Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 9 October 1936 — Page 25

Advises Woman

in Doubt About |

Marrying Again

Marriage to Ex- late Unlikely to Succeed, Jane Says. |

| Jane Jordan will study | your . problems for you and help you with them by her answers in this column,

DEAR JANE JORDAN—I was married over a period of 10 years before di-| vorcing my divorce came about from neglect and mental cruelty. He was very remorseful at the time and plead for a chance to make good, : but I was fed up. I have always been ‘settled, was a good housekeeper and saved in every way possible. During -our | separation I met a man some older |

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than myself. Our! ii friendship devel-! oped into love and! #

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riage. He was a very prominent man | and wealthy, Six months ago he | died. However, he provided for me | beautifully, I have a very substan- | tial amount left me in a trust fund besides a policy to go on until the estate starts paying. | Meantime, my ex-husband has worked at night and gone to day | school studying a good profession, |

He has one more year at school. He |

is a type you can't help but like and | feel sorry for, but at the same time |

he is very nervous and high fem- :

pered and could live on sympathy. He is begging me to consider marriage with him again, but he resents "the other man terribly and thinks he kept me from re-establishing my | marriage. He called him names and | I couldn't stand to hear him abused when he had been so decent to me. My ex-husband assures me that we can get along again, At the same time he says I can’t keep this man’s pictures, can never speak of him, yet until my exhusband could get a start in business we would be living off the man’s money. When I put on a new dress or buy something that he | knows was paid for by my friend's money, he looks funny and seems nervous. He claims to love me and admits our trouble was all his fault. With my income we could have a nice home. I am the type who can’t stand to be alone. However, I Kaven't the love for him I once had, although I am interested in his wel- | fare. I am afraid my feelings are more to settle down than anything else. LOU. | ANSWER — The prognostications | for success in remarrying your diyorced husband are not very great. For one thing he has never forgiven you for leaving him. For another he is extremely jealous of your benefactor. These two factors * make him feel very inferior. More‘over it would be galling to his pride to live on the other man's money while getting a start in business. I doubt his ability to bear these humiliations without making you share his discomfort. I do think you are unwise in keeping the other man’s pictures - around the house to remind your ex-husband of his defeat. Your defense of your lover also makes your former husband feel small by comparison. It simply isn’t in the cards for a man to show appreciation of the rival who commands more gratitude, respect _and admiration from a woman than he does. You punish him for the unhappiness he caused you by keeping your lover's memory alive, If you want to try marriage with your divorced husband again, it will be far better for you to let him succeed on his own hook first. Then he will feel superior instead of inferior. If he can come to you as a success without accepting a dole from the man whom he despises, your venture will not he so likely to fail. JANE JORDAN.

ARRANGE BENEFIT BRIDGE ON NOV. 7

Plans for . the annual benefit bridge of the Indianapolis Alumnae of Zeta Tau Alpha Sorority, to be held at Ayres’ auditorium Nov. 7, were discussed at the regular monthly meeting yesterday at Willow Lodge, Blue River, Miss Thel~ ma Haworth is general chairman. The year books for 1936-37 were distributed and appointments for the vear announ by | the presi- - dent, A pot luck supper preceded the meeting. Members of the Butler University chapter were guests. The hostesses were Miss Irene Spurgeon, at whose cottage the meeting was held; Misses Jean Vestal, Thelma McDonald and Louise Berndt.

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Latest Fashions From Local Shops

BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS

Times Fashion Editor

OLLEGE co-eds are rooting for

colorful Scotch tweed suits and high

alpine bocts for wear at football games in frost-on-the- pump-

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LEGION AUXILIARY MEETS TOMORROW

The Hilton U. Brown Jr. Post 85, is to meet tomorrow night at the D. A. R, chapter house.

The new officers in charge are Mrs. Harry Teitel, president; Mrs. Oscar Stumpf, secretary; Mrs. Ruth Bess, treasurer. The executive com-

mittee is composed of Mesdames|

Ray Pitcher, Grace Davis. ; The vice president is to be eldtted at this meeting.

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Fayette Club Meets

The Fayette Club entertained with a President's Day luncheon and meeting today at the home of Mrs. Ross Winder, 1057 W. 31st-st.

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36 requires 3': yards of 35-inch material plus 6 yards of 1i2-inch bias binding for trimming as pictured; To secure a PATTERN and STEP! BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCTIONS, inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern num‘ber and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. Maryland-st, Indianapolis.

