Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 18 August 1936 — Page 11
Jane Tells Bride of 4 Months 4 | French Dishes
Hang on as Long as Possible, Giving Husband Fried Eggplant, Parsley, | His Chance to Meet Emergency in Tomatoes Good at |
| Heartless Actions Toward - Strangers Should Be
Own Way, Jordan Suggests.
Put your troubles in a letter to Jane Jordan, whe will give you the benefit of long experience by her answers in this column.
EAR JANE JORDAN—I have been married four months and have a very good husband. We got along very nicely until he lost his job. Now he doesn’t treat me like I was his wife. He goes away at night and he leaves me alone. I think as much of him as I ever did even though
he doesn’t have a job. Why does
he turn me down now? 1 still love
him. 1 would get out and try to find work but he don't let me: so what am I supposed to do? I couldn't stand to leave him or to have
him leave me. eat or not.
He doesn’t seem to care whether I
I won't live with any of his people. He
doesn’t have any parents, just sisters and one
brother. that. at all.
They never bother us or anything like And he feels like I shouldn't see my people
JUST WORRIED.
ANSWER—I have no idea why your husband has reacted to adversity by leaving you alone unless he is too keenly conscious of his responsibilities when he is with you and finds it easier to forget
them when he
Jane Jordan
is with other people. If this is true
it indicates that he is a pretty discouraged person. Your letter gives me so little to go on that I
can’t help you much. Do your best to keep up his courage and selfesteem. Nobody can be indifferent to a situation where hunger is involved, but in so far as you can, keep calm. Your own agitation only
adds to his. inferior, if you can.
Let him work it out himself without making him feel
Of course, if the worst comes, you will have to go to work or return to your people in order to eat. Put it off as long as you can and give him every chance to respect himself for his ability to meet an emergency. If he saves you from hunger the chances are he will love you more than ever, but if you prove more adequate to the situation than he, it may make him feel inade-
quate and quite miserable. ” ” ”
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Near Jane Jordan—I have been going with a boy since Christmas and I like him a lot. When we're out alone or with kids our own age, he acts as if he likes me, and says so, too. When we're out with older people he acts in the opposite manner. Just to shaw you what I mean, the other night an older person asked him if he ‘was going back to
college.
He hesitated and said he didn't know. Then this person
asked if I could be the reason he didn’t know and he said, “Her? If that was it I would leave right now!”
Yesterday he left for a short two other boys. One of the boys gocd-by and he said,
“Heck, no!
trip and came to say good-by with asked if he wasn’t going to kiss me Let her Kiss herself good-by!”
Should ‘I believe him when he says he loves me or do actions speak
louder than words?
DEEPLY PUZZLED.
ANSWER—Your boy friend is young, awkward and selfconscious. When teased he doesn’t know how to turn it off gracefully, but tries to cover up his embarrassment by rudely denying the accusation. His conduct is that of a green young boy, but not that of an indifferent boy. When you're alone try tactfully to teach him better man-
ners. hurting a girl's feelings.
There are better ways to escape embarrassment than by
JANE JORDAN.
Miss Schlosser’s Bridesmaid to Be
[Lois Ann Sitler
Miss Lois Ann Sitler, Knightstown, is to be bridesmaid at the wedding of her cousin, Miss Virginia
Schlosser, and Roger L. Deputy Sept. 19. The ceremony is to take place
| here at the home of the bride’s-to-be parents, Mr. and Mrs. Chalmer Schlosser. James W. Deputy,
the bridegroom’s-to-be brother, is,
to be best man. A supper for the guests.is to follow the ceremony. Mr. Deputy’s parents are Mr. and Mrs. J. B. Deputy, Franklin. Miss ‘Schlosser is a Franklin College graduate and member of Delta Delta Delta Sorority. Mr. Deputy, also a Franklin graduate, received his M. A. degree from Indiana University.
Pattern |
Swiss, gingham, percale or silk and trim it with contrasting buttons.
BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS
Times Fashion Editor “ WOOL one-piece campus dress is a college ‘must’!” declares Miss Emma Gene Tucker (above), who is busy assembling an adequate
wardrobe for entrance to De Pauw
this fall. She was gradyated from
Bradford Junior College last spring, so she knows what it’s all about when selecting appropriate college clothes.
