Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 July 1936 — Page 22

en Husband Rages, Advice

e Jordan Urges Wife

Pay No Attention, Enjoy Self.

Jane J and I can’t stay alc all of the time and look at dour walls. It is too lonesome. But Be thinks I ought to stay here while #1e goes and when I do not, he Creates a scene. What am I to do

: A WORRIED WIFE. Answer—I would let him rave to his heart's content while I placidly took a seat at the far end of the Wn or on some neighbor's pleasant porch. Nobody has tantrums Without an audience to impress. ) grown-up people act like children they must be treated as such, and the latest approved method of with the tantrum is to isoBte the child. Since you can’t lock your husband up in a room, the ‘next best thing is to stroll off withheat, and leave him the prem“dses for his performance. The trouble, I expect, is that i are something of a child your- , and when there's a good hairPulling contest in sight you can’t ‘refrain from joining in the squabe. You've probably made the room into ‘something highly ; ble by objecting to it. Just as the smart mother never calls attention to an attraction she wishes her child to forget, so you should hide your feeling about the pool room while you connive ways nd means of putting something more interesting in its place.

After 26 years he can pre- |

dict your every reaction and he is tired of them all. Bit by bit ‘he tries to recapture the halcyon days of his bachelor freedom, but his . bachelor freedom included an un‘complaining mother who stayed home and looked after his comforts. “He doesn't want the picture changed by a wife who frolics about. Nevertheless, he will have to . face the fact that he is a big boy now and mama will not stay home and ‘wait for him. If you had the poise to quietly entertain yourself, not to spite him, but simply to pass time agreeably in ‘his absence, you'd find him tugging at your skirts before long. The chances are that you have no interests to share with each other, no social life to taka up your spare time, Do you ever ask his friends to the house for a pleasant evenin? you think up little excursions to

- take together which would entertain’

him? Have you forgotten the tricks with which you attracted him in the first place? After all, he is not a aster, and you can keep him at home if you make home interest-

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BY. MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS | Times Fashion Editor EEP in political talk; or it may be fashion chatter for all we know, these two members of the Young Women’s Democratic Club of Marion County are seen walking out to lunchegn in the midst of a busy day. : | ; ; rls in the right direction are being taken this summer by hardy perennials who toil in town through steamy days. Take notice of the smartest ones in the offices about you. Invariably, the coolest and best of the lot will be wearing cotton in one form or another, - se 2 os » ee ————————————————— If, like Miss Mary Louise Walpole a tip from these toppers. An off(left, above), president of the the-face number of white felt is Young Women’s Democratic Club, | Miss O’Connor’s choice for suit you are the clean-cut type that| wear. Miss Walpole ‘matches the can’t stand loose edges, con-|linen of her outfit with a widesider the clipped chic of her!brimmed sailor hit which may be natural colored linen lace tu-|tubbed to keep it in condition. nic dress. It is Ee ue: yet 4 dressy with (its en edgings o ellow and green. Self covered butTo give ee streamlined effect and Good lo Eat the figured Ascot scarf picks up the color accents. y

8 ” ” ISS JEAN O'CONNOR (right) these summer days who wring looks refreshingly comfortable, | your hands, so to speak, at the and feels 50, too. in an off-white suit | thought of food. Shall it be a salad, fashioned of coat-a-cool cloth with | again, say you, or shall we have a self pattern. Underneath the closasithot dish. “The very .hought of cookly fitted jacket -nipped in, at the|ing something hot seems more than waist she wears a short sleeved | you can bear, Still, another salad— linen blouse of wood brown. A polka | won't John protest? To alleviate dot bow, hankie and white buttons | just such a family impasse, I am touch off the suit. X giving you a salad that John, Henry Now that it's about time for your | or Jim will really like. It's unusual, second white hat of the season, take | hearty, and is, after all, good old rape potato salad in a new disguise.

