Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 15 October 1936 — Page 22

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‘Adopt More Obtainable * Goal, Jane Advises ‘Sad at Heart.’

Jane Jordan will help you with your problems by her answers to your ques~ Mons in this column.

PEAR JANE JORDAN—I . met a man a year ago and liked him at our first meet‘ing. This man is married, living with his wife and they have four children, ranging in age from ‘13 to 19 years old. At first sight we encouraged each other and later had dates which grew into a deeper friendship. We, saw ourselves growing into deep trouble and decided to stop seeing each other. We have t ried awfully hard but seem unable to quit, His wife is : 50 much older than he. She wants to mother him “more than to be a wife to him. He is a man who craves companionship. He loves his children and wants to -do all he can for them; yet he turns to me for love and companionship. Will you please tell me what to do about our affair? I really love the man and am willing to do most anything that is right. I don’t want to break up his home because his children need him, too. I am a widow with twa children. I am 28 and he is 39. Please help me with this

problem, SAD AT HEART. ANSWER-1It ‘is very easy for a

widow to fall in love with an older | man who is married. Something in | ~ the fact that he is the head of a | family, yet tender and protective in his attitude toward her, calls up all the early feelings that she felt for her own father. Unless she is smart enough to avoid the issue, a strong

Now that you are in the grip of emotion, it will be difficult for me to convince you that your situafion came about through a lack of self-esteem. A woman left with two children regards herself as a heavy risk for a single: man to take... Alone she wouldn't be afraid to compete for an available man but the children represent a burden which she fears no man will assume. A married man is already bound to another. He can not be expected to assume responsibility for a widow

and her children. He loves variety |,

and change, provided it doesn’t cost

. the world to attract because no demands can be made upon him. Only a woman with a strong conviction of her own personal worth would refuse this makeshift for love and wait for a socially responsible partnership. In your heart you fear you are not worth the price or you "would not sell out so cheaply. ~ When you find yourself in a situation where no satisfactory rearrangement is possible, the only sensible thing fo do is to give. it up. Set another and more obtainable goal and move toward it. It is hard, to be sure, but what else is there to do under such circumstances? JANE JORDAN,

Etiquette By PATRICIA

‘WOMEN TRAVELING ALONE + IN EUROPE—It is perfectly possible for a woman to travel alone in Europe as well as in the United ~ States. : She needs only to behave with quietness and dignity and there is ~ little likelihood that she will: be in any ‘danger. If she is anything of a liriguist, she will have practically "no difficulty; if not, there always are numbers of people who speak and understand English. She will find : little trouble in making herself understood. ~~ In going from one place to an- - other in Europe, it is wiser to write ahead for accommodation.

SUNNYSIDE EVENT . ARRANGED BY CLUB

The Children’s Sunshine Club, § NO

“of Sunnyside sponsored a wiener roast for the children today in the ~ grove. : ! ‘The menfbers in charge of arrangements were Mesdames David “Jolly, W. J. Overmire, W. R. Beck, Clifford Richter, Misses Alice and Margaret Murray.

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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor

| OING to the game; Saturday?”

When the clans gather in

is the question of the day. stadiums all over the country, cheer

leaders should dedicate a “rah-rah” for sturdy, warm wool coats that are

as easy on the eyes as this one.

As good for town wear as for the foo'ball field is this version of the

coaching suif of the gay nineties. and the six big buttons march along in military style on this button-up tweed.

» ” ” TAKE a fraternity man’s view of it. The latest from the “psych” lab explodes the old theory of women dressing for each other—not for men. College men are clothes-con-scious. - ey make no bones about their pet Mkes and hates and jump at the chance to deliver opinions. In the interest of science, we pre-

Its flaring collar is cut on an angle

sent this sports coat which nine out of ten Phi Delts, Sigma Chis and Betas will rate as tops because it is different from the general run of sports coats. It will demand as much attention as a commanding officer at & military school. Its . price hits the 'school-girl’s level too—and a local shop offers it to you! ;

