Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 June 1936 — Page 8
ttitude, Jane Counsels Girl
pspective Bride Told to Take New Slant on Problem.
considerate and polite to every one. He can dance very well and I can’t, but I am fair; so he dances with . other girls. Sometimes it is with - girls with whom he has formerly gone steady. We are to be married within six months and I am ~ afraid that we won't get along because I am so very jealous of the other girls. How can I overcome this . Jealousy? Do you think it is just his nature or is it because he is not 80 sure and doesn’t know it? He says that I am too jealous and gets angry. He says that he doesn’t care about the other girls as he does about me and only likes them for friends. Do you think that is right? How can I be gay and carefree and not jealous of him? WORRIED.
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Answer—It makes all the difference in the world whether your Jealousy is based on distrust of ‘yourself or distrust of your boy friend. In either case it will appear as distrust of your boy friend and will require quite a little psychological detective work on your part to discover which is which.
For example, if you yourself secretly admire the girls he dances with and vaguely fear that you are not as attractive as they are, - you will not be able to understand how he can prefer you to them. If you were a boy, would you choose these girls in preference to yourself, or will your imagination ‘carry you that far?
Try another slant. Are you altogether satisfied with your choice? Do other boys attract you as much as your fiance, and would you like to enjoy the admiration of more boys? Do you have to step on yourself at times to remain faithful to your engagement? If so you will not be able to imagine how a boy, with his greater opportunities for freedom, will be able to resist the temptations with which you struggle. Do you ever feel that if only you were a boy you would let your- - self go and not be so circumspect? If either of these suggestions contain a grain of truth, I feel certain that you will resist any insight into the facts. What you need is con- ~ siderable quiet, reasonable, ‘honest self-searching. If you find you, are projecting your own weaknesses on to your boy friend, which is not an uncommon occurrence, then you are the one who needs treatment. You will have to find ways and means of strengthening your own ego. The more successes you have the surer you will become of your ability to hold your fiance against competion.
If, after self-analysis, you find
that your. insecurity comes from
_ without instead of within,—if you are convinced the boy is unstable and incapable of finding all his love needs in one person, then you would do well to find somebody in whom you have. more trust. I see nothing in his enjoyment of other girls to disturb you. - The fact that you are deeply in love with one person doesn’t mean that you never can enjoy talking to any one else. The idea that any one person, can be all and everything to another, blotting out the very existence of other human beings, simply is a false concept which must ke given up if individuals are to live with things as they are instead of holding to a sentimental iormula which never has and never will be workable.
ARRANGES CHURCH MUSICAL PROGRAM
A musical program has been arranged by Miss Jeanette Gardiner, Arthur Jordan Conservatory of Music faculty member, for the meeting of the Capitol Avenue Methodist Church Foreign Missionary Society tomorrow. . The meeting. is. to ke held at the home of Mrs. H, L. Foreman, 3835 Washington-blvd,
On the program are to be Miss Edith Kruzan, soloist; Miss Mary
Gottman, pianist, and Miss Mary Mrs. |
Beatrice Whiteman, reader. Donald Good is to assist Miss Whiteman. « The devotional program is to be given by Miss Jeanette Corbaley and Miss Ethel Kaplin.
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Today’s Contract Problem
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Solution to Previous Contract Problem
BY W. E. MKENNEY American Bridge League Secretary uh DON’T see why you raised me - to'd slam. I wanted to play the hand for game,” was South’s bitter comment after playing today’s hand in six spades and going down one. “But. my raise was ‘perfectly correct,” defended North, “and had you availed yourself of ordinary safety precautions, you would have made the contract. How was I to know that you would play the hand badly?” The hand is a rather common type of one-suiter. With declarer
Pupils of Piano to Give Recital
Miss May Gorsuch is to present a group of pupils in a piano recital at 8 Saturday in the Caroline Scott Harrison Chapter House, Daughters of the American Revolution. Those appearing are to include Helen Barry, Victor Barry, Marjorie Baxter, Muriel Burns, Jane Ann Burrin, Jean Coughran, Molly Fleischer,: Austin Gillespie, Janet Gregory, Jo Ann Heffelfinger, Bill Hull, Betty Lewis and Jean Lewis. Others are Raymond Lewis, Winston McDaniel, Joanne Noble, :Shirley Ostermeyer, Billy Joe Rice, Ana-
-lylle Smith, Norma Smith, Jean
Swain, Robert Swain, Charles Thompson, Joe Thompson, Donald Volz, Raymond Volz, Gloria Wenger, Betty Jean Wirth, Richard Wirth and Donald Wise. They are to ‘be assisted by Tom - Fleischer, cornetist.
