Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 2 September 1936 — Page 19

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JANE JORDAN—|

My only son, 11, has a|

" trait that causes the whole]

family much discomfort — nothing ever pleases him. He | has our sympathy because he has

Jost the sight of one eye, has a|

and is nervous. | wish him to grow up naturally. Whenever we _plan any kind

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take up too much room and | forth. } When we go to a store he fusses | for a bottle of pop or a sandwich | or candy or wants to buy a toy. He | is impatient while I shdp because | he isn’t interested in it, but won't go by himself and look at someUpon questioning he |

doesn't know what he wants. When |

I we go to a show he gither doesn't |

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: =, 3} like ‘his seat or the picture “isn't | and he wants to go | He gets’ up and goes out |

in the lobby. His father tells me |

40 let him alone, and he is right, | pecausé sonny will soon come back.

I do so many things to keep him | in a good humor that the girls, 9

and 13, accuse me 'of favoritism. |

{ He never wants to eat what is on | ihe table and is really undernour- | I try to cook something he wants, but he can't think what he wants. He doesn’t try to learn anything that requires any eflort. MOTHER. ANSWER—The middle child in a family of three is in a difficult position. because there is an older

chilgf always running on ahead and | | bred look to all prospective students, and they have gone to ng end of

a younger one always”catching up behind. Add to this impaired physical equipment and it is easy to see the child's problem: He must

‘succeed under more than usual difficulties. . Children handicapped by what Alfred Adler, individual psy- . chologist, calls organ inferiority, often rise to great heights to compensate for their lack of physical superiority. We often find the child with bad sight ~ developing inte an artist, the cripple turning into a scholar, the left-handed succeeding in games of skill, and so on. We say that these children ~ have set their goal on the useful side of life. * Then again we see a child letting his weakness work for him and we say that this child has set his goal

on the useless .side of life. Our task

is to interest him in some useful endeavor which will raise his damaged self-esteem and help blot out his consciousness of organ inferjority. I am afraid that you have

pitied this child too much and tried

lis outfitted | style. | terial for “eds” of any status. Here { he wears black | corduroy slacks. | sjeeveless sweater with. Oxford shirt

“to make up to him for a bad start

fn life by too much attention to | his woes. : | You have protected him too much | by standing between him and un- | pleasant reality. He has only to| his discomforts to | make everything go his way. When he has np real discomforts he must invent some, for he has found a | source of power in a negative atti- | tude toward life. : If he is under the care of a good physician, try to forget his physical ills and treat him as the equal of his sisters, subject to the same family demands . and the same disapproval when he fails to co-operate in making life pleasant. Put more responsibility on him, praise his slightest achievement, but fail to respond fo his efforts to gain attention by showing displeas‘ure. | The boy's father has a better | method of dealing with him than |

“you have when he simply ignores |

his little efforts to disrupt the peace |

~ of the family. “A kind but firm in- | _gistence that he consider the com- |

fort of others is not quite enough. |

" The boy must be ‘engaged in some |

useful activity which makes him | feel important before he will cease | to try for importance simply by | making himself a nuisance. JANE JORDAN,

COSTUME AROUSES |

COMMENT IN EAST .

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turning on a smart terrace-cafe in| New York consisted of a two-piece!

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name and address,

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES _

Fall Campus Styles Give F reshmen

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~—Times Photo by Wheeler.

BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS

Times Fashion Editor .

UST because vou are a freshman is no reason you must look liké one. " College shops are falling all over themselves to give that college-

trouble to do it authentically. Clothes-conscious seniors from

have been consulted on wardrobe requisites.

many schools all over the country ‘As a result, clothes that

will register at the same time you do, need not stamp you as a “greenie.”

Boh Anderson (above), who pians |

to enter Indiana University this fall, in typical classroom Corduroy is good college m=-

and gray

is part of the casual college outfit. Scotch. plaid has been introduced into the male wardrobe this season in the form of colorful bow ties:

| They are jaunty and smart and give | a note of gaiety to an otherwise { somber costume.

