Indianapolis Times, Volume 48, Number 22, Indianapolis, Marion County, 6 April 1936 — Page 9

APRIL 6, 1936_

Patience'ls the Need, Wife Told Permit Husband to Win Arguments, Jane Tells Woman. Don’t lot your prohlrmu defout you! ‘ Put thrm In a letter to Jane Jordan, who will help you see what to do. Dear Jane Jordan—l have two children in high school and this is my problem. My husband curses around about the least thing they do. They can’t do or say a thing but that he gets into an argument

with them. When they take a bath he complains that they use the gas. or put too much : water in the tub. ] We have to take : a bath, but you would think it i was a crime. He always is bringing up some little thing that doesn't amount to anything, nagging with us over any-

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thing that may happen. We get afraid to move at times. If I speak he says I am slurring him. I love peace, but have given up hopes of ever having it. I don’t believe in divorce, but I can’t stand this much longer. I don't know what to do and thought you might be able to give me some advice. L. A. D. Answer—There are some men whose sole outlet for power lies in being a petty domestic tyrant. Without importance in industrial circles, sometimes they work under harsh taskmasters themselves and come home to “take it out” on their families. Sometimes a man of small stature thinks he has to be belligerent to be noticed. It is surprising what a few inehes in height will do to a man’s disposition. It is not inevitably true, but at least very usual to find a short man carrying a perpetual chip on his shoulder. How tail is your husband? What kind of father did your husband have? Was he, too, a tyrant whose family trembled at the sound of his voice? It is natural for a boy to model himself along the lines of his father. We often find men who suffered from harsh parental control revenging themselves on their own children. Sometimes they swing in the opposite direction and are overindulgent to their own children. At bottom your husband may be very fond of his children. Are they boys or girls? If he wanted boys and got girls it might account in part for his irritation. And if they are particularly appealing little girls he may be determined not to grow too fond of them and protect himself by pretending the opposite emotion. Such queer quirks are not at all uncommon in parents. Does your husband like to hunt, fish, bowl, play golf or any other games? If he does, encourage him, for it serves a double purpose. For one thing it keeps him out of the house, leaving you time to take baths in peace. For another it uses up his aggressive energies and gives him a chance to win at something. Don’t be afraid to let your husband win out in arguments at home. It makes him feel superior and when one feels superior it is harder to be cross and disagreeable. Perhaps you have become so disgusted with the man that you do not admire him any more and consequently show him no affection, no sympathy, no comprehension. The lack of these softening influences provides more opportunity for his temporary tantrums. To change the man would require a great deal of wise understanding, generosity and patience on your part, and your letter indicates you hardly feel equal to the task. Yet if you can see anything good left in him, the results might be worth the trial. How about it? Mothers’ Club Luncheon Set Delta Zeta Mothers’ Club of Butler University is to be entertained with an Easter luncheon and program tomorrow at Mrs Clarence Sones’ home, 3845 Kenwood-av. Mrs. J. H. Lamar is in charge of the musical program, and Miss Betty Beckman, active chapter president, is to give several readings. Mrs. C. M. Bohnstadt is to lead a study of birds. Mrs. Roy E Price is to preside at the business meeting. The luncheon committee includes Mesdames Harry M. Brownlee. J. 3. DanTord, A. E. Campbell. H. Ray Condrey and J. D. Langdon. ALUMNAEGROUP TO NAME HEADS New leaders for the St. John Alumnae Association are to be elected at a meeting tonight at the academy. The slate has been prepared by a nominating committee, composed of Misses Anna Brennan, May Moran, Anna Barton, Catherine Logan, Julia Clark, Frances Lipps, Rose O’Gara, Mesdames Mayme Murphy and Margaret Gallagher. New officers are to succeed Miss Jeanne O’Connell, president; Miss Helen O'Gara, vice president; Miss Bet tie W’olfe, recording secretary; Mi3S Alice Mae Lipps, treasurer; Miss Winifred Mullaney, corresponding secretary, and Miss Rosemary Dugan, seargeant-at-arms. DR. PAUL IS TO ADDRESS CLASS Christian Church women members are to entertain with a sacrificial luncheon at 1 Thursday, when Dr. Alexander Paul of the United Christian Missionary Society will give an address. Mrs. Harold Walter is to sing, and violin and piano music is to be provided by Mrs. Lloyd Evans and Mrs. William T. McClure. Other* taking part on the proSam ara Mrs. W. A. Shullenberger, rs. Paul M. Kilby Mrs. John W. -'Seller. Mrs. M. E. Elstun is to preside. ,

