Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 22 July 1936 — Page 10

She Selected

Wrong Course

fusband Is Unfaithful;

Mate Has Affair of Her Own.

Do you need more light en your problems? Write to Jane Jordan, whe ‘will answer your questions in this : ai Dear Jane Jordan—I have been earried almost 11 years. 1 have in the hospital four different es, three times for the birth of my children. Each time I was thers, my husband came to see me as often as he could, but unknown to me at the time, he would have some woman who waited in the car for him. Every chance he has "he goes out ‘with other women. -He always kicks up a howl every time I , 4 want to go some place, even Io Jane Jordan visit my own mother. I am operating a place of business this summer and pay more than my share of expenses, while he spends his money “other places. Seven years ago I met ‘another man. However, he never meant anything to me until this summer. We have learned to love each other very deeply. children of his own, the same as 1 have. We think too much of them to tear up our homes. If my husband knew of my affair with this other man he would leave. I wouldn't care for myself, but the children need their father. I have never been untrue husband, but I am tired of staying at home when I love this other man and can go out for a few happy hours. Should I go out with him a night or two a week, or sit at ~ home while my husband amuses ~ himself with other women? ! DISCOURAGED.

Answer—Of course your husband deserves what has happened, and that no doubt has more to-do with Jove for the other man than the attractions of the man himself. Your secret gives you a sort of power over your husband. You hug the delicious knowledge that you can deliver a body blow at any time to the man who has hurt you, destroying his pride as he has destroyed yours. You are deterred from telling him only by the thought of your children. It would not surprise me if you arranged to get caught some evening, not purposely, of course. That is to say, not with consgipus purpose; but it would be so Pasy to risk a little more than usual on some meeting that discovery would seem accidental, even to yourself, and you could enjoy your husband’s humiliation without blaming yourself too much. Honestly now, haven't you often constructed a scene in your imagi"nation in which your husband found you with this other man? Haven't you heard yourself “tell him off” and enjoyed his wrathful reactions in these passing fantasies? Haven't you thought to yourself, “Aha! You see I am still attractive to other men! I am not the mouse which you thought, for another man values that which you ignore!” Even though you desire to revenge yourself on your husband, ° which is understandable, I do not believe it is your deepest wish to break up your marriage. Otherwise you would have chosen a man without family ties of his own and pressed forward toward financial independence in your ‘business. Freedom is mot your goal so much as retaliation. I am afraid you have chosen the wrong way out of a bad situation— 8 way which solves nothing and is therefore a waste of time. We make a compromise with life Which could so easily lead us into a “situation worse than the present, "we have made no progress, but sim- - ply complicated our lives. If you . don’t want to head toward freedom, strive for satisfactions which will not throw you into conflict with society. This man has a wife and - children of his own who would be injured by the affair. Why add their angry reactions to your other burdens?

FINE ARTS GROUP TO VISIT WAWASEE

~The fine arts department of the Indiana Federation of Clubs is to sponsor a day at Lake Wawasee, July 29, it ‘has been announced by Mrs. Eli Fowler Seebirt, South Bend an. The organization is to honor the summer exhibit at the Hoosier saMN. Mrs, Frederick G. Balz, India Federation resident, and Mis. King are ve ery S. Luncheon ‘refervations should be by Monday with Mrs. Richard 605. Portage-av, South Bend.

ILD IS TO MEET

IN NURSES’ HOME

The members of the Irvington if. E. White Cross Guild were to t today in the: Nurses’ Home of Methodist Hospital. Alpha Omicron Alpha Guild is to meet

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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor

HAT the well-bred torso will wear on the beach in this tropical

summer clime is apparent above! According to hawk-eyed stylists for men, swim

closely to one’s equator and follow fabric and furbelow. . The all-wool maroon plaid trunks hiding beneath the terry cloth beach robe, on the sand-lubber above, have a lastex quality and a close fit that is agreeable to swimming. There are snaps on the inside of the waistband for attaching a shirt when the occasion calls for it. A hundred and one different styles in bathing togs are offered this year and both men and women are torn this way and that trying to decide what to buy.

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EN’'S half-hitch trunks offer

suits should cling the thigh line with a minimum of

called “Zip-off,” are ingeniously designed with a zipper all the way down each side. Others have zipper fronts for fastening shirts. A striped robe like this blue and white terrie cloth (above) is handy to wrap in after a prolonged dip. It is smart, too, with its kimona sleeves and short knee length, which are gentlemenly features adapted from lady-like fashions. The maid looking. on (above) takes to pleated linen shorts and a spottily gay halter. She splurges a checkered straw hat and red

brevity with: complete com-i linen clogs and is quite ready for

fort. Zipper styles are the favorites of most divers. One style of trunks

Today’s Contract Problem

. What contract should be reached by East and West on the following’ hand, and what principle should govern selection of the trump suit?

