Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 18 November 1936 — Page 10

Oy Complains Because Girl Refuses Kiss

It Is Juvenile to Expect Them on First Date, Jane Declares.

Put your problems in a letter fo Jane whe will answer your questions in this column. Please comment on all problems which interest you.

PEAR JANE JORDAN— 5 What is your opinion of a girl who won't even let a fellow kiss her? I maintain that

. the kiss has lost most of its

significance. I have known the girl for several months, but lately had my first date with her. This . date stuck me plenty in comparison to what I make, We attended an athletic contest in the afternoon, then that evening we had dinner and took in a show. Besides this there was gasaline to buy. Don’t you think I earned it? DISAPPOINTED. ANSWER—This letter is going to bring down plenty of wrath on your

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head from the girls who read it. I|

should like to have as many of them as possible reply and I will print their letters. Perhaps they will help you more than I can to see the girls’ point of view. This is a sore subject, I can tell you. Girls bitterly resent the fact that boys expect them to pay for an evening’s entertainment with their kisses. Your mistake lies in supposing that emotion can be bought in exchange for theater tickets, food and gasoline. It is not strange that you should want to kiss your girl,—that is natural; but you can’t buy an emotional response from her, Girls are more discriminating than boys and kiss because a boy attracts them—not because they feel obliged to because money has been spent. Your girl may like your companionship fine without wanting to kiss on the very first evening she spends with you. Or she may want to kiss but is afraid.to do so. Her mother may have taught her very wisely not to fall into the arms of a boy the first time he makes love to her for fear he will become bored with the ease of his success. Remember she isn’t at all sure of your reactions to her, because so many boys insist upon yes while expecting no, and turn aside from easy acquiescence in disgust. It is a little juvenile of you to expect kisses on the first date. An older and wiser man has patience to let a friendship grow before he plunges into the intimacy of kissing. Your very attitude that the kiss has no significance is offensive to a sensitive, romantic girl. This is the last thing in the world she wants to believe. She wants to feel that there is something special about her that has made you choose her from -all others. A kiss divorced from genuine affection means less than nothing to a worth-while girl. Un= +less you can understand this you must be content with a more shallow type. Now let us hear from the girls themselves. Watch for their re-

plies. JANE JORDAN

Shower to Fete Miss Eckstein

Miss Marie V. Eckstein, whose marriage to Carl Beck is to take place Thanksgiving Day, is to be honor guest at a miscellaneous shower tonight with Miss Helen Eckstein and Mrs. L. J. Eckstein, hostesses. Decorations are to be carried out in the bridal colors, pink and white. Thirty guests are to attend. Miss Daisy Finnell entertained recently with a personal shower and bridge party for Miss; Eckstein. Guests, with the bride-to-be, included her mother, Mrs. E. L. Eckstein, Mrs. A. J. Shoen, Misses Lucille Davis, Mary McGuire, Virginia McIntire, Doris and Ednamae Schoen, Hester Lea Moncrief and Helen Schaefer.

TRAVEL STUDENTS HEAR LECTURE

“The Colonial Boston Chapter, International Travel Study Club, Inc. met for luncheon today at the Marott Hotel. Miss Anna Hasselman lectured on “The Heart of Province.” Hostesses included Mesdames Fred Farnum, Harry Brunell, James P. Hughes, Harry Hancock and A. W. Sutton.

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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor ; A HONING they are going . .. these modern Nimrods. : Nine out of ten men who are hunters wear the typical woods-

man’s garb of super-duck in khaki

color, like the suit pictured. Eager

to be on the trail, both man and dog are prepared to laugh at brambles,

thickets, rain, snow or “come what pered to outdoor roughing, and the hunter has adopted weather- and water-proof clothes that offer equal resistance to the elements. Beneath the hunting jacket is a snug, soft, water-proof suede leather shirt made like a cloth shirt. A breast pocket has a flap that buttons down, so that any valuables you may want to carry have absolute protection.

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VEST of duck, also water-proof, comes -next, made with the regulation number of pockets. (At least enough to carry 36 to 48 shells.) The hunting jacket is. roomy enough to allow for an extra sweater if ‘the thermometer is dropping. It is made up almost entirely of pockets—two for game, others for small gear, and an inside double pocket for pipe or cigarettes. The breeches lace up the sides. Of course, the boots are the kind that have the waterproofing ingredients tanned right into the skin rather than chemically applied to the outside. Heavy wool turn-over socks reach almost to the knees. For going afield there's a reversible side of flaming red to the duck cap. Ear flaps are added for cold weather protection. This is the type of hunting outfit recommended by local sports shops to be “duck soup” for all sportsmen who wish to go out prepared to bag their game under all conditions.