A perky co-ed uniform such as the one she is wearing here should go to the head of the class. If is eminently wearable and smart and subscribes to “big moments,” as well. It's color foretells its destiny for it is called “romance blue” and is bound to draw masculine attention with its doggy buttons of wirehaired heads barking down the front. :
It is fashioned of a fine basket weave and is different enough looking with its handsome tailored tucks to take the honors at any informal rush gathering at “U” shop or sorority house!
” ® ” NTRICATE little details, such" as the inverted V-shaped pleat high in the back, interesting squared shoulder treatment, and a hook for holdinig the belt securely in front all chalk up in its favor. Ghillies in brown calfskin are tas-sel-tied and very sturdy for trudging about the campus. Other clothes essentials, in Miss Tucker’s opinion, for leading a normal college life are a camel's hair swagger coat (hers is a copper green shade), a good tweed suit to be worn with a variety of sweaters, smooth tea dancing togs of velvet or crepe. and at least three eyecompelling formals. She chose a fur coat in preference to a fur-trimmed cloth coat because it is more practical for keeping warm at football games and also will do nicely, thank you, over evening gowns.
‘Handkerchief Is
Important Part
of the Ensemblel|
The pocket handkerchief has be-
come one of the most important of |
the accessories that complete the feminine ensemble. Grandmother's saying about a woman being as dainty as her kerchief still is true. It takes from two to three months to complete the work on an elaborately embroidered handkerchief. Before this work even begins, many companies have flax shipped from Russia to Ireland, where it is woven into linen. From Ireland it goes to China, where it is cut and stamped with designs created by American artists. The squares are distributed among experienced workers throughout China, and months later, the finished handkerchiefs are collected, laundered and shipped to the United States. It was Louis the Fourteenth who decreed that handkerchiefs must be square, regardless of size or material. Up to his time, they had been all sizes and shapes. At thé moment you are likely to hear about kohlkerchiefs, but don’t let it worry you. Just as culotte is a new name for your old friend, the divided skirt,
Personals
Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Manouge are vacationing at the Pancoast, Miami Beach, Fla.
Miss Emily Elliott is visiting relatives and friends in Detroit, Mich. and Cleveland, O. She is to attend the Great Lakes’ Exposition while in Cleveland.
|Sept. 12 Chosen
as Wedding Date
The marriage of Miss Dorothy Coe Du Puy and William Taggart Jr., Grand Rapids, Mich, 'is to take place Sept. 12 at the home of Miss Du Puy’s parents, Mr. and Mrs.
William Avery Atkins, Golden Hill. Miss Du Puy is a member of the
—Times Photo by Wheeler.
New Members to Give Dance for Sorority
The pledges of Gamma chapter, Omega Nu Tau Sorority are to entertain the members and their guests at a moonlight dance at the Hoosier Athletic Club roof garden tomorrow night. : ; Japanese lanterns and summer garden flowers are to decorate the roof. A floor show is to be a feature. Miss Mary Bernice Cain is committee chairman, assisted by Mrs. J. Nelson Marks, president. The pledges-elect are Mesdames J. W. McGuire, William Brill, Paul Cook, Donald Griffin, E. W. Wicklund, Eugene Vittetow, Agnes Bunrett and Misses Margaret Oyler, Betty Foster and Marion Alber-
Bride-to-Be Feted Mrs. Edward J. Troy entertained with a miscellaneous shower recently in honor of Miss "Hazel Deering, whose marriage to John J. Farrell is io take place at 8 a. m. tomorrow at St. Philip Neri Catholic Church.:
Indianapolis Junior League.
Covers were laid for 20 guests
Today’s Contract Problem * ‘South has the contract for four spades. How should he handle the heart situation to have the best chance of make ing three tricks in that suit?
Dealer
AAKQJ10 ¥643 AS BAGS All vul. Opener—é K. “Solution in next issue.
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Solution to Previous Contract Problem BY WILLIAM E. MKENNEY American Bridge League Secretary STATISTICALLY minded friend told me the other day that he believed, if the records were well and truly kept, it would be found that more tricks were lost by taking a finesse than by refusing one. I think my friend exaggerated, but there is no doubt that one of the most important things to learn . about finessing is not to finesse if another line of play is available. Take, as an today’s
AVOIDS FINESSE FOR GAME
Duplicate—All vul. South = West North East 16 Pass - 26 Pass ia Pass Pass Pass
Opening lead—VY K 11
Some players responded with one no trump on the first round of bidding, but the better response is two spades, which merely guarantees four trump. When the opening lead was made, South did not think his contract was in the slightest danger. The tgumps appeared fairly solid. His probable losers appeared to be two hearts and a club if the finesse went wrong.
