Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 2 October 1936 — Page 24

0 to Court for Aid, Jane Advises Wife

‘Some Persons Know No Law Save Force, Writer Says.

Put your problems in a letter {0 Jane Jordan whe will answer your questions in this column each day.

: DEAR JANE JORDAN-—I ; am an 18 . year - old mother of a six-month-old daughter and am expecting another child. My husband was wonderful to me until he went to the National Guard camp this summer. When he ‘returned his mother told him that I had been running around although I hadn't been away from the house but twice in two weeks. Now he says he won't live with me any more.

It has been three | weeks since I have | ‘ seen or heard! from him. I have tried to get hold | of him but somehow I can’t find | him. I love him and I can't go on like this. I can’t cause him trouble. 1 haven't the nerve. He isn't even supporting the little girl and she needs clothes now that cold weather is near. I've cried day and night over this and I am at the end of my rope. What am I to do? el DISTRESSED. ANSWER: - The only thing you can do is to appeal to the court tor help. If your husband is working and can be found, he will be obliged by law to come to your rescue. You say you haven't the nerve to cause him trouble. Why not? ' He caused you trouble, Perhaps you think he is more likely to return of his own free will and accord if you do not antagcnize him; but you can't afford to wait indefinitely ior a change of heart. Some people know no law except force. The only thing that keeps them decent at all is fear: If you are lenient with such a person he does not respect you but interprets your tolerance as weakness. A highly civilized man is moved by a generovs gesture and influenced by a forgiving attitude. His own respect for himself will not permit him to desert those who are dependent upon him. But a man who deserts his children because he is provoked with their mother is a coward who will let his obligations slide unless he is made to fulfill them. DEAR JANE JORDAN—I am a young girl in my teens. I am going steady with a boy about whom I ~ care nothing, and I am in love with another boy with whom I have had a few dates. The boy I go steady with seems to think a lot of me. He is nice looking but doesn’t appeal to me somehow, but I don't know how to get rid of him. ‘The boy I really love goes with a girl from another town but I think I am just as good as she is. Please give me some advice.—A DAILY READER. ANSWER—I can not tell you how to attract the attention’of the boy you want. It probably would be easy enough to do but there are no specific rules you can follow. The boy is a total stranger to me; therefore I have no idea what appeals te him, What I wonder is whether or not you would want him after you got him. Perhaps the thing that intrigues you is the thrill of taking him away from another girl. I don’t think you need worry about getting rid of your steady boy friend. When your indifference bites into him enough he will be the one to get rid of you. Then, perhaps, you would want him back.

Jane Jordan

JANE JORDAN.

Etiquette

By PATRICIA OW TO REGISTER—Arriving at the hotel, the traveler allows the bellboy to take his hand bag‘gage and goes at once to the desk _ to register. It is not good form for a lady to linger in the lobby. If the room has not been reserved, the traveler makes arrangements at the desk. It always is better, however, to reserve a room in advance is possible. This can be done by letter

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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOOD

, Times Fashion Editor - :

HE season has gone glamorous.

Evening ensembles for coming: social

festivities are cut on interesting lihes, made of expensive-looking materials and finished sumptiously with fur ‘and jewels. Woolens have loofned into importance for luxurious dinner ‘clothes. Witness the twin-like suits above worn by Misses Dorothy and Ruth

Brullow, twins in their own right. Dorothy (left) sees herself as others see her, when she gazes on the rich costume of rough hair wool and velvet, which Ruth wears. The suits are identical except for the different colored transparent velvet “tops” and the gloves, which are foils for the gray wool of the costumes. Coronation blue is the color accent for one, worn with a matching blue velvet hat adorned with fluted = velvet trimmings of vivid

hues.

” » ” DEEP garnet shade takes to the tailored blouse of . the other suit and matching gloves. The fetching hat, with its scoop-shovel front, is of red velvet also, banded in crushed velvet. The circular capes, so .chic and flattering, are trimmed with chinchillette and are as short. as the new mode dictates. 3 A When that inevitable question:is asked, “Shall we dress for dinner?” let the answer be “Yes.” Translated into modern fashions this means a dinner suit of wool that will be inconspicious on the street, yet elegant enough to stand out in a crowd while you are dining and dancing. For the escort, it means a dinner jacket.