GILLIOM TO SPEAK AT G. O. P. SESSION

Arthur Gilliom,. attorney, is to speak at an Indianapolis Woman's Republican Club meeting at noon tomorrow in the Columbia Club. Mrs. Fred Sims, hostess chairman, is to be assisted by Mesdames Frank Stratton, Lawrence Wiles, Walter T. White, George Weigand, Albert Ward, J. W. Carr, L. G. Foley, O. R. Gurney, W. H. Hart, Fred Hobbs and Fred Taylor. Mrs. Clarence Martin and Mrs. Sims are reservations chairmen.

Theta Alumnae to Meet

Alpha Alumnae Club of Kappa Alpha Theta Sorority is to meet for a 1 o'clock luncheon Friday at Mrs. T. A. Moynahan’s home, 1465 N. Delaware-st. The committee is composed of Mesdames Harold Sutherlin, Foster Smith, Charles Farmer and Stanley Leicht.

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HE CHURCH WEDDING (continued)—The order ‘of - the wedding procession depends a great deal upon how many attendants take part. ; ; Usually, the ushers. enter first, in pairs, walking slowly, with considerable space between. Then follow the bridesmaids, also in pairs, After them the maid or : matron -of honor (in the case of both a matron and maid of honor, the bride designates which shall -walk first), then the flower girls and last, the bride on her father’s right arm or that of her nearest male relative. Boy pages may follow the bride or bear her train.- The bride always is last to enter, and is escorted by the one who is to give her away, or else she walks alone.

ALUMNAE TO FETE. . COLLEGE PRESIDENT

Dr. C. P. McClelland, MacMurray College president, and Mrs. McClelland are to be guests of the local Alumnae Club at a 1 o'clock lunch-

and Keeps Chilliest Hunter Warm and Dry

Party Tonight Arranged, for Mary A. Purves

At a bridal party tonight for Miss Mary Alice Purves, Mrs. Hanley Blackburn, hostess, is to be assisted by Mrs. E. Lee Winders ‘and Miss Dorothy Rogge. Eom Miss Purves’ marriage. to Russell Brandt Steinhour is to “take: place Nov. 28 in the First Baptist Church. Table decorations are to.include a centerpiece of rose and blue flowers and a miniature bride: and bridegroom. Favors ..are 'to. be. ‘dolls dressed as brides... Re The guests are to include Mes~ dames George T. Purves Sr.,: George T. Purves Jr., Starlin Ryan, Harold Andrews, Gerald Sage, Misses Josephine Davidson, Alma Nevil, Alice Evans, Ruth Shewmon, Ruby Cook, Charlene Winters, Lenora Fulk: and Dortha Thompson.

BRIDAL COUPLE TO RESIDE HERE

After Dec. 1 Mr. and ‘Mrs. Elmer Sherman Lynch are to be at home at 226° E. 12the-st.. Mrs. ‘Lynch, :before her marriage Saturday at the Brookside United Brethren Church, was Miss Anna Evelyn Mullin, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Levi Mullin, Brookville. Mr. Lynch’s -parents are Mr, and. Mrs.” William 'F.

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hill’s home, 3652 N. Delaware-st. Other guests are to be Mesdames

E. P. Endsley, M. B. Hunt and L. L. Cook, mothers of students.

Miss Hazel Mullin: was: her: sister’s attendant, and Mr. Lynch ‘was his son's best man. Ushers were John Mansfield. and George Dalton.

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Turkey ‘Hash Adds to Menu for Luncheon : Treat.

“The social life of the griddle cake

‘| flakes, 1 tablespoon melted butter.