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Bride-to-Be Party Guest Mrs. E. P. Ervin and her mother, Mrs. Ransom Griffin, are to be hotesses tonightt at Mrs. Griffin’s home at a bridal party in honor of Miss Nancy Schwenk Kalleen. Miss Kalleen is to be married to Robert E. Russell Saturday at the home of her father, James L. Kalleen. Following bridge, guests are to present gifts to the bride-to-be. Among the guests are to be Mrs. Elmo Fisher, Mr. Russell's mother; Mrs. Jacob Wilcox, Miami, and Miss Betty Kalleen, sisters of the bride-to-be; Misses Betty Conder, Mabelle Sherman, Virginia Fosler, Jean Underwood, Betty Means, Virginia Holt, Mary Elizabeth Craig, Betty Price, Betti Sue Woolling, Virginia Powell; Mesdames Chauncey Buck and Charles Badger.

Miss Etzler Is to Wed Akron Man at Salem Ernest Etzler, Salem, has announced the engagement of his daughter, Miss Pauline Etzler, to Daniel Ursu, Akron. The wedding is to take place April 25 at Salem. Announcement was made at a party given recently by Miss Etzler’s sister, Miss Marguerite Etzler, at the Indianapolis Athletic Club. Guests included Misses Frances Kelly, Mary Downs, Effle Rees, Florence Campbell, Hester Lea Moncrief, Blanche Sizelov£ Margaret Daily, Mildred Letts, Margaret Rogers, Kathleen Rogers, Elsie Wible, Eleanor McClintock, Ruth Shields, Mary Hobbs, Mary Boggs, Lillian Boggs, Virginia Justi, Clarine Carmony and Pauline Etzler and Mesdames David Augustus, John Bever, Max Fritz, Eugene Mitchell and Gould Wilson. The bride-to-be is a gradute of Miami University at Oxford, 0., and member of Delta Zeta and Tri Kappa Sororities. Mr. Ursu is a Miami graduate and member of Pi Kappa Phi Fraternity.

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The way hats are decorated, women ouf) t to be in fine trim ior Easter.

BY MARJORIE BINFORD WOODS Times Fashion Editor A VIRTUAL dress rehearsal for Easter is apparent in this picture. Here are two prominent Civic Theater players, Miss Brownie Miskimen and Mr. Richard Mansfield who appear as shining examples of triumphal Sunday clothes. Miss Miskimen wears, so graciously, this perfectly appointed costume suit of black imported wool crepe with rows of black taffeta fluting adorning the smooth-fitting jacket and skirt.

There’s a fashionable rustle to every little movement of this suit because of the crisp taffeta petticoat worn beneath! * 8 tt THE blouse, as you well may imagine, is all that femininity could command. Fashioned so daintily of gleaming white organza with set-in strips of narrow Alencon lace and infallibly fetching with round edged collar so flattering. That hat, which you surely must see for yourself to appreciate to the fullest measure, is a masterpiece of John Frederic’s. It symbolizes fashion in her dressiest mood, with a crown of net veiling

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A FRIEND of mine tells me she never wants to make the same thing twice. No matter how well a cake may turn out she is unwilling to repeat it. Os course, her attitude makes cooking a perpetual adventure, but when guests are expected I should think she would have some bad moments wondering about results. It’s a good plan to try new dishes on the family before serving them to company. How many households ever meet oysters any way but in stew, scalloped, creamed on toast or occasionally fried? Yet there are innumerable other fascinating recipes for preparing them, such as these turnovers. OYSTER TURNOVERS FOR 8 (.Main luncheon dish) 8 large oysters or 16 small ones. 11a cups flour. 4 tablespoons shortening.

Strain May Cause Lines BY AJ,ICIA HART Premature lines and wrinkles around the eyes generally are caused either by eyestrain or pure neglect. If you insist upon going without glasses when you know perfectly well that you need them and, although you know your skin is dry, never put nourishing cream around your eyes at night, fine lines are your own fault. If reading tires your eyes and makes your head ache, by all means see an eye doctor at once. If he recommends glasses, get them immediately. You probably won’t have to wear them with hats and evening gowns, so why worry? Even if you do, judicious shopping for frames that are more flattering than you suspect and careful choice of clothes will make you hate glasses a good deal less, stick to hats with brims, coiffures which form a soft frame for your face and, for evening, glasses which can be worn around your neck or carried in the hand when not actually in use. Permanents $3 to $lO Ten Expert Operators

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and turban brim of fine straw strips interlaced together. It ends with a flourishing bow of black grosgrain at the back of the head and a flying nose veil to accentuate the charm of its face-to-face value! The silver fox furs swath Miss Miskimen in luxury and three fragrant gardenias reflect the festiveness of the occasion. Mr. Mansfield complements his escort with sartorial perfection in his flawlessly tailored cutaway, wing collar, top hat and ever important walking stick. Together, think, they make a perfect picture of what the consummate art of dress really means!

