Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 1 October 1936 — Page 21

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‘Advises Leon to Seek Woman Mentally and

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Emotionally Like Himself and With Same Goal.

Jane Jordan will answer your questions and help you with your problems by her replies to your letters in this column.

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TEAR JANE JORDAN—I am a young man of 29, di-

vorced, and have a child

5 years old. I am going with a

girl of 19. We met three years ago but had our first date last spring. We became engaged two months later; then she

started going with other fellows while I was away.

found this out and she has promised three times to be true but has

failed each time. Now she wants another chance. girl, but do you think it wise to give her another chance?

LEON.

ANSWER—I am afraid that you have chosen

too young a girl.

You want her to look 19 and

act 29. This she can not do until she has lived

another 10 years.

variety.

At 19 a girl is interested in

It is her right to see a number of young

men so that she will have some basis of comparison when she makes her final choice. ‘ You are confronted with a task quite different. You've had your fling and know the sting of defeat. From the knowledge gained by experience you have

built a set of

youngster of 19. woman who stands where you do mentally and

Jane Jordan

values which mean nothing to a You would do better to seek a

emotionally, and whose goal in life lies in the same direction. 5 If you want to give the girl another chance it is your own affair. > I do think that you would be extremely unwise to marry a girl who is still in search of adventure and excitement.in love, before she has

developed a bump of responsibility.

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DEAR JANE JORDAN—I would like to write a few lines in answer : to the gentlemen who are always complaining about the habits of + modern women and who believe that there are no old-fashioned girls

in existence teday.

I suppose I would be considered one myself. do not drink, smoke or care for night life.

popular with most ycung men. I am not coniplaining. I would rather

not be popular.

MISS 23.

ANSWER—I can't help but doubt your statement that you would

rather not be popular.

In fact there is a note of disappointment in

your letter that your kind of girl is not appreciated. The only thing you can do is to take a sort of pride in yeur aloofness, but I verily

believe you are lonely,

I have no doubt that there are many young men pining for young ladies who are more like their Victorian mothers and that many will reply to your letter asking for your address—which I do

not have.

JANE JORDAN.

PERMITS BID TO GAME

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Solution to Previous Problem BY WM. E. McKENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary N today’s hand South's opening bid was a minimum, and North, fearing such a minimum, was technically correct in passing. However, Culbertson advises against following the rules woodenly, and shows in his “Gold Book” how North's pass made it easy for East and West to make a game.

South led three rounds of diamonds, East trumping the third. East then led hearts until North took the ace. North returned a spade. : With three rounds of trumps draw and all three spades cashed, East could count South's hand for five diamonds, one heart and at most four spades. He knew that South could not have only a fourcard diamond suit, for if North had held four diamonds and an ace he. Nou not have passed the opening d. Therefore, in any case, South must have no fewer than three clubs. Likewise South must. hold the queen of clubs, for North would not have passed the opening bid with an ace and a queen. ‘East therefore knew that, if he finessed the queen of clubs, he

Evening Parties to Be Started by Propylacum

The Propylaeum Club’s season of evening parties is to begin Sunday with a buffet supper at the clubhouse. After the supper, Mrs. Demarchus Brown is to talk on “A New Traveler in Old Virginia.” She vacationed in Virginia last summer. ea reine w oct 21 i y Entertainment committee chair‘man is Mrs. Frederick E. Matson,

rge.Phillp Meier, James MC A. Dickinson Smith, Ed1 T. Wood and Everett E! Voyles.

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29 4 Vv “ would lose it, and that if he played the ace and king, the queen would not drop. Having lost three tricks, East tried to avoid / the loss of the setting trick by use of the backward finensse. He led the jack of clubs, South covered with the queen and dummy took the ace. Now the nine of clubs was led from dummy and, when North played low East finessed. The nine won the trick, and East made his contract. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)

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Club is jus the season's smartest manner. Mrs. Robert M. Zaiser (left) a for the gala occasion in autumna

season will be all too quickly spott a sensation in it this fall. The new, spirited elegance that has taken hold ‘of casual clothes brands them as new, exciting and guaranteed get-aways from dullness, wherever smart women gather.

8 2 8: HE wide bandings of tucked velvet, which trim Mrs. Browning's Congo-brow:n costume suit indicate its fashion rightness. The tailored one-piece dress, beneath the swagger jacket is trimmed with velvet covered buttons and matching scarf. Bands of velvet form wide cuffs on the bell sleeves of the finger-iip length jacket. A cross-wise feather of brown angles its way over the peaked crown of the brown felt hat, to give it a care-free look. Mrs. Zaiser’s style-brizat costume is of green ficcked woo! of nubby texture. There is a particular swank about the gatheredd yoke with its perky bows: of green and the kelly green band around the hemline of the swing skirt. The twin pointed hat of wool, which she wears so engagingly was inspired by Florence Reichman and is the type which adds allure to any fall costume.

