Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 August 1936 — Page 16
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‘May Be Resented, Jordan Says ‘Many a Girl Who Married A ainst Father’ 8
Judgment Has Lived to See He Was Right,’ Jane Writes, 2 :
No problem is too small to interest Jane Jordan. Put your troubles
in a letter Yuday and read your answers in this column. s » » » EAR JANE JORDAN—I am a a of 17 snd have been ‘going with a boy 24. My parents are against him because he has been married. Dad told me to quit going with him and I did, but it has almost ‘broken my heart. Would it be wise for us to meet out or drop each
other? If I drop him I will not go with anybody else. I have never said a thing against Dad until I had to quit going with
this boy and I guess I said enough then. Dad ~ much, but now he says he is through with me.
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me entirely too | Will you please help | : MINNIE.
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ANSWER—TI can't tell which makes you feel the worst, the loss of
the man or the loss of your dad's approval. who has your best interests at heart gave you such a superficial reason
1t is too bad that a father
for dropping the young man. The fact that he made 'a mistaken mar-
riage is not enough in itself {o condemn him.
The
history of unreliability and irresponsibility which may have led to such a marriage might well arouse your father’s fears. If he is an inarticulate sort of person he wouldn’t know how to explain himself and would fall back on issuing orders.
A girl of 17 still needs guidance even though she resents it. She is trying to hreak away from emotional dependence on parents and when one of them gets too authoritative instead of sympaihetic it serves to drive her away. Many a girl who has inarried against her father's judgment has lived to see that he was right about it.
Jane Jordan
Before you start meeting the man secretly try to get together with your father again. See if you
can’t get him to explain himself 30 that you can "understand, instead of issuing a dictum which seems unreasonable to
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EAR JANE JORDAN—My sister and I always have been like a
couple of brothers.
She has a very bad case on a certain person
and I would like to have some advice for her. She had a few dates with him before she went South eight months ago. Now that she is back all
I ever hear is her raving over this guy.
She sent a letter and got no
response. I have learned that he is going steady, which is very hard to
believe.
for him? - All is fair in love and war, or is it?
Do you think it a waste of time for! her to make a play
BILL. .
ANSWER—What is your opinion? I have an idea that you think your sister is wasting her time and wants me to back you up in your
judgment.
This I am inclined to do.
If the young man has ignored
your sister's return as well as her letter, it indicates a lack of interest, and there is little she can do about it. You know from your own reactions that you withdraw from the
girl who “makes a play” for you.
Haven't you any friends that you
can bring around who are attractive enough to divert your sister from
such useless pursuit?
. JANE JORDAN
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Stephens College Classmates Are to Entertain Visiting Bride
A group of Stephens College classmates is to entertain next week in honor of Mrs. Frank E, Brewer, Fort Pierce, Fla., who was Miss M. Lucille Mehring, Indianapolis, daugh- . ter of Mr, and Mrs. O. E. Mehring, before her recent marriage. Mrs. Brewer and her sister, Mrs. L. O. Rufli, Fort Pierce, are visiting their parents in the city. Mrs. I. H. Derby and Mrs. F. O. Goode entertained last night at the home of the former with a Monte Carlo party. A buffet supper was served and a linen shower held for Mrs, ' Brewer. Blue and peach colors appointed the party. With Mrs. Brewer, other guests included Mrs. Mehring, Mrs. Rufli, and Mesdames Edwin Andrews, Charles McAulay and Clark Gourley, all of Gainesville, Fla. and
Mesdames . F', B. -Mehring, John Mayer, Frank Lichtenberg, William Schnorr, Willlam Kingdon Sr., and PF. A. Baur. Others were Misses Martha and Dorothy Shepperd, Augusta Mering, Katherine Mayer, Betty Collier, Mary Beth King, Betty Lichtenberg, Mary Lee and Sue McFarland, Sue Ammerman, Jean Meek, Margaret Gavin and Betty Naughton. Rex Andrews, son of Dr. and Mrs. Edwin Andrews, Gainsville,. who has been spending the summer with his grandparents, Mr. and Mrs, I. H. Derby, presented the gifts in a wheelbarrow. |
Delta Zeta Group Meets Mrs. J. W, Tucker entertained Epsilon alumnae of Delta Zeta Sorority at Noe home last night.
