to eat, as did Scarlett, in order that their bodices may be more tightly laced. Swimming and tennis have given them pretty figures to dress. Magnolia complexions and cheeks that match fresh roses they can apply right from their cosmetics that have the color harmonies all assembled. The old-fashioned floral bouquets are as handy as the nearest florist or tonight's beau.

Muslin Hooped Petticoat

The plaid taffeta dress photographed today, with the muslin hooped petticoat, the velvet ribbon choker, is worn this week by a mod- | ern “bud” in the fashion feature

the stage of Radio City Music Hall. It was selected from ‘a group of flowerlike dresses in spring colors as one of the most significant fashions for a girl's 1937 wardrobe. You can expect.to-see more dance dresses just as demurely styled, with necklines “low enough for dancing.” Lace pantalets and yards of petticoat, if not petticoats, will be show~ ing underneath the spreading organdy dance skirts by the time the country clubs open for summer.

Mrs. Ivan Stevenson Named Artemas Head

Mrs. Ivan C. Stevenson is the newly elected president of Artemas Club. Mrs. Donald H. Campbell is retiring president.’ Other officers are Mrs. Frank Freers, vice president; Mrs. Charles H. Williams, second vice president; Mrs. Charles Holtman, treasurer, and Miss Ruth Resener, re-elected secretary.

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CARELESS DISCARD LOSES

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Solution to Previous Problem

BY W. E. M’KENNEY American Bridges League Secretary

HEY used to inaugurate campaigns against traffic accidents by placing great emphasis on ‘safety first’,” wrote Jack Moore of New York, in submitting today’s hand, in which. he and his partner had reached a contract of seven hearts. “Of course,” the letter continues, “the contract is ice cold. All that was necessary was just the slightest safety precaution, which my partner failed to take, and so, instead of making a grand slam, with its premium of 1500 points, he went down one trick, and then we lost the rubber.” : Today’s hand is a good illustration of how careless play can be extremely costly. A single discard from dummy, not in itself a terrible play, cost the contract. There is no question about the soundness of the contract. The hand should be in seven and, equally, should be made. The only trouble with South, Moore’s partner, was that he took too much for granted— a fairly common fault of bridge

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of trumps cleared the trump suit. Now the ace of spades was laid down, and South made his expensive mistake. Instead of discarding a club, he dropped a small diamond, disregarding the fact that he had four trumps to take care of three losing diamonds. This spelled defeat. West: ‘won a club trick, due to South's overconfidence in the dropping of five cards of a suit on the lead of three.

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Mothers Invited

Mothers of Butler University Catholic students have been invited to a meeting of the Newman Moth-

a INDIANAPOLIS TIMES ° : Science Defends Women Auto Drivers

Maybe Billy does not try to get |

District Clubs Oppose Boost In Milk Prices

Opposition to increase in milk prices was- expressed today at the Seventh District Federation of Clubs’ meeting in the Claypool Hotel. Mrs. W. D. Hodgson, child welfare committee, was appointed by Mrs. C. J. Finch, president, to investigate proposed changes in prices to be discussed at a hearing in February. In ,outlining the federation legislative program, members urged the passage of a pill placing revenue earning educational, religious and fraternal property on the tax- list. The federation also went on record as favoring a bill making it mandatory to post five days’ notice before a marriage ceremony can be performed. Members also indorsed legislation supporting child welfare, the merit system, better housing, improvement of public school and library facilities, crime control and safety on the highway. The legislative program also urges defeat of a pari-mutuel bill and opposes the bill terminating a teacher’s position when she marries. Mrs. J. W. Moore is legislative chairman.

didacy of Mrs. Edwin I. Poston, Martinsville, for the Indiana Federation presidency. Election is to take place in May. At the afternoon session a delegate was to be named to the Con-

ference on the Cause and Cure of |’

War in Chicago Jan. 26 to 29. Lieut. Gov. Henry Schricker was scheduled for a talk.

Group Will Make Investigation of

Health Measure

A Public Health Nursing Association Committee is to investigate a bill regarding health budgets being drafted for the Legislature, according to Mrs. Benjamin D. Hitz, re-elected president. Following its report, the executive board is to decide upon its policy. The bill. is expected to call for an increase in the tuberculosis levy from 1 cent to 3 cents on every $100 of taxable property as well as an increase in the City Health Department levy. Other officers chosen at the annual meeting at the Claypool Hotel yesterday include Mrs. Smiley M. Chambers, second vice president; Mrs. Oscar N. Torian, corresponding secretary, and Mrs. William A. Eshbach, assistant treasurer. Board of directors re-elected for the 1937-40 term include J. K. Lilly Jr., Mesdames Donald Morrison, Montgomery Lewis, Edwin McNally and Miss Deborah Moore. New members include Mesdames Frank McKibbin, Ludwell Denny and Marlow Manion.

