Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 31 August 1936 — Page 6
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Permit Friend
4 Another Test,
Jane Suggests
But Watch for Further Signs of Rudeness, ° She Wamns.
Everybody whe needs help is invited
to write to this column. Letters will be answered within a few “days.
EAR JANE JORDAN--I
have ‘read your column
regularly and found answers |
to many of my problems in|
the problems of others. Your kindness and thoughtfulness in handling the problems of others has
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led me to seek advice. My heart is|
broken. I cried myself to sleep many nights trying to think of some answer. I have gone with a boy all high school, summer I asked him to the lake on a house party. During that
Jane jordan time ‘he
through | This |
have |
openly |
went around with a girl at another |
| cottage and left me home. Now he |
wants me to go with him again. | He says it was all a summer infatu- |
ation.
Should I trust this boy and |
take him back, or will he always]
make me unhappy this way. I love
him dearly and do not want to lose |
him if there is any way
I could
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really keep him. What should I do? |
HEARTBROKEN.
ANSWER—You
should not ex-
pect to be the only girl in a high
school boy's
I think his behavior very rude since he was your guest. He shows a lack of breeding in neglecting his. hostess, which should distress much as his fickleness. If you're so much in love perhaps the-thing to do is to forget the whole occasion and resume your friendship with the boy. If it so happens that you go with him for a number of years and the same thing happens over and over again, run for your life! T This one incident indicates nogh- | ing but: inexcusable rudeness, but al
whole series of departures and re- | told us,
life nor should he ex- |
pect; to be the only boy in yours. |
you as |
—Times Photo by Wheeler.
BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS
Times Fashion Editor : EW YORK is looking forward to a glamorous after- dark season this
year, according to Mrs. Howard Spencer Kiser. (above),
who has
| been a recent guest of her mother, Mrs. Bernard Lehman, 25 E. Maple-ct.
Mrs. Kiser, who lives in New
York, gleaned her up-to-the-minute
| knowledge of clothes from Hattie Carnegie, in whose establishment she | spends her days studying fashion trends and modeling -exquisite clothes.
“There is a luxury of boom days i shown in costumes this season,” she | “and it is echoed all over
turns would prove that the boy had | | the country now that New York has no gift for loyalty to one person.’ | dictated this mode of elegance.”
You might teach him manners, but | not fidelity.
ple who continuously repeat be-
Beware of those Pl
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"HE gown she wears is an ex-| elaborate eve-!
ample of this
havior patterns which cause them | | ning trend as interpreted by Hattie
trouble, unless you want to play Carnegie’ and as
nurse to a psychological invalid.
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DEAR JANE JORDAN—I am a at the theater, I have a nice | formally and for dancing in smartly
young man of 25. ; position with a good future, but not | much pay at present. with a girl of my own age. Another | young man also is in love with her. | As he makes more money than I
| shops show it.
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marry him before I can afford to!
do so. tion with more pay than I get now, but there is no opportunity for advancement In it. this position wouki allow me to] ‘ask. the girl to marry me at once. Should I risk my future in order |
I have been offered a posi- |
q o | with its yards and yards of do I am afraid he will ask her 10" worn over a’ slender sheath of blue
our own local It bespeaks dramatic entrances for opening nights for dining semi-
| appointed places. Fashioned of lustrous net in a
I am in love| | deep blue heron shade -it sparkles
| with myriads of tiny mirrors, each {one sewn on dexterously by hand. The skirt has a rhythmic swing fluff
taffeta. The glitter of the skirt’s motif “goes to the head” in the form of
| a miniature butterfly of silver and
| rhinestones. The money from!
to marry the dir] I love, or would
I be justified in asking her to wait |
until my present position is ‘im- |
| proved—and my salary
enough to|
allow me to marry her, or should | 1 say nothing and allow the other |
man to marry her?
I love the girl |
so much I would not want to make |
her unhappy. ‘WORRIED. _ANSWER—If the girl is worth having she will be just as interested in your future as you are, One of the qualities we icqitire in growing up is the ability to postpone immediate desires in favor of a future and more . ‘satisfactory fulfillment. If vou put your predicament befare her, her reactions wiil tell you more about the girl that years “of living with her. Should she be short-sighted enough to choose the position which pays enough to enable you to marry without offering promise for the future instead of being willing to wait for better things, you have every reason to be bitterly disappointed in her lack of vision. In that case let the other fellow take her off your hands. JANE JORDAN.