Sift flour once, measure, add baking powder, salt and sugar. Sift again.

ortening. griddle. Breakfast is served. For a cold - weather luncheon when there are to be guests, serve cornmeal pancakes with southern

turkey hash. Nothing better. Cornmeal Pancakes for Eight One cup white cornmeal, 1 teaspoon salt, 1 teaspoon sugar, 1 cup boiling water, 1 egg, % cup milk, 2 tablespoons melted butter, % cup baking ‘powder. Sift together

the cornmeal, salt and sugar. Moisten with the boiling water. Cover and

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mixture as follows: Beat. 1 egg well, then add % cup milk. Beat, then add 2 tablespoons melted butter and beat again. Stir this beaten mixture into the cornmeal. ‘ Now sift together the flour

{and baking powder. Stir into the

other mixture. - Do not beat. Bake on oiled or

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. Southern. Turkey Hash

The southern turkey hash is

certainly in season. Use cold roast turkey. Measure 3 cups turkey cut in large cubes, free from skin and gristle. You need also 3 tablespoons butter; ‘2% tablespoons flour; 2% tablespoons finely chopped raw celery; 1% cups chicken broth; cup cream; 2-large slices onion; teaspoon mace, salt and pepper. Melt butter in large pan. Stir in flour. Slowly . stir in chicken broth and continue to stir until it begins to thicken. Add celery and onion, and season with salt and pepper. Simmer 10 minutes. Add mace, turkey. and cream. Heat thoroughly but do not cook any longer. Remove onion and add more cream and broth if needed. Serve this with the piping hot cornmeal cakes. Here's an ideal party luncheon dish—a perfect night-cap

your house after the theater. Party to Honor Mary E. Search, a Bride-to-Be

Assisted by her mother, Mrs. O. Fred Fitchey, and Mrs, James A.

Stuart Sr., Mrs. James A. Stuart Jr. is to be hostess at a kitchen shower and bridge party tonight at the Fitchey home, 337 Berkley-rd. The party. is to honor Miss Mary Elizabeth Search, whose engagement to Robert Stone has been announced. Green and white colors are to predominate in appointments. . ! ‘Guests with Miss Search and her sister, Mrs.’ Oral Bridgford are to be Mesdames Ben Stone, C. D. Hoyt Jr. and Fred Wuelfing, and Misses Zerelda Frick, Mary Stierwalt, Patricia Kingsbury, Marthabelle Bond, Isabel Garrison, Margaret' Schumacher, Margaret Lewis, Delight Morrison, Bernice Grant, Charlotte Bruce, Mary Elizabeth

Ikerd and Martha Jane Banister.

Ultra new for table centerpiece or Thanksgiving decorations . . . crepe paper turkey and horn of plenty done in rainbow colors. Make them yourself, if you like. # ” os

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Sorority Group to Arrange for ~ State Meeting

The state day program of Sigma Kappa Sorority, to be held Jan. 16 at Ayres, is to be discussed at a meeting of thé Indianapolis Alumnae Association tonight with Miss Maxine Wright, hostess, assisted by Mrs. William Ruten and Miss Nidrah Dunn. Miss Jewell Bartlow, chairman,

general is to outline arrange-

pointments. Mrs. Louis A. Weiland is to preside. * : ~ Mrs. Robert M. Lingle is to report on the Bloomington chapter and Mrs. Frank H. Willis, Panhellenic activities. ‘Members are to bring supplies for the American Settlement’s work with: children of primary age who attend the Wednesday night projects. Mrs. Robert Coleman, project chairman, is to name assistants for December activities. Bridge is to be played following the business program. :

Literary Club Meets Mrs. Carl Foltz talked on “The Music of the American Indian” and Mrs. Erriest W. Fullenwider on “The Singing Philanthropist” at a Mul-tum-in-Parvo Literary Club meeting yesterday at. Mrs. Frank E, Weimer’s home.

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Writer Discusses Varied List of Fiction and Non-Fiction Which, She Believes, Youngsters Will Enjoy.

nection with Children’s Book Week.

s is the last of three articles discussing juvenile reading matter in cone

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON ! I am not going to specify any actual age for the following books,

can take almost any of them, myself, and enjoy each thor-

oughly. At the same time, some can be read to the child of 6, and he

will want the story repeated.

