Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 14 July 1936 — Page 8

[olds Women Unworthy of Marrying Him

Bachelor, 37, Is Lacking in Experience, Says Jane Jordan.

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Jane Jordan's interest in you never ends with the first letter. rite another if you aren't satisfied with her reply! Dear Jane Jordan—There seems to be quite a bit of discussion among " married women as to the evil intents and infidelities of their husbands. This letter is in answer to the young unmarried lady who says there are no true men in the world. I feel the same way toward women, as I have been sadly disappointed in love. My business contacts include hundreds of men, and I know all men are not untrue. Behind every mans character ——————— e spirit of Jane Jordan 4... jove and willingness to die for his loved ones. I belong to a club of bachelors and they have the finest ideals, none of them bearing the reputed base thoughts of men. I find that the ‘wayward type are generally men of low breeding, partial idiots, weaklings and those who are abnormal. I am 37, born of intelligent parents, and am a bachelor. My parents were strict about my going out until I was 21. Avoiding the low, immoral women such as exist everywhere, I at last found the right girl, a beautiful young lady of 20. Rumors as to the girl’s character which later proved to be true were so unsavory that I broke the engagement. I never could have believed that gne could be so deceived. oor I have yet to find a girl who is worthy of marriage to me. Sadly disappointed in love, I am building an inpenetrable wall between myself and the world. I love to do everything in my power to assist mankind. I write this letter to let disillusioned women know that there are men who aré as much aghast at misdeeds as they are. : DISAPPOINTED DAVID.

Answer—Your trouble is explained by the sentence, “My parents were strict about my going oui until I was 21” It is as though they kept you from swimming until you were 21 and then threw you in the water. It is as though they kept you from| school for 21 years and then expected a scholar without the background of study that makes a scholar, | . They a lowed you no period of experimentation with girls and You were (completely deceived in your first affair. How could you have been a good judge of feminine character when the first 21 our life were spent in cherishing | ideas about women foreign to the facts. * No wonder you beat a retreat upon. your first appointment. Other men have been disappointed in women without taking it so hard. “No doubt they got their ears boxed in grade school by some little virago who looked like an angel and acted like a fiend. No doubt they were betrayed in high school by some charming little liar who carried water on two shoulders. Most men have bled and died in youth over the perfidy of some female, yet

lived to make a fairly good match, based on the knowledge they gained. You write, “I have yet to find a girl who is worthy of marriage to me.” I wonder if that’s your own idea. It sounds more like the no- , tion of an adoring mother who thinks neo girl is good enough for her son. The whole intolerance of your attitude suggests a bad preparation for things as they are. The foundation for the impenetrable wall of which you speak was laid for you by your parents who shielded you from sirens and such and accustomed you to the protection of walls. I suggest that you blast them down and mix with all kinds of people. If they're bad, interest yourself in what made them bad instead of using their sins to make yourself feel of superior goodness by comparison. I am afraid you see only two shades in character, black and white. See if you can’t train

your eyes to appreciate tones of §

gray. tions to this reply, I'll be interested

in your letter. It is too bad that so few people write twice. :

Artemas Club Meets

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Fifteen members attended the Ar- § temas Club luncheon and business § meeting today at Mrs. E. J. Helms’ &

home. The hostess was assisted by Mesdames Robert H. Brown, Charles Williams, Leslie McLean and Miss Ruth Resener.

WHEN TO LEAD SINGLETON!