COUPLE TO RESIDE
HERE AFTER TRIP
Charles Gustafson and his bride, the former Miss Virginia E. Cooper, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. R. A
Cooper, Carmel, are on a motor trip )
to Michigan,
Sliver slippery, peep from beneath the voluminous skirt fo complete the picture of autumn R~
| elegance, 15836. i
Miss Mary “o. James visiting in Alanuc City.
T oday’ s Pattern
has bean.
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‘Couple Married | Here to Reside in Shreveport
Following their marriage at 1:30 |p. m. yesterday: in: the Danish Lutheran Church; Albert S. Griffin and his bride, Miss Helga B.
Christensen, motored to Shreveport to make their home. The Rev. Christen Jeppesen officiated. Miss Helen McFee was soloist and Miss Edna Olsen, organist. The bride is a daughter of Mrs, Charles Stansberry. Ushers were Elmon .Christensen, | Mount Clemens, Mich., the bride's | brother, and Glen House, Anderson. Alex. Christensen, the bride's brother, was the best man. Out-of-town guests included Mrs. J. J. Griffin, Chattahoochee, Fla, the bridegroom's mother; Mr. and Mrs. William Riddick, Ayden, N. C.; Mrs. Elmon Christensen, Clemens, Mich. and Mrs. Anderson. The bride's gown was of white over satin. Her full-length tulle veil fell from 3 coronet of orange blossoms, and her shower bouquet was of bridal roses and | baby breath. { - Miss Berniece Terry, maid of | honor, wore a pink lace dress, designed with a shoulder cape. A { bandeau of braided tulle was ar-
House,
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Mount |»
| ranged in her hair, and her bou- |
quet was of Briarcliff roses.
Miss |
Betty Ostermeyer as bridesmaid at- |
tended in a. turquoise blue lace] gown with a matching bandeau in {| her hair and carried Joanna Hill
| roses.
Carl Johantges, Bride on Motor Trip in West
Mr. and Mrs. Carl J. Johantges are in the West following their marriage Saturday in St. Anthony's Catholic Church. Mrs. Johantges was the former Miss Annabelle Lée DeBurger, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George S. DeBurger. Mr. Johantges is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Johantges. A The Rev. Louis Johantges, O. F. F., Chicago, uncle of the bridegroom, read the ceremony before an altar arranged with palms, ferns Picardi gladioli and lighted by cathedral candles. Miss Josephine Davis, organist, played bridal music and Miss Catherine Dugan sang. The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore white lace, fashioned princess style with white satin
buttons reaching from neck to hemline in the front. Her double-tiered tulle veil fell from a coronet fastened with orange blossoms.
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First Lady Urges u.s. Agency for Homes, Children
3 Bi United Press NEW YORK, Aug. 31. — Mrs. Franklin D. Roosevelt has advocated the adoption of a new Federal department of homes and children to serve the interests of youth throughout the nation. : Writing in the current issue of the Parents’ Magazine, the President's wife-said: “I hope that the parents in this country will take enough interest in the new government reorganization plans to realize that the interests of youth can best be served by a Federal department which will touch primarily the. homes and the youth of America.” z In the article Mrs. Roosevelt called for equalization of educational opportunities throughout the country so that rural children might have the chance to obtain as good a general . education as those in the city. The city child, in turn, Mrs. Roosevelt said, have vacations in the country to learn about naturé.
should”
Late Summer Timeto Watch Child’s Health
Many Diseases Come With Arrival of Fall Weather.
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BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Late summer “is the time when
the thoughts of mothers everywhere |:
are harrowed by misgivings of sick-
‘I ness.
There is always the dread of infantile paralysis, for instance, that chooses fall days to ride its witch’s broom. And diphtheria, scarlet fever, and the so-called children’s diseases, like to ride high, too. Whatever she thinks of summer heat, the average mother wishes in many ways that it would go on forever, if it means immunity to her family. I should like to say, “The best way is not to think about it at all.” Perhaps 1 will say it anyway, because I am almost superstitious enough to believe that useless worry invites trouble. However, I don’t class precaution with worry, so it may be well to review a few things together.