The gray capeskin jacket, with its

{ new pleated back, can take plenty

of punishment because it can be scrubbed satisfactorily with saddle soap to retain its newness. Thick crepe soles make these brown Kid ghillies sturdy and long wearing. = ” 2

ISS BERENICE BRENNAN, as a senior at St. Mary's-of-the Woods, knows how to pick clothes that will stand up under classroom strain, and at the same time, stand out for football week-ends.'- The

Today’s Pattern

8824), :

BUTTONED - DOWN - THEFRONT dress (No. 8824) will make little sister's fall school days happy indeed.

Use gingham, percale, dotted swiss, silk or light woolen. Patterns are sized 4 to 14 vears. Size 6 requires 2s yards of 35 or 39-inch material, pius %s yard contrast. : To secure a PATTERN and STEP-BY-STEP SEWING IN-

_ tains, glass spray panels have been | STRUCTIONS, inclose 15 cents in|

coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your and mail to

room from the spray and can| Pattern Editor, The Indimnapoiis

ung flat against the wall when | Times, 214 W. Maryland-st, Indian- |

flecked | A white loose knit |

| the cups, { dishes | that would clutter dinner table. 4PSI CHI PHI RUSH | - PARTY IS TONIGHT

It has a fitted back | {and exaggerated shoulders.

| checkesboard swagger suit she wears here is! a four-way outfit that can {do a Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde at a { moment's turning. The brown wool coat is reversible {and can be worn. as a sporty all- | over checked swagger with the ex- | tra plain brown wool skirt which { comes ‘with the ensemble. There's a distinctive air about the imported brown cashmere sweater, with its front ¥ibbings and slim fit. She tucks a yellow silk' scarf adorned with fox heads under the collar and ties it in a perky front bow. * The brown Knox vagabond hat is a true college type with a feather in the brim, and a matching grosgrain band. Brown suede and calfskin wide strapped shoes blend in tone with her outfit and are the type that will be seen often this- year when the clans gather.

Etiquette — By PATRICIA

NTERTAINING WITHOUT A < 'MAID—There is no reason why lack of servants should prevent a 1pstess irom entertaining her friends at simple dinners. They are often much more enjoyable than elaborate parties.

When she has no servant, the hostess may change the plates herself; the hest may serve the meat and aid in some of the other serving, and look out for the comfort of his guests. . The hostess may ask one of ihe guests | sitting beside the host to help him in serving, if she wishes to do so.! L . | It'i§ permissable at an informal | dinnerto put all the dishes for one | course! on the table and allow the

| guests to pass them as they please,

{ thereby saving “the hostess much | extra labor. Another help for the

{ hostess is'the use of the tea wagon. { This can be placed near her, to hold | and other |; up the

silverware,

-Eight rushees are to be entertained, by Psi Chi Phi Sorority at 8 p. m. today at the Washington Hotel.! Hiss Mildred Pavy is to preside. The guests are to include Deloras Bakius, Dorothy Biehl, Delores Mayer, Leanore Moessmer, Flora Schott, Betty Speth, Esther Springman and Mirion Woods.

MEETING ARRANGED FOR MISSION BOARD

The board of directors of the Indianapolis Flower Mission is to meet at 10 a. m. tomorrow at the Fletcher Trust Co. ¥ Mrs, David Ross, president, is to preside. 2 !

Bride Is Entertained Beta Chapter, Theta Nu Chi Sorority,; recently entertained for Mrs. Homer Shields, who formerly was

Mrs. Glenna Lee Mock.

