Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 27 October 1936 — Page 8

FBoy Ii in Love Is No Reason for His Forsaking Other Girls

Wise Young Women Pretend Tgnorance of [

Friends Going Out With Others, Jane Explains.

Put your troubles in a letter to Jane Jordan whe will answer your questions in this column.

DEAR JANE JORDAN-—Five months ago I met a boy 21 and fell for him like a ton of bricks. I believed everything he said and never dreamed he would ever let

me down. He gave me a ring and we went steady all summer. The other week-end I was sick and couldn't go anywhere. My

brother saw him with another girl

When I asked him about it he

said it was a lie but I know it was the truth for I have seen him with

her myself. I

told him that everything he ever

told me was a lie and I was right.

He wanted again,

want to go steady. each other up.

me to forgive him and. go steady

I said I still wanted to see him but didn’t

We made a date and stood I wasn’t home and he didn’t

come. He sent his sister out to tell me he was sick which was just another lie. Yesterday he

sent his sister

out to get the ring. He said he

couldn’t pay for it and wanted to let it go back. I happen to know the ring is paid for. I told her to tell him {o come and get it.

Jane Jordan

likes me. sleep, I can’t eat. I've lost many

me or the other girl.

Somehow I still like him and he says he still I can’t get him off my mind. I can’t

nights’ sleep wondering if he likes

If I don’t really care for him why must I be

tormented like this? Can you help me figure this mess out? DISGUSTED, TORMENTED AND BLUE.

ANSWER—If you had been very smart you would never-have mentioned the fact that either you or your brother saw the young man

with anotiier girl. wouldn't have lied.

Evidently he didn’t want you to know it or he If he had wanted the other girl instead of you,

again he wouldn't have lied. The chances are he simply wanted some one to while away the time when you weren 't available, and if you had pretended ignorance, it all would. have blown over. That's the way the

wise girls act.

Either they pretend not to know or pretend not to

care, at least until they have time to find out how serious the new

affair is.

Most boys do not like girls who are {oo possessive. Because a boy is in love with one girl is no reason why he can net enjoy the pres-

ence of another girl occasionally.

Of course, what is sauce for the

gander is sauce for the goose. No doubt you, too, enjoy another bhoy’s companionship occasionally. If your attachment is not strong enough to stand the charms of an outsider, what business have you to get

married? Of course,

if you think tHe boy is incapable of being faithful as

a husband, you'd better give him up now and save yourself years of misery. All I say is that an occasional date with some one else is

nothing to raise such a fuss about.

Sentimental literature and the

movies foster the idea that a couple in love can be all and everything

to each other, but it is not true.

If an individual is so wishy washy

that he can't see somebody else once in a while without endangering his relationship with the first person in his affection, he is better off

to remain unmarried.

The real trouble with you two is simply that you are too young for a serious relationship. You act like kids instead of adults.

JANE JORDAN.

A. A. U. W. Research Associate to Address Y. W. Y.W.C.A. ais

Dr. Esther :Caukin Brunauer,] Washington, associate in interna- | tional research, American Associa- | tion of University Women, is to address a conference on the Cause and Cure of War to be held Satur- . day at the Y. W. C. A. State chairmen of international relations and peace committees of leading women’s organizations in Indiana serve on an arrangements committee for the conference. The business session is to open at 10 a. mi. with a seminar for leaders, state and local chairmen of peace and international relations committees and state presidents of the participating organizations. Dr. Brunauer is to sp2ak at 2 at an open meeting. Miss Mary C. Kennedy, Lafayette, is to preside and introduce the “speaker. Miss Kennedy is state chairman on international relations for the Indiana branch, A. A. U. W. Mrs. Leonard A. Smith, Indianapolis, state chairman on government and foreign policy, Indiana League of Women Voters, is program committee , assisted by Mrs. . Louis Wolf and Mrs. M. P. Crabill, both of Indianapolis. Mrs. Wolf is vice chairman of the international relations committee of the Indiana | Federation of Clubs and Mrs. M. P. Crabill, Indiana member of the national public affairs committee of the Y. W. C. A.

Prof. Amy Bloye of Purdue University, state chairman for marathon round tables, is to be in charge of registrations. Miss Ruth S. Milligan, Indianapolis Y. W. C. A. educational secretary. is working with the Y. W. C. A. public affairs committee on arrangements and hostesses. Mrs. Calvin R. Hamilton reviewed “Gone With the Winds,” by Margaret Mitchell, at the contem-

porary literary group meeting of the

A. A. UW. EHS HGPrOGH, gt the home of the chairman, ne A. Shonle, 5858 Sunset-la. A discussion of the novel’s technique followed. A committee selects the books to be reviewed at the meetings, and a circulating library is mgintained by members’ confributions. Non-mem-bers are eligible to attend meetings.

HONOR BRIDE-TO-BE WITH MASQUERADE

Members of Gamma Chapter, Omega Nu Tau Sorority, are to mas-

querade for the party to be given tonight by Mrs. Charles Rimp for a member, Miss 'Nehersta Pierce, who is to be married to James A. Miller, Columbus, O., on Thursday. The hostess is to be assisted by Misses Bermice Cain, Margaret Lee and Margaret Oyler. Miscellaneous gifts are to be presented to the bride-to-be.

