Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 13 October 1936 — Page 10

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‘Men Not Very Good at Atoning for Sins, Jane Says.

Jane Jordan will help you with your problems by her answers in this column.

DEAR JANE JORDAN— 1 am a married woman of 27 and have a boy of 6. My husband is 29 and has been divorced by his exwife who married again the next day. They had no children; now she has a child of 5. Ever since : we've been married she has caused trouble. She would wait for him at his place of business, at his car, or come by the house and stand outside our window and then write a letter telling him about it. We bought a small piece of property and put on coveralls and I worked beside him like a man to fix it up. Then he asked me to go on a visit and when I came back he had been crying. He blew all to pieces and asked me to leave. He said he thought a lot of me but loved the ex- . wife and always had. He said she was so pretty but I was homely. I went back to Mother and Dad but Mother was keeping my sister's little boy and the children fussed and spatted until mother was almost sick. I tried visiting my sister and brother, but Junior cried all the time and wanted to home to his daddy. My husband found out that as soon as he would leave, his exwife would be with some one else. He also found what I could get from him by law; so he thought _the best thing to do would be to go back together. I decided it would be better for Junior. For ‘a couple of months everything ‘was nice but now he takes hateful spells. He tried to tell me what to wear and how to wear it. He hasn't given me a cent of money to buy clothes. He never was very good about money, although he wanted to buy his exwife pretty things. Am I a fool to stick it out, or am I doing what any one else would do under the circumstances? ~~ TROUBLED. ANSWER — When confronted .~with two evils, choose the lesser. You're tried living apart from your husband and found that conditions were worse for you and your child

Jane Jordan

"and for him than when you lived together. Your problem now is to : improve your marriage and make

it happier. This I believe you can do if you work at it steadily and tactfully whether your husband * gives you any aid at first or not. When you returned to your hus_pand after his final disillusionment about his first wife, it seems to me that you had your golden opportunity to outshine her. His betrayal must have left him sore and disappointed and in the mood to be convinced that you were the . superior of the two women who had played the important parts in his life. Instead of grasping = your chance, I am afraid you expect- . ed him to atone for all he had made you suffer. One can see your . viewpoint, of course, but you would have been smarter to have assumed the role of making it up to him for what the other woman had done to him. Men usually are very susceptible to such flattery and respond to it in a very docile, child-like manner. They are not very good at atoning for their sins, particularly when their conduct makes them _ feel small. Your job is to make the man feel big whether he de- = serves it or not. It will make ~ life much easier for you always. In the matter of dress I believe you should conform to his ideas exactly. Ask his opinion exactly as if he were the world's greatest

means get him interested in what you wear and perhaps he will be ‘more willing to spend méney on you. A smart woman could wrap Such a yielding man around her little finger. Why don't you try JANE JORDAN.

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D. A. R. MEETING IN TERRE HAUTE

A delegation from Caroline Scott Harrison Chapter, Daughters of the American Revolution, is to go today to Terre Haute to attend the state conference. Mrs. Kenneth Coffin is to be page for the local group. The delegation is to include Mesdames Wilbur = Johnson, Eugene Darrach, Alexander L. Taggart, Waldo B. Rossitter, James A. Sutherland, Charles P. Lesh, William C. Bartholomew, Charles F. Voyles, William L. Horne, Martine H. Griffing, I. M. Holmes and Miss Sara Henazie. :

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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor

AKE a 10x12 living room and start wondering what can be done to make it livable as a combination dining room and sitting roo.n.

in the room shown above. As in

many modern cottages this 10x12 space is called upon to do double duty and to dc it in an uncluttered manner.

Your first impression as you enter is one of quiet charm and moderate roominess. It could look small and overcrowded if many pieces of furniture and obtrusive designs on floor and wall had been used. Instead, its size is expanded by the brown wool cdrpet and dainty peppermint striped wall paper of light airy background. The colorful borders which outline the windows and baseboards aid in creating the illusion of wider spaces and add to the interest of the decorative scheme, ® ” 2

HE background color of rich brown is reflected in the warmer, lighter shade of the Whitney maple furniture. It is as sturdy and refined as its originators, the Colonists, and combines the cardinal principles of comfort with cheerfulness and coziness. ; The artistic little breakfast table, set. for two, can serve readily as There are enough la chairs in the .room to be a foursome, and there is adequate seating space for seven people in the entire room. There's a trick in having the mirror hang above the table to widen the room. A smart little love seat is placed directly opposite the table. It is upholstered in a soft blue and whit: novelty cotton fabric with white moss fringe trimming, and offers ample space for three persons. Not even the windows are allowad to disturb the serenity: of the room, for they add to the feeling of spaciousness with their gleaming whiteness and gossamer quality of dotted net. Red glass tie-backs reflect the color accents of the stripes in the wallpaper, which are both early and late American—red, white and blue. un ” ”

HE maple desk is a reproducA tion of a nauthentic colonial design and combines with it a modern patterned radio and maple keg waste basket for novelty interest. The rocking chair of maple with its brown upholstery is truly an American heritage in style and comfort. Copper lamps of kettle and jug shapes add their accents of charm as well as diffuse light at points in the room where reading and writing are done. Wall racks for books, a. clever little corner cupboard for dishes and glassware, and the hand-hooked rug in front of the love seat are all little things which add notes of color and usefulness. All these ‘tricks of arrangement may be copied in any sort of colonial furniture, so that a:small room will look twice its size.