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Solution to Previous Problem BY WILLIAM E. KENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary ACRIFICE bidding is one of the most interesting phases of duplicate. Whether a sacrifice pays can be decided with mathematical precision. Thus, a set of three tricks doubled is worth more thn a game, if neither side is vulnerable. If, however, the sacrificing players are not vulnerable and their opponents are, it. is necessary to beat the former at least four tricks to punish them properly for their boldness,;"and obtain. a better seore than those who are permitted to play the hand at its natural ‘contract. J : Recently, at the Mont¢lair Bridge Club in New York, George Unger realized that he must get that necessary fourth trick if the sacrifice of East and West on today's hand was not to prgve a paying one’ for them and an expensive one for him and his partner.

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solved it by leading the ten of spades, which his partner overtook with the queen, to give him a club ruff. Unger then led the: spade five, which South won with the nine and against returned a club, permitting

the second club ruff. Thus North and South by very clever and brilliant: defense cashed the ace of clubs, two spade tricks,

‘two’ tramps, and one ‘heart, scor-

ing 700 points for a clear top ‘on the “board... * + +.’ : : It was necessary that North and

South set their opponents: 70 points,

because five spades could be made by them. Had the defense been only ordinary, East and West would have made a profitable sacrifice by their five diamond bid. : (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, inc.)

Miss Gladys Gilliatte, 340 E. Maple-rd, is at the Barbizon Plaza,

The manner in which. he accompished that result is well worth study. ‘ Following up the opening lead of the club ace with the most effective Play was the next problem. ‘ Unger

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P1 Phi Annual ‘Bridge Party Is Set Oct. 24

. The Indianapolis Alumnae Club of Pi Beta Phi Sorority.is sponsors ing its annual ‘bridge party Oct. 24 at the Wm. H. Block Co. auditorium. Bridge is to be played from 2 to 3:30 p.m. and a tea and style show are to follow. | Mrs. Ellis B. Hall is general chair-

‘man; Mrs. Allan C. Raup, ticket

chairman; Mrs. Wayne Kimmel, table and door prize chairman, and

Mrs. H. C. Curtis, cards, pads and

pencils chairman. : Mrs. Raup’s assistants are Misses Lois Sherrill and Marguerite Ulen; Mesdames W. K. Gearen, Herbert Redding, Alice G. Holloway, Truman Hoover, William T. Johnson, B. C.

| Lewis, Ellsworth Reid and Norman

Green. Mrs. Kimmel has on her committee Mesdames, E. W. Camp, Loren Hickman, Walter Hiser and Norm Haskell. :

Editor to Talk

Before League of Pen Women

Mrs. Nettie A. Downey, South Bend, is to give an address on “Poetry” at the luncheon meeting of the National League of American Pen Women Saturday at the Propylaeum Club. Mrs. Downey is editor of the “Indiana Club Woman,” the Indiana Federation of Clubs’ official publication. She also is regent of the Mishawaka Chapter, D. A. R, and a member of the Hoosier Salon Patrons Association at South Bend. . Members are guests. ‘Reservations may be made with - Mrs, ‘Emma _Sangernebo, 4010 Ruckle-st, or Miss Blanche C.

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Children Catch Moods and Imitation Spreads ~~ Easily.

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Mother, dear, do you know that dispositions as well as faces and expressions are contagious? I always shall remember the story a lady I knew told (this very subject nad come up) about her experience at a library. : :

She was out of sorts because her husband had been sharp on the telephone. No doubt he just had had a bad day himself. She went to the library and spoke to the even-tempered librarian at the desk about a book. - :

found hér chosen book was ouf. At that minute another woman Spoke to attendant who cut her off with an impatient word. And without any reason whatever the woman slapped the little boy with her.