The color mixture of the suit pictured above is as exciting ' as the bursting of autumn colors in

tree leaves this October. Fashion begins at the feet this season. With skirts climbing to new heights, the spotlight is thrown sharply on shoes. Slated to be campus favorites, the odd little bucko, ankle-high booties, shown above, are as trim as an officer’s boots and fit with equal comfort and precision, Bucko is reverse calf that has the soft look of suede but can stand much more wear and tear. ” ” x HEY are clever as Puck in forest green worn with a tweed suit which has the same haunting shade in its mixture, With seven brass eyelets to their credit they are perfect for keeping the feet warm and dry during weather that may be slushy later on. - To step up the colors of .all fall sports. clothes, shoes like this come in rust, brown, wine, black, old blue, black or gray. Even the old grads are taking to them for country and campus wear. After the game is over other highfront shoes with higher heels may be donned for tea-dancing, : Bags with matching brass-eyelet trimmings are being shown in lecal shops as a co-ordinating fashion to wear: with shoes like this. ot

Legion Auxiliary Workers Named

Mrs. George Swaim, president of the Auxiliary to Indianapolis Post 4, American Legion, has appointed chairmen and committee members. They are as follows: Amerieanism and National Defense— Mrs. Bvereit Baum, chairman; Miss Helen Silcox, vice chairman; Mrs. E. 8. Westerfelt. Year book—Mesdames A. B. Fuller, John Royse. Christmas Cheer—Mrs. M. R. Steinbach, chairman; Mrs, D. R. e, vice chairman; Mesdames Claud Record, Harry Chainberlin; Herbert Winkler, E. P. Brennan, M. J. Spring. John Downing, William R. Dexheimer, W. R. McGeehan and E. 8. Barnhill. Community service—Mrs. F. H. Sinnex, chairman; Mrs. Clarence Jackson, vice chairman. Fidac— Mrs. H. perger, chairman; Mrs. Grover Parr, vice chairman, Mrs. R. K. Gailbraith. Knightstown home—Mrs. H. Nathan Swaim, chairman; i Bayles, vice chairman; TS. . Sayer. Legislative, constituresoiutions—Mrs. Joh Nownin

n chairman; Mrs, Herbert Winkler, chairman.

Membership Aids Named :

Membership—Mrs. Louis Yoechem, chairman; Mrs. Malcolm Lucas, vige chairman; Mrs, M. J. Spring. Parliamentarian—Mrs, John Royse. Publicity and radie—Mrs. E. P. Brennan. _Visiting--Mrs. Parke Beadle, chairman; Mrs. A, H. M. Graves, vice chairman. : Rehabilitation—Mrs. ° Robert Tatman, chairman: Mesdames Herzon Thomas, Stella Norland, Grover Parr, John P. Cramp Jr., Fred Innis and Miss Gertrude McHugh. Service sales—Mrs. eRe Geehan, chairman; Mrs. Sellers, vice chairman: ‘Mesdames Clarence Martin, Charles Parker, James P. Scott, Telephone—Mrs, Earl E. Cobb, chairman; Mrs. E. S. Blessing, vice chairman; Mesdames {J. T. Couchman, James Seqtt, Clarence | Tayler, Raloh Hesler. Parke Beadle, H. A, Asperger and Miss Qpal Sileox,

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! | Unit activities—Mrs. L. J. Badolett, chairman; Mrs. Charles Crist, viee far man; Mesdames H. R. Bacheider, . EB, Sayer, Lester Dope. ye Ba. Ww. J Overmire, Louis Yochem, Mal . N. Swaim, E. 8. Baranill ¥, R. W. Lambert, C. W. Dawd, J. R. Steinbach, W. E. McGeshan . Sandstrom, . Joh Royse an ; Jackson. ; : ar pre-—=Mss. 2 ne, Chairman, rs. Parroii, vice 7 Mariun, W J. i Hy

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Musicales 60th Season to Open With Guest Tea

Miss Carolyn Richardson, Indianapolis Matinee. Musicale president, is to head the receiving line today at a guest tea and reception in Ayres’ auditorium, marking the Musicale’s sixtieth year. Miss Maxine Moore, contralto, is to be guest soloist for the program, replacing Helen Thomas Bucher, dramatic soprano, who is ill, The Orloff quintet composed of Miss Ruth Richardson, Anderson; Mrs, Walter Treanor, Misses Jeannette Orloff, Martha Rucker and Frances Wishard, is to present a program, Miss Marie Zorn, pianist, is to take part. : : Honorary life and life members are to be special guests, Fall flowers are to appoint the tea table and decorate the auditorium. Receiving with Miss Richardson are to be the following executive board members: Mesdames James Lowry, Thomas, P. Woodsan, William Stark, Wendell P. Coler and Simon L, Kiser and Miss Ida Belle Sweenie; and the following advisory committee members: Mesdames Frank Cregor, Jane Johnson Burroughs, James M. Ogden, Robert O. Bonner, Frank T. Edenharter and

Frederic Sterling and committee

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Etiquette

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HIP ETIQUETTE — The only 2 place where formal introductions are not necessary is at sea. Life on shipboard is more or less free from conventionalities, It is permissible for fellow travelers to converse without being introduced. A young woman traveling alone, however, should be careful not to pick up any haphazard acquaintances. One should enter inio the ship gaieties, as it is ill-bred and discourteous to refuse to take par. Steamer rugs may be taken by the traveler, or hired on board ship. If the traveler has a preference as to where he would like to sit, either on deck or in the dining room, he should make arrangements with the steward in charge of the dining room and the deck steward. The purser will give information about tips, and it is also his duty to take charge of valuables for safekeeping.

