Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 October 1936 — Page 25

Advises Her to Play |

Second Fiddle to Stepmother.

Put your problems in a letter to Jane Jordan whe will answer your questions in this eolomn.

PEAR JANE JORDAN-—I

am a girl 15 years old. For a year I have lived with my father and stepmother. I

like my - stepmother very mych, LL know, and I am sure they could get along well iff it were not for me. I have a chance to leave . home, run away, I guess you would say. 1 would not be on my lonesome, but would be with some people I know. They will help me get a job and keep me with them until I am older. I am in high school, fairly large for my age, and jean pass for 17 or 18. I _don’t go with the boys, don’t like wild girls.

I know how to’ take care of myself. As you see, I love my father very | much and don’t want to spoil his | “happiness. He can't afford to board | me anywhere. I know if I stay my father and stepmother will not get along. What should I do? WORRIED. NSWER-I can not believe that you do not wish to spoil your father's happiness, for in running away you are taking the ome sure and certain way of doing se. You have two attitudes toward your father and stepmother. One is love and the other jealousy. In the top part of your mind you admit only love. The jealousy is underneath and very thinly veiled. You say that you wish to remove your presence so that your. father and stepmother can gét al 2g together. This is not the | re..i reason you wish to go away. Your real reason is revenge, but | you do not wish to admit it. | The process of giving good reasons | to conceal bad ones is well known to psychologists. It is called rationalization. It is a face-saving device Which we all empioy at -times to de those selfish, ignoble motives which we are ashamed to admit. deceive one's self is one of the : oe things in the world to do. = Come .now. Admit the truth. In e shadow, haven’ ty

realm of the mind, | Sualized your father’s ‘distress “grief at your departre... and enjoyed it? Haven't you imagined your stepmother’s feeling of guilt and remorse? Have not you said ta yourself, “I'l bet she'll be sorry when I am gone?” ‘And you're tight. “She will be sorry. ‘Your action will put her in the wrong with your father and spoil their relationship. He'll blame her for your unhappiness, no matter ‘how hard he tries not to, and this is exactly what you want, "No, my young friend, youre doing nothing admirable in running away from heme, Your plan is no proof of fove for your ~ father, Quite the reverse, If it was a wise conclusion on your ~ part you wouldn't hesitate 16.. discuss it with your parents. And these people who aid and abet you in delivering a body ~ blow to these whe love yeu. What kind of people are they? Do you think you're going to be any happier in their company? ~ You will not be, I assure you. - Btay at home and face the fact

| tional hair sculptor, | built-up styles now in vogue reflect

Politics Sets Milady’s Hair Dress Styles;

hy Who would accuse political condi- | tions of affecting. women’s hair

| | sty les?

According to M. Louis, internathe extreme

sensationalism and unrest. : “The chaotic state of France and | the political situation in the United cated coiffure fashions of the hour,” he said today. M. Louis, who is to preside at a! hair style show at 2:30" p. m. tomorrow: at L. S. Ayres & Co., point- | ed out that there have been continual ups and downs in feminine hairdress. Towering effects in pompadour ' stylés, trends, «were paramount revolution, he said. Rolls and fluffs | were piled high on the head in the!

early 1900's. For a Short time after | {the World War, coiffures became | more serene and.-nasural. But, since 1920, according to 1M. Louis, hair stylists have been’ building ecoiffures higher and higher -until: now we have peaks and rolls massed to extreme heights, | “When conditions becofiie nor- | ‘mal, there' will be more tendency | toward simplicity,” M. Louis sald.

New Style Created

To meet this prophecy, he has created & desigh, ithe “Cascade,” which follows the natural curves of

| the head. The front locks of hair

| are drawn forward to the forehead |

line and end with soft curls, reminiscent of bangs. Sculptured curls, drawn back at the sides, offer a well-groomed effect. (By M. B. W.) |

"Ithat you can not be the center of

your father’s attention. Admit that your parents have feelings which are as important as yours. Be content to play second fiddle in your father’s life. This is as it should be. When yott are older and find Stay of your o%8, 11 will be right and proper foriyou to play first fiddle in his life, but not before. JANE JORDAN.

similar "to pr eseht among | | cgurt ladies preceding the French |

| BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS

—Times Photo by Wheeler.

