Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 July 1936 — Page 15

: by | Parents of

“Gentle” Child

Fathers Frequently Bir :

in Forgefulness, Says Writer.

(Df. Morris Fishbein discusses ‘infant health. Page 18)

‘BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON : “Sometimes parents defeat be very * thing they are anxious to cultivate in: thelr children. They do, not realize that, to get desired results, the reverse of the obviolis is often the best way to bandle a ~situdtion. - ‘This is particularly’ true’ in dealing with inferiority. The too-gentle, unassertive child, thinks his family, should be handled a bit cavalierly in order to toughen him to life. But: while this has a modicum of truth in it, and all children should learn to take-things in their stride, at the same time the wind at first should be tempered to the lamb. Too ‘harsh a blast may kill instead of harden him.

Personality Smothers Family

Fathers with: sensitive and shy boys usually make this blunder. Men of force often have sons the exact opposite of “themselves. * In such - cases it is frequently remarked that the sons: take after their mothers. This is less the case than the fact that a dominant man is likely to throw his entire family into the jitters, including his wife. He may be a wonderful fellow, this man, a good provider, ‘ kindly in his way and all the rest of it, but his very personality may be sapping the will power of the rest. : This is the father, too, who usually resents it if his sons don’t take after him, and who, paradoxically enough, won't: have his daughters grow up with minds ‘of their own.’ "Then we have a bad situation, wo father trying to shame his sons into being big’ he-meén, and at: the same’ time endeavoring to keep down the “obstinate wills” of his girls. Obstinate : in the sense ‘that they themselves do not approve.

Planting Seeds of Heroics

If it is possible to tell opinionated daddies anything they will listen to, may I whisper a truth? Every time you make fun of Johnny because he hasn't stood up for his rights, you are weakening him still more. If you want to toughen him, “you won't call him a sissy. If he lets some one maul him, you won't-call |. him a‘ coward. You can't make heroes this way. . Heroes are’ better made by being

fooled - into thinking they are the |.

ticket, and by. thinking they have a reputation to live’ up to. Call Johnny a brave little chap sometime, and if he doesn’t fall dead from sheer ‘ amazement; he is going to show you that you are right about him. Fathers as well as mothers will find out some day, that there are shadings to training. There - are times when a little roughage is best, but there are more times, especially with the supergentle child, ‘when admiration and praise gets results. .. Once small Johnny thinks you admire him, it is a pretty safe bet that he will give you some to admire. All of us, and ‘especially chil-

dren, need inflation to self-esteem. (Copyright, 1836, NEA Service, Inc.)

FETES GUESTS AT BRIDGE-LUNCHEON Mrs. : ‘James. A. ‘Bawden, - 5202 Broadway, entertained at : the Propylacum- recently ‘with a luncheon and: bridge party. Covers were laid for Mesdames E. Vernon Hahn, . Lester A. Smith, Leonard Smith, Horace Shonle, John Waldo, S. W. Benham, O. M. Helmer, -Arthur:Focke, Harry L. Fore-

man, D. Spradling, ‘Carl Fletcher, Walter C. Zirpel, ‘Russell Hippen-

_steel, ‘Gordon Batman, B. K. Rust,

Calvin R. Hainilton, Jehn R. Curry, David -L.’ Smith and Miss Ethel R. Curryer.

FOUR SUITER

BY 'MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS . + ‘Times Fashion Editor

NHE dark horse of July fashions is the thin black dress. Here is a new.

mid-summer edition: of the ‘all-important black beauties , « « « black

with Fiesta pink roses.

Silk marquisite forms the fabric of this Parisienne favorite, and it is

an exciting addition to ‘a fashionable resort wardrobe. Three rows .of melirulously Pleated double: ‘ruffles trim the neck, sleeves and scalloped | -

Etiquette

By PATRICIA

ECEIVING CALLS—When a hostess decides on the day of the week when she will receive callers, she should notify her friends. She may have it on her calling cards if she desires. On- her at: home day the hostess should be ready "to “receive her friends -by 3 p. m.- : The ‘guests may be abrioihoed by the servant if the household is very formal, or the attendant at the door may. offer the visitors a small tray] on. which they: are to place.. their | cards. If there is no servant, the hostess opens: the door to-callers who may place their calling cards on a 'con-| venient salver. - In ‘apartment houses that have telephone : connections. from" the lobby to the apartments, etiquet requires that the caller’s name be announced from downstairs.

