Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 19 November 1936 — Page 20
‘oung Wife About to Become other Asks Advice on Keeping Her Husband at Home at N ight
is Presence Can Not Be Demanded; J ane}
.Says; Counsels ‘F. B.! to Make Their Evenings Together Pleasant.
: Jane Jordan will study your problems for you and answer your questions in this column each day.
DEAR JANE JORDAN—I am a girl of 19 and have bel ; married six months. My husband is a traveling man
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* and I travel with him as we spend from six to eight weeks
~in each city. We both like night life and neither of us has
ever gone out alone. My hugband feels
Now I find I am about to become a
justified in spending two or
ry week playing poker with his friends while I sit strange city minding my health. I resent this and opinion as to whether I am Being unreasonable
F. B.
ANSWER—No. You are not being unreasongble. If your husband was a mature person with keen sense of justice, he would feel impelled to
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¢ prefers to’ do. ith him if you demand that he give up
You will get into serious
his pleasures for you. Soon he will feel the pinch of | self-sacrifice and begin to regard you and the
“© Jane Jordan gaining yo _ infirmities in an efIgrt to ma v stay in a home which . stay. home and rest | - gayety at night. Su "own apartment, and
After the baby is child on certain ev *~ not necessary for ve ~ woman who has a thing for you to let cheerfully, the chan fully at other times compromise. . Do. re
the necessity of layi
enings when you go out with y u to sit home every night of the world. ' Every shild must give up something.| It will be a wise 0 of your, husband at certain Ss are that he will stay with you more cheerIn marriage both parties must be willing to member that the demanding wife is not popular with her husband. A tactful, skillful woman wins ng down the law.
thild as the proverbial ball and-chain, You will have to us more, | subtle methods of ends. e him stay with you. A has the atmosphere of a hospital. _. well and cheerful if you take reasonable care of all ‘day you can stand a re ely some of these card parties can be held in your | surely some of them can make your evenings together pleasant enough in ot born, you can hire some one to sit with your
I advise you not to stress your No man likes to You can stay ourself, and if you nable amount of
renopnced if you er ways.
husband. It is
es. If you do so
her point without
JANE JORDAN.
SURPRISES
BIDDER
[PSYCHIC|
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_ Solution to Previous Problem.
BY WILLIAM E. M’KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary
= SW: MALOWAN of New York, one of the outstanding sfigures in tournament bridge, is ex- ¥ ected to be among the stars at the ational championship tournament of the American Bridge League in SChicago the week of Nov. 30. 8 | Usually his bidding is sound, but - $sometimes, when..he plays bridge a New York's: newest and most exSclusive. bridge club, the Regency Club, he can not resist the tempta-. ftion to put in a psychic.. sopening night of the: club] recently, She made one with*very satisfactory gsults * for himself and his parther.” In the play, Malowan, in the North with a comychic, had the pleasant surprise of making his doubled pon. stract, losing only lone diamond and ne heart. East and West could ave made four hearts without trouble, and with careful play even ve is possible. The bidding recalls the early
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days of contract, hon psychic ‘bids were popular. Many players were fooled by the bidding of opponents on cards:they:did not hold, and once, during the Culbertson-Lenz match, a cartoonist pictured a runner in frozen -north, arriving with the news that’ “Ossie Jagoby, the partner of Sidney Lenz, had made another psychi¢ and gone down 2000.”
Such’ bids rarely work nowadays. Players have become much too good in valuing their own cards. But when these bids do work, they leave a pleasant glow in the minds of the
haps is needed to offset the frequent disasters However, Malowan risked little
here, and his strategy paid ri
dividends. (Copyright, 1036, NBA Service, Inc.) A I rire
GUESTS LISTED
FOR CARD PARTY
ditional reservations for the Cheer Broadcasters’ card par ty which was held today at the Wm. H. Blo¢k auditorium, were made ' by 2 dames Albert Losche, enbach, Murray Auerbach, Carl
Re James Barry, W. H. Frosch, H. F. Hammersly, Wolf Sussman, C..