BOOSTERS STAGE SCHOOL DAY PARTY

Riviera Booster Clul> members donned school!’ clothes and carried school books fo the annual “Back to School Days’ party 2nd dance at the clubhouse last night. William L. Bridges wa: chairmen and Irvin F. Heidenreich was in charge of old-time schoo! games and contests.

—Times Photo by Wheeler.

BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor I ars opening of the Trophy Room at the Indianapolis cation enough for going high-hat and wool-frocked in

Athletic

nd Mrs. Paul Browning are dressed 1 shades of brown and green wool

You can he sure that your favored town-going costume of another

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Etiquette — By PATRICIA

HE ARRIVAL—On arriving at the destination there are many things to do. In the first place, there must be arrangements about the luggage. If a woman is alone she may engage a porter, and for a small tip she can turn over her baggage to him with directions as to the checking. These things are attended to with speed and accuracy by the station attendant, so there is no need to worry. The attendant also will call a taxi and see that the hand luggage is taken care of.

A woman traveling alone, especially if she is’ nervous, certainly should make use of the porters, attendants and Travelers’ Aid. "These people are in the station to help travelers.

If a man and woman are traveling together, the ‘man takes care of the luggage and tickets. He calls the taxi and pays for it. A tip of 10 per cent to the taxi driver is usual.

SPANISH STUDENTS TO BEGIN CLASS

A-Friday night class for advanced Spanish students is to have its first meeting at 6:15 p. m. tomorrow in the Y. W. C. A. This class is planned for those who have had some instruction in the language. It can be applied to college credits or for those who desire preparation in a commercial line. The class is open to new enrollments. =

Guide to Child Training, Claim

| Writer Advises Parents

“to Choose Method - for Personality.

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON In point of claracter, there is one outstanding item that, I believe, makes all the difference between the weak and the strong. This is especially demonstrated in childhood, yet I believe most parents neither notice it nor think of it. The strong personality knows exactly what he wants to have or do. The mediocre personality has no

ke likes it or not. This second type of child is the most agreeable. He usually falls in with other people’s plans, and amiably fits himself into any routine set for him. It is easier than

| thinking things out for himself. And

Alpha Chi Omega Mothers’ Club

honor of the new pledges’ mothers. to be in charge of the meeting. Mrs luncheon committee, Mesdames J. A. Frye, A. D. Conner Guy Boyd and Roy Johnson.

M. L. Center, J. M. Crise, J. F Doty, H. W. Eisenman, E. F. Finley

frew, Ray Reynolds, C. A. Roof, G P. Schulz, 0. H. Taylor, J. Bundy and Ora Newman.

Bridge Playoff

The Butler University Pi

Mrs. C. J. Shirk, until tomorrow. Meetings

present school year.

luncheon.

Club Gives Shower

239 N. Rural-st, was hostess.

EVERYONE SAYS IT'S EASY TO BE A FINE COOK NOW-— SPRY MAKES FOODS DOUBLY ] 3 DELICIOUS &

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\OULD an ordinary product u make such a record? Never in allthe world! Try Spry, thenew purer ALL-vegetable shortening and see how amazingly better it is. See how easily smoot h; white, creamy Spry blends ith ‘your other ingredients to give you the lightest, finest textured cakes and biscuits you ever tated, the flakiest pie crust. Try Spry for frying. No smoke, no «lor; does not absorb food flavors. Never, you'll agree, were fried foods so crisp, tender and grea:cless, so utterly delicious. And they're as digestible as if baked - boiled!

can of Spry from your : rocer to- . Keep it right in th kitchen

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se. No need to put Spry in the

refrigerator; it stays fresh and sweet at room ‘temperature, ale 4 ways. Use Spry for all your bak- {es

g and frying. Then decide

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Buy a can of Spry from your grocer. _ Give Spry every test in pies, cakes, R biscuits, fried foods. If you don’t find pany, Cambridge, Mass., stating Spry. Send your name and address and the strip of tin that the

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DETROIT J WOMEN SAY &\ SPRY IS GRAND OVER 175,000

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Plans Luncheon

The Butler University Alpha Chi Omega Mother's Club is to give a Jluncheoén at 1 p. m. Monday at the chapter house, 725 Hampton-dr. in

Mrs. W. C. Richter, president, is

A. R. Chapman is chairman of the assisted by ,| and then after some one does it for

Guests are to include Mesdames

A. C. Hirschman, Otto B. Heppner, H. G. Hays, W. L. Kimble, Walter King, L. R. Johnson, Ralph I. Ren-

Will Be Monday

Beta Phi Mothers’ Club bridge section is to hold its playoff of last year’s tournament following a 1 o'clock luncheon at the Marott Monday. tournament chairman, is receiving reservations of the section are to continue during the