Keep Hands Away From Face
Since infantile paralysis is still a mystery as to source it is hard to say where to look for trouble. But this much is known: The germs enter through the nose and attack the nerves of the nasal passages and the head. This in itself is a valuable bit of information, because prevention can be used in a measure. Frequent washing of hands these days is a good idea, and especially if children dig outdoors much, or
play on the ground. Washing before
meals is always good, but just now better still. If a child has a habit
of putting hands to face, or mouth’
or nose, he should be utterly discouraged in the practice. Handker‘chiefs should be tucked in small pockets and used exclusively by their owners. If one lives in a district where the water supply is under suspicion, it is wise to boil it before using. This applies to many diseases. Typhoid, of course, is the villain to beware of niost alertly, where water is concerned. Better too early than too late, and that parent who is not sure, can at least sleep better if she
knows she had taken the right precaution.
Good Health Is: Best Defense
As for. contagious diseases, I know of no better time than, late summer or fall to keep the neighborly 'sniffler away. Or to keep our own small coughers or sneezers at home. Or to segregate the member of the family who “does not feel so well.” Oh, yes, the chances are that it is just a cold, or a little sore throat; it is foolish to cry “wolf” for every small ‘indisposition and think the very worst. However, even the child who has nothing more than a common cold should be banished from society. It may go easy with him but hard for the next fellow. Diseases are more contagious in their early stages, almost invariably, indeed, before diagnosed dangerous, or innocent, as the case may be. But the child with a headache, a fever, sore throat, stiff-neck, bad cough, extreme weariness, pain in the stomach, pain in legs or continued nausea, needs a doctor. I have mixed up symptoms of a number of things purposely. But they are storm signals and should be heeded. Dop’t let children get over-tired. Keep them out of night draughts. Change clothes with the thermometer. Keep up their general health, known as ‘defense.” = Defense either throws off disease or
fights it well if it comes. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service. Inc.)
Mix ves :
Lettuce, Added to Peas, ‘Stretches’ Small
Supply.
By NEA Service Have you discovered wake the
drought has raised the price of your favorite vegetable?
The luzurious silver fox cape by Helm shows an altogether new line. It is worn over a black chiffon evening
vegetables in the market should im-
something of a problem to the budget to include fresh peas, - asparagus and other treats from the ‘garden, usually to be had in -abundance. The frugal French have countless clever ways of meeting such a situa tion. One of them is to “stretch” a small supply of fresh peas by adding lettuce and onions while they are cooking. The dish will go farther and you will also have a delicious flavor. Notice that this French recipe for peas uses only two tablespoons of water. The lettuce will produce enough water during the cooking to "| boil the peas: Peas a la Francaise for & Two pounds fresh peas, heart of large lettuce, 2 cup pickled onions, or 1 onion, sliced Sia, % pound butter, salt, pepper, | tablespoons water. Remove the coarse oer leaves of the lettuce and take out the hears and the small leaves adhering to it, Put all the ingredients, including * ‘the shelled peas, into & saucepan, put on the lid, and simmer for 35 minutes. Pour off some of the liquid and serve at once, lettuce, onions and all, very hot. If you don’t happen to have pickled onions on your pantry shelf, a medium-sized fresh onion, sliced very thin, will do just as well. =
dress with yoke, straps and belt “of chiffon velvet, matching the lining of the cape.
Two Couples on Wedding Trips After Double Ceremony Here
Two recently married couples who exchanged vows in a double ceremony yesterday at All Saints’ Cathedral, are to return to Indianapolis to make their home after wedding trips. Samuel Chase and his, bride, the former Miss Frances Gentry Fillingim, are to reside at 2025 N. Me-ridian-st. William Harry Hutto and his bride, the former Miss Mary Jane Fillingim, are to live at 3466 N. Capitol-av.