Children Catch Moods

Husband's irritation had traveled its way from wife to clerk to woman to child. Like the arrow shot into the air, the word fell . to earth somewhere. And I have no doubt the little fellow nursed his grouch and went home and kicked the cat.

another cat. ! Disposition is the most contagious thing in the world.. Sometimes" it affects people by proxy. For exam-

heckle each other about house expenses, and the dinner table. is anything but a Persian garden of peace, watch the youngsters go out and bicker’ about nothing. : ? This goes for fathers as well as mothers. It happens that after a long hot day at the office, a smothering ride in the subway, and with a throbbing toe that some one stepped on, he goes home in a mood that would stop the wheels of industry. : Form of Self-Indulgence ~The greatest indulgence we continue to preserve after we are old enough. to know better, is our concession to moods.

or knives, but there is no law that pitvents mayhem with tongues and frowns. : If parents find dissension among the children and suspect that one child is responsible, then say this “Mary, you have to be more patient in this house. You can’t go on expecting food and shelter and not pay for it in pleasantness.” Or, “John, your unruly temper has to stop. I won't have it. You upset the house and there is no reason why any of us should tolerate it.” You'll be surprised, I think, just how much control Mary and John may suddenly develop. Yes, disposition is very. contagious. : (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.) pdilihnilciinlont cme mse lo baa

SIX ARE INITIATED BY BUTLER GROUP

‘The Butler University chapter of

tiated six pledges today at the chapter house, 821 W. Hampton-dr. Miss Dorothy Dunbar, president, was in charge. . xe The initiates included Miss Margaret Amos, Rushville; Miss Mary Louise Guthier, Greenfield; Miss Mary Ellen Wheeler, Monticello, I1l.;' Misses Betty Ann Schroeder, Margaret Lee Riddell and Mary Elizabeth Freeman, all of Indianapolis. Miss Lois Gerdts is to be toastmaster at a banquet to be held tonight for the group. Miss Hallean Crose is chairman.

AUXILIARY PLANS LEBANON MEETING

District 3, United Spanish. War Veterans Auxiliary, is to convene in Lebanon Sunday = with the Eli Clampitt Auxiliary -as hostess group. Fifty members from the Harold C. McGrew Camp and Auxiliary in Indianapolis are to attend. Motor cars are-to leave Fort Friendly at 8:30 a. m. Sunday. Auxiliary 3 of Indianapolis is to exemplify the ritualistic service in the afternoon. The meeting is to open at 10 a. m. Luncheon is to be served at noon. Mrs. Mary E. Dunn, Vincennes, auxiliary president, is to conduct a #school of instruction.

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OU will need a tunic in your wardrobe, and here is one (No. 8821) really lovely. It has a smart Peter. Pan collar and an attractive yoke. Matching buttons and buckle are used for trimming. The skirt is straight and the tunic flared. Make it in printed silk, silk crepe, taffeta or cotton fabrics. Patterns are sized 12 to 20; 30 to 38 bust. Size 14 requires 4% yards of 39-inch material, plus 5% yard of contrasting material. The bow requires 7% yard of ribboti. To secure a PATTERN and STEP-BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCIONS, inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. ‘Maryland-st, Indianapolis.

Mis. Babcock Entertains for Miss Portteus

Mrs. Norman Babcock, who is 10 be a bridesmaid at the marriage of Miss Lois Gene Portteus and Elba L. Branigin Jr. Oct. 29, is to entertain with a bridge party and miscellaneous shower tonight. The hostess’ mother, Mrs. Harry Stevenson, is to come from’ Bloom‘ington to assist. The bridal colors, Italian marble pink and May wine, are to be used in appointments. . - Miss ‘Portteus’ ‘mother, Mrs. A. Leroy Portteus, is to be a guest with Miss Jeane Barrett, Bloomington, who also is to be a bridesmaid; Miss Mary Siebenthal, Bloomington; Mrs, William Moorman, Westfield; Mesdames Robert Huncilman, William Cockrum, Max Fritz, Jack Gulling, Hazel Babcock, Misses Mary Agnes Nurre, Mary Elizabeth Pell and Zerelda Frick. * Miss Pell is to entertain for Miss Portteus Oct. 21, and Mrs. Charles: B. McFadden and her daughter, Mrs. William Forsyth, are to be hostesses for a party in her honor, | Oct. 23.: : : Miss Betty Moore, Chicago, is to be maid of honor at the wedding.

