Indianapolis Times, