Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 22 September 1936 — Page 17
PAGE 168
Don’t Let Boy Friend Have His
Way Entirely,
Girl Is Advised
on Question of ‘Going Steady’
Nouth Who Puts All Own Demands First Not
Good Companion, Young One i
Jane Jordan Tells in Distress.
Jane Jordan will help you with your prob-
lems by her answers
DE JANE JORDAN—I
nistake very
clearly.
in -this column daily.
am a young girl who can see It is like this: I started
going with a fellow somewhat older than I am and we have
been going pretty steady for
you might call a softie. y do | don't know what
of a
or 1s
change ail 3 + 3 wv « 11 i it was ail
his reactions
ANSWER—ANC wonder what it was all about?
ence if he did you see t own wishes like it, why partic The trouble Jane Jordan his This rither friendship or marriage.
is an
‘many demands in love. will have to find the courage to
always opencd to him.
would
hat -the young man consistently before yours and decide that you do not should larly whe is that
s own terms tic
nearly a year. I am afraid He comes over whenever he feels I know I have been too I can do about it now. If I would sudden he would probably wonder about and I don't know be. What should 1 do? WORRIED. it make so much differIf puts his
i would
you worry about his reactions, n he does not worry about yours? ould rather have him on
to have him at all
you w
an not
extremely unhappy pattern for
One can make too few as well as too If you don’t like your situation you simply
demand reasonable consideration
“for your convenience even if it means the loss of your lover.
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- DEAR JANE JORDAN-—I have heen going with a boy for two years
gnd was eng
gaged to be married. gor=n't care for these things. ith my
words.
mother and a girl friend. He had ime . flates wit th him. has asked me 10 20
couldn't th
For three days
steady again. 1 I dont want #2: 1 have before?
ANSWER—
used terrible words before but I overlooked them. I have been going out and having a good time.
to go steady with any
You have no cause for distress for ycu are a levelheaded girl and exactly right in your present decision. tempered voung man is no one to tie to. make him pay the penalty for boorish and unbearable conduct and vou save vourself immeasurable grief.
1 love to dance and skate but he I told him that I was going to a dance
He became angry and used violent I and nights I have refused to hav like him and hate to hurt him but one. Should I forgive and forget
GIRL IN DISTRESS.
Such a bad You do him a favor to
Stick to your decision. JANE JORDAN.
King Edward, Mrs. Simpson in Spotlight, but Not Husband
just what
LOCAL
A A ORO RR on
BY HELEN WOFPDEN Temes Special Writer NEW YORK, Sept. 22.—50 much | Sas bern written about Mrs. Ernest | Simpson and King Edward that Mr. | Sampson ‘almost has been overlooked. | We shouldn't forget him. He is a | Mew Yorker by birth, even though | renounced his American citi- | shap and decided to reside per- | nilr in England. His daughter, his first wife. Mrs. Par- | 1, lives with her mother Madison-av. : and very blond, with curly i bine eves that set feminine he was graduated in 1813. Four years Il living in New ‘York, d Mrs. Dorothea Parsons | a daughter of Arthur Webb | Parsons he niece of Mrs. Edward | : Graves Stout, 13 E. 6%th-st. i “Even though I'm naturally not | feendly with him now,” said Mrs. | Stout secently. “I can honestly say that he was one of the most chamiar men I've met” Honeymoon In England
Ernest Simpson and his first wife were married in Mrs. Stout's home, shen at 117 W. 58th-st. The Rev. Jobin Herman Randall, now of 527 Riverside-dr, tied the knot. The brides attendant was her cousin, Pegey Stout (Mrs, Lawrence Copley Thaw). and William Hanaway acted a= the best man. The honeymoon was spent in England and the South of France. The romance was short-lived. Two |
mit py
Experiences In wv ar-1 orn Spain
| not only his home but his business |
| Meet at Baltimore with her aunt,
to Be Related
1 Wiss Jessie Moore, who was al gust of Ambassador and Mrs. | Clzudes Bowers in Spain, is to describe her experiences In revolutiongrr Spain at the tea and garden ; party io be sponsored Friday by | First Congregational Church women. Mrs CA Behringer is to be hostess. Mrs B.S. Goodwin, program chairman. is to present Mrs. Frank “Boies. soprano, accompanied by Mrs. Jen Wharton, ‘Marion. i += Charles J. Buchanan and Mrs George L. Davis are to preside &: the toa table. Members of the Mission Study Cis and Plymouth Union assisting . $he hostess are to be Mesdames A. » Hitz Harry J. Berry. Harold B. Weer Harold E. Sutherlin, Albert Se Buchanan Ellis W. Hay and Miss
ne Fliedner.
