Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 21 August 1936 — Page 19
ns Appeal to Wife Points Out In Quoting Psychologist Wolfe
Successful Mate Must Be Father, Brother,
Jane Jordan
Today
Lover, Child—AI} Wrapped Into One Person—Expert Contends.
Is there a question in your mind which you wosld like to
have answered? Put it in a » ” »
leiter_to Jane Jordan today!
EAR JANE JORDAN—From your viewpoint what
qualities does a man ha
ve to possess to be liked by
women? Does it depend on physical makeup or upon com-
mon sense? Some men who especially lucky with women.
are not much to look at are I have often heard that per-
sonality is 85 per cent of one’s success. Is this true in your opinion? Which is better to be a ladies’ man or a man’s man.
I. WANT TO KNOW.
ANSWER-—There are so many different women
with so many d
ifferent needs in love that it is im-
possible to answer your query accurately. Broad sweeping generalizations always fail to answer individual questions.
One woman
may be’taken with a man’s physical
appearance, another may yearn for common sense, and yet another can not live with 'a man who has
no imagination, craving among
I suppose that the most common women is for tenderness. When
that one quality is possessed a man may be as ugly
as a mud fence of women.
Jane Jordan i
and still succeed with the majority
A rather arresting generalization has been made by one psychologist, Beran Wolfe, who declares that all women require a man to play four roles fer the greatest satisfaction in love. ) He claims that women have a hidden psychological craving “for a father, a brother, a lover and a child all rolled into one man.
That man who can alternate bet
ween these roles in his approach
to a woman is said by Wolfe to be assured of success. If wise the lover soon will discover which role strikes the major chord in the woman he wishes to charm and put the emphasis on that note. He may succeed in capturing the woman with only one of these techniques but he can not hold her without the other. According
to Wolfe most men fail because the sion of the others.
y try to play one role to the exclu-
Another point which the psychologist makes is the alternation of pursuit and surrender which the average woman enjoys. “
It is a mistake for man to woman the prey. There comes
be forever the hunter and the a time in an affair when the
woman wishes to pose as the aggressor with the man held captive to her charms. A symbolical show of pursuit and surrender is said to be the double process which turns the trick in love.
As to whether it is better to be should say that it is best to strike man who is too wrapped up in his
a man’s man or a woman's man, 1 a balance between the two. The own strivings to develop a love in-
terest is one-sided. The man whose energies are too tied up in forever
settling the love problem is apt to
ail in the other adjustments of life. JANE JORDAN.
Jane Crawford to Be Hostess at Party Honoring Bride-to-Be
Miss Helen McLandress, a bride-to-be who has been the center of much entertainment inthe last few
days, is to be honor guest again at a party today, with Miss Jane Crawford, hostess. , The marriage of Miss McLandress to Dr. George L. Abernethy, New York, is to be solemnized Tuesday at the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church. Miss Crawford's party is to be a buffet supper and .bridal shower. Apricot and blue, colors chosen by the bride-to-be, are to predominate in appointments.
Guests with Miss McLandress and Mrs. Robert J. McLandress are to include Mrs. Harry G. Crawford, Mrs. Ward Gillespie and Misses Elsie Hancock, Margaret
Alles, Katherine Price, Agnes Hin-.
kle, Elizabeth Taft and Magdalene Adams and her house guest, Miss Ethel Sarah Scoggins, Nashville, Tenn. Miss Hancock is to give a kitchen shower tomorrow night at her home, 3905 Washington-blvd, for Miss McLandress. Miss Hancock, Miss Crawford and Miss Alles are to be Miss McLandress’ attendants at the ceremony.
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dress up to their parts!
Back .on the job after-a relaxing summer spent in the lake regions of Michigan, she chooses frostbitten black to get her into the fall spirit for volunteer drive committee meetings, luncheons with publicity directors and playmeeting committee dates. She’s in the swing of fashion in this deep black crepe tunic with its shirred skirt, flat front panel and slim princess waistline. The new elbow length sleeves are caught up with shirring and the high neckline is climaxed with a bow knot of rhinestones. » ” ” : ER black hat of soft velour is the peak of smartness with its forward movement in pointed brim
BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS : Times Fashion Editor
LL the world’s a stage and the men and women players should
So says Mrs. Lucille Bomgardner (above), whose role is that of business manager of the Civic Theater.
and dunce cap crown. A perky white feather gives it a fly-away look so dashing this season! Four-button pull-ons are smart to wear with this new length sleeve.