E. & W. vul. Opener—?

Solution in next issue.

Solution to Previous

‘Contract Problem BY W. E. MKENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary EN bridge players who refer

sarcastically to a “woman’s bridge game” may have to revise their estimates of~ the . opposite sex, This is true particularly in the Chicago district, where Mrs. Elliot Evans, playing with Miss Elizabeth Whitney, won the Chicago masters’ championship against'21 of that city’s strongest pairs. SL : As a result, the ladies will compete with America’s strongest players in the national masters’ pair game at Asbury Park, N. J, the week of Aug. 3, when the American Bridge League's tenth annual summer championship tournament takes place. Mrs. Evans is no stranger to championship play, having been

one of the early winners of the

contract pair national championship. It is not hard to understand why she and her partner

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Pass Pass 4H Double Pass

- Opening lead—4# Q.

beat their men competitors, when you consider the manner in which Mrs. Evans played today’s hand. The bidding is well explained by the six-six-one distribution of the Seuth hand. ‘When the opening lead of the diamond queen was made, Mrs. Evans, sitting South, saw that to make her contract she must not permit East to obtain the lead.

West, whose doubles usually

were very good, seemed likely to hold the club ace. He might hold the club queen as well. To make sure of placing him in the lead, Mrs. Evans led the club king. West won, but now .could not defeat the contract. He gave up a spade trick in the effort by leading the ace and another spade, but declarer simply gave yp a club trick to East and fulfilled her contract. 2 Other players led the club jack ‘and thus permitted East to win and lead a trump through the South hand.! This defeated the contract one trick. ' (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc:)

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DR.LOND.

apolis Country Club is to entertain

with a Thursday night buffet dinner

for club members and guests. A dinner and dance are to be Saturday night, one of a series of similar events held at intervals durthe summer. Mr. and Mrs. Wil-

liam G. Sparks are entertainment 1 chairme

| feet, is to have under water light- |

n. : Hillcrest Country Club members are to be at the clubhouse early Sunday for the opening of the new swimming pool. The pool, 95 by 45

ing, Ralph Roberts, swimming com-

| mittee chairman, said today.

a ing, members and

f land his orchestra.

Dinner Scheduled On the night preceding the openguests are to dance on the terrace and in the clubhouse to music by Al Grayson

Dinner in place of customary

| buffet suppers, is to be served from

6 to 9 p. m. Saturday at the Athenaeum. : ; Hillcrest members are to play Highland Golf and Country Club members in a golf tournament Saturday at Highland. Dinner is to be served following the tournament. Approximately 100 members and guests may be served on the Wood-

| stock Club porch at regular Sunday

Club Is to Honor Bride-to-Be With Shower Tonight

Fidessa Club members and their families are to attend a kitchen shower and dinner tonight at the home of Mrs. John D. Davy, 2429 N. Harding-st. The party is in honor of Miss Jean Boyd, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter B. Boyd; whose engagement to Charles D. Hoyt Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles D. Hoyt, has been announced. The wedding is to take place Aug. 15 at the Broadway M. E. Church. The hostess is to be assisted by her daughters, and Vera Davy. Appointments are to be carried out in two shades of blue,’ colors of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority, of which the bride-to-be is a member. Thirty-five guests are to attend.

PICNIC SCHEDULED BY W. C. T. U. GROUP

The Mary E. Balch unit, Marion County W. C. T. U, is to have its annual picnic and business meeting at the home of Mrs. Enos Snyder, 4136 Madison-av, Friday. Mrs. W. S. Orvis, who recently returned from her home in Florida, is to conduct devotions. Local unit members are to provide the picnic luncheon which is to be served at noon. . A program including talks on temperance, music and social features is to be offered. Members and guests are to meet in the Terminal Station at 10 a. m. for bus transportation. Mrs. Elbert Moore is unit president. ;

evening buffet suppers. Betty J. Davis to Be Honored at T'wo Parties

Additional . parties are being arranged to fete a bride-to-be, Miss Betty Jeanne Davis, daughter of Mrs. Ralph Davis. The marriage of ‘Miss Davis and Arthur Loftin is to be read Aug. 8 in McKee Chapel, Tabernacle Presbyterian Church, by the Rev. J. Ambrose Dunkel. $ Mrs. Bruce Savage is to be hostess tomorrow night at a shower and bridge party for the bride-elect. Mrs. Allan Shimer, who is to be an attendant at the wedding, is to entertain Aug. 3. :

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{ Lola Wyman Gives Recipe

for Tasty Little

small dainty whirls.

one-half this amount for about 24 whirls.