Timies Fashion Editor

| {RAND SLAMS of fashion which

| ing are evidenced wherever bridge players gather together.

make afternoon parties more excitDark-

| toned, ace-high frocks like these shown above are typical of the bordered | beaded and jeweled styles seen at the Sunnyside Guild card party today

to be seen tomorrow night at the Hillcrest dinner-bridge . .

..and

to be worn at your own special afternoon get-togethers at the bridge

| table.

| If the cards seem to be stacked against you when you consider the committee chairman, is accepting . winning tricks in your present wardrobe, take a ti ‘ bids given above for ace-high day-| ——————

SUIT: HIDDEN IN . “INT”

time clothes. This bridge-foursome may follow the ,game but there is no question as: to the suitability of their party | costumes, There is plenty of above- | the-table interest in each of these afternoon gowns. Mrs. Arthur Loftin

(left) used °

| States have influenced the compli- | finesse in the choice of this rough

{ brown crepe Eisenburg frock, with |its abbreviated sleeves and brooch ' | of turquoise and semi-precious | | stones. The skirt swings with a [lilt in the back, yand the blouse | Pipings of Edwardian blue crepe give it a trick finish. Bruck Weiss | inspired the stitched felt Robin

Hood type hat with its single ‘orna- °

pent of metal, high in front. # o »

ed) is well fortified to put her { mind on the game for she is so cor- { rectly and comfortably dressed that {the matter of glgthes needs. not

enter her consciousness. Her “diressy

is of Black crepe jet he {tail trimmings adorfing tRetblo | There may be trouble‘ahead for her

| opponents, if they stop to consider |-

the danger red symbol which flashes on her peaked hat. Facing the game squarely as- ‘to. | shoulder, Miss Vera Hespel, (thifd | from left) shows suit strength ina | {two-piece sheer wool costume: with | blouse of plack satin and elaborate trimmings of "biack soutache braid outlining the hip-length jacket. The jeweled brooch with emerald touches is a signal of smartness and is complemented by the gold quill which has the sky as its limit. ; Mrs. Edwin 8. O'Neill (right) cuts high card, which is appropriately a | king to correspond with the sash of King Edward blue on a. princely dress of black silk crepe. A stand-up collar, finished with a huge sparks | ling brooch and black felt hat are | tricks that will win favor in any | witty game this season.

“asking bid” in their contract |

RS. FOREST HINDSLEY (seat-

FILM STAR MAKES OWN: MAYONNAISE

fish or egg salad, she uses devilled mayonnaise and makes it of a teaspoon of prepared mustard, a

green pepper minced and a cup of regular mayonnaise. She combines these Ingredients and mixes them well.

When Ginger Rogers serves any |

minced pimento, a tablespoon of |.

ip Irom the: informing ! reservations.

EARLHAM CLUB

LUNCHEON SET|

Indianapolis Earlham Woman's Club 1s tg have a 1 o'clock luncheon Wednesday at the Propylaeum. Club. Mrs. William R. Evans, social

Today’s Contract Problem

North and South are using the “TNT’ system, with no

bid. When ‘South opens with ‘one no trump, should a game contract be reached? MNJIB6S vQs3 A442 MJ1032

N Ww Bf S Dealer AAQ YK1087 ¢KQ176 . *oK9T7 Ur i Noné“yulnerabile. .* | Solution. in. next. issue. 16

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This is the third of a series of six

articles explaining the principles of thé “TNT” Bridge System. This invention of Edgar F. Tierney, of Westfield, Mass, is based upon an opening ne trump bd,

- forcing for one round..