-W. Abraham, ‘H..P. 'Willwerth;’ ~Gor-
don ‘Mess, ‘George Kohistaedt, Casey, Wilk Ys George Bar-
Ww. H. H. Hodgson, M. G A -
Harry Reed, Thomas Swintz, Charles cus, Walter Geisel, Molly Bardsley
Installs Provident
Mrs. Claudia. Erther-is the newly
installed president of Auxiliary 10,
amin Harrison Camp, Sons of installa
successful partnership, which, per-4
Louis |:
Charles . Hogate, Russell e, |
HE glitter of the opera .
M ertz-Gillespie Wedding Service
to Be Saturday
Mr. and Mrs. John Gillespie are to entertain with a dinner for their daughter, Miss Catherine Gillespie, and Joseph Mertz following their marriage Saturday morning at Holy Cross Church.
Mrs, Leo Mayer, Edgewood, entertained recently with a shower ior
Miss Gillespie. Gifts were presented
to the bride-to-ne by Roberta Mayer and Henry Mertz Jr. : Guests included Mesdames Gillespie, Louis Mertz, Henry: Avels,
‘| Thomas Mayer, Christian Kunkel,
James McGinley, A. M. Egold, Margart Thorne, Theodore Schlaegel, Amelia Stofer, James McGinley, William © Sanders, - Henry Meyer, Mary Bohlinger, Laura Bohlinger, Ethel Schlaegel, Misses Gerérude Kunkel, Bertha Adams, Marian Adams and Marguerite’ Gillespie,
Club Divisions to Hear Lieber
© Col. Richard Lieber is to show a film on Mount Olumpus National
12. |i Monument, recently released by the
Federal government, at a joint meetling of the Woman’s Department Club garden and American Home | departments tomorrow at the clubhouse. His lecture subject is “What Is Happening - to Our Natural Resources. » : Miss Elizabeth Bertermann is to discuss flower arrangements. A tea is to follow.
Club Meetings
TOMORROW
Indianapolis Woman’s Club. 3 p. m. Propylaeuni. Guest day. A dialo, “Aggression and Transgression” by Mrs.. Donald Jameson and Mrs. Guy ‘A. Wainwright. Tea. The Culture Club. :-Blanche MecCoy, 974. ‘W.' Drive, Woodruff-pl, hostess. “Literature” ‘su ject. Mrs. G.- B. Taylor, review,| “Without Armor” by James Hilton, Twentieth Centurv' \ Clnb.: Mrs, Carrie H. Bassett, hostess. : 1 O'clock luncheon.
BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor . the sparkle of festive holiday otcasidhs « «+ the warmth ‘and color of the fashionable clubs, are only reflections of the beautifully gowned American woman. It’s a gay world, this new autumn of ’36! engraved invitations—two tickets for the third row—the tinkle ‘of fhe telephone—or even a telegram with an important request for an engage-
Little white cards, with
ment—all these things lead up to the one vital question of “What shall I wear?” On the brink of King Edward's coronation, genuine jewels take their
rightful place at the head of formal
fashion accessories. ” » ” DISTINCTIVE evening jewelry ensemble is worn here with a
silver lame gown and matching wrap collared in white fox. The
necklace is an elegant piece formed of ruby beads, with diamonds and carved rubies in handsome settings. The ring and bracelet watch are of the same pattern to correspond with the necklace. The. gloves are Molyneux raspberry suede to carry out the color accents of the jewels. Pearls long have been in favor, but in this generation they are having their first real fling. Tiny pearl bandeaux are worn by debutantes, and necklaces of. beautifully matched pearls make a bridal gift, or Christmas present that never will be out of fashion. .