POTATO SALAD IN TOMATO :

JELLY FOR 6

1 tablespoon gelatin 14 cup cold water 1 cup tomato juice 1 teaspoon salt Dash of pepper 2 cups potatoes, cooked and diced % cup celery, finely chopped 2 tablespoons green peppers, chopped: ; 2 tablespoons mayonnaise 1 tablespoon viMegar 1 teaspoon onion juice Lettuce Mustard cream: dressing

Soften gelatin in cold water, then dissolve over boiling water, in a double boiler. Add tomato juice, salt and pepper. Set aside to cool. A Combine the potatoes, celery, i | green pepper; chopped very fine, mayonnaise; vinegar and . onion ce. When the tomato mixture begins to congeal, fold in the potato salad. Pour into a mold. (If you want to

use this salad for a woman's party, |

; since men don’t care for fussy, tearoom salads, mold the salad in layers, first a layer using half of the

tomato. mixture, then the potato}

salad and next the rest of the tomato jelly.) Be : Garnish with lettuce ‘and serve with mustard cream. Now the receipt

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1 word ‘ “tolerance.”

Dinner, Bridge rs to Fete Couple Before Wedding

Mr. and Mrs. Frank M. Wright, 3106 Ruckle-st, and Mrs. Nellie A. Grubb, 3249 Ruckle-st, are to entertain tonight with a dinner at The Homestead, 5695 N. Meridianst, for Miss Mary Estelle Sluss and

David Rothrock, who are to “be

married July 18 in the Tabernacle

Presbyterian Church.

Following the dinner, guests are to go to the Wright home, Where they are to be entertained with bridge. The bride-to-be - is Yo be given linen shower gifts... : Guests with Miss Sluss and Mr, Rothrock are to include Mr. and Mrs. Ellis E. Sluss, parents of the bride-to-be; Dr. John Sluss, Mrs. David E. Sluss, Dr. David H. Sluss, Miss Inez Jefferies, Mr. and Mrs. Vance C. Hall and Miss Norma Jean Wright. : Out-of-town guests are to include Mr. and Mrs. Lamar C. Grubb and daughters, Missés Betty and Jane Grubb, Whiting, and Miss Lillian Harris, New York City.

Today’s Contract Problem South can make game at: spades. West has injected: a

What line of play should give him the best chance of holding his set down to two tricks? &54 : ¥642 €J10532 BdAQ2

Solution to Previous Contract Problem BY WM. E. MKENNEY

for the mustard cream is the most!

expensive part of the salad and even at that it’s not formidable since the biggest item is % cup of whipping cream. \

MUSTARD CREAM DRESSING

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in wi cream just before serv-

SHOWER ARRANGED | | FOR RECENT BRIDE|

| sacrifice bid of five diamonds.

dent. Recently I talked with president of a boy's college wh noticed that article. At my request he stated : views and policies, which I: remarkable and unique. “I sense a

clever student to a place in the sun,” he said. “I myself have taken

clude their fellows. When they get out of school they will have to live in a world of slower-witted people. They must respect.them, live with them and understand them, and be decent to them.” . SEE And. then he reverted to his pwn) ( ; “I dislike the word,” he explained. “It connotes condescension and on. It sets up an ideal for ‘I am holier than thou but go right ahead, anyway.’ I prefer the word ‘appreciate’. Or even ‘permit’ in its larger sense. It looks across rather than down.” - Since then I have reconstructed

his opinion and the more I think of | it the better I like it. Because all \| Jealousy and discouragement is born

of contrasting ability and state with the more fortunate in life.

Excellence Deserves Praise

Certainly an honor student deserves to be praised. Often it is sheer hard work and sacrifice that gets him his cum laude, and the

lazy and disgruntled need not make

Jealous grimaces at him and feel bitter. But there is something to this business of God-given brains and those whom God forgot. : In the fapnily, which is always the miniature “school, parents might try a work-out on this point. The quick and nimble ‘Alice must learn that slower Sister Jane is to be appreciated and not “tolerated.” Hustler Harry must know that isn’t one bit better than Plodding Peter and must learn to be kind and decent to him. When the elect learn to take this attitude: of “appreciation” of their less-favored = or less-personable kin, then discouragement and jealousy will wane. ; : Comparison 1s always odious, but never so odious as between children in the same house. Encouragement is a better tonic than- jealousy, Encouragement and praise by the successful brother or sister goes far to lift the less-gifted out of his Slough of Despond and promote his selfesteem. Cleverness without patience and kindness is never admirable anyway.

REQUIRES BACKING

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of doubling two clubs, should not |

have allowed the double of two - hearts to stand, but should have’ bid two spades. 2 _ (Copyright, 1936. NEA Service, Ine.)

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