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Solution to Previous Contract Problem BY W. E. MKENNEY Ainerican Bridge League Secretary JACK in the days of whist, the lead of a singleton was not considered exactly the thing; in fact, it was in such disfavor that it was known as a “sneak” lead. In contract, np such disgrace ate taches to sich a lead. It can be either very good or very bad, depending us of the rest of the leader's hand. For instance, the lead of a singleton, with the idea of rufling later the vhen the trump that

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the opening lead with the ace, returned the suit, and gave West his desired ruff. West now led the heart queen, which South won in dummy with the ace Declarer now led three rounds of trumps, and then three more clubs, on which he discarded two losing hearts. West's correct opening lead was the heart queen, and with this lead East and West would have won two hearts, a spade, a diamond, and a club, setting the contract two tricks. The moral "is that a player should try to use only otherwise worthless trumps for ruffing, and. not help declarer to establish long card tricks by using his certain trump tricks for ruffing pur-

poses. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)

Good to Eat

i ODAY'S recipe is Hungarian | and called Kaposztaspalacsinta —try that for a tongue twister. Translated, it is cabbage pancakes filled with chopped ham. You can use the prepared pancake flour; it's simpler in hot weather. You roll the filled pancakes: and then serve them with' cream diced

carrots and peas. A very good and easy meal.

FILLED CABBAGE PANCAKES - FOR 4

1 cup shredded cabbage 14 pound ham 1 cup pancake flour 1% cups milk.

Shred the cabbage very fine—new cabbage now to be had—is excellent for this, and boil it in saited water until tender.

Then fry it lightly in butter Make the quick pancake batter by mixing the prepared flour and milk to a thin batter. Add the fried cabbage to the batter. . Now fry in a buttered frying pan making eight pancakes from this amount. ? Turn on both sides to brown. Have the ham ready and chopped into dice and fill each pancake with the ham, and roll up. Serve at once while hot, allowing. two pancakes per person. Serve the creamed carrots and peas, highly seasoned with salt and pepper, around the pancakes. This is a very good recipe, just different enough to be tempting.

. 10 Weeks of Ask your Merchants E

and chubby little bodies.

In a Cinderelia-like’ world all their own, Catherine and George Cullum, children of Mr. and Mrs. Paul Cullum, are masters of all they survey (upper). No climbing up on chairs to reach dresser drawers, no high beds to be lifted into. “Look at this book and toy cabinet.” Catherine tells: her little friends. George and I can reach the very top of it without having to call nurse or mother every time we want a book or toy. : It’s fun to keep our playthings in place, and my dollies like their new home. Mother believes in our helping ourselves and she thinks that hawing this Posturbilt furniture is good training for us.” George likes it too because it makes him feel so grown up to be able to open such big drawers as this utility cabinet has,, without any

provide plenty of leverage and make them as light as feathers to open.

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OWER—Brother climbs eagerly up the tot steps into bed where sister is comfortably reading her favorite jingles.. They like their shaded antique maple bed with its protecting sides to keep them from rolling out. HS Child specialists contend that

grown-up help. The bar handles

BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor : - NCE upon a time when little Miss Muffett was a tiny tot and had only a tuffet for a chair, small statured furniture for kiddies had never been thought of. Now, in this fairyland age for the younger generation, furniture is specially designed and built for short legs and arms,

children should lie on a flat, smooth surface to prevent their curling up, and this childcraft drumhead bed is the result. A special fabric developed by the United States Bureau of Standards has been substituted for the conventional springs and-it is removable for washing. The bed is long enough to insure adaptability as the youngster grows and is as comfortable as an inner coil mattress. Local shops carry a complete line of this juvenile furniture, and just like Catherine and George, all youngsters are bound to love it because it is just the right size for them.

NAME DELEGATES FOR CONVENTION

Miss Romaine Sallady is to attend the national convention of Alpha Zeta Beta Sorority Thursday through Sunday in Toledo as voting delegate from Alpha Upsilon Chapter.

Others to attend from the chapter are Misses Nellie Reilly, Nelda Damm, Dorothy brock, Mae Stuckmeyer, Henrietta Jonas, Rosemary Doyle, Mary Louise Walpole

and Margaret Sallady.

AUTOMATIC GAS WATER HEATER

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Departure From Regular] ity May Injure Health, Writer Warns.

(Dr. Morris Fishbein discusses infant health, Page 12.)