Warns Against Wasting Pity on One's Self

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Writer Asserts We Turn - Thoughts on Ego Too Much.

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

Sometimes I wish the race had been born without power to feel. I don’t mean “touch,” just emotion. When I am distressed or discouraged or humiliated, I have tried something like the Coue method.

don’t feel anything. Nothing at all. You are just a bump like a stone or a clod of mud. You don’t matter. You don’t feel. You are a machine, dead, dead, dead to all feeling.” : : And actually it does help. I matter too much to myself. We all matter too much to ourselves. Who on earth cares how we feel? And why should we care how we feel? . Now, this is a dangerous philosophy, but I do not believe ioo| dangerous. Because it won't interefere with our sympathy for others. It won't do anything but turn our eyes away from our ingrown ego and sorrow for our plight. And it is high time that we desensitized ourselves, if you know what I mean. ’

Too Prone to Suffer

I think little children suffer too Pmuch. I think growing children suffer the tortures of the condemned from inferiority and fear of people. I think that the average adult is a cringing and pitiable creature, robbed of his efficiency because of unsureness. And the whole darn world is tired and sorry for itself. This is the prodash of civilization and nothing else ut. All this tirade on feeling because I think many of our children get tired and sick and unhappy from sheer feeling. They don’t like to study. They don’t like to work. They don’t like to do much of anything that takes real digging. What the actual muscles and brain can stand is so amazing that no one would believe it if I quoted facts. Our bodies are capable of ten times™as much work as we do. We are not physically or mentally tired, when we complain of weariness, but unless there is a real hitch in metabolism or Rody chemistry, we are tired “feelingly.” And so I say. Do try to teach the children to break away from thinking forever of themselves. Toughen their fiber. They can not be treated as alligators that have no feeling of any sort and therefore live a thousand years, nut they can be ‘taught to think that

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A.A.U.W. Holds Annual Meeting

State officers and chairmen and branch presidents and chairmen, Indiana division, American Association of University Women, are to have their annual meeting for dis= cussion of the state program of study and community activities at the Y. W. C. A. at 10 a. m. tomorTOW. : Two Indianapolis branch members are state board members: Mrs. Walter P. Morton, legislation chairman, and Mrs. John A, Cejnar, publicity chairman, Mrs. Joseph McCord, Greencastle, is to preside. Following luncheon at noon, plans for a state convention next spring at South Bend will be discussed. ;

MRS. MARTINDALE RECEIVES AT TEA

* Mrs. John T. Martindale received frienids at a téa this afternoon in honor of her daughter-in-law, Mrs. Cortland Van Camp Martindale, who has returned from Denver, Col. Receiving with Mrs. Martindale were Mrs. Elijah B. Martinsdale and Mrs. Rosamond Van Camp Hill. Assistants were Mesdames Henry D. Ridgely, Roger G. Wolcott, Elias C. Atkins, Garvin M. Brown, A. Kiefer Mayer, Irving M. Fauvre, George Ziegler, Charles A. Greathouse Jr., Harriet Greathouse Frenzel, Charles Nicholson, Robert Bowen, Richard Fairbanks Jr., Sylvester Johnson, Miss Katharine Malott Brown and Miss Laura Miller.

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‘ASKED’ TO GRAND SLAM

Today’s Contract Problem

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ANSWER TO PREVIOUS PROBLEM

BY WILLIAM E. M’KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary

HEN a partner has shown an ace in response to the fist asking bid, the asker no longer is concerned with aces. He may then want to find out about isolated kings and even queens.

The general rule for responses is to bid no trump if you hold the card partner asks for, but to return to the agreed trump suit if you lack that card.

In today’s hand, South’s fourheart bid asked for the king or sinfileton heart. With a singleton heart, North naturally responded four no trump. South then knew that a small slam was unbeatable, but wanted to try for a grand slam. He therefore bid five hearts—asking for third round control of the suit. North would have to respond with five no trump with any singleton, the doubleton king or the king and

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queen, since any of these holdings would permit him to win the second

and third rounds of hearts. ~— When North bid five no trump, South had the satisfaction of bidding a lay-down grand slam in spite of the fact that two kings and three queens were held by the opponents. When the hand was played in a recent duplicate tournament, 12 pairs did not get beyond four spades, two pairs got to a small slam with fear and trembling, and one pair used the “asking bids” to get to a

grand slam for a cold “top.” (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)

SHOWER TO HONOR MRS. R. W. WOODS

Miss Mary Stansbury and Mrs. Ernest L. Karsner are to entertain

with a linen shower tonight at the latter's home, 1422 N. Colorado-av. The honor guest is to be Mrs. R. W. Woods, who before her recent marriage was Miss Pauline Littrell. Table decorations are to be carried

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Fruit Inexpensive Ths Time of Year; Is Prepared Easily.