Mrs. Robert Berryhill and Miss Jean Berryhill are making a trip on the Steamer: Gordon C. Greene on the Ohio River from Cincinnati to Pitsburen.

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Dgure, - Whatever the cause of the present inky tidal wave in fashions, there is no sign of its receding before the snow flies. At the smartest affairs these days, dead hlack is the leading color and the woman who .aims at smartness will have to grin and wearsit. The smoothest road to chic econ‘omy is the great black way, for no one ever tires of seeing a .distinctive black frock. Thus thrift and economy go hand in ‘hand. : 4 Se 8: gpa aN - FROCK like this (above); for “instance, is tops ‘for cocktail or tea hour, informal‘ dinner parties, garden parties, weddings and all dressy midsummer affairs. . It will be just as good several months from. now. for ‘hostess wear and under the far - ‘coat “for. festive

.| parties.

The current vogue. “for flowers

black dress’ is the: background. Just as this model is adorned: with lus-| cious pink roses on a taffeta sash, 50 many thin dresses: of cable néet, lace and crisp sheers use lifes of the valley, daisies or talisman roses for accent.

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‘Mrs. Henry Hess, 4450 College-a%, -Indianapolis, has arrived ' at the

‘Church on. 121st-st; the Riverside | was very interesting, with its rare

easily can he dramatized when a

The flyaway hat is’ of: black: velvet, WS Sih 8 air; by a fashier- ;

Mrs. Henry Hess ‘Finds Radio City ~ Visit Interesting

BY. HELEN WORDEN Times Special Writer NEW YORK, N. Y,, July.23—

Barbizon ‘Plaza with her son, Richard, and Mrs. Clarence ‘Warren and her daughter; . “Of the many places we: “have visited,” said Mrs; ‘Hess, “we think Radio City is the most fascinating. “We saw: also’ the = Rockefeller

Church. I believe they call it.’ ‘It

marble fonts and carvings. “On our way-here, we stopped off at ‘Niagara Falls. IL have only lived in’ Indianapolis the last eight months. For several years prior to that I had been livig in Cologne, Germany, ‘on the Rhine. “While I originally came from Indiana, my home ‘seems to be in Europe. -My.son. and I are ‘sailing this week on the © Statendam for Germany,” she said. Mrs. Warren and her daughter wor return to Iridisnapolis next wee

Sorority Is Bntortained Miss Mary Lou: Growe- entertained members of Phi ‘Tau Sorority last night .at ;a dinner and party ‘at the Riviera Cl.

Miss Virginta Seeds, Chicago, i

visiting her mother, Mrs.: Henry Benham, and: Mr. Benham. . Miss Genevieve Brown. has returned from a Yacation . {rip to Alaska,

Misses Barbara and. Shirley. Sarsfield, daughters: of Mr. and Mss. John Sarsfield, are at home after a three-week’s visit with Mr. and Mrs. Samuel at Nantasket ‘Beach, Mass.

Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Sheets. are in Atlante City, N. J.

Delaware-st. Final’ arrangements for putetase

consider “bids . for furnishings. appointment. of a house managing committee, renting .of rooms in. the ‘clubhouse and organization of a ‘dining room, which is to be open to. the public as well as to club | members,’ are. matters to be ranged . by the club board.

served: ‘daily. Mrs. Nelle Warren, club president, said today. Luncheon is to be open to the public and dinners open on reservation. - Others Have Own Homes

federation own their: clubhouses, and I think have’ dining rooms,” she said. - . The house is to be in’ readiness for the opening fall meeting Sept. 24, and officers: expect to start serving meals at that date.. - Additional committees are to be named during the summer.

Health Essential for Pretty Hair, “Expert Declares

BY ALICIA HART Times Special Writer Good health ‘and absolute cleanliness are the requisites for shiny, attractive hair. If you: shampoo incorrectly and infrequently, seldom use a hairbrush and make no attempt to sleep regularly: or eat sensibly, you simply won't have the kind of hair that poets rave about.