DORIS RIES NAMES SISTER ATTENDANT
Miss Charlotte Ries is to be the only attendant at the wedding of her sister, Miss Doris, Ries, to Norbert O'Conner June 16 at Our Lady
mr Re PROGRAM OUTLINED
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holding seven trumps and seeing two in his partner's hand, he hopes to find two held by each opponent and thus drop all the trumps in two leads. It’s an op-
timistic hope. North’s bidding and South’s as well, is perfectly Sorvest, even if South by his meth ; failed ‘to fulfill his contract ‘West opened the jack of hearts and declarer won in his own hand. He then decided to play for the outstanding trumps in two leads. He led the ace, only to find that West held ‘all four trumps and that he must now lose two trump tricks, as the jack had fallen on the ace. The play was entirely wrong.. When the dummy hand was. exposed, declarer could see _ he had no losers in any side suit, and he could play the trumps so that he would lose only one trick in that suit, regardless of distribution, He should have won the first trick with the queen of hearts, and then lead a trump from dummy. Now when East failed to follow, a trump trick should have been given up to West's queen, and the remaining trumps could. have been picked up with the ace, king and ten. (Copyright. 1936, NEA Service. Inc.)
Luncheon Party Held for Guests
-Mrs.. Thomas Johnson was fo entertain at a luncheon today at her home, 504 N. Bolton-av, in honor of Mrs. Perry Mendenhall and her daughter, Annamae, South Bend, formerly of Indianapolis, who are here for the Shortridge High School graduation exercises. Luncheon was to be served on the terrace, following which guests were to play lawn croquet. Decorations and favors were in ‘blue and white: Guests included Mesdames Bert Wilson, Frank Thompson, John Jenks, Martha Wright, R. Harrison, Edith Osburn, Louis Courim, Al Davis, ie rude. Mat. Matthews, lle Freehaver, Cooper, Henry Elizabeth Topp, Topp,
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BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor “WHAT is so.rare as a day in June—and a picnic with your best girl?” query these Butler men as they find themselves with a corner on both the food and two Pi Phis. It’s time for merrymaking and gambol and they seem to be enjoy- - ing all the comforts of home with al fresco dining in the open. Miss Louise Edwards (left, above), is engaged in the pause that At ease in a sailor-styled, sharkskin frock of squash-yellow
with earthy-brown dots and onion-white lacings, she joins the vegetable
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kingdom in all-round fashion. The possibility of sand and insects as hazaras to picnic feasting don’t seem to dampen the spirits of Eugene Fife Jr. ‘(second from left.) His dog-tooth plaid, doublebreasted sports suit of black and
white has a belted back and is|.
swanky enough for any sportive occasion on the banks of the Wabash or the sidewalks of the city. His spotted tie is blue foulard and in great favor at the moment. 2 # = HE carefully studied carelessness of such a sports outfit as George Bockstahler (third from left) is wearing definitely is destined to popularity among upperclassmen. The tan gabardine sports coat with pleated half-belted back makes it free swinging. The slacks are of
‘| brown and white Glen plaid. His
tie purposely is nowhere to be found! Miss Jessie Fisher (right), with
tucked, uncrushable linen dress of powder blue. Perhaps she just has
| discovered some delectable food se-
cret lurking in the yellow covered
‘bakelite dishes of this de luxe can-
vas motor lunch kit. Its complete service for, six, with two-quart thermos bottles, makes eating under the sky a boon instead of a bane. Before you go, don’t miss having a look at the Jumbo vacuum jar on the left. It is the newest appurtenance to picnicking for it keeps hot food sizzling and cold eatables at their original temperatures through hours of treking over country roads while you {ry te find just the right shady Sok for your picnic!
Couple on Tip . After Wedding
Mr. and Mrs. George E. Robards, who were married Saturday in the Church of the Assumption, are on a wedding trip in the East. Upon their return they areeto be at home at 1338 Edgemont-st. = Miss
Mrs. Robards was Lenora
Cecilia Daly. She wore ivory satin|
with a short Jacket, and a topaz pendar®. Her veil was arranged with a coronet of ivory satin, and she carried brides’ roses and lilies of the valley. Miss Mary Lynch, maid of honor, wore an aquamarine lace dress and | the carried Johanna Hill roses. Miss Margaret Daly, bridesmaid, and the bride’s sister, wore peach ace, and carried Talisman TOBeS, | :
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Many a dumbell owes his high place
fo a woman.