Mrs. C. C. Woodard, a member who is to leave soon for residence in Cincinnati, is to be honored at the

The Janet Ada Club entertained with a surprise shower recently for Mrs. E. D. Curranes, formerly Miss Blanche Froelick. Mrs. Otis Lucas

anyway he doesn’t care passionately enough for any one of his own brain-children to take the troubl of fighting for it. : Another View of Obstinacy

The first kind, the intense child who is forever cooking up an idea of his own and then is ready to go through fire and water to attain his purpose, is the thorn in our side. We talk about his obstinacy and mulishness and undisciplined mind and sigh that we can't control him. As a matter of truth, it is not from this file that our “heartbreaks” come. At least not more than average, because their strength can be their salvation, and is, more often than their undoing. On the other hand, the child who wants to select his feelings and reactions after something has drifted his: way, has a habit of being dissatisfied. To all outward appearances he is plastic and gentle. In his heart, very likely, there is a vague disappointment and a right constant jealousy of others who have pushed ahead. through sheer force of will and determination that he himself lacks. Children Classified In between these two patterns are all the grades of both. Possibly few children, like few adults, are purely this or positively that.. Yet in many cases the characteristics are outstanding enough ‘to place the child, as far as his temperament is concerned. And I think all parents would gain something by classifying in general each child in the family. Not as “stubborn,” “headstrong” or “unreasonable”; as “good,” “gentle” or “compliant,” but as “quick to sense what he wanis:” “willing to suffer for an idea;” “will take advice but won't let go of a .| major purpose,” etc. Or “too will-

everybody else plan;” “mentally lazy

him, is too prone to complain.” Fit the child into some general

.| category and then work on that. ,| He may need to be trained in pa-

tience and reason. Or he may need to be trained in making up ) his mind and acting out his ideas .| and sticking to a purpose. Actually the go-getter is more mature emotionally than .the other type. And whether we think so or not, the sour-minded and disgruntled come from the weakerwilled ranks as a rule, not the really strong-willed. Strange but true. ° (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)

TRI PSI SORORITY

Mrs. R. P. Beightol is chairman of a luncheon meeting of Alpha chapter, Tri Psi Sorority of Butler University, to be held at 1 p. m. tomorrow at the Butler chapter house. Assisting Mrs. Beightol are to be Mesdames D. R. Foster, Frank Gaylord, G. J. Hasley, W. J. Healy and I. W. Riggins.

definite ideas, waits until something, | happens and then decide whether |

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TO HOLD LUNCHEON

Ann Sothern, Hollywood star, wears a flattering wine wool dress. An especially new note is the uneven hemline of the tunic, which carries out fashion’s newest whim of skirt:lines dipping down in back and up in front. Self covered buttons are used straight-away from the Peter Pan collar to the hemline of the tunic.

Advises Mature Women Stress Pefsonal Charm

BY ALICIA HART NEA Service Staff Writer

It is quite impossible for any one past 30 to get by on mere prettiness. Once you have left girlhood behind, popularity and lasting friendships depend more and more

on personality, charm and other assets of beauty besides pretty features. . Beauty means good taste in makeup and coiffure, smooth skin, suitable clothes and neat shoes. It also means tolerance, kindly understanding of people and their daily doings, and a smile that reflects the joy of living. It is too bad that so many mature women worry a great deal about fine lines and wrinkles which, unless you spend three-quarters of your time in beauty shops, are inevitable. Lines are bound to come with the years, and, providing those around your eyes got there from hearty laughter and the ones near your mouth came from smiles of genuine amusement or kindly understanding, they are nothing to bother about.

Hair Needs Attention

Wrinkles that come from laughter which is mockery or from tears that are bitter or which stream down in fits of temper are the ones to grieve about. Gray hair needs to be brushed even more carefully than the locks of a younger'woman. If you decide to dye your graying tresses, go to an expert and insist upon a shade that matches exactly the natural color of your hair. Unless your beauty budget will allow you to visit a good btoiffure man at least once every two weeks, better not use dye at all. Eyeshadow, if you must use it, should be an oily, rather iridescent variety. Nail lacquer ought to be

ferably one of the dusty tones.

Jean Orloff Speaks Miss Jean Orloff was guest speaker today at the meeting of the Indiana Study Club at Seymour,.

She displayed her collection of hand

rose rather than brilliant red, pre-

Salmon Dishes - Made Unusual

Canned Sea Foods Offer Possibilities for Tasty Meals.

By NEA Service Many of us just couldn't cet along without canned salmon and canned crabmeat. You can serve them in the routine ways so that they soon become a bore, or you can turn, these foods into the basis for excellent and unusual meals. Here are two tried-and-true recipes made with canned crabmeat.