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON As mother-love in its extremes of emotion can undermine character in a child, just so can it interfere at times with the routine and regimen of health. “Just this once,” pleads mother

‘| when Polly runs to her begging for

another turn at the jumping rope, when Polly is already over-heated and worn out. “Just this once.” she begs when daddy says it's bed time and Jack wants to stay up and hear the mystery story. : We mothers know how impossible it is to maintain too ngid a schedule in the child's life. But allowing for emergencies now and then, we shoud adhere to general rules as often as possible. The temptation is greater today than it was 10 years ago. Twenty years ago outside interests that clashed with regular hours were almost nil as far as the children were concerned. Diversions Are Greater

There were not the convenient movies and the ubiquitous radio; and children’s clubs and specialized entertainment were almost unknown. There were fewer ready-made delicacies to interfere with meals if eaten at the wrong

e. : It is not easy for the modern mother to keep her children to routine today. This we have to admit; but isn’t this all the more reason for insisting on observance when possible? ‘No woman wishes to become a martinet to her family, but with the growing tendency toward irregular living, those mothers are wisest, I think, who insist on sleep at regular sleep time and meals at meal time.

" If there is co-operation from

and daddy is the one with the conscience while mother puts in her “Oh, just this once, John.” :

. Piling Up Trouble for Future

Just this once. How it multiplies, and not only multiplies, but each new break makes future attempts at regularity so much the harder. Mother-love it may be, but if mothers only knéw how much trouble they are laying up for themselves, they might not be so lenient. Actually it takes a lot of determination to be a mother. Every time baby fights his fish-oil she thinks herself a tyrant. Every time

at Buddy’s teeth she gets a weak feeling around the heart. When Peggy screams in the barber’s chair she feels like an Inca Yet these things are

no escape. Mother schools herself

:| to these important tests of aer

moral strength. Harder Way Is Best /

It is the less-spectacular affairs of daily life that she gives in to. The unpopular but necessary foods, the baths, naps, and so on that “just this. once” sets so.easily aside. Perhaps I set too much store by regularity. I have no wish to make life harder for any one. But it is because I feel that uninterrypted routine brings a reward of oother sailing ahead and greater returns in

‘health that I recommend going

back to the more rigid programs of a decade or so ago. And because indulgence is: easier than restriction, and mothers give consent against their better judgment, I like to think that a reminder is helpful and welcome. (Copyright, 1936, NEA Service, Inc.)

Lax Routine!

the dentist has to have a look-see

mother, offering her child as a : | sacrifice. :| necessary in families and there is

Miss Maxine Wright (above) is assisting with arrangements for a garden party of the Indianapolis Alumnae chapter of Sigma Kappa Sorority. It is to be held July 25 at the home of Mrs. Harry Hobbs. Indianapolis girls who are to ‘enter Indiana University in the fall are to be guests.

Miss Anna Hergel Becomes Bride of

John T. Williams

Mr. and Mrs. John T. Williams are to reside at 904 Emerson-av, when they return from their wedding trip. ~ Their marriage took place yesterday at St. Anthony's Catholic Church, with the Rev. Michael Gorman officiating. Mrs. Williams is the former Miss Anna Marie Hergel, daughter of John Hergel, 459 Goodlet-av. She was attended by her sister, Miss ‘Lona Hergel, who wore a lace gown of periwinkle blue, a pink lace poke bonnet and carried Briarcliff roses. The bride wore white satin, fashioned princess style, with a veil falling from a coronet. John J. Sullivan ,was best man. John A, and Charles Hergel, brothers of the bride, were ushers. Following the ceremony a breakfast for the family was served at the Homestead. : Out-of-town guests were the bride’s aunt, Mrs. Agnes Suckfull, and Miss Kathleen Babler of Decatur, Ala.