Etiquette — By PATRICIA
WELL-DRESSED MAN— Business—The sack suit is cor- | gect for daytime wear when formal | &ress 3s not required. The textiles most used are flannel worsted, cheviots, gabardines, cashmeres,| | twesds and saxonys. Coat, trousers | ened west are of the same material | sn the coat may be single or double | ressted.
The modern business man usually | wears shirts in plain colors or stripes | with coliats and cuffs attached, and | $sur in hand or bow ties of soft | Soulard printed silk or other suit- | shies materials. Colored sox may bs worn, but it $= best’ to avoid the brighter hues, s5.& to have them match the tone of . ghe= suit, or shoes. e may be: Pizck or brown calf rds. Hats should be chosen with care suit the contour of the face and! fie St he body. They may be of |
| make for flattery.
years later a divorce was ranted
‘and in. 1926 Mr. Simpson married | Mrs. Winfield Spencer, beautiful ex- | wife of an American naval officer. Baltimore society had known her as | Wallis Warfield, daughter of Wallis | Warfield, fields. Rumors have been floating about | to the effect that Mrs. Wally Simpson and her husband were contem plating a divorce. Whether or not | that’s
Will Stay In London However, ried or single, Mr. doubtedly will stay
Simpson in London,
un- | for | He and his father are | His hobby is the | England's |
is there. shipping agents. Cold Stream Guards, swankiest regiment. The last time Mrs. Simpson visited America she attended the Pimlico
Mrs. Buchanan Merryman, Washington. Her Baltimore friends are wondering when she will visit the United States again. They are eager to renew acquaintanceship with the girl who has turned an international spotlight on quiet Baltimore.
|in a deep shade of
War- | L of the Maryland ar= | icently trim the lapels are responsi- |
true no one actually knows. | t turned down to show their sparkling | |
| decoration, this much is true—mar- |
BY MARJORIE BIN
—Times Photo by Wheeler. FORD WOODS
Times Fashion Editor
winter festivities, don a tweed ev Schiaparelli originated this sta
| s TY you want to be spectacular in your formal entrances to fall and
ening coat. rtling fashion and local shops have
come to the fore with copies that will make you gasp in admiration.
Soft, luxurious Forstmann woolen Renaissance vintage is the tweed fabric used in the coat shown above. The glittering gold sequins which so magnif- | ble for its
exciting appearance.
These lapels may be worn in closed |
- fashion to form a high fitted eke bv Inter-Se Club ’ |
incognito |
| ine when you move through the streets or may be worn | when, you reach your destination. » HE waishine is lightly fitted with the long, straight skirt reaching to the floor. Sleeves are close fitting at the wrists, with | fulled interest at the side shoulders. As incongruous as it may seem, { wools for formal costume suits and tailored evening wear that are perversely trimmed with passamenterie and jet are the height of fashion among style leaders.
Swanks to Make
Home 1n Chicago
Today’s Pattern
~~ 0 Ppalinn, \ 8668 ~
(GUARANTEED to make a ma- | ture figure look much more
| slender is this | frock (No. 8668). the shoulders, a bit of real lace at the neck and full sleeves that fit | snugly at the wrists are details that Use satin, silk | or velvet with lace for contrast. | Patterns are sized 36 to 52. Size 44 | requires 54 yards of 39-inch fabric | with 2 yard all-over lace for con-
lovely
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afternoon | Softness across |
Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Swank | have gone to Chicago to live. The marriage of Mrs. Swank, { formerly Miss Bessa Lee Reavis, and | Mr. Swank was announced by Dr. | Tolbers Reavis, Butler University { faculty member, the bride's father, at a party recently. | The bride is a Butler graduate, | and Mr. Swank attended Indiana
President’ Day Program Is Held
|
Miss Hazel Harker’s topic at the | Meridian Heights Inter-Se Club's | President’ s Day luncheon today was “The New Woman of Japan.”
The program was presented at the Dixie Mart tearoom, 121 E. 34th-st. { Mrs. FX, Kern, president, was honor guest. Other officers are Mrs. R. L. Mason, first vice president; Mrs. F. A. Linton, second vice president; Mrs. R. V. Myers, recording secretary; Mrs. A. M. McVie, corresponding secretary; Mrs. W. E. King, treasurer; Mrs. P. E. Powell, historian, and Mrs. E. E. Stacy, parliamentarian. Mrs. G. B. Supple is delegate and Mrs. W. D. Grose alternate to meetings of the Indianapolis Council of Women. Mrs. W. B. McCaw is the representative to the Indiana Federation of Clubs’ meetings and Mrs. Clifford Christena the | Seventh District delegate.
| Auxiliary Head Named
Mrs. E. G. Parish is president of | the new Big Four Post 116, Ameri- | can Legion Auxiliary. Mrs. F. J. Monahan is secretary and Mrs. A. A. Patton, treasurer.