| Sorority Groups :
Schedule Dance
Lambda . Alpha. Lambda, Gamma Phi Rho, Delta Sigma Kappa and Alpha and Beta chapters of Gamma Phi Alpha Sorority are to ‘sponsor a Thanksgiving dance Saturday at the Knights of Columbus ballroom. Van Miller's 3 orchestra is to provide music. The committee arranging the event includes: Miss Alice ‘Diets, rig TL Sy Misses ce 2 Pittsford, Rose- Pitistorg mary Seyfried, Mildred Brown and Mrs. Dorothy Walsh and Mrs, Lorraine Toney. :
PARTY ARRANGED FOR BRIDE-TO-BE Miss Mary Alice Purves, bride-to-be, is .to be honor guest at Mrs. A. L. Jenkins’ party tonight at her home. Mrs. Wendell Phillips is to assist the hostess. Guests are to be Mesdames D. Ww.
Little, V. B. Carn; George T. Purves Sr., Harriet Rucker; Misses Pauline
'Moehler and Helen Nichols.
cently. re a nc 20 Od
“| smart,” I told her.’ | take in things at a glance, without +l effort, they save the deeper recesses
.fmove in a while reading a newspaper, and get-
China Shower in Miss Davidson’s
Honor Arranged
Mrs, Joseph Coffin and Miss: Mary Margaret Hill are to be hostesses
tomorrow night for a china shower
in Miss Claribel ‘Davidson's honor. Miss Davidson ‘is to ‘be married’ to Duané Shute: Thanksgiving Day. A surprise shower was given last night by Miss Josette. Yelch for Miss Davidson. : Rose and blue
colors appointed the party. Mrs. H. L." Yelch assisted her daughter with hospitalities. =. -.- : Guests included Mesdames Roy Davidson, Louis Dawson, Thomas
Arnold, Gerald Murnan, Max Lewis
and Francis Baur ‘and Missés Ruth Voorhis and Norma Davidson, ‘Mrs. Vera Craig entertained Tuesday night with a silver shower for the bride-to-be. Guests were Mesdames Cy Gooding, Arthur Curry, Earl Wood, Roy Davidson, Frank Linkenfelder, Carl Meyers, Don Campbell, Leon Smythe, John Kintop, Frank Healy, Clarence Irish and Miss Norma Davidson.
Etiquette By PATRICIA
CHURCH WEDDING (Continued)—While the procession is marching up the aisle, the clergyman comes from the ves-: try and takes his stand in front
‘of the ‘altar (or behind it, accord‘ing. to. the denomination of the
church) immediately followed by the bridegroom with the best man on his right. The latter two stand at the right of the chancel steps, facing the bride as she ‘comes toward them. The bridegroom | draws off his right glove, but the best man keeps his gloves on. As they reach the chancel, each
pair of ushers and bridesmaids separates, one moving to the right,
the ‘other to the left. The maid or
I matron of honor steps to the left
of the bride, her position corre-
-| cause he
Major Factor
Centered on Play, Writer Says. BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON “How can I teach my child to remember?” ‘asked a mother re4s sfnart, but in a ‘day or
{of his mind completely. It makes it terribly hard for.him on reviews.
| What is the reason?”
“Very likely because he is so “When children
of their minds for something else.
people do things automatically, with the tops of their minds, while concentrating on some-
“Ithing else. I have known men fo
plan some in" business while playing bridge, or to plan the next marthon chess game
ting the news, too.” Fails to Concentrate
“Is that Why. SHY forgets? Bethinking of other things?” “He's probably thinking of a dozen other things, subconsciously, but just enough to keep his mind from registering a clear picture of what is before him. that he is a tense child, isn’t he?” “Oh, ' very. Always ‘busy at something. And he's a great Yead+ er, t00.” “If I were you, I should try a little: experiment. Make his life as simple as possible for a while, eliminate movies and cut. down outside reading. Of course he has to have exercise, but if he’s obsessed by any particular sport, bear down on that too, in short. give his ‘interests’ a rest. “When he is free of their driv-] ing, he may concentrate on school work, and absorb what he learns. I often wonder" how today’s chil--dren study at all, with the dis+ tractions they have.