But, of course, there is always the matter of special suitability. In this class, the first one to cheer for, in my estimation, is a brand new one

written to and for

boys, by Dr. C. Ward Compton. Name, “The

Boy's Book of Strength” (Whittlesey House). I do not hesitate to recome mend that it be put into every boy's hands. It tells of health, sportsman

‘ship and how to cultivate character and manliness. No, not fiction,

but to a boy it would be fascinating reading. And incidentally, parents

Mary C. Fisher to Be Feted at Shower Tonight

Miss Martha Fussner and Mrs. A. D. McCarrell are to give a miscellaneous shower tonight at the latter’s home in honor of Miss Mary C. Fisher, whose marriage to Anthony Fussner is to take place Thanksgiving Day. . The pridal colors, blue and ashes of roses, are to be used in decora-

tions. The guests with Miss Fisher, are

to include Mesdames Forest Davis, George Henry, Willard Ayres, Al Fisher, Hugh Fisher, John Ripberger, Fred Sewego, Howard Hunt, Louis Ferry, Carl Goepper, Michael Etter; Misses orence Condrey, Florence Etter, Clara Lampe, Irma Ferry, Louise Ferry and Agnes, Dolores and Mary Fussner. Miss Condrey entertained with a kitchen shower last night in honor of Miss Fisher. Gifts were presented by Maralee Whisenand.

LUNCHEON IS SET FOR TRAVEL GROUP

The Mount Vernon Chapter, International Travel-Study Club, Inc. is to hold a luncheon meeting tonmiorrow at the Colonial tearoom. The hostesses are to be Mesdames Lloyd Pottenger, James Wiison and Homer Minnick. Mrs. John Thornburg is to be the speaker.

F. B. I. Official Describes Work

John A. Dowd, agent in charge of the Federal Bureau of Investigation here, described the bureau’s work in fighting crime before the Woman’s Department Club community welfare department today. He illustrated the Washington headquarters’ work by citing cases investigated and solved by its experts. Clarence Grinstead, Indiana state police field agent, demonstrated fingerprinting processes described by Mr. Dowd. Luncheon guests included Miss Etta Jackson, Indiana Women’s Prison assistant superintendent; Mrs. Anna Pickard, Marion County Juvenile Detention Home superintendent; Dr. Kenosha Sessions, In-

‘diana Girls’ School superintendent,

and Dr, E. M. Dill, Indiana Boys’ School superintendent. Mrs. Charles H. Smith presided.

will be reading it, too. Now comes an entirely different “work of art.” It is new in this country, but I can not help wonders ing why it has not reached us soone er, from its native Australia. “The Magic Pudding,” by Norman Linde say (Farrar & Rinehart). Boys and girls, mothers and ers, and all the kin will be quoting the mad merry, jingles of the Society of Pudding Owners, Bunyip: Bluegum (a bear), Barnacle Bill (naturally a sailor) and Sam Sawnoff (a pene guin). It is going to last, I predict, as “Alice” has lasted. The pudding, “Albert,” is always being eaten, but never grows less. Boys and girls will love its lusty humor.

Adventure and Mystery

“Ship's Parrot” by Honore Morrow and William Swartman (William Morrow) is about David, the young Cornish boy, with a love and understanding of birds. Full of adventure and mystery and the reward of courage and kindness. Excellent. “Sachim Bird,” by Gertrude Robe inson (C. P. Dutton), is a beautifule ly written thriller for boys and girls, Based on authentic history, but woven into fabric of adventure and romance; Robin, the hero, and his Indian pal, Squando, hold the reade er breathless with escapes and feats of Plowess: : “Fresh and Briny. a Story o Water as Friend and Foo” by a ces Rogers and Alice Beard (Stokes) makes the experienced reader wonder why such a volume was not turned out years ago. As fascinating a revelation as one could find, and a mine of information. Watch the boys eat, or rather “drink” it up, Tangled Waters,” by Florence Crannell Means (Houghton), is the story of an Indian girl on a reser~ vation. “Listening,” by Kate Ser edy (Viking Press), is about “Gail” and her Uncle George's stories of a grand old house. “Mitty on Mr,

| Syrup’s Farm,” by Ruth bangdon

Holdberg (Doubleday), will interest girls. Also, “Saddle and Bridle” by Pjeril Hess - (Macmillan), ranch life and a girl's experience, I promiséd an extra list of books for the in-betweens, so must mention some favorites both old and new: “OI'’ Paul the Mighty Logger,” by Glen Rounds (Holiday); “Tales From a Finnish Tupa,” by James Bowman and Margery Bianco (Whitman); “Mary Poppins,” by P. L. Travers (Reynal); “Our Chile dren,” by Anatole France (Dodd Meade); “Blue Fairy Book,” by Ane drew Lang (Longman’s); “Tales From Grimm,” by Wanda Gag (Coward). The best way is to go, look and choose for one’s self. I have not even dented the list. (Copyright, 1936, NBA Service, Inc.)

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