Hoosier Glasses All Styled Right and Priced Right

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Miss Virginia Lee Mock, daughter of |

Coveted Upperclassman Appearance

Girls Who Use Simple Makeup Most Attractive

BY ALICIA HART NEA Service Staff Writer The very young girl who is prettier than she is beautiful and cuter than she is smart should make the most of her youthful cuteness rather than try to look older and more sophisticated. Light, naturallooking makeup, a simple coiffure and clothes from the Junior Miss department will enhance her charm far more than layers of mascara and eyeshadow, an intricate hairdo and suave black dresses with white touches. ty Except for special occasions, such as formal parties, high school and college girls ought to wear shell pink or natural nail lacquer. They need rouge, lipstick and powder, but

£hese must be put on ever so sparingly. Soap and water, toothbrush, deodorant and hairbrush are the best friends of one so young. It is” a: .good idea for a mother to impress upon the mind of her 12-year-old daughter the importance of cleanliness, how necessary adequate sleep, exercise and a sensible diet are:'to beauty and that proper grooming can make a swan out of the ugliest duckling. If your child is just at the awkward stage when she seems all arms and legs, try to teach her the fundamentals of excellent posture. Dancing lessons and professional instruction in one active sport have heen known to cure cases of self-consciousness and adolescent inhibitions. Get your child into the habit of looking for clothes that are not too old in design and fabric for her tender years. Encourage her to take an interest in fashions and beauty for the young instead of fashion and beauty fads that were created for you or her older sister. Lot her know that she has only a few years during which to make the most of her cuteness and that there is time

enough for sophisticated beauty

{ later on.

[Italian Supper Is Novel Way to Give Party

Menu, Inexpensive as ~ Well as Unusual, Is Outlined.

Anton Scherrer discusses Recipes. Page 14. By NEA Service As soon as the weather begins

taining. 3 One of the nicest ways to return social obligations—and one of the simplest too—is. to have a Sunday night supper. The informality of such an event is its great charm. Your Sunday night supper need not be elaborate or expensive, but it is worth the time and effort to give the menu an original twist. Instead of baked ham, roast chicken or an elaborate salad. why not serve an Italian supper? You'll find it far less expensive than a menu including a roast or fowl and quite as delicious. ¢ For Sunday Supper Here is supper. based, chiefly, on Italian™ecipes: Antipasto Chili Con Carne Italian Bread Sticks Bowl of Greens Salad Italian (Bel Paese) Cheese Purple Italian Grapes Black Coffee Chianti Wine Chili con carne, it is true, is a Mexican dish, but it goes surprisingly well with an Italian meal, The recipe used is less expensive than the variety made with chicken. For the antipasto, arrange on a large platter slices of garlic bologna, anchovies, Italian salami, green or red pickled peppers, halves of pimento, thin slices of marinated beets and tomatoes, slivers of savory green beans. Let this be the first course, with every one helping himself from the platter, The chili con carne is made like this: Chili Con Carne_for Six

One pound ground round steak, 1 pound round steak cut in cubes, 3% pound beef suet, 1: pint chili beans, 31 teaspoon finely minced garlic, 1 pint strained canned tomatoes, salt to taste, 3 teaspoon chili peppers, ground fine. Soak the beans 8 to 10 hours in water to cover. Then drain. Place them in cold water, bring fo a boil and boil for 5 minutes. Drain again and place in fresh cold water.and boil until tender. Fry the ground steak in the suet until brown. But. the ‘round steak in very small pieces and fry them, also, in the suet, ‘until browned. Add all this meat to the drained, cooked beans and add salt to taste. Add the finely ground chili peppers, the garlic and strained tomatoes. a Boil for 5 minutes. stantly -to avoid burning. Let the chili stand 12 hours to bring out the flavor of the seasoning. : Just before serving, reheat thoroughly. Serve Chianti wine with the chili. The bread sticks can be bought at any Italian grocer’s.

Miss Margaret Kellenbach, 1733 N. Meridian-st, has been visiting Mrs. Robert S. Fitzgerald in Anderson. Mrs. W. J. Woodworth and her daughter, Miss June Woodworth, have returned from a visit in Chicago.

FLAPPER ‘FANNY SAYS.

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Stir con-

The furrowed field produces a crop of grain, the furrowed brow ‘arcrop of ideas.

Don't neglect your children's eyes! It handicapped by poor vision, children suffer. from eyestrain and nervousness. Have their eyes examined by all means! Let us help make their school work easier,

Consult a Registered Optometrist :

Dependable Service

GLASSES that FIT Are Most Important

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OUR EASY PAYMENT PLAN

BSears, Roebuck and Co

Quality | Merchandise

to cool you'll be thinking of enter-

oxford in rich-looking cordovan.

sport shoe in brown reverse calf. lines. The caulks are removable.

waterproof oil grain with special double sole.