Crabmeat Chops for Four

2 cups canned crabmeat 1 cup thick white sauce 1 teaspoon chopped parsley 12 teaspoon chopped onion 1; teaspoon pepper 3 Dash of cayenne pepper 1 egg J _ Cracker crumbs First, the method eof preparing the thick. white sauce: - Melt two tablespoons of butter or shortening in a hot frying pan and then add one-third cup of flour gradually, When it bubbles add two-thirds cup of hot milk at once and then one-third cup (making one cup in all) slowly, stirring constantly until smooth. Add one-fourth teaspoon salt and one-eighth teaspoon pep-~ per. There's the thick white sauce. To this white sauce add all the ingredients in the list above except the egg and cracker crumbs. Cook together for a minute or two. Cool the mixture. Make eight heaps of the crab mixture. Take each heap and form into a chop, dip into -the beaten egg and then in the cracker crumbs and then fry in hot, deep fat. Serve at once with tartar sauce, These “chops” are wonderful, light and delicate. With them you can serve grilled potatoes or potato chips. *

Crab ‘Ravigote for Four

1 cup canned crabmeat (6-0z. can) . : 1 cup thick white sauce 1 egg : 8 1 tablespoon capers 15; teaspoon salt 1; teaspoon paprika 1 pimento chopped 1 tablespoon lemon juice 1 tablespoon green pepper (chopped) 1 tablesoon minced parsley Make the white sauce following the first recipe. Stir the crabmeat into it and add the seasonings and the beaten egg yolk. Then fold in the stiffly beaten egg white. > Poul this mixture into a greased casserole and cover the top with fried bread crumbs. ; (This, by the way, is always a good idea for oven-prepared meat or fish dishes—frying the bread crumbs instead of merely using buttered crumbs. They are more crisp and taste delicious.) Dust the top with paprika and bake 30 minutes in a moderate (350 degree) oven. e If the dish gets too brown on top, cover the casserole. Baked potatoes are delicious with Crab Ravigote:

Tomorrow’s Menu

" Breakfast—Stewed prunes, cereal, cream, soft-cooked eggs, toast, milk, coffee. : : Luncheon—Vegetable soup, celery, radishes, rice custard pudding, milk, tea. Dinner—Crabmeat chops, grilled potatoes, string bean salad with vinaigrette dressing,’ apple turn overs, cheese, coffee.

Society to Meet Mrs. Mary F. Duncan, 2424 BE, 10th-st, is to be hostess for the meeting of the Woman's Foreign Missionary Society of the East

Tenth M. E. Church at 2:30 p. m,

A box of candy from MARTHA WASHINGTON will brighten the day no end. Try sending some one . . . Or even yourself . . . a pretty box of selected butter creams and bon-bons and watch the disposition MARTHA WASHINGTON will deliver even a pound of her famous candy, if you call TA. 1827, 2

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Sinus trouble seems to be in vogue again. And even just a common cold is popular. But these complaints need attention of the professort. Thus I recommend BROOKSHIRE'S PHARMACY, both for having dpctor’s prescription filled and for the best of the home treatments. Just look around in BROOKSHIRE’S. You'll recognize an assembly of the very best brands obtainable. Phone LI. 2094 for delivery. Or stop in 217 N. Pennsylvania St. . s

Plan now to be down town next Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday so thdt you can attend the inspirip ing lectures in the 1 PEARSON Recital ‘Hall, 128 N. Pennsyl-

sweeten.

For autumn table decoration . . . use the showy and appropriate candle holders destgned like squirrels. You can make them yourself.

Wedding gifts and birthday remembrances may be great or small . .. but don’t overlook this chance to be up to the minute... This shopping department will help you snoop out the best available item for your purse and purpose. Tell me to keep on the look-out for something and we'll have the gift done up and on its merry way as soon as possible. No charge and no obligation for our personal shopping service.

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Sweater coats are newer and more in demand this season than are the slip-overs. And hereby hangs my . story, on. one of the most handsome lines of Knitted Wear ever seen— the Catalina Cole lection at VON NEGUT’S. Newest models for both

"men and women are quite the mak-

ing of any sports costume. No longer are genuine cable-stitch sweaters made only in England. See the Catalina version with its mas

' culine-looking rope stitch. See the

official sweater of the Board. of Football with its interesting ribknit weave across the back . , . for action! And the 2-piece vest and sweater set of all-wool that's soft and luxuriously warm. Another style for your outdoor man is the coat which intricately combines suede and wool. You may be sure when you buy a Catalina sweater

‘for him that it is styled correctly

and will hold its own against weathe er and wear and be just as finelooking months from now! See the black pig grain leather coat for smart outdoor girls. Finger-tip length and with a zipper.vest that’s

marvelous for games and campus.

wear. There's quality in every stitch of any Catalina creation. s ry

Jet buttons are again in

- prominence for fall and winter dress trimmings.

Tomorrow we do the shops again « « « With ever a new bit of news.