' He ruffed the third round of hearts with the spade five. Then,
| fore their
Curbed, Writer Says.
BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON
| Children are not intentionally
cruel as individuals. In a crowd, however, they can be perfectly
| heartless. Like their elders, they
use the opportunity to show off beAt this time of year when fam-
| ilies are visiting friends and rela-
tives in far places, or arriving at established resorts and camps, many a small stranger is having his vacation spoiled. At the time when he should be happiest, he is having
| some of the hardest battles of his
(or her) life to fight. John arrives at the inn with his parents and marches into the dining room where a dozen or two other families are half way through
| their ‘lunch.
John Has ‘Problem
Old timers who have been here all the way to five or six weeks, act as though they had built the place and owned it. Not unpleasantly so, necessarily, but their familiarity with each other, the easy knowledge of what to do and what to wear, makes even the adult arrival feel as though out of it as a fish in a desert. : John is as stiff as his new collar. He sees boys all about eyeing him coldly, He is aware that all of them have instantly telegraphed each other over the waterglasses that here’s a greenie and he needn’t think he can get in with them. He needn't think he can help push the old scow up the creek to their particular cove or be in on their beach fires. These things pass like a flash through the boy's mind as Katie, who has been kidding those other
and waits for the order. Children Feel Slighted
Over at Mrs. Smith's table, Mrs. Smith is saying: to Peter, “Now, Peter, there is a new boy. He looks nice. See that you let him alone and don’t go playing your funny little jokes on him.” : And Mrs. Jones is saying to Tedto the new boy. He must feel strange.” After that the matter is pretty well forgotten. ‘John has his own salavation on his hands and he knows it. There is a difference in places. But I had a pitiful letter from one mother revealing cruelty beyond belief. They had rented a cottage in a “nice” place, but the old campers’ sons had formed a closed cornoration that resented the rather difident newcomer and conspired to make his life miserable.
Should Act Friendly
If T had a son who was in such a ring, I should talk turkey to him. And if that didn’t do, I'd paddy whack him. Naturally. boys. and girls, eo, are drawn together in different groups, dictated by interests, age and proximity. This is different. Occasionally the outsider is alien to all eroups because he himself is a misfit and not cut out for any sort of mixing. But this is unusual. The child who can, and will, go
say. “Hello, will you go in: swimming with us?” is doing a perfectly wonderful thing. The stranger in turn must do his part and not expect to be one of the fellows all at once, nor be too sensitive about imagined slights. And once initi-
{ ated, he must not get snooty him-
boys, puts a card in front of him |
dy, “I think you had better speak:
up to a Wersonable newcomer and |,
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dinner e late guest arrives he or should apologize immediately to the hostess, who remains seated, and then go to his designated place. y It is proper for the late arriving guest to request that the courses that already have been served be omitted.
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Cosmetic Kits Suggested for Best Results
‘BY ALICE HART Times Speeial Writer Cosmetic kits which contain every
preparation one needs to treat a specific skin condition not only save the trouble of assembling creams, lotions and tonics, but by providing items that are made to be used together, are more likely to give the best results.
Right now, a special treatment kit for blackheads and other blemishes is especially interesting to the girl anxious to get her complexion back in ship-shape for the autumn social season. Among other things. it contains a special wash which. if used regularly, tends to purge the pores of all foreign particles. First of all, you cleanse with cream, then pat on a tonic. When this has dried, you apply the special wash. It is a coarse, soap-like substance that is to be diluted with water in the palm of the hand and massaged on the face with light, rotary movements. A corrective cream comes next, and stays on for half an hour. After you take off what remains of this, blot a pore reducer wherever vou have large pores or blackheads. The treatment is to be repeated three nights.a week. You know, of course, that the skin never should be squeezed or pinched vigorously or with the bare fingers. Just after you remove the corrective cream, cover your forefingers with a piece of tissue and, ever so gently, press out some of the blackheads. Don’t try to remove all of them at one time. Also new, invaluable to the traveler as well as the stay-at-home and certain to ward off scaliness. on knees or elbows and blemishes on shoulder and back are bath brushes in rubber cases. These have straps instead of handles, flexible bristles and absolutely waterproof cases.