‘Any illness—even the" common cold-—ususlly makes hair less lovely. A stay ina hospital often results in falling hair or dandruff or both. - Any one who has been ill should give her scalp reconditioning treatments and brush hair vigorously twice a day instead of once. «~~ The perfect reconditioning treatment’ makes use of tonic as well ‘as.a hot oil shampoo. Get a lotion designed to correct your individual scalp defect and use it according to- directions.. “One especially good tonic, put on the ‘market recently, actually will cure dandruff. That is, if ‘you ‘use it correctly. It is to be ‘massaged into the scalp’ ‘the ‘second: day after a_hot oil-shampso— every other ‘night from then: on.

* Tonic. Doesn’t Speil Wave.

You : ‘can, “of ‘course, ‘use - tonic without : spoiling - a finger wave., Simply part’ your’ hair in sections, dip a cotton pad in the liquid and smooth it -on_ your scalp. Then, using - fingertips, massage © briskly for a: few ‘moments. Don’t. start brushing until ‘the hair is perfectly dry. Always. brush. upward, and wipe ; ‘the brush after each stroke. If you. shampoo.:at home, remember: never to rub. a cake: of ‘soap directly on, your hair. You can melt a‘ bland soap and. make: your own shampoo. ‘Or you can ‘get one of the new commercially : prepared varieties which have Ro designed with an eye: toward ' hélping you | keep. your : beauty - budget : down ‘to normal. - One of these (it’s ‘causing ‘quite

rhinded. ‘women right now): lasts

pect.

A single teaspoonful ‘is’ required -

j= each = washing; t contains no frarmeul a and .is. good. for your children’s hair ‘as well as your. own.

MARRIAGE RITES

sional Woinen's “Club at. uo N.

Hiring of ‘a .clubhouse. manager,

Atleast two meals are to bel

. “Several other branches of the|

sort: of gilding the lly.) { Powell. wore. a white . organdy -eve-

about :10 ‘times: as long as you‘ex-|’

ARE ANNOUNCED

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for residence.’

‘Mrs. Luther Y. rr (above) is:a recent bride who has ‘come here She formerly was Miss Vivian Cuneo, Memphis, Tenn. Mr. -and Mrs. Rare: are: at home at 35317. N. Pennsylvania-st.

Brides Tnvited to Test This Muffin Recipe

You Can't Go ‘Wrong on This Kitchen Formula, ~~ Lola Says.

BY LOLA. WYMAN Let's give two minutes of silent prayer for all those young husbands whose wives were this June's brides, 1 hear them murmuring, “Answer me one burning question, is this love of indigestion?” Not that we all haven't passed at one time or another through the novice stage in ‘cooking. 1 will be the first to admit that my first meal was Oa bad. It's a case of try and again. Se the ‘vaudeville stage has made fun for years at the expense of young brides just learning to cook,’ and hard biscuits have always been synonymous with ‘newlyweds, here’s a way out, try these foolproof blueberry muffins, you just can’t go wrong on, them. BLUEBERRY MUFFINS 1; ‘cup shorfening or butter 13. cup sugar 1 egg 1 cups flqur 1, teaspoon salt = . 3-teaspons baking powder “1% cup milk

1 cup blueberries

Cream the shortening, add the sugar gradually and cream well: a the well-beaten egg. “Sift the flour once before measur= ing, measure it and sift again with

Washington Society Meets in Suburbs During Summer

BY GEORGE ABELL : Times Sp Writer : WASHINGTON, ' July 23, — The hodge-potige of ‘Washington is emphasized these hot days when Greek meets Greek (and American and Argentine and French "and whatnot) under the elms of Georgetown and ‘Alexandria gardens. The suburbs are the place in summer. Lawns and Mozart and caviar, or garden plots’ and: Irving Berlin and hot dogs—the fashionable or the frivolous. You'll see. everyone from Rex Tugwell to Everett Sanders and the Costa Rican envoy to’ a British’ Glimpsed at an Alexandria melee: John L. Lewis, labor leader, ‘sipping a glass’ of sherry; Counselor Sergei Huneéus of the Chilean Embassy, leaning against a tree and gazing at the stars dreaming about Chilean politics; Carmen’ Huneeus, his wife, in red -and ‘white print dress; Elsie Ekengren in dark blue crepe, asking for a salad leaf; Secretary Lucet of the French Embassy, sighing, “My wife is ih France—alas, alas, alas!” Emil ‘Hurja, the big patronage man of Democracy, surrounded by. a group of admirers as he explained ‘ the. future of ‘radio (he believes in it). Comdr. don’ Umberto Cligia, of the Italian Embassy “ (Just back from