Designer Presents

Showing of Furs

Today at L. S. Ayres, Joseph DeLeo, internationally known designer, presented fur coats and caps in an informal showing. Knitted garments were modeled informally this afternoon at H. P. Wasson & Co. and at William H. Block Co. Miss Esther Davis, knit goods stylist, New York, presided at Wasson’s yarn show. Miss Agnes Morley, yarn fashionist, gave commentaries on the garments shown in Block's presentation.

Contract Club to Meet

The Woman's Contract Club of Indianapolis is to meet at 1:15 p. m.

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Camp Delight to Be Scene of Open House Sunday Afternoon

As a feature of Camp Day from 2:30 to 5 p. m. Sunday at Camp Delight, Camp Fire Girls are to hold open house for friends. Stunts and conducted trips over the grounds of the Girls’ camp are to be on the program. Mrs. Albert Muéller is chairman and Mrs. Frank Burns, co-chair-man, of the committee. The Guardians’ Association is to sponsor a benefit card party at 8 p. m. Monday, Oct. 26, at the Riviera Club. Mrs. A. W. Richter is chairman; Mrs. A. L. Jenkins, prize chairman, and Mrs. George Hummel, candy chairman. Pro-

ceeds are to be used for camp scholarships. . . The second leadership training course is to be held at 7:30 p. m. Friday at the Camp Fire office. Courses in handcraft, first aid, nature and methods are to be given. The roller skating party at 3:30 Friday, Oct. 30 at Riverside rink is to have a Halloween theme, and Miss Pauline Mohler is to be in charge. ; Taivateca group at School 46, under the leadership of Miss Martha Scott, is to take an overnight trip to Camp Delight Friday.

SIGNALS FOR SLAM BID

Today’s Contract Problem

Three no trump is South's contract. After winning the first trick with the heart jack, he can count eight sure tricks, or nine if he can cash four diamonds. * With four diamonds in the East hand, however, where can declarer get his game-going trick?

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OUBT about the solidity of the trump suit often prevents players from bidding a “cold” grand slam. The latest wrinkle in the four-five no trump convention, however, eliminates that doubt. When a player makes a free fiveno trump bid, he asks his partner

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to bid seven in the agreed suit if he has two.of the three top trumps. With any other trump holding, he bids six of the agreed suit. In today’s hand, North knew that a small slam was almost certain as soon as South showed two aces in responding to the asking bid of two spades. But South might very easily lack one of the top trumps and still have all he needed for his bids. North, therefore, bid five no trump and South, with the ace and king of trumps, bid seven hearts. The hand was made easily, since South drew trumps, discarded his spades on the diamonds, and ruffed his

losing clubs. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Ser:ice, Inc.)

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Personalities,

Writer Thinks

Child Expert Advises Diversity in Companions.’

‘BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Don’t let. girls get crushes on other girls. The friendship that ties too tightly is neither broadening nor generally beneficial from any point of view. : - Both boys and girls need pals, it is true—a chum like another self who understands them, who has the same interests and all that. But the perpetual proximity of our other self is often “smothering.” And it is the same with children. They can so easily take on the color of the stronger personality, if such is the case, and in time lose individuality altogether. When two spirits. are together always, one is likely to pale and the other to in- ; Adults, like husbands and wives, have experience to save them, but children have none. Children need more diversity of companioship than do adults.

Tends to Anti-Social Habits

Sensitive children are more likely than others to annex the single chum. It is a sort of escaps. The sympathetic friend is always there to soothe and excuse. In one way, the idea is not bad, because it sets the shy one up in business and establishes courage. It is used by psychologists to develop the unsure

| child. - But it should be a passing

phase, more or less. If permitted. the child will continue to shut out the world of other people, and remain anti-social while indulging his craving for friendship with her, or his, pal. ‘ Little girls are more prone to the exclusive friendship than boys. Not always, of course. And while I have no wish to criticise it.or to put an end to a beautiful loyalty, it seems to me that mothers might try to take stock of the whole picure. Are both girls neglecting other opportunities for friendship. because of each other? Have they learned to share thought so completely that théy can not even study alone, or enjoy a movie away from their shadows? Have they lost the ability to make up their minds without consulting each other? Is one slowly dominating her chum? Is the other losing her individuality? Dn they suffer as keenly for each other's troubles as for their own? Will they sacrifice for each other things they would protest doing for their families? : (Copyright, ‘1936, NEA Service, Inc.) .