48 Small Sausage Whirls

2 cans Vienna sausage 3 1b. butter

2 teaspoons lemon juice Little salt 1 loaf fresh, unsliced bread 1 tablespoon chopped ‘ onion.

The Vienna sausages, mentioned

in the list of ingredients, are the

—Photo by Bretzman,

American Women to Speak at International Congress

The attention of Indianapolis Business and Professional Women is focused on activities: of leaders of the International Federation of Business and Professional Women Congress which is to be held July 26-Aug. 1 in Paris. Miss Charl Ormond Williams, who has addressed the local group, is at

| her home in Washington preparing

to sail for the European meeting. Miss Williams is to be one of the American speakers. Other American speakers are to include Secretary of Labor Frances Perkins, Miss Emma P. Hirth, research committee chairman and associate general secretary of the Y. W. C. A, and Dean Marie Leonard of the University of Illinois. Miss Lena Madesin Phillips, international president, has been in Europe several weeks arranging for the conference. She is to deliver the keynote address at the opening session July 27. The theme of the meeting is to be “Women’s Contribution to the Modern World.” American radio audiences are to hear a portion of convention proceedings during a half hour international broadcast by CBS at 5:15 p. m. Monday. Secretary Perkins, Miss Amy Mollison, aviatrix, and Miss Phillips are to speak, The Duchess de la Rochefoucauld and Secretary Perkins are to sp:ak at a dinner meeting July 30. Women from 24 countries in which there are branches of the federation are expected to attend.

A huge and handsome silver platter for serving sandwiches is made in the likeness of a sun dial. It’s a great idea « « « and thus provides a useful handle in the very center!

Headquarters are to be in the Hotel Lutetia, 43 Boulevard Raspail. At a recent board meeting .in Chicago of the national federation, 39 state federation delegates reported projects to improve political, economic and social status of business and professional women.

DARK DRESS NEEDS WHITE CONTRASTS

Many women are wearing their dark summer frocks with a three or five strand necklace of pearls for contrast. Others thrust a bouquet of frosty white flowers somewhere on a black dress or carry large handkerchiefs of white linen. : White shoes are worn with white sports togs, though the smartest women do not wear them with their town clothes.

JOHN H. HUGGLERS ON WEDDING TRIP

After a short wedding trip John H. Huggler and his bride, the former Miss Helen Ealand, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Ealand, are to be at home at 428 N. Shermandr. =, . : _ Marriage vows were exchanged Sunday in Grace M. E. Church. The Rev. W..C. Calvert officiated. . Mrs. Harvey Timmerman, a sister of the bride, was matron of honor and John J. Goie was best man.

Steak, chicken, seafood? In town? Out of town? Where would you like to go? Sometimes foreign food is appealing . . . or a buffet of extra ‘delicious delicatessen dishes. If and when you're a bit tired of food In general . . . and simply can’t think where to take the family or guests for dinner—call Dorothy. I feel sure I can point out ‘some tried and true places that will )

kind that come in small tins, ale

ready cooked.

Cream the butter until soft. Blend in the parsley, chopped onion, onion juice, lemon juice and salt. Remove all crusts from the loaf of bread with a very sharp knife. Then cut the bread in lengthwise slices quite thin without breaking. Spread the long slices with the: creamed butter mixture. Place a small sausage along one of the short ends of each slice and carefully roll—tightly—cutting oft the unsightly, rough ends, if any, This will leave the sausage in the center of each roll. Wrap each roll tightly in waxed paper and place in the refrigerator

for at least 1 hour.

At serving time, slice rolls crosswise in %-inch slices. This is so pretty; the little whirls will have a center of sausage ‘with rings of green parsley around them,

SPICES PRODUCT OF MANY NATIONS

Do you know that it takes three continents and six or more countries

to put a single jar of pickles in

‘your preserve closet? - We women may brag that our condiments are all home-made, pérhaps even home-grown, but every jar should really be labeled “Made in Asia, Europe, America and the Islands of the Sea.” Neither fruit nor vegetable pickles would please our palates as they do if it were not for the spices that give them distinctive flavor and aroma, and practically all the spices we use come from distant lands, Asia produces’ the greatest variety, and Europe contributes most of the so-called seed spices and lerbs. The countries that are called upon to make up even the smallest packe age of pickling spices include India, China, Japan, - Ceylon, England, Spain and Austria. In the more comprehensive assortments still more of these distant countries are represented.

Epworth Camp Opens Approximately 1000 Epworth League members from Wabash and Warsaw districts are vacationing at Epworth Forest, Lake Webster. The camp is to be open the following week to two other districts. - ;

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