~ THE INDIAN NAPOLIS TIMES
FASHI ONS
Succession of Parties Hard on Disposition
Holds Mothers’ Social Activities Sometimes Fray Nerves.
By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON
Being human, mothers are subject to change of humor from day to day. So are fathers. But when the pair is absolutely unpredictable as to mood, it makes it pretty hard for the youngsters. The east wind affects dispositions - radically. Maybe it isn't just the wind, but air pressure. On heavy days some people are depressed, others cranky. Still others are as mean as Old Nick himself. People who go on and on at an even keel are uninteresting and dull. Those who fly off at a tangent sometimes can be the most human and sympathetic of the species. So no one is preaching sameness, just for sameness’ sake. As a friend of mine said one time of a smooth-tempered woman, “Yes, she is all right, but she's too beautifully complacent to attract me.’ I think that children enjoy the many-faceted parent, as long as he, or she, stays reasonably put. The parent children lose confidence in is the one who apparently gets a thrill out of being unreasonable.
Late Hours Fray Nerves
Late hours and a continuous succession of parties work havoc with dispositions. I know one woman who is constantly in the clouds | or in the depths. Either she is
contemplating a party or getting over one. In the afternoons she would hand any child of hers the earth if he asked for it. Next morning she won't let any one say
TUESDAY, SEPT. 22, 106
Belt With Dress ‘Times Cooking School Opens Sessions at English Theater;
A cowboy belt on a dinner dress is fashion news. Ann Shirley, young Hollywood star, has a cocktail dress of extremely heavy pebble crepe in oyster white, which is trimmed with a soft leather helt appliqued in cactus design.
Tomorrow’ S
Lecture on Diet
Unique Mirror Arrangement Used to Enable
Audience to See
Actual Results of
Cooking Demonstrations.
‘Hundreds of food-conscious housewives attended the opening of The Indianapolis Times free cooking school today at the English Theater.
Miss Ruth Chambers, a member
Board, Conklin, conducted the class.
Gamma Alumnae Club Arranging | for Card Party
Members of the Indiana Gamma
Alumnae Club of Pi Beta Phi Soror- |
ity and their friends are to meet | at the Butler University Chapter | house for a card party Oct. 3. Mrs. Burchard Carr is committee | chairman, assisted by Miss Lois Sherrill and Mesdames Ellis B. Hall, Ruell Moore, Robert Walker and Jess Pritchett Jr. Mrs. John Cavosie is the club president. The party is being given for the benefit of the chapter héuse fund.
CONTRACT CLUB TO PLAY OCT. 1
Woman's Contract Club of Indianapolis is to play for the first | time this season on Thursday, Oct.
1, at the Indianapolis Athletic Club.
‘OBLIGATORY FINESSE? WINS
Today’s Contract Problem"
“boo.”
social success and the fortunes of | her family rise and fall according | to this barometer. She sets too | much store by cuts, or imagined | cuts. She is falsely stimulated by | flattery. Naturally, her reactions to | the family have little to do with | the children themselves, but are | > Imes overs from her hectic social | ife I know a business woman who is like this, too. She is exhilarated, depressed or nervously tired about | half the time. She is working for | the benefit of her family, but, at the same time, they would rather! do without some of their blessings if they could have the good mother she used to be.
- Some Lack Balance
However, it is not always the mother with interests outside the home who induges in hot-and-cold orgies of dispositions. Or the father who is worried to death about money. Many people lack emotional balance from no cause at all Neither weather, health, pleasure or business can be blamed. For instance, a woman can easily let a by-gone sorrow affect her whole personality. Unless she wakes: up to the fact that others suffer indirectly from her spells of depression, she can undermine love and patience. Others ‘let trifles upset them. An argument with the butcher sours the day, for instance. Everyone ‘catches it” until the rage wears thin. Humiliation, or any like unpleasantness, reacts for days sometimes. And, on the contrary, pleasurable excitement may damage a regular set-up routine that it has taken months to establish. Self-control can be cultivated. It is an important asset to the parent and to family happiness. We can't
be perfect, but we can at least try. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)
SORORITY MEETS WITH MRS. EARP
The Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter, Phi Delta Pi, national physical education sorority, met today at the home of Mrs. Evanson Earp, 4465 Carrollton-av. Miss Gretchen Klee, incoming president, announced the year’s committees. Reports on the national philanthropic projects also were given.