TEA IN HONOR OF BRIDE-TO-BE

Mrs. William F. Nixon's bridge-tea at Highland Golf and Country Club today is in honor of Miss Agnes Davis, who is to be married to Dr. Donald E. Wood on Nov. 3. Mrs. Nixon's guests are to be Mrs. Frank Davis, Miss Davis’ mother; Miss Mary Eleanor Davis, her sister; Mesdames Arthur G. Loftin, Burchard Carr, Marlow Manion, Edward Passow and George Ros Jr. .

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TEDDING INVITATIONS . (Continued) — An invitation

‘lows: Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

“| request the pleasure of your company

at ‘the marriage of their daughter Margaret Amy. a to. Mr. Frederick Jones : a on, : Tuesday . afternoon,” June: the . -tenth.at four o’elock: Twenty-two. West End Avenue

For a large. church wedding. where

‘| tickets “of admission are ‘necessary,

an admission card, properly. . en‘graved,. about: one -and one-eighth ‘by ‘three and one-fourth “inches, is enclosed. It reads as follows: PLEASE PRESENT THIS: CARD "At St." Thomas Church * on: Tuesday, the tenth. of, June.

M emery Club Meets

Mr. and Mrs. Frank ‘Hulsopple ‘recently entertained Pleasant Memory. Club members. They were assisted by. Mesdames Fred Barber, ‘Hardis Smith," Charles: Sowle - and

Alva Gilley, raha

: Nedeséary for Youth, : Writer Believes.

3 : ARE BY ouIvE BoBERTS BARTON "LONDON, Oct. 27.—Here is some-

“up my alley.” It concerns the

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magisbate to the parents of a 17-year-old boy who had been taken up (British for “arrested”) for stealing from his employer. It appears that the youth gave

enough for carfare and lunches, with a sixp how and then for a

te Juvenile Court Magistrate said the boy had a right to some of

Independence Too Early

mother of a 16-year-old girl was told that a child that age had a right to live her own life. Well it all depends on the girl and circumstances. Snap judgment is worthless and I have no right to dissent without knowing the facts. But broadly speaking, 16°seems a year or two ahead of time for me. True, the reins must be loosened and the 16yearer given her head much of the

liberation has been supplemented by good sound training for independence, I should hesitate to say that the girl of this age is ready to do as she nicely pleases. Maybe so, but more likely maybe not. And T notice this case, too, that I think will interest you. A school-attendance officer complained that an 8-year-old boy had only been to school “14 out of 42 attendances.” He wouldn't go to school without being paid a halfpenny. by his mother. © No halfpenny, no go. When made to go without his bribe he screamed and kicked. Now ‘here is the advice of the court: “Reward him in some other

way.” Advises: Compromise

Think that over, please. “Re-

| ward him in some .other way.”

Not, “Make him do without a reward, and take him by the ear and haul him off.” The court advised the mother to give him something to make -him willing to trot right along. Compromise, in other words. It is the first time I have ever heard the idea openly stated by authority without camouflage. It sounds very human. You see, there is a certain permissiveness behind it; once a child is conditioned. to certain things, like bribes or whatnot, you can’t jerk: him up suddenly without

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RADIO SPEAKER LUNCHEON GUEST

Miss Vivian Kellems, New York, is to be honored dt a luncheon at the Columbia Club by the Independent Coalition of American Women at 12 p. m. tomorrow, preceding her broadcast over WFBM from 12:45 to 1 p. m. Miss Kellem’s broadcast subject is to be “Why President Roosevelt Wants Government Control of Public Utilities.”

Miss Kellems is the only woman manufacturer of products used by the electrical industry, according to the coalition secretary, Mrs. J. William Wright.

Co C Jlven to F amily Meals by Cranberries

Many Vitamins Provided by Tart Fruit on. Market Now.

By NEA Service One of the best cranberry seasons in years is upon us. With meats, in pudding and pies, and the juice for cocktails that start dinner off with a tang, cranberries bring in bright color and i many vitamins or the family meals. Spiced, they do wonders to a roast. Try this method: clean and pick over 1 quart cranberries. Pour over them % cup vinegar and % cup water, Add 1% cups brown sugar, 1 stick cinnamon and 3 whole cloves, Boil 20 minutes, mash ing as they boil. Pound through a sieve and serve thoroughly chilled,

Cranberry Tarts

In tarts, little globes of rich color delight most hungry males. Line tart or patty pans with pastry. Into each, place a thick layer of carefully cleaned and picked over cranberries, Sweeten with light brown. sugar Next cover with a layer of seeded raisins, sprinkled sparingly with a little grated grapefruit rind. Over this sprinkle. coarsely chopped ‘nut meats. Then cover with pastry, prick, and bake in moderate oven about 30 minutes. Hot, with a blob of cold whipped cream on top, they are prize winners.

Steamed Cranberries

Cranberries, steamed in a pude ding, make a fine autumnal desert, Cream together 12 cup butter and % cup sugar. Beat 2 eggs, then stir into the butter mixture. Add %4 teaspoon nutmeg. Measure 2% cups. flour and 2% teaspons baking powder. Sift together into the butter mixture, a little at a time, alternating with 1-3 cup milk. Turn in 1 cup cleaned and picked over cranberries. Pour into greased steaming mold or ordinary lard can, Cover securely. Steam for three hours, Serve with a light foamy sauce.

MAGAZINE WRITER TO SPEAK TODAY

Mrs. Forest Huttenlocher, Better Homes and Gardens, staff member, is to talk on flower arrangements

and table settings at 2:30 p. m. to~

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