‘Too bad you can’t have a close-up
of the smart bag! It’s as new as next fall and smart as a whip. Black antelope, with unique bandings of glistening patent exemplifying the “shiny” on “dull”, vogue.
Career women who are on’ their toes in business and in the know about clothes, are preparing their wardrobes for those first cool days
'by selecting black street costumes
such as this for their autumn entrances. , .
Today’s Contract Problem South is playing the hand at four hearts. West has bid spades once. Should South allow the first trick to ride around to his queen? a%42, QJ 10 A109 hd AKJI3
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Contract Problem
BY W. E. WKENNEY American Bridge League Seeretary
only one way to make his contract, that is, by finding a certain division of a suit in the hands of the defending players, or a certain card located “right” for him, there is but one thing to do —play for that exact division, or that location of the key card. It was by. taking
slam - contract, glance seemed doomed to defeat. South’s opening bid was very weak, and his own justification was that shopworn statement, “I had strength in both majors”; but had he not opened the bidding, it
HEN a bridge player has.
PLAYS FOR ONLY CHANCE
Rubber—N. & S. vul.
South West North East 1@ Pass 3v Pass 49 Pass 6¥ Pass Opening lead—¢ K. 14
that declarer had played out all
the spades and the clubs from
both his own hand and the dummy, after having drawn trump. So now he led a small diamond, West won with the queen and was forced to return a spade. This was ruffed in dummy, the losing diamond was discarded, and the
last trick was won with declarer’s -
last trump. : (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)
SHOWER IS HELD
~-FOR RECENT BRIDE Mrs, L. F. Hiland, 1064 W. 36th-st,
entertained with a miscellaneous:
shower recently in honor of Mrs. William C. Hiland, who before. her marriage July 19, was Miss Prisciila Nolan,
The guests included: Mesdames
William C. Hiland Sr. E.-F. Hiland, F. S. Montague, K. O. Dinsmore,
William Stewart, F. M. Ray Williams, Kenneth
‘| is ‘of | straight fur skirt, split on. each
Neidlinger, | ;
Fitted Fur Coats Are to Be Vogue for Coming Year
ULKY fur coats that hung like dead weights. from the shoulders: have passed into the discard
of fashion. This season furs aref
used and styled like fabrics. Sleek
tunic styles, short box coats and suits with tailored jackets. are feather light, and are made to flatter the figure as well as to keep ‘one snugly warm. : Such are the advance styles shown by H. Irving Arnheimer, of the House of Arnheimer, New York, in a fur fashion showing to be held at-2 p. m. today in the Wm. H, Black & Co. auditorium. The show also was held yesterday.
: 5.8 = ' HE outfit, displayed on manne-
quins, show, the interesting utilization of furs. for all winter
| activities. Novel ski suits of light
brown lapin, with zipper front closings, worn with Swiss boots are notable among the sports costumes. Culottes, of lapin, designed in typical fashion and are endorsed for active sports wear.
styles are exhibited for travel, sports and afternoon wear. Ope outstanding cocktail suit is fashioned of soft gray kidskin with bandings and buttons of matching gray velvet. The finger-tip coat extreme .tunic style with
side. Fur muff, bags and hats to
‘| match are worn with many of the
costumes. » . os ® GIVIRREL, galyak, caracul, mink ‘and: Persian lamb all have high place in the wardrobe of the fastidious woman of fashion: this year.
.} Capes are in high favor for. both
daytime and evening wear. Silscarfs are shown in several lengths and styles. Ermine capes and wraps of elegance are modeled with evening gowns.” > Wide shoulder treatments, envelope sleeves, small roll collars and self trimmings are evident trends of fashion, noted in the showing. Wool knitted linings are ‘casualness of treatment is appar‘ent in all the fur models. : 9 = © (ByM.B.W)
ATTEND. SESSIONS - AT LAKE WAWASEE
‘| renegade Indians before her eyes. | Mary herself was captured on her
: | murdered his brothers and event‘ually was murdered himself.
‘| in soft glory today, her life-sized ‘| statue in exquisitely colored Indian | robes, a startling contrast to the | peaceful woods and the quiet old
| deeper character lines came, not to | prove an inner brooding (facial lines | invariably indicate the secrets of ‘| the soul), but strong lines of pur-
‘| her family while her brothers es-
Glamorous fur suits of high |p
ver fox sable and: baum marten|
Gives Lesson on Fortitude
Encouragement Found in Comparison of Troubles.
BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON : HEN we need a lesson in fortitude the best thing to do is to hunt up a real story of real tragedy that left its victim not crushed; but filled with redoubled courage and grandeur. Or to talk with some dne whose experience has been (or is being) more bitter than our own, and observe stoicism as it comes. Occasionally I drive out to a beautiful shrine set in our mountains. It is dedicated to a white girl, Mary Jamison, whose family was tortured and murdered by
wedding day, and eventually married to an Indian brave. Later widowed, she married another Indian. Her life, though, was not through with bitterness. . One of her sons
Worked for Peace With Whites Beautiful, lovely Mary. She stands
church built since the fatal day. Her copper-colored hair, braided, frames a tender ‘girlish face that. keeps you looking; later, no doubt,
pose to do what good she could and be happy. She was always the “white” woman:to the end.
Fortitude Is Shown
To the day she died, her influence for peace between red man and the white never halted. Her untiring efforts were her real monument. This unformed girl, who tried to save
caped, through sheer fortitude turned her broken life to good. Hers has become a national legend. We say that women of two centuries ago were different. Why should they be? They were women. Girls were girls. Many of them, like Mary, came of finely grained stock. And we have a way of adding that a life of heart-tearing work prepared them for hazards. In this one case, we are wrong. There were few Indians where this girl lived, and the four who sneaked to her farm (with four Frenchmen) were strays far from home. The farm was isolated, but a good one. Mary had her own riding horse, and her wedding clothes were dainty.
Don’t Emulate Lot's Wife
Where, we might ask, did this girl-in-a-million get her courage? Where do any of the heroines of any day get theirs? From that rare endowment of heaven that is far greater than any genius. Today has its Marys, women who refuse to be crushed by adversity or sorrow, and carry their banners on to a new sun. -Courage is too
in our minds. The present requires a different type of stamina, endurance, that is quite as heroic as that dictated by savage raids. Two things can be learned from Mary's life, a determined fortitude ‘to face life ahead, no matter what comes, and a refusal to look back and relive tragedy. Lot's wife did so. And from then on became inanimate. When grief or trouble are behind, let them stay there. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)
MRS. THOMPSON TO BE HONORED
Mrs. James E. Thompson, former president of the Indianapolis Alumnae Club of Mu Phi Epsilon, honorary musical sorority, is to be a guest at a reception from 2 to 5 p. m. today at the home of Mrs. Clyde E. Titus, 736 Middle-dr., Woodruff-
1. \ , Hostesses are to be members of the local alumnae club. Mrs: Thompson is to leave: next
likely to be associated with the past, |.
week for Detroit, to make her home.
Etiquette
By PATRICIA
Be SERVICE—For the small dinner the English style is preferred. The meat is carved by the host, some of the other dishes are served by the hostess and the maid passes the plates to the guests. In many American homed, the hostess uses a combination of these two services. Attractive dishes are
served from the table and others are arranged in individual portions or passed by the servant. From the setting of the table until it is cleared for dessert, a plate always remains at every cover. Dishes are presented flat on the palm of the servant's left hand, and hot dishes require a napkin pad under them. Each dish should be supplied with whatever implements needed for serving, such as a spoon and fork of large size for fish, meat, salad and vegetables. All service is from the left of the person served, and dishes may be removed from the right or left, whichever is more convenient.
Americans Most Skilled in Use of Makeup, Report
BY ALICE HART Times Special Writer “American women, unlike Parisiennes who use too much makeup and Londoners who use too little, have struck a happy medium as far as use of cosmetics is concerned,” says Helen Vinson, who just returned from Europe. “In Paris, most fashionable women go in for very heavy makeup, especially about the eyes. I actually saw green mascara on women in evening clothes. You know, after you have been in Paris for a few
weeks, you unconsciously start put- egg
ting on a little more powder, rouge, eye preparations and lipstick. “If you hop over to London, you see that faces are, comparatively speaking, practically unmade up. When you get back to the United States you notice at once the nicely —not sparingly, not lavishly—made up faces on streets, in restaurants and at the theater.”