{ University and New York University.
MISS RUTH CHAMBERS Cooking Authority
accomplished,
com
dine and
stite
Also HANDCRAFT FOOTWEAR $6.85
SANIMAR suede with green patent . . .
DELNENO . .
Miss Ruth Chambers Has Personally Selected
EACCCK Shoes
For Her Lectures At The
TIMES COOKING
Peacock suggests these models for an air of dopants . +. easily Miss Chambers recommends them for comfortable fitting and also smart styling.’
with their refining grace.
. Araby green smart combination in a bination of Marrona brown
in
suede and Chaudron tan calf . or, black suede and patent $8.75
. Cuban heel
VICKI . . . Shown in Marrona brown suede, with gold kid piping for added smartness . . or, in black suede, with silver kid piping . . . Boulevard heel. $38.75
. Brown gabarwith trim of brown suede brown patent heel . . . or,
in black gabardine with black suede trim, and Lieel of patent
both with piping and hed design to harmonize . Boulevard heel 8.75
MINNA . . . Shown In Marrona brown suede with brown patent tip and heel gold © kid piped. Also, in black suede with plack patent tip and heel . . . silver kid piping . . . Boulevard heel p
LEACOCK
SCHOOL
Also HANDCRAFT FOOTWEAR
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Solution to Previous Problem BY WILLIAM E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary HE search. for the needed trick to fulfill a contract is a neverending problem for declarers at
bridge. Often the card just isn’t there, no matter how hard or how long the search, but often it requires only a little study to make
a trick out of apparently rather
unpromising material. In today’s hand, South could count nine tricks, but he would have to lose two diamonds, and, if he was forced to start the clubs, he might lose two tricks in that suit snd the contract would be down one, South won the opening lead with the ace of hearts, then picked up the adverse trumps and cashed the king of hearts. He now led a low diamond and permitted West to win. West returned a diamond, but South won the second lead, and
again returned. the suit.
ace of clubs,
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South West North East 14 Pass 2 A 3v 3N.T. Pass 4 4H Pass Opening lead—¥ 3. 13 East was jin the lead, and had he cashed the or even led a small club, the hand would have been made; but he led a heart. South ruffed in dummy, discarding a club from his own hand, and then led a club toward the king. East played the ten and South won. The ace and the jack were still outstanding. So South now made what old whist masters called the “obligatory finesse,” which means playing any low card in the hope that the missing controlling honer is now unguarded and must be played by the adversary. This proved to be the case, and the hand was made. (Copyri¥ht. 1936. NEA Service, Inc.)
COALITION CHANGES TIME OF MEETING
The Independent Coalition of American Women is to meet at 10 a. m. instead of 2:30 p. m. tomorrow at the home of Mrs. Harley Rhodehamel, 5320 N. Meridian-st. Mrs. Paul Lee Hargitt is to preside.
‘| bers
of the National Live Stock and Meat
with her assistants, Miss Charlie May Elliott and Miss Emily
| Bridge dates, luncheon appoints ments and shopping trips do not interfere with the classes which are {to be continued at 9:30 a. m. to- | morrow and Thursday and 8 p. m, { Thursday, at the English Theater. “I'm delighted to be back again lin Indianapolis to conduct the ° | school for the fifth year,” said Miss Chambers. - Results to be Shown
Recipes collected from Maine to | Canada and California to New York are to be demonstrated by Miss | Chambers during the school’s dura= {tion. All phases of meal plane ining and preparation are to be covered. Soups, salads, desserts, hot ! breads, cakes, cookies and pies and meats arg to be turned out before |the audience. A special mirror ar=rangement is to be used at the cone clusion of the demonsiration to exhibit the food. “There is a meat cut to suit every | pocketbook, but a lower price does not indicate less food value,” said | Miss Chambers today. “One of the good features about | meat,” she continued, “is that economy in buying does not mean that an inferior grade or one with less | food value is served. There is the | same high nutrition value and some= | times even richer flavor in the socalled economy cuts of beef, pork and lamb. than in those more in | demand and therefore higher in | price.” ‘Meats for Reducing
“It is surprising how many meats help in weight reduction,” she said. Special attention was given the | subject of meat cuts and prepa=- | ration. Braising is one of the meth- | ods she suggested for cooking many i of the economy cuts which require moist heat to soften the connective tissues. Pot-roasts, Swiss steaks, casserole dishes, meat pies and stews were among the cuts to be pre= pared. For these the meat, cut in | small pieces, was browned in hot fat | before the liquid was added. | Miss Chambers discussed ground | meats which can be cooked easily ' and quickly. In tomorrow's lecture Miss Chamis to discuss “Streamlined | Menues”; Thursday morning, “Bal= ancing the Budget” and on Thtirsday night, “Entertaining at Home.” Many: Indianapolis merchants are co-operating with the presentation of the cooking school. As a preface to the school, local retailers attended a meeting last night which was addressed by How= ard White, meat merchandising expert at the National Live Stock and Meat Board. Retailers also attended from Newe castle, Martinsville, Chicago, Shelbyville, Frankfort, Marion, Kokomo and Parkersville and Lima, O, and Paris, Ill.
