Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 20 November 1936 — Page 24

Ham Cheerful Sunday Meal

Ashamed of Self by Dignity I and Self-Confidence, Jane Says ndoors lL

lous Person Is One One Who Holds Himself i in Low Esteem, ‘Doubtful Lou’ Is 4 j Told by Miss Jordan.

Hot Jen i dy va ih oe eb by Bo see pur letters in this column.

EAR JANE JORDAN—I am a girl of 18 and considered ~ rather good looking. This summer I met a boy of 21, ant-after an acquaintance of two weeks we began going steady. Five weeks later a boy friend of his remarked at he had seen me out with some other fellows. Since 1 ly had run around quite a bit before we began to go steady, we #plit up without his giving me a chance to straighten out the affair. : 1 have seen him. ai least twice a Week sifite We patted. Then two weeks ago we again started going steady. He says he really does love me but just can't trust me completely after last summer. I love him and want fo win as much of his love, confidence and respect as I possibly can. I have written to you before and have found your advice very profitable. Won't you please help me again as to whether or not I should keep on going Steatty with this boy? DOUBTFUL LOU.

ANSWER~—~Your boy friend is behaving in a foolish and unreasonable manner. It is ip to you to make him ashamed of himself by your dignity, poise and self-confidence. You are letting him make you feel like a guilty wretch merely because ‘you have recognized the fact that the world is peopled with other boys beside himself, At 18 one of the things you have to find out is whether or not your feeling for this boy is strong enough to stand competition.. If you never see or talk to any one eise, how on earth will you know? The same applies to him. Does he run from all other. girls for Tony he’ll meet some one he prefers to you?

la: tablespoons melted butter; Tabits ns minced onion; 1 tables salt; % teaspoon. pepper: spoon ’ n pepper; 3 grated i

e Serv e immediately. Date, Cream Cheese Salad

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—Times Photo by Wheeler, 3

BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor i NCE upon a time, when mother was a little girl and Rip Van Winkle was as popular a character in fiction as he is nowadays, flannel petticoats, long, ribbed, stockings, and chest protectors were the order of the times. : Today, November’s children wear practically the same » weight clothes indoors that they wore last July . oo 2NaQ “much more sensible and chic! :

:-1f she had protested | some service: of him, | se 2-3 package pas packages cream a 2 tablepecans, and %

tes with the cheese which has moistened to a creamy consist with cream. Press a halved pecan on each date. Arrange the dates in a circle on a bed of lettuce:

of the Junior Prom | probably would wear just such (dn evening ‘ensemble as modeled by June Travis, Hollywood actress. "The gown, created of imported Ince~dusty pink threaded in an all-over ' design with rsilver—is

"Thins will'even things up, betas this young lagybones has fine stuff |" {in him. He may be doing the favors fa dozen years from now. this. not the point I have in mind now. |. = rather that* too ‘much Fao

The jealous person is one who holds himself in low esteem. He

Here is a young trio that proves

doesn’t believe in his own powers of attraction, and therefore cam jot

~ brook a rival. The boy who is sure of his own personal worth is un-

disturbed when he sees his girl friends with another boy. He knows - that if the girl is so shallow that her affections change with the wind that he ¢an get another and more desirable girl. Your boy friend is acting just like the baby who squalls if his mother picks up another child for a moment. Just imagine going into a sulk and refusing to use one’s reasons because you see some one you're fond of talking to somebody else! Let the young man learn that he can not keep love by building a fen¢e around it. Can't you show him how infantile his attitude is instead of Kuinbly trying to cater to his wobbly ego? - No doubt he enjoys keeping you on the arixious seat. To worry you is to prove his power over you. He ought not to need this uncomfortable proof of your affection.

JANE JORDAN.

ower Arranged | Today’s Pattern Tonight in Honor Te of Miss Search

‘Miss Anita Kehn, 3515 N.: Pena-sylvania-st, is to entertain with » bridge party and miscellaneous shower tonight in honor of Miss Mary Elizabeth Search, whose marriage to Robert Stone is to. take » Thanksgiving evening at’ St. s Episcopal: Church. : PE loa: ‘are to be carried out He the Kappa Kappa Gamma Sororcolors of light and dark blue. Polly Beatty, dressed as Cupid is to present gifts to Miss Search. . Guests are to include Mrs. Elsgorth Maxwell, Misses Dorothy Dun- , Helen Rogge, Mary Alice Kayy “Alice Porteous and Edith Marie yertree. Miss Delight Morrison was host$s at a shower and bridge party st night honoring Miss Search. Guests included Mrs. Oral Bridgord, Mrs. Fr A. Stuart Jr., and eS Stierwalt, Zerelda ck, Te Grant, Margaret pwis and Patricia Kingsbury.