Guest Party Set The Hoosier Athletic Club auction bridge section is to hold its annual guest party at 2 p. m. tomorrow at the clubhouse. Mrs. Charles Bowes

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Shower to Fete ‘a Bride-to-Be Before Wedding

Mrs. Howard Stuart is to entertain witlra personal shower tonight for, Miss Virginia Page, bride-to-be, daughter of Mrs. M. B. Page. The marriage of Miss Page to Everette Beaty Jr. son of Mr. and Mrs, E. C. Beaty, is to take place Oct. 18. The guests with Miss Page, her mother and Mrs. Beaty are to be Miss Helen Carver and Miss Irma Gallagher. ; Others include: Mesdames Eston Stearns, Paul Kahn, Paul Woerner, Joseph Roberts, Fred Zwicker, Merlin King, Lee Loman, Harry Demler and William -R. Stuart.

MRS. CLAYCOMBE HOSTESS LEADER

Mrs. Lloyd D. Claycombe is to be chairman of hostesses for the next meeting of the Indianapolis Branch, State Assembly Woman's Club, Nov. 11 :

At yesterday's opening meeting, Mrs. Walter Behmer described her summer vacation in Alaska. Places were marked with snapshots illustrative of the places described in Mrs. -Behmer’s talk. Mrs, Julius C. Travis: also gave a travel talk and Mrs. Posey Kime sang. Mrs. C. Byron Huff, Martinsville, and Mrs. Luke Duffey, Rushville, were out-of-town members attending. : Officers are Mrs. Walter Treanor, president; Mrs. William F. Dudine, vice president; Mrs. Charles F, Miller, secretary; Mrs. Behmer, treasurer, and Mrs. Charles F, Miller, parliamentarian. Mrs. Albert F. Walsman js program chairman; Mrs. Arthur L. Gilliom and Mrs. Harvey J. Curtis, assistants.

BOYS’ SCHOOL HEAD TO LEAD SPEAKERS

Dr. E. M. Dill, Indiana Boys’ School” superintendent, is to lead speakers at a meeting of the Auxiliary to the Detention Home at 10 8. m. Monday at the School in Plainfield. Luncheon is to be served at noon. Others - on the program are to be O. J. Breedenbaugh, pyschologist, ‘and Maurice Hunt, field supervisor. Music is to be provided by the school band and glee club. Mrs. W. F. Holmes is auxiliary program chairman, and Mrs, Walter H. Hodgson is president.

HUSBANDS ATTEND NARRATORS’ DINNER

Members of the Narrators’ and their husbands were entertained last night with a pot-luck dinner and bridge party at Mrs. Merton Johnston’s home. : Preceding the dinner Mrs. E. G. Bchaefer reviewed “The Witch of Wall Street,” by Boyden Sparks and Samuel: Taylor Moore. Mrs. J. W. Sovine discussed Indiana poets and Mrs. Johnston talked on contem-

land Mrs. L. M, Fehrénbach are to be hostesses.

porary Indiana novelists.

‘Showing of Clothes - Run Gamut of Feminine

Conducted Here

Special Review Stressing Practical Apparel for Working Hours Is Scheduled for Business Women Saturday.

A mid-season showing of important clothes which run the gamut was shown today and is to be shown at 2:30 p. m, illiam H. Block Co. A special review for business women is to be held at the same time Saturday, stressing practical clothes for the working hours and for week-end diversions. A wider scope for personalities is witnessed In the various silhouettes of the season. An ensemble, conceived in the fitted mode may be the

pivot of your wardrobe; likewise, the swagger style, if you choose, is in equally good standing. : For sports, the black broadcloth riding coat canters forth as oute standing for bridle paths. A skate ing outfit consisting of gray suede jacket, black wool skirt and danger red accents in knitted cap, mittens, and scarf is casual and smart for ice skimming and ball-bearing roll ing alike. The matron who jgkes her walking exercises chooses a raspberry two-piece knit dress with complementing brown