OCT. 4 DESIGNATED P.-T. A. WEEK DATE
Gov. McNutt is to proclaim the week of Oct. 4 as Parent-Teacher week, the Indiana Congress of Parents and Teachers announced today, Speakers are to be sent to luncheon clubs, ministers are to call attention to the observance and stickers are to be posted in store windows and in private homes, the congress reported. The project is to initiate the fall membership drive to be conducted by the group.
What a bag of tricks we have this season! And it takes a really good handbag to do the trick in Fashion! So, come with me to Morrison's Luggage Shop, 18 N. Pennsylvania St. famous for distinctive leather goods these past 59 years. Miss Julia Recker, who's been associated with all the best handbags for many years, eagerly awaits an opportunity to show®you the excel-
i lent collection she has assembled in
this specialty shop. Precious antelope bags of superior softness are perhaps the biggest news of the season . . . better than ever! Chic street bags of alligator! Yes, here they are in navy, wine, spruce, brown and black! And note the many styles with top handles. You can't escape smartness with a bag of this design. 'A bag in the hand . is worth everything. So saying, I heartily recommend a visit to MORRISON'S.
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Just read about a handy hanger for long, trailing evening gowns . . . a “trapeze” arrangement permits the folding of the skirt.
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My “shopping around” ‘most always includes a stop at one of HAAG'S up-to-the-minute Drug Stores. For 1 must have my pack of ROYALE Cigarettes with the new mint It's such
new smoke to my friends . . . as well If you haven't tried “Royales” yet, you don't know what you're missing. As smart as Miami's social circles which first gave “Royales” a whirl . . . as cool and refreshing as the Gulf breeze
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don’t forget . . . at one and all of | HAAG'S Stores,
Each week I tuck away thoughts while shop-
ping hs then bring) ul WA
them forth on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday and trust they will interest you as much as they have me. Always if you need further information, I'm glad to answer every query. And if you.have pet people whom you think I ought to know about, just don't hesitate to let me know. I like to shop where you shop. And I enjoy very much knowing that you have followed some of my suggestions, Phone RI-5551
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I can’t remember any Fall season when costume colors have been as varied and as lovely as they are this year. So warm and rich, @ you feel you want to wear them all. And you can, for in the TOURNEUR BSalon in Block's, they will design a makeup that will make any or all of the new shades flattering to you. Most of the new colors require a glowing outdoor appearance.’ From the Tourneur thirty-eight basic shades, they can blend a glowing outdoor shade to set off your new Fall costume. And, of course, rouge, lipstick and eyeshadow too. For evening wear theyll make you glamorous and subtly feminine. Tourneur, you know, are the originators of the Theory and Technique of Powder Blending, and have extended this technique to the whole makeup line, There is no charge for this service.
A bottle of bath salts whose stopper forms a small glass . very Parisienne. It's designed for later use as a brandy decanter or medicine container.
! | Searching for news among the stacks of travel literature at MR, RICHARD KURTZ’ Travel Depart= ment . .. I did make a firstclass “discov-q ery” for Columbus Day. One - excellent time it is, October 12, for one more holi- 2 day. And with “October's bright blue weather” to insure a delightful trip. Ask Mr. Kurtz to tell you more about these 4-day cruises to Bermuda—$50 and up. Can you imagine? Of course you can. And you can surely manage a quick trip with Columbus Day fortunately popping up on Monday. See? . Travel is quite within your grasp, if only you will do your part in claiming it. Ask for all .the information you want . you'll never be obligated at the Union Trust Travel Dept., 122 E. Market St.
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Colorful gloves intensify the blackness of the very smart black costumes.
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Tomorrow we have food news in these columns, a slight reflection of The Times Cooking School. Haye’ you been? Are you going?