GROTTO, AUXILIARY ARRANGES SUPPER
A covered-dish - supper is to be given Thursday evening for the husbands of members of the decorating committee, Women’s Auxiliary to Sahara Grotto. It is to be held at the Grotto Home, 13th-st and Fark-
Vv. Mrs. Zetta Specker and Mrs. Edyth Bussell are to be hostesses.
self and wire across the dining room to his cronies that here comes a fall
guy and he needn’t expect to be
kissed. . (Copyright. 1936, NEA Service. Inc.)
This Season,
L BY LOLA WYMAN Two excellent French recipes to- | day are concocted as only the | French fried, and parsley tomatoes | beth are good at this season.
French Fried Eggplant for 4 1 medium-size eggplant. 3 eggs
% cup fine cracker crumbs. 12 cup stuffed olives, diced. 1 teaspoon salt.
Peel eggplant and cut into %- inch slices. Allow to stand in cold water to cover about 20 minutes. : Drain and dry the slices. Beat the eggs well, add cracker crumbs, olives, salt, pepper and milk, Mix until blended. Dip eggplant slices in this batter and fry in deep, hot cooking oil (375) until lightly browned. Drain on unglazed paper and serve at once.
Parsley Tomatoes for 4
3 ripe tomatoes. 6 thin slices onion or 14 cup tiny pearl onions. 2 tablespoons French dressing. 6 sprigs parsley. Cut tomatoes in %4-inch slices. Place a slice of onion on each tomato slice. Sprinkle with French dressing and garnish with sprigs of parsley. This method of preparing tomae toes as a salad substitute is ideal for serving with cold meats. Home grown tomatoes are perfect, treated this way.
W. J. Fitzgerald, Bride Depart on Wedding Journey
William J. Fitzgerald and his bride, formerly Miss Catherine Bockweg, left on a trip to Canada following their marriage this morning at St. Philip Neri Church. They are to return here for a short stay before going to West Palm Beach, Fla, for residence Oct. 1. The bridal party and immediate families had breakfast at Hoily= hock Hill following the ceremony. The bride, daughter of Mrs. Cathe erine Bockweg, was given in mare riage ‘by her brother, Edgar Bockweg. She wore a white brocaded satin gown and a tulle veil, edged in lace, which fell from a lace cap trimmed with seed pearls. Her shower bouquet was of white roses and baby breath. Miss Adelaide Wilhelm, maid of honor, attended in an orchid lace gown with a leghorn picture hat and a bouquet of green, yellow and orchid garden flowers. Miss Augustine Romano, in yellow lace, and Miss Ruth Snyder, in green lace, were bridesmaids. They carried boue quets the same as Miss Wilhelm’s. Joseph Commons was best man, and Richard Grummel and Thomas Griffin were ushers. Miss Helen Brooks, organist, and Claude Lindeman, soloist, provided a musical program. Mrs. Bockweg attended in an ore chid lace gown:and Mrs. Edward J. Fitzgerald, the bridegroom’s mother, wore white crepe. Out-of-town guests were Mr. and Mrs. Charles Bockhorst, Vincent Dwenger, Mr. and Mrs. Edward Berte, Cincinnati; Mrs. Ben Berte and Clarence Berte, Dayton, and
Leo Bockhorst, Chicago.
A little pottery jar of perfume—the very essence of Devon violets — will answer your query for the gift that breathes of romance.
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Have you tasted the rare excellence of MARTHA WASHINGTON Butter Almond Ice Cream? It combines deliciously with other flavors, but is a rich, crunchy treat in itself. And remember it’s made with
Martha Washington English toffee . . . so you know it’s good! Order
| by phone, TA. 1827 . . . or drop in
the air-conditioned shop, 2301 N.
| Meridian St.
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Nice for cleaning white felt hats . . . a soft sponge chem-
{ically treated in order to real: “|ly remove soiled spots.
One shopping day I have suggested gifts that a bridegroom should buy for best man and ushers , . . make-up to be worn only after being tried on, . . refreshments for a party . . . typical place for Hoosier fried chicken . . . imported bridge prizes that will not likely be duplicated . . . late summer values in clothes ... and a good masseuse who will assist you in reducing weight . . . don’t you see how varied are my inquiries! Whatever it is you are won-- | dering about . , . let's talk it . over in the language of the shops. And if we don’t know
"...well say so , ...and then H
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