; By Mrs. Franklin D. Roosevelt
ASHINGTON, Tuesday.—We are all deeply grieved over the death of a young cousin who roomed with our y, Franklin Jr., in his first years at college and who then id off to the Argentine. That any one so young should be so unhappy is sad, and one can only hope that an all wise Providence may understand the sorrows of a youthful heart, * This morning affer a very early ride, I visited the ex-
hibitions which have been brought over by the foreign delegates, as well as those brought by our Own @elegates. from he various states for
the Rural Women's meeting.
England, from her far flung empire, has collected an extraordinary variety of beautiful things made with greatest skill. I never realized
before that Honiton made such beautiful lace.
1 understand the skill
has almost died out, bu. 1s 20W being revived among: the Women, The
knitting patterns are fascinating.
ume: of Gur ‘wii cxiubitions owed: a seturn: to household arte of bygone days, and a hand skill together with training in design and
-color which is vastly encouraging.
In the English exhibit there are
some photographs of rooms sentirely furnished by women; even the
furniture is made by women.
This is closely paralleled in a Nassau County, New York State, gan; where, except for a few things made by Youth Administration ys, everything in the room is refinished, upholstered and made by evr te (hs oat deus whlch was patosed by % 18Tm Woman at
11 p. m. one night by the -lights her car.
The material was tacked
on the barn door so that they might have a rural scene to hang outside of their make believe window here. Mrs. Morgenthau, Mrs, Genevieve Forbes Herrick, Mrs. Scheider and I lunched on the south porch at 12:45. At 1:30 the foreign delegates and some of the officers of the International Associated Rural Women of
the World came over to be shown the White House.
Mrs. Morgenthau and Mrs. Wallace helped me by going around with us and telling those who could not hear me about the various rooms, We visited everything including the kitchen and I said good-by to them
at 2:30 with great regret, for they were an appreciative audience. (Copyright, 1936, _by United Featire Syndicate, Ine.)
Ladywood School’s Graduates Receive Diplomas From Bishop
La 4 School seniors received diplomas from Bishop Joseph E. Ritter following an address by Clarence Manion this morning at the school. The graduating class included Mary Kathleen Cameron, Keokuk, Ia.; Isabel Cardani, Herrin, Ill; Joyce Cavenaugh, Chicago; Joanne Marie Hall, Kathryn Gartland and Elizabeth Leikhim, all of Indianapolis, and Virginia “Joan Meyer, Chi-
cago. Miss Hall extended greetings to the guests, which included parents of the graduates: Mr. and Mrs, James Cameron, Keokuk; Mrs. Mary
Shower Outlined for Bride-to-Be
Mrs. C. N. Angst and Mrs. F. V. Hawkins are to entertain their
guests with bingo games at their party for Miss Louise Brown, bride-to-be, tonight at Mrs. Angst’s home. Miscellaneous gifts are to be presented to Miss Brown by the guests. Miss Brown’s mother, Mrs. C. "8S. Merrick, and her aunt, Mrs. Ralph Johnston, Greencastle, and Mrs. Philip S. Brown, mother of the bridegroom-to-be, Robert D. Beckmann, are to be among the 29 guests.
Blue delphinium and pink roses
are to decorate the serving tables. The wedding of the couple is to fake place. June 19.
Cardani, Herrin; Mr. and Mrs. R. P, Cavenaugh and Mrs. J. Cavenaugh and Mr. and Mrs. B. F. Meyer, all of Chicago; Dr. and Mrs. W. C. Hall, Mr. and Mrs. Peter V. Gartland and Mr. and Mrs. J. L. Leikhim, all of Indianapolis. Three Receive Certificates
Miss Cardani and Miss Gartland received certificates from the music department and Miss Cavenaugh one from the art department. The processional was played by an ensemble including Helen Connor, Ruth Fink and Mary Margaret Ruddell, violinists; Antoinette Holzborn and Mary Spalding, harpist, and Rosalie Hall, pianist. Miss Gartland accompanied the I which sang “Angelus,” by Chaminade. Sister Superior Mary Genevieve announced that enrollment for next September has increased.
SEASON TO END FOR STUDY CLUB
Northside Study Club is to close its season of programs at a luncheon at 1 tomorrow at Meridian Manoh Mrs. Frederick Coons and Mrs. est’ Cartwright are to be hostesses. Mrs’ Curt. Toll is to present a program of music, and Miss Wilma’ Frankie is to entertain with a costume recital. Guests are to include Mrs. Smith Hodges and daughter, Knoxville, Tenn.; Mesdames Fred Hallet, Mary
C. Cartwright and Laurence C,
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