6 tablespoons butter. 1 teaspoon salt. 4 tablespoons ice water. 4 tablespoons grated cheese. 1 lemon. Little grated nutmeg. Salt, pepper. Drain oysters from liquor. Mix flour and salt and cut in shortening and butter. All ice water. Roll out on a slightly floured board and cut into rounds four inches in diameter. On each round place one large or two small oysters, sprinkle with salt, lemon juice, pepper and nutmeg. Brush edge of pastry with cold water and turn over, pressing edges together with a fork. Prick the top of each turnover with a fork and brush with milk. Sprinkle with grated cheese and bake in a hot oven (425) for 10 to 15 minutes. They should be a light brown. Serve with a cream-tartar sauce, made by diluting mayonnaise with heavy cream and adding finely chopped pickle or pickle relish and chopped chives to it.

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Kappas Will Name Heads New officers and a delegate to the national convention of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority are tp be elected at the Indianapolis Alumnae Association meeting Wednesday night at the Butler University chapter house, 821 W. Hampton-dr. The sorority convention is to be at Seigniory Camp, Montebello, Canada, late in June. Mrs. Frederick Hill is retiring president. Mrs. Joseph Matthews, 2415 N. Delaware-st, is in charge of reservations, due tonight. Mrs. Robert Gilliland is to present the program of original poems. Dinner is to be served at 6:30. ‘INSIDE EUROPE’ TO BE REVIEWED Members of the Martha Hawkins Society, First Baptist Church, are to hear Mrs. Kathryn Turney Garten review “Inside Europe,” by John Gunther, at the meeting at 8:15 tonight at the church. Mrs. F. L. Evans is committee chairman. Committee members are Mesdames C. P. Benedict, E. R. Besore, Edwin Camp, E. E. Christena. J. K. Leasure, H. W. Nordyke, W. B. Paul, H. E. Rogge and Paul Stetson. Ushers are to be Mesdames T. T. Purvis, Lee Winders and Hanley Blackburn, and Misses Ruth Shewman, Alice Evans and Helen Rogge. Mrs. J. B. Carr, president, is to direct the meeting. Stage Bingo Party Indianapolis Turners’ Women’s Club entertained with a bingo party last night at the Athenaeum.

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Women of Moose to Celebrate

Katherine Smith, Grand Recorder, Will Be Honor Guest. Miss Katherine Smith, Washington, D. C., grand recorder of the Women of the Moose, is to be honor guest of the Indianapolis chapter Tuesday night at the nineteenth anniversary celebration at the Moose Home. Miss Smith is to attend initiation of a large class of candidates, with Mrs. Phoebe Hart, senior regent, as presiding officer. From Indianapolis she is to go to Chicago to assist in arranging for the national conference there the first week in July. She is to speak on “Carrying Mooseheart Standard into Homes of the Communities.” She is to describe her work done at national headquarters in Washington, where she assisted in drafting a correlated program with local committee chairmen in states, functioning through state and national leaders. Work to Be Described She also is to describe her work at Mooseheart in developing a co-oper-ative program with welfare workers throughout the nation, following which she was invited to attend a child health conference at the White House. Miss Smith also assisted in establishing the Mooseheart child research laboratory. Other honor guests at the anniversary meeting are to include W. J. Leinweber, Mooseheart superintendent, and Mrs. Leinweber; Miss Fern Stover, Mooseheart, national homemaking director; Mrs. Florence Webster Long and Samuel L. Montgomery. Music is to be played by Dutch Hohlt’s orchestra. Visitors are to include members from chapters at Kokomo, Tipton, Muncie, Frankfort, Elwood, Richmond, Newcastle and Lebanon. The entertainment committee chairman is Mrs. Charles Hansford. Mrs. Henry Butze is ritualistic chairman, and Miss Bertha Bailey is publicity director. D. U. AUXILIARY TO PLAY BRIDGE Mrs. E. R. Grissell, 3510 E. Fall Creek-blvd, is to be hostess tomorrow at a luncheon bridge for members of Delta Upsilon auxiliary. Assistants are to be Mrs. Mason King and Mrs. Milton Smith.