Menzies Fillingim gave his ‘two daughters in marriage at the ceremony read by the Rev. Robert Alexander, The altar was decorated with palms. Mr. Chase is a son of Mr. and Mrs. Carl William Chase, Gary, and Mr. Hutto’s mother is Mrs. O. M. Hutto, Kokomo. :
Bridal Airs on Organ
Guests were seated by Kirk Wilson, New York; Frank Sargeant, David McKinstray and James Engler, while Miss Jeannette Riker, organist, played bridal airs. The brides’ attendants wore net dresses fashioned alike with skirts covered with pleated ruffles from the knees to-the hem to form slight trains and with ruffied capes. Mrs. Arnold L. Royer, Lebanon, Frances’ attendant, wore apricot with . azure blue accessories. -. Her
Etiquette
By PATRICIA
END PLAY AVOIDS FINESSE
Today's Contract Problem
South hearts.
Has to make seven we first lead of trump reveals that. East holds five; nevertheless, proper handling of the cards will give declarer his contract. A A K 10 ¢ 98 6
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Solution in next issue. 24
Solution to Previous
Contract Problem BY WILLIAM E. WKENNEY
American Bridge League Secretary NE of the first lessons taught the. beginner at bridge is to lead trump at the earliest opportunity. This is a sound rule, but, like all rules, it has its .exceptions. It is also considered generally a waste of time, if not worse, to lead trump when there is only one way out of a difficulty, and in such case to play the highest trump left. Today's hand is an example, however, where a very good player found excellent use for his opponent’s master trump, and that was to throw the lead to him when the proper moment came. By doing so, he avoided a finesse
in clubs that tempted others to
their sorrow. When South saw dummy, he
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spades, then cashed the diamond king and entered dummy with a heart. A diamond was returned and ruffed by the closed hand, and the other high heart in dummy was used as an entry to lead another round of diamonds,
which was ruffed in the closed hand.
claret did not carg whether West had any more hearts or not, for he could lose only one trick. West followed suit, and South now led a spade, forcing West into the lead.
avoided, because West had to lead that suit. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)
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Now the heart 10 was led. * De- 1
Thus the feared club finesse was -
Tse CONVERSATION — The conversation at a dinner table should be cheerful, unrestrained and natural. The first rule for a successful dinner party is to invite guests who are congenial. It is ill-man-nered and selfish for any person to attempt to dominate the conversation, or to talk incessantly. The dinner table is no place for long arguments or heated discussion. No subjects should be introduced which are disagreeable to any person present. Even in the family circle where the members see each other constantly, all acrimonious discussion should be abjured. " Well-bred: people do not comment on the food except to' praise it to the hostess, quietly and briefly. The enjoyment of well-prepared dishes is taken for granted among cultured and refined people. To thank your host and hostess profusely for the food implies that you came solely to eat. It is not necessary to be extravagant in your praise of any social favor; in fact, it is decidedly ill-bred.
* Mr. and Mrs. E have returned from a trip to California.
Karl Edgar Stout |
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So many consumers are interested in Italian Zabaglione sauce that this seems -a good time ‘to give you the . recipe.
Zabaglione for Four
Five egg yolks, 212 gar, 1; cup sherry wine, You must allow one egg yolk per
person and an extra yolk “for fhe dish.” Hence, for serving four, you use- five yolks. | Beat the yolks about five
picture hat ‘had apricot streamers. Mr. Royer was Mr. Chase's best man. Miss Bettie Frances Hooks, New Harmony, was Mary Jane's bridesmaid. Her gown was azure blue and her accessories apricot. Both bridesmaids carried peach gladioli and light blue delphinium. William Stafford, Plainfield, was Mr. Hutto’s best man.
Brides Wear White Satin
Frances’ white satin gown was designed with. a white lace jacket, joined by train. White satin bows fastened the . jacket designed on princess lines and with a standup collar. Both brides carried arm bouquets of. white gladioli with streamers of bridal roses and wore small off-the-face lace hats. Mary Jane's gown was white satin with a train. Her finger-tip length jacket of directoire style with standup collar had full puff sleeves ending in points over the hands and fastened with white satin buttons. Mrs. Fillingim attended in a navy blue lace gown with green and navy accessories and a Talisman rose corsage. Mrs. Chase's gown of powder blue lace was worn with navy accessories and an American Beauty corsage. Mrs. Hutto wore a wellow rose corsage with her black lace Sullivan at the home of the officiatgown, | ing minister, the Rev. C. B. Arkin _ One hundred guests were emter-| son, Mrs. Miller was Miss Louise tained at a reception at the Propy-| Hungate, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, lacsum following the ceremonies. Robert Hungate. Mr. Miller is a son
of Mr. and Mrs. Aaron Miller, FLAPPER FANNY SAYS:
utes fluffy.