FRANKLIN RITES ANNOUNCED HERE
Mr. and Mrs. J. A. Brookbank have announced’ the marriage of their daughter, Miss Virginia Brookbank, to John Loveland, Franklin. The ceremony was read recently at the home of the Rev. James P. Wilbourn in Franklin. Mrs. Loveland graduated Western College, Oxford, O.
from She is
8 member of the American Asso- |
ciation- of University Women and Inter ‘Arts Club, * Mrs. Loveland is a son of Mrs. M. E. Loveland, Peru. He attended Western State College, Kalamazoo, Mich. . Tnoy are to make their’ home in Franklin.
Bride Given Shower Following a business meeting of Beta Chapter, Theta Nu Chi Sorority, Monday night at the home of Mrs. Joseph Perkins, a shower was held for Mrs. Jerry Barnes, formerly Miss Martha Lee Henry.
Sorority Is Entertained Mrs. Emerson Whalen, assisted by Misses / Hilda Brink, Dorothea Allenson and Mildred Hagenmaier entertained members of Beta. Chapter, Rho Delta Sorority, with a bingo party last night.
—Times Photo by Wheeler.
BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor
) EADY for dress parade,
Robert Mannix, riding Sporty Peavine,
(above), has hopes of wuining a blue ribbon! Mr. Mannix has had sufficient experience in showing horses in this part of the country to be sure of the correct wearing apparel for formal
horse: shows.
- When he rides at the Vigo County Fair Horse Show Aug. 29, and at the Indiana State Fair in September, he is to appear as he is dressed in the picture. There are rigid rules for show riding clothes and the wise horseman dares not desecrate them. When showing three-gaited horses, at this season of the year, a white gaberdine riding coat should be worn, as pictured, with wing collar,
dress shirt and black satin-striped: jodhpurs. The well cut pair worn by Mr. Mannix are Meyer’s-made
and tailored to a T. White pigskin
‘gloves, black jodhpur shoes and a
high silk hat are the crowning touches. In. colder : seasons black worsted riding coats are substituted for white. » » »
F one is showing a five-gaited horse a soft white shirt with turn-down collar, four-in-hand tie and derby hat is considered the correct costume, Mr. Mannix rides: daily on Indianapolis bridle paths and goes in for less formal wear on these -occasions. “A brown suede jacket with lighter tan gabardine jodhpurs is
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his favorite costume, ‘worn with a soft shirt and brown tie. Men, he says, are permitted much more informality for everyday riding than women and a riding coat is scorned by. most masculine riders.
LUNCHEON PARTY TO BE SATURDAY
Mrs. Ray Furge is to entertain with a luncheon party and shower
Saturday in honor of Miss Anna-
belle De Burger, whose marriage to Carl Johantges is to take place Aug. 29 in St. Anthony's Catholic Church. Miss Hilda Carlin is to assist the hostess. - Guests are to include Misses Thelma Wilson, Alma Phillipps, Charlotte Dronberger, Vivian Cochren, Lucille Patterson, Marie Schmitt, : Ethel Ch , and Mesdames Edward efelter, ] Johnson, Harry Mayers, Ewing, Marion Reynolds, Geor Wilsan, Roy Jent and Cecile Bhepe
baked: salmon.
Is Inexpensive Summer Meal]
Lola Suggests | | Stuffed
Cucumber Salad,
inely’ hat aie: Hany chid meals You use
canned salmon for . this, which makes it
is the best I
With it: serve a stuffed cucumber
; salad and a fruit pudding and you
NOVEL BEACH BAG
CARRIED BY STAR
Novel and amusing was the beach bag carried recently to a party by Una Merkel. The actress arrived in a smart ensemble, with a fishing pole swung over her shoulder. - A bright, oiled silk fish in orange and blue swung from a line fastened to the pole. The fish's back, closed by means of ‘a zipper, opened to disclose a
complete assortment of equipment, towels, bathing slippers, cap, makeup, and other items.