MOW OPEN! You Are Cordially Invited ART EXHIEff) GOVERNMENT OF FINLAND ELOCK'S—FIFTH FLOOR See This Most Interesting and Comprehensive Display of Finnish Manufacture & Handicraft. An Educational Exposition Finland is a Republic, near the Arctic Ocean, in Europe, equal in size to New England, New York and New Jersey, but with a population not quite double that of Philadelphia. Helsingfors, its capital, has a population of about 300,000. Finland is best known to the average American, perhaps, for its promptness in meeting its financial obligations! But this enterprising little nation will be better known when our people have seen this remarkable Exhibition of Finnish Manufactures and Artistic Craftsmanship. The Exhibit includes: Beautiful Cut Glassware from the four oldest Finnish factories. Artistic, but inexpensive hand-painted Pottery and Ceramics. Hand-knitted Scarfs, Gloves, etc. Hand-made Pewter Ware, recognized as the finest in Scandinavia. Old Finnish and modern Silverware Hand-made Jewelry. Old Finnish and modem handwoven Rugs, Hand-woven Linens. A comprehensive collection of Textiles. A variety of Christmas Novelties, Toys and Dolls, Hand-painted Furniture. Also Finnish Candies, Dry Bread and Cheese, and many other interesting exhibits. Be Sure to See This Remarkable Exhibition Now at Block's. Daily Lectures at 2:30 P. M. NO CHARGE FOR AD3IISSIOX (NOTE: Every article in this exhibit is on sale except museum pieces.) fiCidci

MY DAY By Mrs. Franklin D. Roosevelt

VTyASHIXGTON, Sunday—We flew down to Langley Field T near Newport News in three-quarters of an hour Friday afternoon. A friend of mine went with me and I took my daughter’s tw ? o children without a nurse, which they thought was a grand treat. I found it was the first time

they had really flown so they were very much thrilled. We had a few bumps to give them some excitement, but on the whole it was a very quiet trip. On arrival we went to visit Swanton. a community in which some houses are already occupied, built for Negro workmen of the Newport News Shipbuilding Corp. Individuality is allowed in the painting, and it really makes for great variety, although the houses are standardized so that they may be built more cheaply. It has been worked out so that the men are allowed to labor at given wages on their houses

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and on clearing the land, this labor going toward the down payments. The houses are comfortable and well built with three bedrooms, a kitchen, a living room, bathroom, hot water, electric light and city water. The rent per month is $16.40, which includes amortization, insurance, etc. This is all being done by a private corporation and shows what good business management, which has real interest and good will toward its employes, can do to back them up. On Saturday morning we were ready to leave for the shipyard at 9:15. I was presented with a most beautiful bouquet of American Beauty roses, and Sistie with an old-fashioned bouquet which pleased her so much she could hardly stand still. We had quite a little wait before the moment came for smashirtg the bottle and christening the ship, and I must admit I was a bit nervous for fear the bottle would not break. However, it smashed successfully, and fortunately before the ship actually slid down the ways, I remembered to say: “I christen thee the Yorktown.” It was a very impressive sight to see one of those big ships slide out, and interesting from the time the men began to knock out the supports from underneath, till she was safely In the water. We had a smooth trip back, and this morning, as my grandchildren were leaving, they insisted on a swim before breakfast. I have had a ride and have just very regretfully seen them off to New York for school, which begins tomorrow. (Copyright, 1936, by United Feature Syndicate. Inc.)

Travel Talk Is Arranged Mrs. D. S. Meditch is to give a travfcl talk on “A Visit With Relatives in Czechoslovakia” at the Phi Delta Theta Mothers’ Club meeting Thursday at the Butler chapter house, 705 Hampton-dr. Leora Wood, dancing pupil of Mrs.

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William Byram Gates, is to appear in a group of dances. Mrs. J. T. Hoopingarner. luncheon chairman, is to be assisted by Mesdames O. T. Roberts. Richard Lowther, W. E. Robinson and S. C. Bitter. Here's One-Dish Meal Eggplant stuffed with chopped meat, onions and crumbs makes a one-dish meal. Or you might use rice for the stuffing and season with onion.