Golfing Apparel

The feminine golfer takes to a black twin sweater set worn with a natural camel's hair skirt and matching coat for nippy weather, For day-in and day-out wear, & three-piece suit of ostrich cloth in a delectable wine shade, is recome mended. Its lynx tuxedo trim pere pmits its entrance to dressy occasions, yet it may be dressed down for practical wear, as well. Schiapa« relli’s famous pocketbook dress in black with its sparkling rhinestone “pocketbook” breast pockets is an exciting example of the season's diversifications. Princess fitted, squared shoulder coats and dresses invite praise for their originality of banded, colore ful trims. ; Nubby: Fabrics for Fall

Fall, which came in like a Persian lamb, is exemplified in suits and coats of interesting nubby fabrics Among the “Symphony Fashions” black broadcloth and the surprise blue of Schiaparelli’s inspiration are ieaders. Sequins, subtle colored fiowers' and velvet adorn many of the wistful creations for dressup wear. Sleeves are as short for December. as they were in June, for afternoon frocks. Oriental influences in draped ture bans of crepe and velvet rear their heads for “Scotch and Soda” and dinnertime hours. Pringe, reminiscent of the grass skirt era, sways in

glamorous short dresses. Lame in gold and silver accents fashions a great number of the dinner and formal gowns. One black velvet frock boasts a blouse of floral lame made in ‘perky peplum style.

Many Ornaments Worn

Head bands, shoulder straps and dress ornaments sparkle with sequins, rhinestones and ' semiprecious stones in the adornment of gowns for gala nights. A swirling brown coque feather trims one notable changeable taffeta dress which trails with back fullness. Lace in coronation colors is a crowning fashion for fall. Gray for evening. is good, and is to be seen in slipper satin with a little-girl sash of chartreuse, which ties in a bow in the back, and presents a sophisticated aspect in the front due to a huge rhinestone orna= ment af the belt-line. ‘Silk jersey is an important new note in both afternoon and evening clothes, made simply usually but with the deceptive simplicity cf sophistication. Altogether clothes are totally {fresh in conception with the muted elegance of appearance which spells fall of 1936. (M. B. W.)

Mr. and Mrs. J. O. Dungan were recent visitors at the Chalfonte-

Haddon Hall, Atlantic City.

Everything is “Coronation” . . . haven't you noticed? And now a smart new design .in Community Plate Silver by the same name. If you ask me, it's quite handsome and richly adorned as all good coronations should be. etter step into VONNEGUT’S and get your first piece—a pierced server for nuts, bon bons and all small service on wellappointed tables. ‘As an introductory offer, Community Plate again makes the price of one gorgeously embellished piece just 25c. (Regular $1 value.) And around this first purchase you can soon build an entire service for 6 or 12 at a moderate cost. Famous for new and unusual de< signs in silver and with a marvelour guarantee, invites. you to view a pre-view of its own “Coronation.” Brides and their friends will welcome this chance to buy gifts of silver from VONNEGUT'S.

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Calico prints are newest

A red paisley blouse, a parAlcular container for matches, and a certain bar of soap ... these I have shopped for and: sent on their merry way to readers. A basket of fruit was the wish of another. And goat’s milk cheese for homemade spaghetti . . . just another whim of one who knows his cooking. Ask me to- find your “wish - I-may - wish - I might” have this or that. If I don’t know the answer, I assure you I'll find it for you. Not an extra cent for personal shopping service when you phone The Indianapolis Times, RI-5551 i And ask for :

When MARTHA WASHINGTON says “2 pounds for $1” , , . it’s a buy! Choose your favorites from among the delicious assortments of MARTHA WASHINGTON candies, but pay only $1 for 2 pounds. Bs sure you visit either 2301 N. Mee ridian St. or ‘5 N, Meridian St, some time Friday, Saturday ' or Sunday and enjoy this week-end special! : “d

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Lollypops for Halloween parties are cats, owls and witches . . . but really only chocolate and marshmallow,

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“You'll make ‘a good ping at McKELVEY’'S “Dot and Dash” Shop . . . once you buy a solitary greeting card

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extensive, yet so cleverly bought that I always find the exact message. Many

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mas cards. Why don’t you do the same, leisurely? And enjoy this holiday task. (5 W. Market St.)

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