Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 27 November 1936 — Page 23
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: equests Advice on ith Boy Her Parents Have F orbidden Her to See
| Many Unknown Factors Are Involved in
the Problem It Is Impossible to Offer Wise Judgment, Jane Says.
anes dietan wit adewer your Jetiers in id obliaam Write today read your answer mn a few days.
parents refused to let me have dates before 1 was 16. pped off and went with a fellow before I was 16. My ents found out about it and now they do not like him. gcause of that. I am the last child unmarried and they i fault with every one I go with and are even jealous of my girl ds. I quit going with this fellow last June because of them. He d me to go with him but I refused. Then he made a big mistake ; by going with a married woman for two or three weeks, They never see or write to each other now and he realizes his mistake. We go to the same school and see each other quite a lot. He asked me for dates and X finally went with him unknown to my parents. We had such a good time and feel so much happier that I can't refuse any longer. Our old love has grown Stripes and more determined, but I can’t con-
pp ins with him without my Paremts finding
wants to explain everything fo them but
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w they won't listen. They say if he ever comes around the house they will kick him out.
marry after we finish school and he gets a good start in His father and brother drink a lot but he and the rest of
y do not. My I up with such
nts are very refined and they don’t want family. They say people would have nothing
ANXIOUS.
SWER—I¢ is very difficult for an outsider who doesn’t know either (the boy or his family to advise you wisely.
our parents may
activated by blind prejudice and it is
fio le that they are doing the boy a great injustice. Again they entirely right in their judgment, aware of certain signs of roskioss that are completely hidden from a girl of 16. Suppose that X encouraged you to defy them and then everything they said about
the boy turned out to be-true.
How’ would you feel then?
The trouble is that your parents are so wrong in their methods
that the best advice in tht world is lost in your resentment.
The
reasons they give you are not convincing. If the boy sneaked off to see you when dates were forbidden they have no one to thank but themselves. Boys and girls should be allowed to see each other at any age. If they were afraid to let you go out unchaperoned, then they
should have h
the young people at your home from time to time.
The boy's briel flurry with a. married woman means next to nothing. Most boys go in for intrigue at some time or other without being ruined by it. If he showed a preference for dishonor, that would be cause for worry. One departure is not. ; Many fine people come from bad families. The very fact that their families were a source of embarrassment to them impells them
to raise themselves above the family level. On the other hand, the
boy may have undesirable family traits inherent in his makeup which will pop out under the first strain to which he is subjected. Then your family would say, “I told you so.” ’
You see I don’t havh wise judgment. It would
enough information at hand to make a be silly of me to go against your parents
en I do not know Whether they are right or wrong. I only can
advise you to press them
for sound reasons and to keep your mind
‘open so that you can recognize truth when it is spoken. You may be ot as blind and prejudiced as they are, Try to detach yourself from
motion.
JANE JORDAN.
roblem and is to your own decisions led by reason instead
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ticed that these boys can not pass a contract of one, so why should I not let them bid a little, and perhaps later on have our side doubled at. a contract that could be made?” Reilly is full of tricks like that. When he meets the Eastern stars the forthcoming winter championship of the American Bridge League at the Stevens Hotel in Chicago, the week of Nov. 30, there will be a number of Slasscs in applied psychology, and it is my
prediction that Reilly will be the|
teacher.
Dunné-Bailey Ceremony Today
Times Special
MAGAZINE CLUB TO HEAR LECTURE
Guests are to attend a regular meeting of Club tomorrow with Mrs. Oscar B. Perine, hostess. The program is to include music arranged by Mrs. Henry Knudson, chairman, and a lecture by Mrs. Demarchus Brown. Mesdames Louis Bland, Frank Yarling, Alvin Jose, A. R. Tomlin and Miss Thelma Land are to assist Mrs. Perine,
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BY Manson BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor.
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Dr. J. Ambrose Dunkel is to officiate at the wedding of Miss Rhea B. Lewis and Blanchard H. Boyle, son of Mr. and Mrs. George Boyle, at 8 p. m. today at McKee Chapel, Tabernacle Presbyterian Church.
{The ceremony is to be read in a
GROUP IS TO HEAR LECTURE ON ART
Mrs. Katherine Pierce, art lecturer, is to talk on “Symphonies in Architecture” before the Indianapolis In-and-About Music Club’s meeting Dec. 5 at the Marott Hotel. J. Russell Paxton is to direct group
L.to review books and articles about, music. The club’s executive committee includes Claude E. Palmer, Muncie, Ball State Teachers College music department head, president; Paul Hamilton, Warren Central High Schooi, vice president; Mrs. Elizabeth Cochran, High School, secretary-treasurer; Ralph Ww. Wright, public school music director; Mr. Paxton, Technical, |c and Thelma a. Sines, Lebanon, music supervisor, board members.
singing, and Miss Lulu Kanagy is}
Rhea B. Lewis and B. H. Boyle |: Are to Exchange Vows Tonight
setting of greenery, chrysanthemums (and lighted tapers. Mrs. Donna Eberhard, organist, is to play while the ushers, Donald and John Boyle, the bridegroom’s brothers, seat the guests. Miss Laverne Wischmeier is to play the violin, The bride, to enter with her father, William D. Lewis, is to wear a white lace gown over satin, A long tulle veil and a bouquet are to complete the ene. semble. Miss Edna Mae Lewis, the bride’s sister, is to wear a peach brocaded taffeta, princess-style gown, with
puff sleeves and corded skirt as |" Her bouquet is to be of rust and gold pompons. Ted
bridesmaid. ‘Baker is to be best man.