Routine Is Simple Miss Vinson’s own makeup routines are simple indeed. She uses a light foundation, cream rouge, powder, lipstick and a tiny bit of
bluish-gray eyeshadow. Incidentally,
she always uses a special curler on her lashes. Curled lashes make her eyes look larger, she thinks. The screen star always cleanses her face with water and a special complexion soap. At night, she follows soap with water, scrubbing with a bit of rich tissue cream. This is allowed to remain on for 30 minutes, then the excess is removed. Miss Vinson goes to bed with a bit of pore cream on the tip of her nose. In the morning, she repeats the steps, using powder foundation after she has removed the tissue cream.
You usually eatch on after you've been caught.
About Herring, Wyman Claims
Lola Gives Two Recipes For Preparing Fish | In Fine Style
BY LOLA WYMAN Lo, the poor herring. No one ever writes about it. I think there are many people who enjoy herring but think it’s not an aristocratic fish. Well, they're wrong. For what's in the name of a herring—it's delicious and there must be about 50 different ways of preparing it most succulently. The recipes below are for socalled Holland herring either impotted or domestic—the kind that come barrelled in brine,
There are three types of salt herring, the matzos, schmaltz and the milt. All herring should be soaked in cold water for at least 24 hours before using and the water changed i or three times during that e.
Herring Balls With Potatoes
for Four 4 medium sized potatoes 2 small onions, sliced 2 cups milk 2 salt herring 3 slices bread 1 egg, well beaten - parsley Cook potatoes and onion in come bined milk ‘and water for 15 mine utes. , ‘Have herring previously soaked in water 24 hours. Drain, bone and skin. Chop the herring finely with slightly moistened bread and stir in
Make this mixture into small balls and add to potatoes. Continue cooking about 15 or 20 ‘minutes longer or until the potatoes are tender. Serve at once garnished with parsley. Tante’s Herring for Four
2 salt herring water yolks of 2 hard-cooked eggs 1, teaspoon salt 1 tablespoon vinegar 2 teaspoon salt 2 teaspoon sugar 2 cup thick sour cream lettuce Soak herring 24 hours in water to cover. ‘ Drain and dry and clean herring making’ fillets, removing all skin and bones. Mash egg yolks to a paste. Grad ually stir olive oil into egg yolk paste, beating until creamy. Add vinegar, salt, sugar and sour cream, stirring until well mixed. Serve the fillets on lettuce and
pour over them the ges dressing. Council Considers
N eeds of F lower Mission Hospital
The City Council in planning its 1937 budget is considering an appropriation to open the new Flower Mission Tuberculosis Hospital. Mrs. David Ross, Flower Mission president, today differentiated between the new ‘hospital and the Marion County Tuberculosis Sanatorium at Sunnyside. “The difference is clear cut,” she said. “Sunnyside receives cases which possibly are curable. The Flower Mission cares for advanced cases. The new hospital will be a help to Sunnyside by relieving overcrowded conditions and freeing beds now occupied by patients who have not responded to treatment, It will be a great factor in checking the spread of the disease in
| another way: by removing from
homes and especially from contact with susceptible children, advanced cases which are a source of infection.” .
Miss Fanchon Fattig has left for a visit in New York.
“Buy your college clothes at a
“t college shop” . . . and that’s sage
advice for you young things who would carry off all honors in smartness. Follow this pert little sign inside the portals of 16 N. Merid- : ian-st and pick out ‘og those precious %. . dresses, suits, coats
.day at all these new arrivals and quite beastly heat PR inwas I. You can always advantage of excellent values
— Here's the way we wear our twin sweater sets this season. Select 2 sweaters in contrasting colors, Let the outer sweater button down the back . + + s.but just you button the top and the bottom . . . and let the color be revealed in the same manner you wore your formal gown. Sweaters are better than ever again this fall. So you all who've been knitting the summer
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nneth Byrket, X. Baptist Now 1s the time to ti clever cotton pique dresses for the proverbial song. Winter vacations and next spring will profit by this purchase. op & 5 = ee uadiet BOR
is probable that the hand would have played in four only, and hence never would have reached me for discussion in this column.
DAYTIME dress (No. 8827), with fullness at the yoke, interesting “XA pockets and a flattering neckline is important for town or country. Use percale, shantung or gingham for house dresses, silk or\black satin for a lovely street dress. Patterns are sized 32 to 44. Size 34 requires 43% A of 39-inch material, plus 7 yards of 1%-inch bias binding for
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