Parents to Be Hosts at Dinner Prior to Dance

Mr. and Mrs. Howard R. Meeker d Mr. and Mrs. William. g Jr. are to give a d or friends of their Eliza~h Meeker, and Charlotte Flemg, tonight at the Propylaeum Club ore the Junior Assembly dance

the Marott Hotel. The guests are to be Elizabeth Best, Nancy Briggs, Catherine Cun-

ERE is an apron

for y Iy fi

cy Gacdrieh, Nancy Heath, Joan

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. Use fingham. percale, ngham, Polly Fifer, Barbara Fuller, | 0, 0 es swiss or lawn. In one

the smartness of modern judgment. “Wake up, Rip,” cries Mary Harrell (left) as she shakes the funny little character-puppet which is fo play the lead in “Rip Van Winkle,” the Junior League marionette show to be given Sunday at the John Herron Art Institute. Mary’s mother, Mrs. Samuel Runnels Harrell, knows just how the modern miss of 8 should be dressed to look like sugar and spice, n’eveglything nice! Her ‘clothes’ ‘choice, here, is a cotton shantung frock of & luscious watermelon shade that is good enough 5 eat,

ITH its trimming of fine Irish crochet lace on white linen collar and cuffs, it is wearable for affernoon parties and Sunday school alike. It is fetching and pretty with its short waisted littlegirl lines . . . yet sturdy and practical for primer-aged rompings. Billy Jungclaus, in his white linen, button-on suit with navy zollar and belt dressed up -a bit in honor of this “puppet” occasion. For school and hard play he wears the same comfortable type suit in navy linen and sometimes substitutes dark; flannel “trou” for wear with a lighter shade shirt. His mother, Mrs. William H. Jungclaus, believes that scuffling boys are more: at. ease - in dark

| shoes for they will take more pun-

ishment than white shoes like the,

{girls are wearing.

“Look, sister,” Billy ‘says ‘to ‘Barbara Jungclaus (right) as he turns | the puppet’s grinning face for her to,see. ; Her dress is sort of frothy and invariably means something special when she is allowed to wear it. It

| is made of white silk crepe, dotted

with’ miniature nosegays in dainty colorings and carries rows of sniock-| ing in a lazy daisy stitch. Puffed sleeves and a little round collar of white crepe with edging of Irish lace make it too sweet for anything. Warm and snug enough for any heated room . . . clothes like these are “overcoated” with wool fabric coats and leggings for outdoor winter wear.

3 MADE MEMBERS OF OMEGA NU-TA

Miss. Regene McGuire. and “Miss Elizabeth Foster are newly. initiated members of Gamma, Chapter, Omega Nu Tau Sorority, E = The new" rity members entertained with av Flgly show last night : taking part

Etiquette By PATRICIA

HE CHURCH WEDDING (Continued)—As the bride nears the chancel, she changes her’ bouquet from her right to her left arm, and the bridegroom steps forward a pace or two and draws her right hand within his left arm. They face the altar and the officiating clergyman. Her father, or the one who is to give her away, stands just back of the bride. When the minister asks, “Who giveth this woman to be mar-

ried to this man?” the father comes |

forward, takes his daughter’s hand, places it in that of the clergyman or the bridegroom and says, “I do.” He then leaves the chancel and goes to his pew.

Mr. and Mrs. C. Omar Taylor, | be Cincinnati, formerly of Indianapolis, are to arrive tomorrow for & visit with Mr. and Mrs. Forrest Bennett and Mr. and Mrs. Everett Saxton.

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rhe annual cariival spotted Bigma Theta Tau, nu

ursing scholar ship society, is to be held Monda;

Ir;chila

night at, Ball Residence, University |

Medical Center. ‘Bingo, fortune-telling, and amini-. ature night club are to be amon;

the entertainment features. = = “|eca

Proceeds are to be used to ald the

school library and in maintaining

a national fund for the furtherance o fCleniine research in the nursing el

Miss Caroline Henderson is ar. Mrs,

rangements chairman, a

H. Hawk is Alpha nr president.

TEACHER TO FETE ~ MOTHERS TODAY

Miss Vesta Cook is to entertain mothers of her kindergarten pupils at a tea’'at 3. p. m. today. Miss Emma Colbert of the Butler Uni-

: versity college of education, is to

speaker, and Pasquale Montand, harpist, is to entertain. White tapers and chrysanthemums: are to decorate a serving

‘DEVELOPS OWN SQUEEZE

-Today’s Contract Problem

South has the contract for six diamonds. He has lost the

first trick to the ace of spades, ||

‘and .apparently must lose a | club. However, if he plays the. | hand upon the assumption of the only distribution which will permit him to make the contract, it will work. out. What is ‘that Dlay?