Memory Tests Useful
“There is another way you can help him, too. He won't like - it, but I'll guarantee results. When he studies history. or geography or anything. to be recited orally, have him write it from memory. The important facts will be enough. It is really the secret of all written recitations in school. ‘What one writes, one fixes in the mind. I|. think it would be time well spent if you could help him a little.” “Then I shall, because I'd hate to go through another summer like this one, with him working off conditions all through the hot weather.” . : “I would simplify his life,” I cautioned, “and get him to bed early. Teach him to concentrate on ‘the thing he is doing at the moment. If his thoughts are miles away, of course he'll forget.” “This is the procedure I suggest to all mothers of “parrot” children, those youngsters who can rattle off a fine recitation and, next week, or even next day; forget all about it. It is a great asset to both old and young to be able to empty the mind completely before attacking the problem at hand. When I hear older people declare
in High Marks|
Young Minds Frequently 1 S
Then the new found knowledge! ‘| blows off like froth from an ‘ocean “wave. Many
I rather imagine |
‘| coin together with the above:pat-
LINGERIE set like No. 8676 makes the perfect Christmas. gift ‘for any woman ‘you know. It includes a lace brassiere which will fit perfectly, a straight slip. that will stay smooth under dresses and short panties, edged with lace. Use. satin, silk crepe or sheer batiste. Patterns are sized 14 to 20; 32 to 38 bust. Size 16 requires four and one~-quartér yards of 39-inch :material with three and three-quarter yards of lace for top of slip and the brassiere. Also two yards of ribbon for: shoulder straps, and two :and one-eighth yards of lace edging for ‘panties. To secure a PATTERN and STEP - BY -STEP SEWING 'INSTRUCTIONS, inclose 15 cents in
tern number and your size, your name and dress, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis’| Times, 214 W. Marvisna- st, Indianapolis.
Program Given
by Welfare Club | i "The Welfare Club presented its annual entertainment this afternoon at the Home for Aged Women. A 20-piece orchestra, with Edwin Brown conducting, provided music. William 8. Mitchell was guest conductor, and Ken Ellington, master of ceremonies. Mrs. William 8. Mitchell was. program chairman, assis Mesdames: J. Leroy Davidson, Nelle Greyer and Elmer W. Pi¢l. Mrs. Frank J. Haight was refreshment committee chairman,
know they are not. They have lost the power to concentrate by continually laying new facts on top of a clutter of worries or responsibilities.
| til the beans are tender and. -
for Economy if Budget Is Low
Three Recipes Given for Nutritious:and ‘Tasty Dishes.
By NEA Service For protein and thrift, flavor and consistency, consult the‘lowly lima bean—especially dried lima beans, Buy them packaged by the pound. They make: good house bets when the budget is to be guarded caree fully. Lima bean and tomato Gusimicla is a bountiful luncheon dish. To make enough to serve eight, use 2 cups dried lima beans, 1 large onion; 1 tablespoon: bacon drippings; 3 sprigs parsley; 1 cup canned tomatoes; salt and pepper to taste. Soak the beans over night. Slice (not chop) the onion and then fry it lightly in the bacon drippings. Add onions, drippings and parsley to the beans in a large saucepan. Turn in the canned tomatoes and eover with boiling water. Season. Simmer une race tically all the water is absor Grease a large casserole dish, Turn in the ‘cooked beans. - Remove the parsley. - Smooth: the fop; then dust with dry cracker crumbs. . Dust crumbs with % cup grated ‘Cheese, Sprinkle with paprika. ‘Plaéé ¥mder broiler until crumbs andl chébse have become -familiar enough to : form a tempting cover .for those beans and tomatoes.