Reception Honors Federation Heads

trict Federation of Clubs were spe-

2 to 4 p.m. at the Woman's Department. Club. ii " They included Mrs. VanDyke, secon

These officers, were elected in the fall of 1935 to serve in 1936 and 1937. wo Fall flowers and autumn leaves decorated the ‘dinning room, and the tea table was arranged with bittersweet and autumn leaves. Mrs. R. O. McAlexander and Mrs, Paul T. Hurt presided at a tea table.

chairman, and Mrs. ¢. J. Finch, federation president, fieaded the re-

ceiving line.

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New officers of the Seventh Discial guests today ata reception from | George Al] vice president; ’}

Mrs. Rudolph Gfosskop!. secretary; |" and Mrs. 'W. H. Polk, treasurer.|"

Mrs. Harold M. Trusle:, reception.

Parents Arrange

Dinner in Honor of Bride-to-Be

A bridal dinner is to be given tonight at the Marott by Mr. and Mrs. F. P. Woolery in honor of their dsughter, Miss Frances Woolery, and James Franklin ‘Hollingsworth, whose marriage is to take place at high noon tomorrow in the McKee Chapel, Tabernacle. Presbyterian Church. The dinner’ table is to be appointed in silver and white. Candelabra and fall flowers are to form the centerpiece. Covers are to be laid for Miss Woolery, Mr. Hollingsworth, his par- J ents, Dr. and ‘Mrs. W. F. Hollings~ voorth; his brother, L. C. Hollingsworth, and Mrs. Hollingsworth, all of Atlanta, Ga.; Dr. and Mrs. Homer Woolery, “Bloomington; Mrs.” Wilson Miller, ‘Detroit; Mrs. W. C, Barnes, Marion; Mr. and Mrs. Charles Campbell, Mrs. Charles E. Ferrell, Mr. and Mrs. Egbert Campbell and Miss Ola Field.

Mr. and Mrs. James A. Baker, 3503 Kenwood-av, are at the Edison in New York.

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Barton Says Teaching of Honesty All-Important for = Children.

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

Stealing is one thing that psy- |

chologists find hard to explain.

Note the cases of children from good | and prosperous families, who oc- |. casionally develop a habit of pilfer-|

ing from their friends. There is no apparent reason why such a boy or girl, well supplied with money,

should go in for theft. Kleptomania |

is looked upon as a mental disease, yet the offender will give no other reason for our not believing in his complete sanity. Of course, the motives of children

who have better excuse for envying.

their neighbors are quite apparent. Here. we nave as causes everything from the natural yearning for possession to jealousy. A boy feels that he just must own a pair of skates like John Henry's, for instance. They have not been forthcoming, and after a few weeks he may have a chance to pick up a pair, which: he does from a sort of desperation. Maybe to save. his face, as he thinks, in John Henry's eyes. Maybe because he has lain and dreamed of rolling along on smooth walks so long it has become an unbearable obsession. Maybe he is so jealous of his friend he is evep tempted to steal his, or at least show him that he can get a pair anyway. Cause Rules Correction

All this, however unmoral, is understandable and can be corrected by wise handling. The parent ‘must 400k behind motives always. The correction should depend upon the reason the child stole. And one of the first things every one has to learn is that no one can have what others have. Denial, no matter how hard to endure, must be practiced. That property rights are sacred

But about this other child, or adolescent, who steals for no obvious reason—that is something else. Usually it is traced to a sense of inferiority. When the culprit ‘begins to feel that he is so worthless that nothing else matters, the inner brooding may explode in this ‘way or in other ways just as mysterious. A lonely child will sometimes steal, that is, if he feels out of it and unpopular with other crowds. Perhaps he is carrying on the habit of all childhood. That demands attention even at a price. Pitiful, isn’t it? ~ Remove Temptation Whatever the reason, whether the child takes pennies from. his mother’s purse, eats his sister's candy secretly and denies it, helps himself to fountain pens in school or goes in for wholesale theft, he is putting himself beyond the ‘pale of law and society.. He does not realize that he will be forever ticketed as a thief. And ‘because he does not know it, he must be saved in spite of himself. : While I don’t believe in giving any child too much to call his own, or more allowance than just enough to cover his small: expenditures, no matter how rich the family is, yet there should-be some attempt to satisfy his most urgent cravings, depending on the average prosperity of his immediate play-: mates. Otherwise temptation may win. : Stop it at once. Don’t wait. Honesty should become such an inhibition with all children, that starvation itself could not - tempt them without a struggle.

