Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 November 1936 — Page 6

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ells Girl Man She Loves Isn't Worthy of Her

“Attitude Likely Result

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Child, Jane Says.

Write a letter to Jane Jordan whe will help you with your answers in this colmun,

EAR JANE JORDAN-I am a young girl very | much in love with a married | man. What I wish to know |

is how can 1 convince him of | the sincerity of my actions. 1 met him through his wife and children. No matter what misery and heart- " aches come to me I consider that his children come first. When he was in his teens he and his wife married because a child was coming. Too late they found they were not suited to each Jane Jordan other, When Tom's wife is not angered, she is sane of the sweetest girls in the world, but her temper is aroused easily. Tom has a terrible temper but it

problems by Ber |

i= hardly ever aroused, only when | some one starts quarreling as his | wife often does. Then the vile words and tongue lashings are enough to make life unendurable for little children. He isn’t living with his wife now and has lost all the Jove he ever had for her although | she still loves him. To make matters worse I like her just as much as she likes me and maybe a little bit more, There is another girl older than myself who loves him, too, and yet another whom I know likes him. With me, it's love. With him, 1 don’t know. The thing that is driving me crazy is that 1 don't want him to think me cheap and common, There are 80 many girls who wouldn't care whether they loved him or not. 1 don't want him to think I'm that kind. Please don't think too harshly of me, for I repeat that his children come first with me even if I live | a secret love the rest of my life. | You see I was brought up in that | . kind of a home. ' The arguing never | stopped until I was 15, just three | years ago, and it will remain in my mind forever. Can you tell me what to do, for he's really got to know | how much I really love him. ONE OF MANY. ANSWER -1 do not think it makes one particle of difference to your young man whether your love | is all wool and a yard wide or just an imitation of the real thing. The day you wake up to his viewpoint you're going to be very badly hurt; | for I am sure he regards love as a | form of amusement and when it | ‘entails disagreeable responsibilities | and self-renunciation he is no| longer intrigued. If you succeed in convincing him that you were extremely serious and expected your secret attachement to Jast for life, I expect he would be more bored than complimented. He | . would see trouble ahead, and trouble is the last thing he wants, as his attitude toward his family re- | yveals, It is too bad that you can not estimate the voung man correctly from his record with women instead of being so blinded by your own feelings. You could have saved yourself an awful bump. 1 believe that in some way you | have this young couple confused with your own father and mother. ~~ I thought so when you referred to your father and mother and “life you led at home. I re- | membered how you said, earlier | in your letter that although you Side with the husband, you liked his wife, “just as much as she likes me and maybe a little bit | © more.” Thick it over. Haven't the two Situations some points of similarity? In your parents’ quarr¥ls didn’t the majority of your sympathy go to your father, while you still loved | | your mother “even more than she ~ Joved you"? | Of course, you are too young to know how frequently we carry over into adult love affairs the self-same attitudes we had toward our parents; yet it is true. Infantile wishes and habits of reaction are not easy to recognize and weed out after we are grown, because the new situations seem so different. I am sorry ~ I have nothing comforting to say to you, but I do not believe your ~ Jove affair will last, Let me know, JANE JORDAN,

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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS | Treasurer, running ior re-election; waist in “hug-me-tight” manner,

Times Fashion Editor HE world and his wife are meeting at the polls today. It takes all kinds of people to make up a voting public, but the smartly dressed individuals always stand out. It is William Henry Harrison (left), wh poses here in a voting booth. Her husband is Republican candidate for prosecuting attorney. Here is Mrs. Frank McKinney (right) leaving her home for the polls. -Mr. McKinney is County

Latest Tips on Men’s Fashions

flashes for Snap-brim

Collegiate fashion men from Yale Bowl:

| hats with sharp front crease rule { the stands.