Fresh Vegetable Casserole for Eight
"Lima beans and fresh vegetable casserole is another inexpensive, healthful dish that doesn’t remind you of medicine. For eight servings, use 2 cups beans; 1 large onion; 2 raw carrots; ¥% cup celery, chopped; and 3% cup canned tomatoes, Soak beans and cook until tender. Drain and. chop.. Chop the onion, carrot and celery and mix with the chopped : beans. Add tomatoes. Grease a baking dish, add seasoned vegetables evenly mixed. Moisten with bean stock. .Bake in moderate oven for 25 minutes. As the liquid cooks away, add ga little more. The finished dish should be moist, not wet. ‘ Cream of Lima Bean Soup for Four: Cream of lima bean soup makes a delicate luncheon dish. For four servings, use 1 cup cooked dry lima beans, % cup cream, 1 cup lima bean stock, 1 cup clear chicken or vel stock, 1 teaspoon minced onion, pare sley, ‘salt and pepper, and 1 tea spoon lemon juice. : Chop the cooked lima beans, Return to saucepan with bean stock
‘| and soup: Season with salt and pep-
per. Add 1 teaspoon minced onion and 1 sprig of parsley. Simmer 10 minutes, then strain through cole lander. Return strained soup to saucepan, add .¢ream and lemon juice. Bring to just below boiling point. Remove from fire. Serve in cups with a’ little ¢hopped parsiey on top ‘of each cup.
Judge Solon J, Carter and T. P, Nickell are guests at the Hotel New ‘Weston, New York. ;
SURE
CLEAR CHIFFON
Pure Silk HOSIERY
5 W c PERFECT
‘they are losing their memories, I
Memory is the child of attention. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc)
QUALITY 4“ NN. PEND quomsaspionnions
sponding with that of the best man | 0
at the bridegroom’s - right. - The flower . girls stand lose to the bride.
RECEPTION SUN DAY
TO REVEAL TROTH|
A reception announcing the engagement of Miss Rosemarie Kap-
lan, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. |
Charles Kaplan, to Sol Fogle, is to be held from 2 to 4 p. m. and 7 to 10 p. m. Sunday at the home of Mrs. Abraham Kollinger, A2l4 N.
Capitol-av.
SALE’
SWEATERS
“AND SRT
ALL oF
Swearens § |
/ LE : 3 ¥ 5 E x fe 4 : : * 2 : ¥ £0;
member your friends - folks before Nov. 26 by shopping ab Market-st.
You . . . who spend el of your waking hours in the shops and offices . . . should become acquainted with the DENISON SHOP . . its prompt call-for-and-deliver service
ing and shoe rebuilding. the corner of Ohio and Pennsyl-vania-sts we have one of the finest
in the country . .. and it’s equipped to serve you in the shortest possible time. Lustr-Lux cleanses every
Your clothes are called for and de~ livered when you want them! Try DENISON next time. _ Phone RI-
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and making no bones about it” ... so goes one of the clever greeting
py cards for Thanksgiving ’e
which I saw at L. F. Mc-
with more serious senfi‘ments for
oH ving 2 happiness are heputiful ig Re~
home
in dry cleaning, pressing, hat cleanHere at
and most complete shops of its kind -
t in a superior sort of way.
“Getting down to cold turkey ...
KELVEY'S today. Others. A
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With, ever .a thought for holidays . I1this day offer my m a 8c uline public one additional service. And it’s unique . . . at least in In-»> dianapolis, I do believe. Call. me at RI-5551 and register the date of anniversaries and birthdays you want to remember. As these days loom
Brown County dishes are dalightflly, the service tables covered with _ Py linens. California wood are ereusing in
: .too..
Go British and stock up on good brushes. Or better py exchange these luxuries at ¢ ristmas. Cleverly combined with companion articles . . , there is a gift brush for every member ot the family. oh un
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You and (your Surkey could Scarcely be ready to receive Thanks-
- giving