until every grain is dissolved. Next add the sherry wine slowly, Set the mixture in the top of a double boiler with boiling water in the lower half and keep stirring, After five minutes, the mixture will thicken, and by constant stirring, you will keep it smooth and of a frothy consistency. If the day is warm, serve this sauce cold, poured over slightly
cool, make the sauce, prepare fruit just before dinner an se both hot. The .gauce itself, served wit
o sherbet glasses and served alone in all its splendor.
INDIANAPOLIS HON E
Mr. and Mrs. James A. Miller are to make their home in Indianapolis, Before her marriage yesterday in
The bride is a graduate of the Arthur Jordan Conservatory. of Musie and is a member of Phi Sigma - u versity graduate, is a“ member of ‘Kappa Delta Rho Fraternity,
Luncheon, Arran ged Mrs. E. 8. Barnhill, po - unit activities for the Indianapolis Post 4, American Legion Auxiliary, today announced the final luncheon and bridge party is to be held at iz 3 p. m..tomorrow at the Riviera u ;
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It took good headwork to start the vogue for wall masks.
and PRE
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Have Your Children’s Eyes Examined
Fur Coats eal and Glazed
The supply and quality, too, of
prove as fall approaches, but right : now, with prices what they are, it's
tablespoons sue
Add the sugar gradually and beat
cooked and very cold fruit. If it's
fruit, may be poured into parfait
Mr. .Miller, an Indiana Uni-
until they fre very, very ligh and = fF
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COUPLE TO MAKE ©
feared he had been too conserva-. tive, as the trump suit seemed solid, with only three outstanding, and, if this were true, seven depended on a simple finesse in clubs. But when he laid down the ace of spades and East failed to follow, he learned the bad news that he must, lose a trump trick to West, and the question no longer was one of making seven, but whether he could make six. . round of
After Sept. 16 they are to ‘make |
their home in Indianapolis. Marriage vows were read Friday at | | Christ Episcopal Church by the Rev. | 'E. Ainger Powell. Miss Elizabeth Roberts, Carmel, and goharles Eblo attended the couple. Both Mr. and Mrs. Gustafson were ~ graduated from the University of = Michigan where the hride was a member of Kappa Delta Sorority . and Mr. Gustafson was a member of Alpha Kappa Lambda Fraternity. _ He is a son of Mrs. Charlotte Gus- . tafson, Ludington, Mich.
Party Postponed
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Miss Irene Johantges, sister of the bridegroom, was,maid of honor. She ks | wore powder blue lace over taffeta, R.a morning frock. that leo with matching picture hat. Gladioli as neat and trim as a sports pedominated in her colonial boudress choose No. 8833. It is simple | quet. . to make and, since it opens out Bat} The bridesmaids were Misses Dorfor ironing, is a practical addition | Oth and oat Josie Burge uise S [to your housedress wardrobe. Use { Morrison. Their gowns of moire | percale, gingham or calico. Patterns | | were fashioned with full skirts and are Sized 34 to 46. Size 36 requires | square necklines edged with pleat4% yards of 32 or 35-inch material. ings. Their matching picture hats To secure a PATTERN and STEP- of moire were trimmed in brown BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUC- | grosgrain ribbon streamers, TIONS, inclose 15 cents in coin; to- | Nola Jene Daysman, Chicago, was gether with the above pattérn num- | flower girl. Marcus A. DeBurger, the Delta Upsilon Auxiliary luncheon-|ber, and your size, your name and bride's. brother, was best man.’ .. scheduled for tomor- address, and mail to Pattern Editor, i were Bryant S. Cants,
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has been postponed until Octo- | The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. Frankton, and John: Johantges, > : : a Mazylaha-&t, lndianapois Montreal, Canada,