Brown and gray biggest colors with sprinkling of dark green. A handful of extreme tyroleans in green with white cord band. and one lone fuzzy green-gray Natural colored camel hair coats dominate, with tweed-and-gabar-dine reversibles a close second. Suits run mostly to tweeds and cheviots, with plenty pattern, mostly glen plaids. Mixed suits also out in front Sport jackets noticably on plain side, both in color and cut, but glen plaid slacks cutnumber plain gray ones. Popularity of brown reverse calf shoes very evident, with a few ot those collegiate standbys. the twotoned saddle oxford and plain white elkskin, rubber soled. Plenty of pull-overs under suit jackets, and nearly every one crew-necked solid colored, mostly blue or canary. i Yale varsity and reserves bench-locse-hanging, beltless, gabardine coats with sheepswool lining and big upstanding collars of sheepswool or pile fabric, of egg-yolk oversquared with brilliant red worn over a blue shirt and navy tie with a wide yellow stripe.

PERFUME SHOW SET TOMORROW

Costumes, as interpreters of perfumes, are to be modeled at a style

show and tea at 3 p. m. tomorrow | { at the Wm. H. Block Co.

Dur®l Dugas. of Paris and New York, is to talk on the psychological effects of perfumes. A display, arranged by local florists, is on exhibit in Block's front windows.

"Board to Meet

a great occasion for Mr. |

One hotcha waistcoat |

on the Democratic ticket.

Both these candidates’ wives ap- |

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to give extra inner warmth. The jaunty hat which lends such

parently look for winning qualities an air of assurance is of match-

in clothes. ” zn 2

A ARS. HARRISON'S coat of coro-

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ing blue felt with a feather stream-

ling across the top of its crown. | Cream toned suede gloves, blue gab- | | ardine and calf shoes with calf bag |

nation blue is becoming 10 |of the same tone sum up the total one of her fair complexion. The coat | of her election day smartness.

is a soft nubby wool with flattering |

collar of dyed fox.

the most extreme weather. A loose

inner-lining of double

It brags of a| | brand new feature for protection in

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O defy November breezes, Mrs. McKinney bundles herself into

thickness | a fitch fur coat and a high Napo-

swings from the neckline in the|leonic hat of black Austrian soliel back and can be tied around the! with a perky veil and rhinestone

SET BY ‘WRONG’ DEFENSE

Today’s Contract Problem

South is playing the contract at seven hearts, which he can make by careful play. He must map out his entire program, however, before taking the second trick. Should he first draw trumps?

N. and S. vul. Opener—é K.

Solution in next issue. 27

Solution to Previous Problem BY WILLIAM E. M'’KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary LL bridge players appreciate the value of aces, kings and queens, when it come to a question of taking tricks; but I doubt | whether many of us can see in a nine spot, for instance, the card

that is going to permit us to defeat a game contract. There are many instances, however, in which nine spots have played important roles. In *‘oday’s hand North and South.

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on their road to the contract o: [three no trump, had bid spades, | diamonds and clubs. In explanation of the bidding, | North opened with a club to get, | i -possible, a one over one response from his partner. When South bid | diamonds and North bid spades, the | stage was set for a no trump con- | tract. | West, a thoughtful player, knew { that, with his fairly strong hand, ! his partner could have little or

Indianapolis Flower Mission board | nothing. He had no suit to estab-

' members are to meet for business

discussion at 10 a. m. Thursday at the Fletcher Trust Co.

lish, and on a hunch decided on opening the jack of spades. Declarer was mystified, but put

MEMO: For those speedy lunches — Shredded Wheat with sliced bananas keeps u clear eyed, alert for a | By afternoon!

“HERE'S WHAT I like about Shredded Wheat: when you pile into those nut-brown, man-sized biscuits, you're eating something!” Try Shredded Wheat tomorrow morning!

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vul. East Pass Pass Pass Pass

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South. West North Pass Pass 1 de 1¢ Pass 16 IN.T. Pass 2N.T. 3N.T. Pass Pass

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up the queen, which held. West, in the lead with a diamond, now played the spade king, and South made the mistake of winning the trick. When West got into the lead with his second diamond, he still had the spade two to lead to his partner, who made two tricks with his yarborough and the contract was beaten one trick, West win-

ning one club and two diamonds. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)

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—Times Photos by Cotterman.

pin. She wears under her coat a black cire swing tunic blouse. It is split modishly to the waistline in front and is worn over a sheath-like black crepe skirt. Rhinestone buttons close the neckline in front and add their salute to a bejeweled season. . No longer need women take their important ‘places among men dressed in strictly tailored tweeds. That day is over. This November strikes a softer mood for femininity and you can put it down in your memory that on election day, 1936, women glorified the: occasion “with pomp and ceremony.