(Copyright, 1936." NEA Service, Inc.) Sorority Pledges 3 Mrs. George Saas, Mrs. Charles Harden and Miss Katherine Hanna are new pledges of Sigma Epsilon Sorority. Pledges services were held last night at the home of Mrs.

Sherman England, 5339 College-av. Mrs. George Esterline and Mrs.

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Helen Foster assisted Mrs. England.

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Solution to Previous Problem BY WM. E. WKENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary

NE of the new bids in the Cul-

raise of an opening two-bid in a suit. - The opening two-bid in .a suit is the Culbertson System's strongest bid. It is an absolute force to game, and usually shows five and one-half or more honor tricks with a strong suit and. good distribution. The double raise of an opening two-bid used to be a strong bid and a slam try. But now it is a weak bid; in fact, it is a warning. North's hand, today, with which

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from two spades fo four spades; is very simple—“Five trumps . (some: times four trumps headed by 4 queen) and no card ‘in-the Nand higher than a queen.” Likewise, the double raise may not be given if the hand contains any singleton or a void. :

This tells the opening _two-bid: der right away that, while the trump suit ‘he has named is saty isfactory for a game, any slam bidding ‘he does must be on his own responsibility. When South bid two spades in the hand shown, and was jumped to four spades by North, he knew exactly where he stood. ‘A slam was completely out of the question, because North could have neither the ace, king nor a singleton in

clubs. . i : (Copyright. 1936. NEA Service, Inc.)

St. Margaret’ Hospital , Guild members are completing ticket sales for the Indiana Saddle Horse Association's fourth annual roundup Sunday at Gregg Farms. They are being assigned to duties during the event by Mrs. Jackson K. Landers, guild general chairman. Mrs. Edward ‘P. Gallagher is east gate captain, assisted by Mrs. Harry K. Stormont. Mrs. Fred D.- Norris, captain, and Mrs. Preston J. MecNurlen, assistant, are to be stationed at the west gate. Their assistants are to be Mesdames Frank Ball Jr., Donald Carter, Mark Enright, L. H. Earle, S. E. Fenstermaker, Merritt Fields, Harold Feighwner, L. E. Gausepohl, Dudley Griffith, Charles M. Hammond, M. L. Haymann, William Henry Harrison, Walter I. Hess, Forrest Hindsley, Willis Kuhn, Ralph Lochry, K. M. Mosiman,

liam Low Rice, A. L. Rust, Luther J. Shirley, T. C. Twyman, H.. P.. Werkman, Gayle B. Wolfe, Arthur Wyatt, Donaldson G. Trone.

Chair Committee Named :

Mrs. Carter has charge of arm bands to be worn by the Camp Fire Girls, who are to usher. The chair committee is composed of Mesdames Ernest Gimbel, Robert Burnett, W. F. Sandman and Frank T. Carroll. On Mrs. Evanson B.

Earp’s reserved seat committee are

Mesdames Ross Coffin, Reinie Miller, Gustav Mueller,” Frank Haight, Wilbur C. Patterson, Russel Williams, Myron Cosler, Croel P. Conder, L. D.. Grisbaum, Francis H. Sinex, William F. Mullen, Clara Stutz, Thomson Van Land-

ingham and William Herschel. Among additional boxholders are Messrs. and Mesdames T. ._ Overly, Woods A. Caperton Jr., Arch Grossman, Earl W. Kiger, Forrest. Spencer. Samuel. Runnels Harrell, Charles Latham, Paul Rochford, Thomas Fittz, James E. Cantwell, George J. Mare: Mrs. John Beals. Noblesville; L. M. Green, Dr. George Gillie; Fort Wayne; E. B. Young, Liston; Dr. and Mrs. Earp, Dr. and Mrs. Wolfe rs E. B. McKinstray, William Rockwood, Noblesville; Sam Allen, Roy E. ,Churchill, Mrs. William J. Young, Omer 8. Hunt, Jack Godfrey, Howard Intermiil amd Mrs. H. Hi. Crossland. _Mr. and Mrs. Russell Handy. Morristown, are to entertain in their box Mr. and Ms. | Robert F. Handy, Miss Betty Elliott, Greenfield, and Norman Buchan. Amon guests of Mr. and Mrs. Pleas Greenlee,