By NEA Service What about an apple dessert for dinner tonight? Apples are abunlant now, inexpensive and it would oe hard to name a fruit more gen“rally popular. Here's a way to prepare them that you may not have tried. Pare apples and mash to puip, bout do not cook. There should be 1 cup of apple pulp. Combine with 12 cup orange juice, 1-4 teaspoon salt and 1-4 cup powdered sugar. Beat the yolks of 2 eggs, “hen pour over them 1 cup scalded milk. Cool. Combine with the apAdd 1% cup finelv“hopped pecans. Next, beat the whites of 2 eggs until stiff and dry. Stir in 1-4 cup powdered sugar and fold into the fruit mixture. Pour into six 6-ounce china or glass cusard cups and freeze. Decorate with {iny apple jelly cubes just before: serving. . And there is always Brown 3etty in October. But she reveals . different nature to different cooks. iere’s one of her more charming ‘noods. {| Peel, core and slice about 2 quar:s art apples. Butter a deep baking dish. Turn in the apples and dust with this spicy mixture: 3% cup brown sugar, 112 teaspoons cinna‘non, 's teaspoon nutmeg and ‘4 icaspoon grated orange peel. Mix together 2 cups dry bread crumbs ind % cup melted butter. Spread this over the apples. Bake in hot cven 13 hour. Serve piping hot with chilled, lightly whipped cream, flavored with a few drops of almond extract. Apple Pan Dowdy is another trea’, Use 5 medium tart apples. Peel, core and cut into sections. Butter x pie dish, arrange the apple sections over bottom. Sprinkle with 1’ cup sugar, mixed with 2 teaspoons cinnamon. Dot with 1% tables spoons butter. Make a biscuit dough, Eoll about 12 inch thick and cover the apples. Bake in moderate oven until brown, about 12; hour. Turn cat, apple side up. Serve with bard sauce.

Business Women : Named Members In Club for Life

{Twenty Indianapolis Business and P'ofessional Women's Club menibers have taken life memberships ini the club. Life memberships, not tc exceed 20, were created at the ciub’s opening fall meeting last night at the new clubhouse, 1101 N. Delaware-st. The club is to entertain with its’ first - silver tea from 3 to 6 p. mu Sunday, Nov. 8, at the clubhouss, with Brown County artists and their wives as guests. Paintings made by Indiana artists have been loaned {or display. Mrs. Willa Procter, pro« gram chairman, arranged the meets ing, which included a talk on “The Fower Behind the Pen,” by Mrs, Eertita Harding. c Mrs. Harding, author of “Phantom Crown,” and “Royal Purple” com pleted her third novel, soon te he printed. ; 3 8he explained the factors moti+ vating her writing as “accidents of chance.” Mrs. Nell Warren presided.

BICK-LOCKS VOWS SET FOR MONDAY:

Miss Minnie Locks, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Locks, is ta be married to Henry Bick Monday at the Seventh Presbyterian Church, Mr. and Mrs. Fred Haunss ene fertained last night with a linen shower in honor of the bride-to-be,

Days of Indian Summer call for refreshment comparable with an

|| ocean breeze . . . a mint julep . . .

a cool smoke. - And so, ROYALE Cigarettes again fill the bill. And right now ... ROYALES are as near as your nearest HAAG Drug Store. This unusual and refreshing smoke has been wafted to us on a veritable sea breeze from Biscayne Bay . .. and from smart circles in Miami's social life. Inhale that first whiff of mint from a fresh pack of ROYALES . .. and prepare to enjoy each mild cigarette within. Buy ROYALES by the carton, if you like, at HAAG'S.

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Real English violets from the Devonshire country have been the inspiration for a

very choice floral perfume.

If we can’t go to Chicago, why,

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hibition of photographs taken in romantie, PreWar Spain . ., to see a collection of ex-~ guisite etchings from Paris . . . with # a genuine oh and ah for some rare Lo pieces of old jewelry just chanced to meet my glance ‘+... and with an attentive ear for the colorful stories depicted in patch work wall

hangings mae by natives of Santo Dx go . . . well, interesting day

If you've ever experienced the delightful fragrance from round cake of Spanish soap

tunity. _ covery . Day,

- elephant and donkey.

When sending your rugs ta be cleaned . . . are you sure the method carries the scol of “Good Housekeeping” De proval? ;

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