Alumnae Club

Is to Welcome New Members

Alpha Delta Pi Alumnae Club is to welcome five new members at a meeting at 8 p. m. today at the home of Mrs. F. H. Meranda, 5019 Col-lege-av. | New members are Mrs. Paul Edwards and Misses Dorothy Burks, Sarah Anne Grimes and Helen and Jessie Billstone. ‘ The group is to discuss arrangements for a bridge party to be held next month. Miss Dorothy Lawson is benefit party chairman. . Miss Dorothy Baldridge, club vice president, is arranging the evening’s entertainment, which is to include a report of the recent national convention held in Del Monte, Cal., to be given by Miss Pauline Rathert. Mesdames ' Roy Johnson and Arthur Madison are to present musical numbers. The hostess is to be assisted by Mrs. Le Verle Shuler.

An interesting winter coat from the House of Patou is made of smoke gray woolen and has wide bands of lynx. The woolen hat matches. Notice the way the coat molds the waistline and flares outward at the hem.

Parties Arranged by Friends for Miss Summers

‘Parties for Miss Alfaratta D. Summers, bride-to-be, are to begin this week. Her wedding to Maurice J. Schuetz is to take place Nov. 16 at SS. Peter and Paul Cathedral. Mrs. Paul W. Jackson is to be hostess for a lingerie shower tomorrow night and Mrs.” Haleene O'Hara and Miss Consuelo Zickendraht are to be hostesses for a miscellaneous shower on Wednesday evening, Oct. 28, at Miss Zickendraht’s home. Mrs. Clifford T. Earl’s dinner at Hollyhock Hill is to be given for

4 Miss Summers on Nov. 7.

Miss Summers is to have her sis-

-ter, Mrs. Frank Stephenson, as ma-

tron of honor, and Mr. Schuetz's brother, Edward T. Schuetz, is to be best man. : ;

BINGO PARTY SET BY G.0.P. CLUB

The second of a series of bingo parties is to be held by the Washington Township Republican Club at 8 p. m. Monday at the Riviera Club. Candidates and their wives are to: be introduced during the program. Mrs. William Bosson Jr. is ticket chairman; Mrs. Arthur Hutto, candy; William Hughes, bingo, and Mrs. Ethel Duval, decorations. The courtesy committee includes Mesdames May Brouse, Max Wickersham, Charles Dawson, George Arnold, Addison Dowling, Lee Ingling, Jane Bonnifled and Ben L. Myers.

Pledge Services Held

Pledge services were held by Indiana Alpha Chapter, Lambda Alpha Lambda Sorority, last night at the home of Miss Rosemary Seyfried, 1509 Union-st.

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By NEA Service With the apple season full upon us and the markets offering se many delicious varieties of apples at this time, try this unusual way of making apples and cake dough blend into a sublime whole. As a rule, the flavor of apples is so delicate that it is lost when combined with cake dough—e always the great American apple

pie. Apple delights, too, are an exception, as you will agree, once you have tried the recipe. Visualize halves of apples, neatly fitted on top of crunchy cake dough, baked in muffin tins so that they hold their shape, juicy and topped with whipped cream!

Apple Delight for Six

2 cups flour 1'; teaspoons baking powder 1; teaspoon salt 1; cup shortening 1 cup milk 1 egg 6 ripe, firm apples If the apples used are winesaps (usually the most juicy), bake them, halved, on a greased pan in the oven until they begin to soften, Most other varieties of apples will not need this pre-baking. Now for directions: . Mix and sift the flour, baking powder and salt, Cut in the shortening with a knife. Add the milk and the beaten egg and mix well. : Drop tablespoons of this batter into large, well-greased muffin tins, Fill them about one half full. This amount of batter is enough

{for 12 apple delights, of two per

person, serving six). Now peel the apples, cut them in half crosswise, and take out the cores. Fill With Sugar

Put each half (using six apples) on top of the batter, cut side down, and fill the holes with sugar. Bake in a hot oven 25 minutes until the apples are tender. AS the end of that time the batter will be baked, too. Serve warm with a spoonful of whipped cream on top of each dee light. : The cake dough has a delicious consistency, neither biscuit nor pastry, and yet crunchy and delicate. You can. make half the amount by using three apples and half the batter recipe. If you use the largest-size muffin tin, you may find one delight per person enough, This dessert will come out of the tins easily and be neat, round mounds topped by nicely browned fruit.

Attendants for Wedding Named

Mrs. Hans Boehm, Evanston, Ill Mrs. Robert Peirce, Weston, Mass. and Mrs. Volney Malott Brown are to be Miss Katharine Malott Brown's attendants at her marriage to Wilson , Mothershead on Oct. 29 at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Voorhees Brown. Mrs. Boehm, to be matron of honor, formerly was Miss Frances Reed, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Frank M. Reed, Indianapolis. Georgia White, Mr. and Mrs. Malett White's daughter, is to be flower girl. Hiram W. McKee is to be best man and Charles A. Greate house and Albert Deluse are to be ushers. Mrs. Thomas Madden and Miss Josephine Madden are to give a

luncheon for Miss Brown on Thurs day. : :

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