Mrs. Boyle is to wear 8 cardinal
velvet gown and Mrs. Lewis, a lace gown in the same shade, Following the ceremony a.reception is to be held at the Columbia Club. The couple is to leave on a trip to Cincinnati. Later they are to return here to live. Out-of-town guests ‘are to. be Mrs. B. D. Simpkins, Elmira, N. ¥.; Mr. and Mrs. R. D. Dickinson, Lafayette, and Mrs. Alex Jordan, Chi-
cago. The bride attended Purdue University.
leisure manner,
AYBE the exquisite little wrist ; watch which you see on her right wrist is responsible for her perfect timing of these important fortes: It is a delightful little Swiss model of 14 carat white gold, 17 Jeweled, with a ladylike tube strap of beige leather, - The dial is half-1] indexed, which means that there are only four 15 minute indicators on its interesting open face. The helping hand, to the left, proves the wearer's discernment in jewelry co-ordination. H a n d wrought sterling silver squares link the square-cut turquoise stones of the bracelet. The handsome fturquoise matrix ring matches, both in classic setting ‘and sterling silver composition, Accomplices on the job are to be seen in the beautifully marked desk pieces of onyx. The pen base advances a new air tight pocket for the deep brown pen when it’s not in use. Gold and silver bands trim both the pen tainer and the onyx base in Bikini Fy Blending with the hand pn leather ‘| blotter pad of a warm rich brown,
hound stand’“in bronze relief on | their heavy onyx bases. Gifts like these, from local shops are certain to be welcome surprise packages on any Christmas tree.
CLUB WILL GATHER
| The Ward Belmont Club is to meet at 1:30 p. m. tomorrow at Mrs. J. B. Moriarty’s home, 5775
be assistant hostess.
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This is a fair example of the whole process of conditioning. ange of scene, or your change of mood, won't have one iota of effect on set behavior. And in a hundred ways, every little child is being unconsciously conditioned to habits ‘that will effect his whole future.
Habit Is All There's fo It This time it is not serious, as all babies are sloppy eaters and can be conditioned to better habits. But if the mother let it go, he would be a spoon-pounder and a
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cup-tipper (at heart) all his life.
‘Habit is all there is ‘to condition-
ing. It does away with mental walls that lead to- self-pity. The small child gradually can be conditioned to manners, to routine hours and Let this sink in, please. k. He should always Jeo re. sponsibility in some way, only to feed the dog, put away toys or up leaves. But make
: Fe doing tasks, out of his own orbit. This, I think, is fatal to all future human happiness, if neglected. Condition him to adapt-
ability. Se a (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)
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(No. 8844) make an ideal
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Etiquette .By PATRICIA
DOUBLE WEDDING—At double weddings, the two bridegrooms follow the clergyman and stand side by side, each with his best: man behind him. The bridegroom of the did sister should be nearer the aisle. The ushers go up the aisle together. Then come ‘the bridesmaids of the
‘older sister followed by her maid ‘of honor, who walks alone.
The older sister follows, leaning on her father’s arm. They are followed by the bridesmaids of the young sister, her maid of honor and last, the younger bride on the arm of a brother, uncle or near male relative.
Mrs. Martin H, Walpole and daughter Alice spent Thenkssine with Mrs. Walpole’s sister,
Frank Smith, Baltimore.
ives R ecipe . for Creamed Codfish Dish
It Revives Appetite After Eating Turkey, Writer Says.
By NEA Service
From the sumptuous menu of Thanksgiving to the salty plainness of a dish of codfish is a welcome
‘transition. After all both the
turkey and the vod are New Enge land traditions. And cod, salted 3nq § Tiaked, = appetite-reviving Jot 4 iggest day thé American year. Tealinie”
Creamed Codfish for Six
. One flaked codfish, 1% tablespoons butter in pan, 1 teae spoon chopped onion, 1% tablee spoons flour, 1% cups whole milk, 1 tablespoon chopped parsley, yolk of one egg. pepper, paprika, lemon juice. Flake the salt cod. Freshen by standing in lukewarm water for several hours depending on the saltiness of the pack. Drain. Melt butter in pan. Add chopped onion, Brown slightly, then stir in flour. Blend, then slowly add milk. Cook over boiling water until it begins to thicken. Then add chopped parse ley. Season with pepper and pae prika. Add the drained flaked fish, Heat through. The yolk of an egg, well beaten with a few drops of lemon juice, makes a richer dish, Add the egg a few minutes beforg removing from stove. Salmon and rice cakes is another good fish dish the day after the gala appearance of the turkey. Use either fresh or canned salmon.
Salmon and Rice Cakes for 6
One cup salmon, % teaspoort salt, 3% teaspoon pepper, 3 teae spoon paprika, 13% cups boiled rice, 1% cup cream sauce, 1 teaspoon chopped parsley, batter for dipping (1 egg mixed with 1 tablespoon water), fine bread crumbs. Flake the salmon. Combine witly all the other ingredients. Form into flat round cakes..- Dip in fine bread crumbs, then in batter, then in bread crumbs again. | -in deep fat until golden brown, Serve with egg sauce. For sauce, combine 1% cups thin cream sauce with 1 hard cooked egg, chopped, 1 teaspoon chopped parsley and seas soning. Serve very hot.
Smells
The smells of Friday's fish ale ways have distressed the home cook, But take hope—there’'s a new gadget designed to drive the smell out of fish today. It is a small machine which looks a lot like a radio, but it is actually a vaporizer. A small pad in a tray at the rear of the machine is saturated with a liquid. Then the switch is turned on and the liquid is vaporized and circue lated through the room. When the fish odors (or other kitchen odors) have been licked, the electricity is turned off. This gade get can be plugged into any socket, used in any room where fragrance and freshness are lacking. It s safe enough for the youngsters to .| operate, and does its little vaporize
"ling job in less than 10 minutes.
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