Your sole interest may be in keeping from going barefoot, but as long as you are investing in shoes anyway, it's a good idea to keep this selection in mind when shopping. straight toe-cap is keystone of the wardrobe. No. 2 is a wingtipped

lain "black calf (1) with For stormy weather, No. 3 is of No. 4 is a new spectator No. 5, for golf, has pleasing new

No. 6. in black or midnight blue

patent leather, goes with the soup and fish. !

South has the contract for six hearts. Apparently he must lose a trump and a club. Is there any way out of his difficulty?

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Solution to Previous Contract Problem BY WM. E. M'KENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary ANY bridge players lose contracts they should make because they have not mastered the play of suits, in which, for in‘stance, they hold ace and two ‘small cards in the closed hand and queen and one small card in dummy. : With such holding the correct play, if the opponent on the left of the declarer has led the suit, is the queen from dummy, because if the queen does not win the first round, it will never win any. Change slightly the declarer’s holding, making it ace-10 and one small, and the play also changes. Today's hand shows how to manage such combination when that suit is chosen as the opposing point of attack. The South player, who held today's hand, did not [realize how fortunate he was that a spade had been opened; for with that lead his contract was safe. He spoiled his chances, however, when he went up with the queen. East covered with the king, and South won with the ace. South took the club finesse, hoping to find the king in the West

WRONG PLAY LOSES GAME

Today’s Contract Problem I

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Dealer AAl103 YVAJI10 ATI a QI72 = Rubber—None vul. |South West North East IN. T. Pass 2N.T. Pass 3N.T. Pass Pass Pass Opening lead—é 6 26

hand, but when that lost, East returned a spade and the contract was defeated one trick. . Had declarer played the spad duce to the first trick from dummy, no play by the defense could have defeated three no trump, because that would have assured two tricks in spades, and the contract could have been made. (Copyright. 1936, NEA Service, Inc.»

August Bride . to Be Honored by Her Mother

When Mrs. Alice G. Holloway returns next week from Atlanta, Ga., she is to entertain in honor of her daughter, Mrs. Charles Howland Bond, formerly Miss Alice June Holloway. : The bride was married to Mr. Bond Aug. 24, with Miss Jeanne Bugbee as her attendant. James

W. Woods was best man. The couple has returned from a trip to Kentucky, Tennessee and Virginia, and is at home at 4127 Suther-land-av. The bride attended Butler University, and is a member of Pi Beta Phi Sorority. Mr. Bond attended Wabash College.

— WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 2, 1056 New Shoe Models Suggested |All Children

Should Learn °

| About Tragedy

Gradual Introduction to Ungertainties Best, = « Writer Says.

‘BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

looking through a magazine and saw the picture of a burning ocean liner plunging head-first into the depths. From the vertical stern people were jumping into the sea. Small boats were rescuing a few, but the picture was a graphic one of hopeless tragedy. This small boy is sensitive, but not a coward. He is a born philosopher and knows mach about this unsafe world. Yet, in spite of the fact that he brought the book to his mother and was told that boats are much safer today, he went to bed and woke up screaming that the boat was going down and he was burning. ~ Shock Easily Forgotten The mother asked me what to do, I said, “nothing.” There was no real shock connected with the picture, nothing that affected the ¢hild personally, and therefore, like everything else he must see and hear in

outline shortly and therefore its horror. But if he were to see such a picture every day then the idea of safety on all boats would be undermined and the obsession mniight deepen. f : The book was destroyed, the sub-