Open House Sunday For Richard L. Weiss

Mr. and Mrs. Jacob Weiss have

their son, Richard Lawrence Weiss, at 9 a. m. tomorrow at Beth El Zedeck Temple: Mr. and Mrs. Weiss, 5818 Central Ave., are to hold open house from

ers’ Club at 1:30 p. m. Tuesday at the clubhouse, 4610 N. Illinois St.

2 to. 6 p. m. Sunday in his honor. There are no invitations.

so much! Prevent it now .

glasses checked!

Close Application Causes

EYE-STRAIN

Reading—Studying

There’s no doubt about the added strain on your eyes all through the winter months, when we stay inside

Come in for an examination, or have your present

—Artificial Lights

. . and protect your eyes!

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OUR EASY PAYMENT PLAN!

CONSULT Dr. Waldo E. Stein, REG. OPTOMETRIST

f Sears, Roebuck and Co.

Virginia Reynolds, Butler University cocil,

The feceration indorsed the can-

announced the Bar Mitzvah of|°

‘movement in hair styling .

. Science has come to 5 e defense

skill.

of the woman driver. If she is not

as efficient as are the men it is not because of her sex or innate abilities but merely because she lacs the driving experience necessary for greatest

This is shown by tests of more than 2000 persons on vision, reaction

time, and other essential aklities for® the automobile driver, mate by Dr. A. R. Lauer, associate prciessor of psychology at Iowa State C sllege. Only in strength of grip | /as there any difference between fie sexes. Among the younger persols s tested, the men were somewhat beter than the women in judging distance.

Today’s Pattern

For your winter cruise, ma te this clever two-piece frock with tiie new nautical lines (No. 8885). The blouse

is double-breasted with a sailiir collar in a contrasting color, an i buttons and belt to match. The skirt has action pleats in front and| back. The whole frock has a pleasing | fresh and crisp look. Make it in lersey, linen, flannel, silk or cotton I \brics. Patterns come in sizes 14 to 20; 32 to 42 bust. Size 16 requires 27% yards of 54-inch fabric, with 2-3 yird of 35-inch contrasting material. To secure a PATTERN and § TEP-BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCTIONS, inclose 15 cents in con together with the above pattern number and your size, your namy¢ and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 2 ¢ W. Maryland St., Indianapolis. The WINTER PATTERN E DOK, with a complete selection ci late dress designs, now is ready. 1s 15 cents when purchased separtel:’. Or if you want to order it with the pattern above, send in just an idditional 10 cents.

Women were somewhat inferior in tests of performance of skills resembling auto driving, due to the lack of experience of those tested. Best drivers are those 22 years old, Dr. Lauer reported to the American Association for the Advancement of Science. This is true of both men and women. In complex mechanical skills, boys and girls are about equal up to the age of 15. After that the boys are superior, but this difference disappears again in later age.

Vision Drops After 40

Keeness of vision drcps off rather sharply for both sexes after the age of 40 to 45, and after 55 the loss is still greater. Ability to stand glare begins to lessen at the age of 20, and the drop is much sharper after 40.

In making these tests, Dr. Lauer transported his driving clinic about like a circus, making two-day stands in each town and inviting the public to come and be measured. “It was very strongly emphasized that the studies were experimental and that no definite statement could be made regarding a single driver—no more than a doctor could guarantee a certain life span by a physical examination,” Dr. Lauer said. “One can tell that the individual has certain characteristics which need treatment, or which should predispose the person to live to a ripe old age, but he cannot be assured that the person will live such a length of time.”