All vul. Opener—4 A. Solution in next issue. 13 Solution to Previous Problem ‘BY W. E. WKENNEY American Bridge League Secretary UCH is written about squeeze

the game was Buplicate, and Ni and South pairs were after e highest possible score. At hearts, could be made by taking the

a finesse and ruffing one ‘spade

in dummy,

is ‘going to be dressing him ¥ 1 is far past the right age doesn’t allow him to take his bath’ when he. is ‘three, he may or may not be bathing himself at six.

Easy to Be Dependent

your small son or daughter were | i overnight, and quickly adjust them-

selves to the new order, it still must be remembered that there always is

a - certain percentage who * have |

formed such fixed habits of dependence that to hand them over to

themselves amounts to hysterics, It happens very often, indeed. One of | the children may set up a resistance |

to self help, despite the fact that he

was treated the same as his brother |.

and sister. Let go. the child’s tive king. Have him learn

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% Mrs, Gareth. : Hitchoook

- ‘Speax ! early to vg his own clothes, at- |

leaves, placing the dressing in the center. The lettuce must be crisp and cold. This being the season. for the néw crop of lusciotis dates, why not serve date and cream cheese

all thé way down the’ hip-length of fiattering sandwiches for your next afternoon tea party? For 12 sandwiches use

“white ‘ermine has a oI round collar, and | 1% package pasteurized dates, 1 1-1b,

| daughter, Joan, Chicago, are visit- | loaf bread (24 slices), % sup butter, ing Mrs. Hitchcock’s parents, Mr.|1 package cream cheese, 2 table. and Mrs. John L. Hawekotte. | spoons whole milk. :

: babel with a gracefully flar“Ing jakist and tiny Toy dvstaliie

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himself and come home without be-

ing hunted. Make him an incipient Thoreau, who, sans everything, took care of himself in the woods for Po, without ‘any man’s help."

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driven out before drawing trumps. At no trump, however, as no ruff was possible; it was necessary to

| resort to the squeeze. ‘The.

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Hig squeeze plays which are so much | b

! Hastey, =| Alice Marks, : Mina Dodd, Bobbie Wertz, Margaret Lee, Nerhersta Pierce Miller, Florence = Hagtdon, Blanche Shane, Bernice Cain,” Eve-

admired come almost automatically. | There are also many. situations, | however, where ‘declarer develops the squeeze situation himself, because he can see either that it is the most likely to succeed or that

of the sheerest cottons and trimmed |lyn Rimp, Leota Henry, Mildred he has no other resource at his dis-

with lace, this would make a nice pn, Mary Hise Lois Jean Mathieson, Emily ab. Joan Mick, Fayette Ann filler, Mary Lee Porter, Martha Ann Schaf, Patricia Wells, Peggy slow and Margaret Zapf. = Others are to be John BR endice, Berhinger, Guy Boyd, Charles punig, James Carter, John Dean, im Greenough, Harry Henson, Richard Hutchinson, James hinson, Frederick Jones; WilLancet, Robert Merrell, RobMeyer, ‘Walter Milliken, John Ralph Nessler, Charles Robert Scott, David [2

ra James | SHOWER HONORS | , and Howard, Wileox. A BRIDE-TO-BE fe = ‘Burke entertained | for Miss eh 8 pre Gillespie, Six.

[teen guests were entertained. Blue ii Ny

wear everyday, use a heavier cotton

terns are sized 34 to 48° Size 36 requires 11% yards of 35-inch material, Fie 8 yards of 1vinth binding. a PATTERN and

coin together with the above: pattern number and your size, your name and and mail to Indianapolis

and trim with braid edging. Pai-| KAPPA MOTHERS

SET LUNCHEON

Ka Gamma Mothers’

Xappa Kappa Club of Butler University enter- alternative play that tained with @ luncheon party today

Kasting and § castle. 2) WOMAN'S GROUP :

TO HEAR.DIALOGUE

Mrs. Donald Jameson and Mrs. | Guy Wainwright .are to

PFurgason and Mrs. Donald King, posal. Christmas present. For yourself, to ‘Chicago.

In today’s hand, played in the re= cent metropolitan championship tournament in New York, declarer made his contract because he had mastered the principles of the squeeze, and saw Blink there was ho

him his contract. Final contract of six no

would give

trump | {15 partly dictated by ‘the fact that |

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: One. or two gen ne lame blousés

Those who work and live in New. York speak so intimately - of Constance and Joan .Bennett and their favorite. hairdresser . . . of the cafe to which: Lawrence Tibbett and the musical sef all like . « » of Helen Hayes and

: . «« in silver, gold, steel, rose and blue. Combine these with a velvet skirt and you'll have one of the best of the winter's

don’t send flowers to the New York pier... . avoid confusion, ‘and be just a little more chie -

° Compacts, buckles and nov. || clties of the new flezwood are . | inscribed with your name or.