nightmare since. And his sensible mother said, “I think he has been having too much to eat in the eve= ning.. I've let him have more than Just his cereal and egg and fruit. And I notice that he is talking less in his sleep or tossing half the night.” Which is sensible, whether the dreams come from an upset stome ach or not. But about this matter of terror. What is to be done when the family try their bast to protect the little child from sights and experiences that leave a mark on memory? He can't be shut in a tower and feel safe in his eternal clouds. He has to know that dogs get run over, and people, too, that houses burn and ships sometimes sink. He has to discover a certain amount of villainy in the human race, too, and that there are people who steal ahd even Kill. . : y The big question is, “When will it be safe for him to realize tragedy?” Should Learn Gradually Here we split on theory. Much has been written about the wisdom of acquainting children with death, for instance, from their earliest years, so they do not establish a sense of security that is a double shock when blasted. On the other hand; we must heed the frequent cases of resulting, emotional instability from one unfortunate experience. best we can. And that best, I think, is to keep tragedy from touching the little child personally when possible, but to get him gradually accustomed to the world as it is, through experience.

and I don't think it hurts him. Indeed, it may increase his defense. All of us must become inured to the fate of others in a certain degree, If we didn't, and rode our sensitive sympathies every second, we would become quivering pulps of jelly. Just as over-pity is bad for us, both on the giving and receiving end, I think much shielding of the child unwise. He lives in a dangerous age and needs a certain. hardening to face real life. ‘He usually adjusts his outlook himself, with a normal mixture of sympathy and philoso=

phy. Time does wonders. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service. Inc.)

New Shirt Worn

New York haberdashers are fea= turing a soft bosom evening shirt with attached white collar and black cuffs. They claim society is going for it in a large way, =

It’s time again to wear a boutonniere of real flowers ...and the blossoms will surely last longer now. So take care of this detail before you go “dining out.” | : tl

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OTEL LINCOLN has devised more ways to refresh and revive the spirits of weary ones Who dine and drink . . . and who enjoy attractive surroundings. Atmosphere in 3 distinct tempos lends interest to menus and wine lists. From the Coffee Shop . .. to the Mirabar . . . to the Tuscany Room . .. you can enjoy a round of creations by the LINCOLN chefs which would satisfy the most jaded appetite. And with the exclusive Ramos’ Gin Fizz to top the list of drinks . . . you and your fi ends will undoubtedly continue a pleasant custom . . . on through another season. Air-conditioned rooms, these three, and always inviting no-matter what the weather!

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Sorority colors can be daintily carried out in most every combination if You order

cream mint patties «oe oand

| are they good

Steaks, chops, seafood, fried chicken, just a salad; glorified sandwiches, dainty meals or wholesome . . , which is it appeals most to you? Don’t say you don’t know where to eat tonight , . . or tomorrow «.. when I have such grand suggestions up my shopping sleeve. Call me at RI 5551 and let's talk over the situation and what difficulty confronts you every time you try to think of a place you'd like _to dine, or lunch, or breakfast. In town, edge of town, and out of town ... I'm always hearing of new places ‘and never forgetting the old. Perhaps; if you would give me .a ring, we could assure You and your family and your

hard-to-please guests of something unusually nice and maybe unknown . .. to you.

Here's a recipe typical of the splendid collection you'll find in a grand new cook book —avacado halves, chilled, «ang filled with crabmeat which has been seasoned with lime, juice. and chili sauce, Want t know more? :

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AYRES’ TEA ROOM you to enjoy the newest whim -of the season—Tea Cart Service. Step into the cool, delightful atmosphere of a very smart place to dine . . . order a salad . . . then watch the colorful array of tempti salad plates brought graciously your very table for the very most satis-

plate . . . mato aspic ring with chicken salad |

and toasted English muffin... your choice of a dainty cup of cof-

fee or tea. Truly, this Tea Cart

Service is the last word, if milady would dine dramatically!

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Baths for beauty and for

health are available, if we |

would be smart and sensible about this process of face and figure beautification.

More news tomorrow about my

pet topic—autumn shopping.

his childhood, this incident will lose’

ject dropped and there has been no

He will learn that life is insecure, *

The other day a little boy was

We must, therefore, do the 3

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fying selection. Perhaps a seafood i a luncheon salad. plate

with assorted sandwiches . .. or to- °