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- Solution to Previous Problem

BY WILLIAM E. M’KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary

HERE is one trouble with some very g bidding at the bridge

table, It reveals so. much to the

opponents that the declarer helps to ~bring ‘about the defeat of his own:

eventual“contract through the information he has disclosed. The. correct principle of ‘bidding is to tell enough about your hand to keep your partner bidding if you have & hand of game strength, and to conceal your distribution as well as possible from your opponents. In nd hand, which is another

trump opening as a forcing |

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illustration of the “TNT” system of "bidding, popular throughout New England, the “hidden. suit” in the

South ‘Hand might have been used} to defeat the contract, but with the

forcing no trump opening it ‘was

never bid and the fit in hearts was found without mentioning South’s | | suit. 0 The one no trump bid is based ony NY

-& minimum of 3% honor tricks and seven high cards in the ‘hand, or < four honor tricks and not less than six high cards. North’s response shows one honor trick and four playing tricks, with hearts as trumps. With this information, South jumps at once to game, without bothering to show the spades. It was a happy choice. Had spades been bid, East, holding -five spades would have opened a spade, and, by | giving his partner a ruff, detested | the ' contract. With the lead actually made, the soni t could not be beaten. -

right, 1936, NEA Service, Ine.)

| promoted - for gain.

Very. Few Boys

Most Bad’. Yount

~ Cowards.-

boy? -

world, but are you sure rs is one of them? The only ' Way to find ‘out is to: ask yourself a few things about him, ‘Does he lie to deliberately hurt

Sometimes

he feels he has a right to; he is &/ weak boy, a moral coward or an inferiority child, but not a

Environment Tells

There are so few really bad:

youngsters that the number can || be discounted altogether. |

| almost This may sound Surprising, but the truth is that any curable child (although it may take years to work the miracle) is the result of life, of wrong management. and experience. ‘We can ‘not : discount heredity, of course, or natural tendency. - Perhaps most - genu-inely-inclined culprits inherit the streak. But, even so, the power of environment is enormous. Does John laugh at rules? Does he deliberately disobey? Does he break your heart daily by ‘doing everything he shouldn't and nothing that he should? Surely, if this is the case, he must be. hopelessly bad, you say. Well, maybe he is, but maybe he isn’t. Remember that every day in évery way most of us fight routine. Is John deliberately cruel? will he hurt animals or other children just for thrill? If he does, then he is a really bad boy. If is one of the .earmarks of deliberate evil, the desire to ruin for .ruin’s sake, Destruction, even that ‘engender‘ing pain, is often a phase of the experimental age. But this is not what I mean. Innate cruelty is not fathered by impulse. It is not It has no excuse of curiosity or experiment.

of greater: importance. It has no excuse at all. It is vicious, perverted and cold. It leaves no regret, or conscience or emotion of. any kind, nothing but the thrill of the moment to see another suffer. Such is the bad boy. - And if parents stop to think, they will

the stigma. Almost any other can be saved, and deserves to. pe, saved

it possible." = (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.) =

Sweaters and skirts . . . skirts and

- blouses . . . they swing along in a°

new way this season. You must have ’em to be really smart, ,m and youthful! The “COL- \;- LEGIATE SHOP is showing some very clever skirts in’ wool plaid, plain or. pe patterns . . . made expressly | ‘for its demanding public. Just one year it is that THE o 855. ‘COLLEGIATE SHOE Ses 3 been in business. ] lot of clever: clothes have vt 1 been happily hi § i ‘of well-dressed teachers

‘who es busily buying sweaters and

blouses (priced from $1 up) ahd these skirts (from $1.98 up) . +. 16 N. Meridian-st. a J . # : Do you like Java and Mocha sodas? They're dain--

al bevernges eS 2 a

can never pay more

; at The Hat Box. But you certainly { can’ find quickly the most flattering

of new felt hats in all the nt ¢

shades. And those famous “

sters” which young col

legians e back of the hea y of Vogue. Box at BLOCKS fis hats for every one of

Actually Mean | =

Said to Be Moral of I f ‘

2 another child? Or because he will {| | : { get the benefit? ‘hé {id § | gets the benefit by hurting another || | child. If he lies when it is no help | Fto him, he is a bad boy. If it helps | | him, either by getting out of a tight [4 ‘{ place, or by boosting his own im-[}| § portance or getting him a privilege |

bad |

It. gives the pérpetrator no fillup |

hesitate to brand any child with:

R daytime wear, make #his charming frock (No. 8837), It has an unusual collar and attractive yoke, with buttons at. the shoulder and wrist. The skirt has box pleats in front for extra walking width. For material use silk crepe, satin, velvet or cotton fabrics. Patterns are sized 14 to 20; 32 to 42 bust. Size 16 requires 5% yards of 39-inch material with % yard 39-inch contrast for collar. secure a "PATTERN and STEP-BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCTIONS, inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. Maryland-st, Indianapolis.