Art Appreciation Course Is Set at Hanover College

Mrs. Leonidas F. Smith, Indiana Federation of Art Club’s president, has announced the seventh annual art appreciation short course, to be

conducted by the federation. The course is held in co-operation with the Woman’s Clubs and. Current Events Clubs of Madison, Hanover College and the Indiana University extension division. The course is to be held Nov. 10 at Hanover College and is open to all club members and. interested persons. Other officers with Mrs. Smith are Mrs. Alvin G. Jose, corresponding secretaary; Mrs. B. L. Cosler, Bloomington, membership secretary; Mrs. Ln C. Ponader, Valparaiso, state junior art clubs’ chairman; Mrs. J. M. Williams, state craft survey chairman, assisted by Mrs. H. B. Burnet, Dr. Mabel F. Bibler and Miss Nellie Fatout. A chairman is to be appointed for each county of the state and a questionnaire is to be sent to.the craft. workers by the Indiana extension division. - +

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Mirror-Caméra is such a

the girl:

Early Training Held Essential

to Personality

Charm Difficult to Learn

After Child Is Grown, Writer Declares.

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

LONDON, Nov. 3.—We hear much these days about teaching charm to young ladies. The idea has, no doubt, something to do with marriage, or, in plain words, how to your man. Good. But isn’t it a trifle late to cultivate a real personality after they are practically grown and ready for life? I think it is, because, unless affability and unselfishness, the secrets of an intriguing and likable nature, are taught early; the synthetic veneer is bound to show through. Otherwise the girl learning grace will be sure to forget her lines under stress or excitement. It is little girls, and little boys, who must be taught graciousness, if they are to be classed as true blues later on. Let me give you some rules, mother, for improving the innate courtesy of your small fry. They are very, simple. First of all, teach them to forget the pronoun “lI.” When they meet people, almost instantly they are at a disadvantage, because it is natural for older folk to talkto Johnny or Jean about Johnny lor Jean. The boy at once explains something about himself. So does : They get the habit of expecting others to talk to them about themselves. Instead, teach them to turn the conversation toward the other person. j Famine of Fauntleroyishness “Johnny, I hear that you are getting along famously in your class.” “Thank you, Mrs. Smith. I hope I am doing all right. How is Harry? I haven’t seen him for ages. Please ask him to come over, won't you? And Mother said you had been sick. Are you feeling better now?” Don’t think this sounds Fauntleroyish. We have too little of it. Anyhow, ‘just wait until Johnny is trying to wangle a job, some day, and the whole matter rests with Mr. Goop, who has met our Johnny twice. If Mr. Goop remembers the youth as a “rather likable chap.” John’s interest and personality (charm for short) isn’t going to be called sissy stuff. Oh, no. That will

‘| be something else again.

Next, have them skilled in small services. Our children, these days. nearly all have the ‘“gimme’s.” Teach them to be on the alert to do little courtesies for others. Even though it costs them some trouble. Advice on Sportsmanship Next, give them some good advice about the real sport, who seldom whines, seldom frowns and never squeals on any one. Complaint, either directly or indirectly,

is the enemy of charm. True, there

are times. But the constant sorehead, is never the thoroughbred. He couldn’t be charming, or she couldn’t, any more than the 35un could be the moon. . The secret of all charm, personality or whatever we choose to call this .gift of the gods, lies in forgetfulness of self, both in little things and important things. Selfrespect must stand, and the grov-

eller will be instantly detected, but |

consideration will interfere with

Today’s Pattern

MARTLY tailored, the pajamas nJ (No. 8793), are attractive enough for lounging around and comfortable for sleeping. The double-breast-ed design is of Hollywood inspiration. Use china silk, polka dot crepe or broadcloth. Patterns are sized 12 to 20 (30 to 38 bust). SiZe 14 requires 5% yards of 39-inch material plus ribbon and bias binding. To secure a PATTERN and STEP-RY-STEP SEWING ' INSTRUCTIONS, inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. Maryland-st, Indianapolis.