Frank Prange, John Rau Jr. Wil- |p

Hospital Guild Members Push + Ticket Sale for Roundup Event

Shelbyville, are to be Mr. and Mrs: Frank A. Hanley, Muncie: Mr. and Mrs. Robert Hunter, Anderson; Mr. and Mrs. Al Johnson, Anderson; Mr. and Mrs. Paul Fry and son, Robert, Linton. and Mr. and Mrs. Forrest A. Harness. Mr. and Mrs. Willis Kuhn are to entertain Mr. and Mrs, E. W. Berger and Mrs. S. Abley.

Others Make Reservations

In Mr. and Mrs. P. O. Ferrell’s boxes are to be Messrs. and Mesdames G. E

Cowan, Pete Smith, Ted Carter and Don:

Miss Jane McGinnis and Lowell 3 In Dr. and Mrs. Werkman's party are to be Mr. and Mrs. G. E, Newhouse, Mrs, E. Pyke and G. Bisesi. Miss Bernice Church is to entertain Mr. and Mrs. Max De Vietien, Thompson, Jewell Bartlow and Catherine Lang. Mr. and Mrs. Gausepohl are’ to attend with Mr. and Mrs. Jack Adams and their sons, Robert and Jackson. Misses Betti Sue Wooilng, Helen Myers, Betty Conder. Robert Kemper, J.. Edward Perry Jr 2nd Paul Scheuring are to attend together. vo dade

In Mf. and Mrs. Fenstermaker's party are to be L. M. Schwoerer of California, Mrs. Fenstermaker’'s father; Mr.'an Charles Hagedon, Miss Pat Hagedon. Mr. and. Mrs, Robert Ittenback, Larry IttenMr. Mrs. 'Harfison Beni . Van Landingham are: . and Mrs. Alexander Thomson and daughter. Alix; Mr. and’ Mrs. 8.) E: Cornelius Helwig and Billy. Van .Landingam,

Wright; H. Stormont.

| Evans Home Is

Scene of Fete for Bride-to-Be

Mrs. Robert B. Evans’ luncheon today for Miss Eleanér -Anne Barrett, bride-to-be, was given at her home on Kessler-blvd. ‘a ‘ . ‘Miss Barrett’s marriage to ‘Oren. Benjamin: Bromley Jr. is to take place Oct. 12-at the Propylaeum. . Guests included: Miss Barrett's mother; ‘Mrs. Ernest Clifford Bar: rett; her sister, Miss Florence Barrett, who is to ‘be in the bridal party; Mrs. Don: €: Barrett, Haverford, Pa.; Mrs. Muncie; Miss Cora Fletcher, Mis. Lawrence Barrett, Mrs. James Pearson and Mrs. Edward D. Evans.

RECENT BRIDE IS GUEST AT SHOWER

Miss. Carl Siler, formerly Miss Elizabeth Allen, was honored recently at a miscellaneous ‘shower

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Recipe Given for Cakes of | Poppy Seeds

| Suggested for Serving

With Fruit Desserts “or With Drinks.

| BY NEA Service

Those of you who are firm believe ers in the idea that a full ctokie jar is the surest method of obtain-

J |ing a reputation for hospitality will

enjoy this unusual recipe for chocolate poppy seed cookies. Of course, you may have heard tales about poppy seeds, tall tales about the dreams they inspiré, but: these innocent little poppy seeds will induce no dreams except those of good, crunchy. cookies with a wonderful ‘flavor, due to the use of the little black seeds. You can buy poppy seeds ‘at most grocery and delicatessen shops:’ Usually 114 cups (2 pound) sell for about 10 cents. :

Poppy Seed Cookies

One-half cup ‘butter; 2 ounces sweet cooking chocolate, !: cup hot milk, ‘ 22 ‘cup sugar, 1 cup poppy seeds, 1% cups flour, 4 teaspoon ground ‘cloves, 1 teaspoon baking powder, 14 teaspoon cinnamon. The sweet chocolate comes in packages just like the bitter chocolate does, marked off in one, ounca squares.