MODEL NEWEST KNITTED DRESSES

Knitted costumes in rhythmic swing styles, empire fashions and simple classic designs are to be modeled informally from 11 a. m. to 4 p. m. today and tomorrow at L. 8. Ayres & Co. Miss Louise Brown, New York, Bradley Knit stylist, is to give advice on the’ season's newest colors and style trends. Coronation colors are being shown for the coming holiday season, with empire green, coronation gold and

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Muffins Good for, Breakfast

Coffee Cake Is Suggested for Early Morning Menu.

By NEA Rervice Hot pineapple muffins understand the amenities of early morning breakfast. To make 12 of these specialties, sift flour, then nreasure 2 cups, To it, add 2 teaspoons come bination baking powder or 2% teae spoons tartrate. baking powder, % cup sugar and % teaspoon salt. Sift all.-together into mixing bowl. Beat together until fluffy 1 egg, 1 cup

nile and 4 tablespoons melted but-

If you want to keep the high ters of butter worry out .of your budget, use a good quality of oleomargdring instead. Or better, use 1 tablespoon of butter for flavor, and 3 tablespoons of ‘the substitute for fat and economy, Add the egg mixture to the flour mixture, beating only enough to dampen all the flour. Now fold in 1; cup canned crushed. pineapple, Grease 12 muffin pans, fill threequarters full swith “the dough and bake in quite a hot oven for about 26 minutes. These and: the morning papers

‘will make the man of the house

forget that he must slave for his daily bread during the rest of. the

day. Coffee Cake

Coffee cake never lets a man down either. Try this novelty. Sift cake ‘flour, then measure 1 cup, Add 1% teaspoons baking powder, 14 teaspoon salt, and sift again, Cream 3 tablespoons butter or other shortening, then cream again with 2 tablespoons sugar added. Beat 1 egg and add to butter mixture, f'o this butter and sugar, begin to add, first one, then the other, 4 cup milk and the sifted flour mixture. Beat again each time you add to it; Use a 9-inch ‘pie pan. Grease it well. Turn in the dough. Sprinkle evenly with 4 tablespoons sugar and % teaspoon cinnamon, mixed together. ‘Bake in a moderate oven for about 20 minutes. Remove from ‘oven, moisten top with 2 tablespoons melted butter and 2 tablespoons milk. Return to oven and bake another 15 minutes. Serve piping hot,

| The day is well begun.

Auiliary 38 Meeting .Trvington American Legion Auxe iliary 38 is to meet at 1:30 p. m, Tyesday at the post rooms, 5503 E. Washington-st, to sew for the Knightstown Home.

—NISLEY——

LEAR. CHIFFON

Pure Silk HONE

€ QUALITY

‘purchased «+ . Why don’t you join the"

tily flavored with the nation-

Napoleon red predominating.

| Isn't it just . ;he most exh.ilarating time of year? Snappy . weather and Hallow- . een in the air , « New clothes . oR “] look of holi- (” days ahead . great gatherings of people to enjoy this busy world. We . do hope all the guests in the city are accomplishing the work and pleasure outlined for them. Here am I, at your shopping service. Just phone RI-5551 or write me . .. now ‘or when you return to ypur homes and schools . . . Tl gladly do your personal shopping = quite without extra charge. And any questions

you. may have concerning “shopping around” or *din-

‘out.” Just ask for Pod; ’ Well enough fo know in advance just what to expect of places in which you'd ‘like to “dine out.” Scarcely can I say enough about the three ' dining rooms at the CLAYPOOL HOTEL. Perhaps break‘fast in ‘the’ Grill where

_ prices range from 35c. to 60c witl y real: Hoosier buck-

shops all taking on the first

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' Oversizh Aollypops in the form of cat’s faces should make fun for the party. . » » » “A fine romance . ..”

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