Ethiopia Will Be Lecture Theme

The Mayflower Chapter, International Travel Study Club, Inc. is to have a luncheon meeting at 12:30 p. m. Tuesday at Colonial tearoom. The hostesses are to be Mesdames James Butler, Mary Roberts and Lee Anderson. Mrs. John W. Thornburgh is to lecture on Ethiopia. She also is to conduct the initiation,

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"FRIDAY, JAN. 15, 1937 |

Urges Real Family Fete On Sundays

Cooking Expert Says to Make Dinner an Event for All

| By NEA Service

“Nothing’s too good for my fame ily.” \ Really mean it? Then try making the Sunday dinner table gathering the most pleasant event in the week. something different, give your foods a slightly more elegant dress, serve dessert in the living room with the coffee, just because it’s a rather nice thing to do and will make everyone aware of a somewhat party spirit in the house. Roast beef with Yorkshire pudeding, and an amazing raisin brown gravy sounds more difficult than it really is. There are two simple recipes for astounding results. Yorkshire Pudding Four cups flour, 3 cups milk, 7% teapsoon salt, 3 eggs. Sift flour and salt together, Moisten with enough extra milk to make stiff batter. Beat eggs until light and lemon color: and add to flour mixture. Then slowly add the 3 cups milk, a little at a time in order to prevent lumps. Into a hot baking pan place 2 tablespoons beef Pour in the Yorkshire pudding hatter. Bake in moderately hot oven (375 degrees F.) for onehalf hour. Cut in large pieces and serve at once, Standing spoils it. This is really a -hot bread, and therefore no other bread is needed with the meal. Yield: four to six servings. Raisin Gravy Three tablespoons hot beef fat, 2 tablespoons browned flour, 2 cups hot water or clear soup stock, 112 tablespoons raisins, 1°z tablespoons blanched almonds, chop sped fine, 1a lemon cut in thin slices, 3 cloves, 1-16 teaspoon cinnamon, 1 teaspoon horseradish. Into hot fat slowly stir the browned flour. “Stir in.the hot stock and while stirring constantly as it comes to boil, add the other ingredients. Reduce heat and simmer 10 minutes, stirring frequently. Orange Star Dessert ‘One package orange flavor gelatin dessert, 2 cup sugar, 1 cup boiling water, 1 cup milk, 12 cup .cream, whipped. - Dissolve quick-setting gelatin and sugar in boiling water. Cool until it begins to thicken. Add milk and fold in whipped cream. Pour into fancy mold and chill until firm. Garnish with this chilled mixture: 12 pound . marshmallows, 1 cup milk, i; teaspcon almond extract. Scald .milk, add marshmallows and stir thoroughly until dissolved. Add almond extract. Pour into shallow pan|and chill until firm. Cut into fancy shapes with cookie cutters and arrange about the molded dessert. It will serve four to six. A few sprays of bright winter greens around the edge of the dish are effective.

Handkerchief Phra Keeps Giver in Mi a

The newest idea for a hand ore chief is a short phrase like are you?” printed emphaticall all over it.

to the person, or it may be p roy sentimental such as “I love It’s a nice idea because the ca or will always think of you whenever she takes the handkerchief ou of

HEADACHES?

Headaches are one of the first | signs of weakening eyes. If you | are bothered with headaches, | j you may not need glasses, but! to be on the safe side you should have your eyes examined.

Dr. J. E.

Traction Terminal Bldg. Ground Floor Market & illinois Sts.

7A. M to 6 P. M.

The phrase should be appropriate her purse.

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LINCOLN 7600

A Initted frock whose smartly casual air exa tly suits the Winter cruise-vica-tion mood, belong- mn. ny climate — so wear it 70w under a coat! :

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Charming perfumes and colognes with real flowers-in-the-bottle . . .

what could be nicer to adorn jour

dressing table? MRS. ABEL'S Perfume Shop| is famous for things like these—cosmetics by Bioki . brushes and gadgets of all kinds for the well appointed make-up ‘able. Stop in tomorrow, your ire to find a dainty and delightful something with fragrance! The address—8 E. Market St.!

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your linens! Now {is the time to stock up on white goods . . . as there are bargains galore sale-ing around Indianapolis! January is the month of supreme values on sheets, towels, muslins, yard goods . . . so, I advise you to waste no time in anchoring some of these buys! Confidentially, I'll tell you why I am so anxious for you to hurry . . . prices on cotton goods are going sky high « « o just wait and see!

Dons

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Dance, silver-footed in low Greek sandals to complete the perfect evening ensemble!

Toxic poisons in the body, causing overweight or underweight, may be eliminated by Tonic Vapor Baths p and scientific massage, $150 ea. or 4 for $5; limited time. Ask Miss Norris. (423 Bd. of Trade Bldg., exclusively for ladies. RI. 0627.)

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Au revoir, my friends—I’ll leave you to go on" with my shopping around—see you Tuesday,

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