Sugar Hill) with a sugary smile and |-

a White coat: Frank Packard, also in white linen, escorting Mrs. Scott Williams, who “looked attractively enameled and wore a black dress with white polka dots (one of ‘those

8 0, Lights Help. ‘Nature Mr. Berry of the French Line (who says he is no relation to ‘the: Duc de: Berrie) came’ with his wife, who is Parisienne and not fond of Ametican salads. cl ‘A vision by green- light: Powell, wearing a white mess jacket (very British) and giving one of his famed interpretations : of Boake, Carter on the radio.

to ‘make the ‘trees- look - greeher— Louise

ning dress and 8 ‘Bow’ in’ her blond Juan Terrasa: ot the: Spanish. bassy -and - Isabel Gest. attended—

Isabel very piquant in a. floppy black |- hat and an’armful ‘of “furs (which |

were most becoming’ but" she She needs “these: Warm eve-

dresses that ‘makes feminine friends y

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inistoched Cuban Ambassador Guillermo Patterson, gazing goggle-eyed at pictures of Dictator Trujillo of the Dominican Republic in the “March of Time” (shown on the lawn). So this js what dictatore are like, his expression seemed to say: Olga the blond, blond belle of the Cuban Embassy, Senor Patterson’s daughter, came with her father. - Gene Vidal, director of Air Com-

merce, talked . airily about the fu-

ture of aviation with Bill Briggs of Eastern ‘Air Lines. (They bhdh think aviation has a chance against the horse and buggy!) William Bullitt, American Ambassador to Soviet Russia, seemed impressed by the picture, but he looked pensive, rather melancholy, and departed for bed early (some one remarked he’s overworking). Count Leone Biondi of Italy bid a sonorous farewell to Joe Smith of I. N. S. who (as this is written)

basks in the luxury of his A-1 state-

room aboard the Aquitania en route to take charge of the London bureau. And (not to forget the Greeks) there was Counselor Lely of the Greek Legation, -who met no other Greek except when he bumped into himself in a mirror.

Recent Bride

: Before her recent ‘masriage Mrs. : Carl ‘O. Phares (above) was Miss “Marie Miskell, daughter of: Mr. ‘and Mrs. J: M. Miskell. =

the salt, baking powder and add to the creamed mixture alternately with the milk. Add the berries which you floured slightly. (This is done so that the berries won't sink to the bottom of the dough.). Pour. into 12 large well-greased muffin tins and bake in a moderate oven for 30 minutes. These are delicious and delicate muffins, perfect to serve with salads during hot weather.

Friends to Honor | Carolyn Kord at Shower Tonight

‘Miss Carolyn Kord, whose mare riage to John O'Neal Jr. is to take place at 9 a. m. Aug. 1 at St. Ane thony’s Catholic Church, ‘is to be honor guest at a personal shower to-

night. Miss Kathryn Feeney, who is. ta be bridesmaid at the wedding, is to be hostess. - Guests are. to include Mesdames John O'Neal ' Sr., Elizabeth Kord, Edward . Burnhart, Melvin : Wizen« read, George Caughan, James: Otto, W. E. Garritson and Harry .Feeney, Misses: Emma Francis Burnhart, Dorothy Greenan, Geraldine Eggers, Margaret Hannon, : Mary Bm Mary "Kull, Marjorie Walls, garet and Elizabeth O'Neal, and Dorothy Garritson- and Elfreda : Grande. Miss Kord has chosen Miss Burnhart as maid of honor. Mr, O'Neal is. to. have ‘his brother Robert as best man and James J. Jell and C. Ormel Chesebrough as ushers. Mrs. J. J. O'Neal and daughters Mary Elizabeth and Margaret, mother and sisters of the bridegroom, are to entertain with a linen shower Friday. A hosiery and handkerchief: showe

|er isto be.given July 27 in honor of Miss. Kord by the W. I. T. Y¥, _¢

Club.: Miss Burnhart is to entertain with: a miscellaneous shower July 29 and Miss Marjorie Walls. is to entertain: at a later date.

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