Miss Plessunce to Be Honored Before Wedding

Miss Helen Pleasance and her father, Herbert H. Pleasance, are in Canada on a vacation. After their return in two weeks, Miss Pleasance is to be entertained at parties in celebration of her approaching mar-

‘Mrs. Hester T. Van Landingham. The wedding is to be Aug. 14 at St. Paul Episcopal Church. ‘The bride-to-be attended Butler ‘University. Mr. Helwig is a Culver Military Academy graduate and former Butler University student.

CHURCH WEDDING IS TO BE OCT. 29

Miss Maryan Milnor Winterrowd and John Edwin Krieg have set Oct. as the date for their marriage. The ceremony is to be read at the Church of the Advent. Miss Winterrowd is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Victor Winterrowd, and Mr. Krieg’s parents are Mr. and Mrs, William J. Krieg.

Mr. and Mrs: T. P. Nickell, 5204 Pleasant -Run-pkwy, and Mr. and Mrs. C. K. Nickell, 2235 N. Meri-dian-st, are at the Beverly Hotel,

New York.

riage to E. Cornelius Helwig, son of |

Patrons Await.

New Programs With Interest

Symphony Society Is to Present Six Concerts Next Season.

Patrons -of the Indianapolis Syme phony Orchestra are awaiting with interest programs to be presented next season under auspices of the Indiana State Symphony Society. Six concerts, one more than in former years, two guest conductors and guest soloists are to feature the programs, according to an announcement today by Mrs. A. Dicke inson Smith, chairman. Twenty-five teams are fo conduct & membership drive which is to be opened with a formal dinner Sept. 25 at the Indianapolis Athe letic Club ballroom. Mrs. Paul V. McNutt and other

for the drive. Mrs. Smith anticie pates its being more comprehene sive than in former years. An innovation with this drive is the organization of a team of girls. Miss Roberta Denham heads: the juniors, including Misses Suzanne Stokes, Jane Wallace, Jayne Sume ner, Helen Root, Ruth Rehm, Patricia Gilliland, Jean McKibbin, Jane Keach, Ruth Van Auker and Gertrude Blackley. : Mrs. Smith entertained this team at a luncheon Saturday at the Propylaeum. Ferdinand Schaefer, Symphony Orchestra conductor, is visiting relatives in Europe. He is expected to return early in September. He is to conduct the opening concer® Oct. 20.

Thomas-Miller Wedding Date Is to Be Aug. 1

A reception at the home of Mr, and Mrs. Henry B. Miller, 118 W, 29th-st, is to follow the marriage of their daughter, Miss Mary Miller, to Robert H. Thomas Aug. 1. The ceremony is to be read at 8 p. m. at the Third Christian Church, with the Rev. Charles M, Fillmore officiating. Miss June Miller and Miss Marjorie Wilson are to be bridesmaids, and Miss Clarinne Manning is to be Miss Miller's maid of honor, Carolyne Wilson-is to be flower girl, Mr. Thomas has chosen Charles Taylor as best man. Garth Marine and Earl Thurber are to usher. Mrs. Earl Thurber and Miss Doris Marine are to entertain with a party for the bride-to-be precede ing the wedding.

Birthday Celebrated

Mr. and Mrs. Louis Nees entere tained last night with a party in honor of the eighteenth birthday of their daughter, Miss Dorothy Nees,

Keeping House Grown Summer Flowers

Telegraphed Aboard Steamers

Let's dedicate this paragraph to travel in general . . . and you

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Shop by remote control these uncomfortable days in July. Read the advertisements . . . then call RI. 5551 and make your requests to this desk. Always at your shopping service I am. And pleased indeed (when you see some you'd like) to send it to you—C. O. D. or charged to your account, of course. Just finished sending away a pair of stockings, and if I do - 8ay so myself, the match was exact. And a beauty aid for keeping cool is also on its way to a faithful reader. So,

as I go shopping around, let me choose special for you. No extra charge and not the least obligation.

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Add a slice of orange to your glass of iced tea ... just for a refreshing change.

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