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Breakfast — Cereal cooked with figs, cream, crisp. whole wheat toast, milk, coffee. Luncheon—Poached eggs on milk toast, celery: and carrot _ straws, baked apples, poppy | seed cookies, milk, tea, : Dinner — Broiled liver and bacon, creamed onions, buttered broccoli, head lettuce . with: French dressing, cherry . pie, milk, coffee,

Soak the poppy seeds in the hof. milk. ‘ Melt the chocolate over hot water. Cream. the butter and sugar and add the poppy seeds and milk, then th? melted chocolate and sifted dry’ ingredients (flour, cloves, baking powder and cinnamon). , o Mix thorotighly to a smooth bat« ter. . : LER Grease ‘a large cookie pan and’ drop the batter in ‘small rounds about two inches in diameter and one inch apart. mE Bake at 350 Degrees eo ‘Have“ your oven moderate (350: degrees), and‘ bake the cookies: about 12 minutes. : ‘ : Remove with a spatula or flat knife to a board to cool. These, cookies will be crisp and have a delicate and elusive flavor. Incidentally, here is a solution for that knotty problem of “what is there in the house to serve with drinks.” They are an ideal accompaniment to tea or coffee or even iced drinks, since they aren't too sweet. .And to serve.with a fruit dessert, nothing could be better than these delicious tid-bits. By the way, savé this recipe for your pre-Christmas baking. . These. cookies are just right to have with a Christmas or New Year egg-nog.

MISS WOLF HERE FOR TENNIS DINNER Miss Catherine Wolf, Elkhart, is here to ‘attend the Indianapolis Amateur Tennis League banquet tomorrow night at the Antlers. : Trophies are to be presented to the winners: of the Public Parks tourney, the Real Silk tourney and.

the winners of the three divisions ‘of the league play. |

In the CLAYPOOL HOTEL," in each of its three dining: rooms, you are assured of uniform’ quality in food or ..Begause, you see, ‘the CLAYPOOL buys only the ~ best. Choose your y atmosphere, select the price you x want to pay, and

I satisfy your. prevailing appetite and

thirst—you will be served only the

‘| best.’ And so. it is with the famous

Hoosier breakfast now being served in the Grill — buckwheat cakes and real pork sausage! Try it tomor=row!

Did you know that if you brushed end curls instead of combing them they would be much softer and moré natural

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manent curls. =~ 2% x A new shipment of ROYALE Cigarettes has just been received by the HAAG Drug Stores. Cigargyesies with the fresh, mild flavor of mint . . . these ROYALES are something of an

, Indianapolis persons who tered there last seaso: - brought back the good word. here they-are . . . in every HAAG Drug Store. Son r yor

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Right in the “midst of. a shopping’ excur;sfon .', why not indulge in a restful © few minutes listening to exquisite organ music? .. . the real living kind? Try it next time you : find yourself becoming weary ‘of the down town. Which reminds me . . . what .aboub establishing a salon in “which we might: listen to our favorite radio programs while | away. from our own home radio sets? Snatch a few minites for shopping sroufid ‘the’ _air waves so that those choice jaytipme programs are -avail-. ble to all who-have a speial - interest... World . Series eets the public ear. © Why hot similar private receptios?. | You'll see. several ‘shopping gestions herewith — my

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tumes these first fall days. So snug

- and comfy to.wear . .., s0.inexe " pensive! At least the group - " of two-piece knits I saw at§ >

THE COLLEGIATE SHOP carried an extremely moderate tag. ‘Wouldn't you gladly pay $395 for a

styled and in your favarite X5' color? $3.95 for the two > pieces! And I saw one of + ' © the black suits with new =~ . boat neck adorned with only a necklace of pearls . . . m-m-m! THE COLLEGIATE SHOP has a beautiful assortment of better knit ted. wear from $6.95 to $1650 . . ir you prefer. Better go “collegiate” , . . 16 N. Meridian St.

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