Entire Store Closes Saturdays : at | P. M. hx
Regularly $6.50 Selby Styl-Eez-
will have a goog, simple meal. Baked Salmon. for Four
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1] pepper lespoons minced red or green
“1 cup cooked sweet corn %. cup butter cracker. crumbs : Separate salmon into flakes, re-
moving skin and all bones. ; Put half of it in a buttered baking
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dish. Sprinkle with half the: lemon
Juice. Add parsley, bay leaf and onfon to milk and heat to the scalding point. Cool and strain. Melt the butter, stir in the flour and slowly add the milk, stirring constantly. Bring to the boiling point and pour half the sauce over the salmon. Add the corn and peppers. Season with salt and pepper and add the remaining fish Pour over the remaining’ sauce. Cover with the buttered crumbs and bake 20 minutes in a moderate oven. The crumbs should be brown on top when the dish is done. 2 Save directly from .the baking . If you like the flaver of onion do not bother to strain ‘the milk.
Miss Jean E. Boyd Is to.Be Honored
‘at Event Tonight
Mrs. Pearce McClelland and her mother, ‘Mrs. Charles-D. Hoyt Sr. are to entertain with a crystal shower tonight in ‘honor of Miss Jean Elizabeth Boyd, who is to be married to Charles D. Hoyt Jr. Saturday. The party is to be at Mrs. Hoyt'’s home, 5157 N. New Jersey-st. The bridal colors of dark .and light blue are to be used in the decorations. Guests are to include Miss Boyd's mother; Mrs. Walter ‘B. Boyd: Mrs. Herbert Dieckman, Misses Margaret Schumacher, Betty Kalleen, Virginia Fosler, Mary Frances Mitchell, Mary Elizabeth Ikerd, Lela Mason, Mary Saltzer and Virginia Powell.
Regular $8.50 Selby Tru-Poise
. By PATRICIA FORMAL RECEPTION: The invitation to & formal reception may be engraved, or written by hand. It is considered good form for the names of all the hostesses to. appear on the invitation. The At Home also is treated as a re. ception when it is elaborate. Mrs. James Scott Mrs. Charles Morris Jr. Miss Thelma Scott _ | on Tuesday the eighth of November from four until six o'clock Five Thousand Fifth Avenue. It the reception is in honor of some one, his or her name appears on the invitation in the same mahner as on the dinner invitation. If the reception is for the purpose of introducing a debutante daughter to society the young lady's name should appear below. that of her mother. Unless the invitation requests a reply by R. 8. V. P., the only sc‘knowledgement necessary is the presence of the guest. If unable to attend, the person should send a visiting card to arrive on the day
of the reception.
Unusual Care: | Recommended |
for White Hair
BY ALICIA HART Times Special Writer
There is no lovelier, more flatter ing frame for the fate than uair that's turned to silver. No one seems to know why, but it is true that white hair seems to make a woman's complexion look smoother and softer, her eyes more sparkling. Before you rush off to a hair dye expert, why not try a new. coiffure that will dramatize. your -graying locks? Unless you use dye, you really can’t ‘hide them for long, you know, so why not come right out in thé open and make: the best of them? You must realize that while white hair. is a handsome frame for the ieagures, yellowish gray hair deflnitely is not. To avoid yellow streaks or to correct a condition of
}this kind, get a bottle of bluing-and
use a few drops in the rinsing water after each shampoo. ' ’ One of Fifth Avenue'’s topflight hairdressers recommends a few pinches: of plain table salt in the shampoo. He simply pours some of the liquid soap into a bowl, adds the salt, mixes well and washes the Lair in the regular manner, finishe ng with a bluing rinse. A woman with white hair ought -to be especially careful about per manent waves, - It is not - enough that she insist upon a good method and an experienced operator. She must ask for a minimum of heat. Toa much turns gray hair yellow, It is better to get four or five loose, done-with=little-heat -- permanents per year than two of those good oldfashioned, guaranteed-to - last - six months Ty A permanent can be a fine treatment, especially for oily hair, or it can be something which removes all natural oil and sheen, turns gray hair yellow and makes the scalp unhealthy. It is up to you to tell the operator that you really are more interested in the quality of* the wave he gives than the length of time it will last, |
Illustrated— Reg. $6.50 Selby Styl-. Eez, Now. ° $3.05 4
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