Catholic Women Start Campaign for New Members

Miss Elizab&th O’Hara, Indianapolis, state regent of the Catholic Daughters of America, is to lead the state campaign in an international movement to enroll 100,000 additional Catholic women and girls in the organization. The campaign started Nov 1 in the United States, Canada, Cuba, Puerto Rico and the Panama Canal Zone. Headquarters have been established in the national offices of the organization in New York. Miss Mary C. Duffy, Newark, N. J. is supreme regent. :

neither. All charm needs a certain amount of salt to savor it! How quickly we decide, “This young per- | son is assured, but not too assured.” | This, IT think, is the entire answer.

| Begin early and keep it up. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, inc.)

Irish Stew I Tempting Das for Men Fol

World-Famous Hotel vides Recipe for ‘Hodge Podge.’

By NEA Service The more soldiers in a land

evening. The boys like their shoulder and vegetables asser in this comforting manner, Not from an army canteen, he ever, but from a world-famous dining room comes this Te enough for four persons: Three pounds lamb from sho! and breast, cut into squares; 8 n dium potatoes, minced; 4.1 onions. minced; 2 bunch e minced; 12 small potatoes; a quet composed of a bay leaf, and a parsley stem, and 2 tabi spoons of - fresh green J chopped very fine. ; In a large saucepan, place Ia minced potatoes, onions; celery ana the bouquet, then add 1 quart cold water. Season with salt and peppsr and bring slowly to simmer; just & - simmer. Cook 40 minutes. BY. time the minced potatoes, and celery will have cooked to nothing, become invisible in stock. Now add the 12 small toes, which have been parbo minutes, and cook until they: done. Place in an attractive suitable serving dish and add chopped parsley just before. in 2

g. i J If your family seems.like an &i try - Hodge Podge for the sake peace. Put these surprising di ents in a large pot: 3 1bs. -ox-tails, 2 pigs feet cut in small pieces, 1 PIES - ear, and enough water to © Salt to taste. Simmer for'2 skimming when necessary. ‘add 1 small firm cabbage, quarters, 10 small onions, 2 scraped carrots and 2 large turnips, both cut as ‘small as ¢ Simmer another 2 hours. = the mess call, then serve up ‘this military stew. The war is over ee ——————————————

SHOWER TO HONOR MISS BURROUG

Miss Mary Burroughs. is to en tain with a miscellaneous si fomorrow evening at the Silver in honor of her sister, Miss | Romaine Burroughs, whose riage to John Charles Judkins take place Nov. 15. : HT Guests are to include Mesdames Horace Buttoughs, Qucar 2 ikins, Fayette Burroughs, Richar . horn, Onus Alford, Gus Wiedenhoft, Paul Junius, Lawrence Spanagel, John Hermsdorfer, John Ettinger, J, Benson Hanchett, Hubert 5

John Miller, Norval Stelhorn, Byron

Holdren, and Misses Lorraine Lase ley, Ann Abrams, Mildred War: Frieda Brimberry, Mildred ' A¥ = Lucy- Daily, Mildred Phillips, Sara Pure Silk HOSIERY.

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Dash across country, if you must . . . but just be sure you get one of these dashing “Cross Country” hats by Darby. If you know your Darby fine felts, you'll trot ‘post - haste to THE HAT BOX, = Main floor at BLOCK'S. Darbys - are exclusive with BLOCK'S . . . In fact theyre exclusive for as.long as you wear them. So well styled, so beautifully soft, and with interesting detail. Note the flattering crown of the “Cross Country.” and the wide brim with its becoming swing. Match this value, if you can . .. just $2.95. And you will soon establish the habit of stopping by The Hat Box each time you visit BLOCK’S Main fidor. To the left of the elevators . . . to the right of the Riley Room. It's easy to pick the right hat from among the picked models in this hat bar!

I saw the most amazing clock. Its face is blue and o replica of the firmament . . . and its dial is represented by

| stars and planets!

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The beginning of a new month . + + 8 new president . . . for new years ahead . . . and the start of a long friendship with a delightful new brand of cigarettes. You knew what was in my mind, didn’t you? The election of ROYALE (mint-

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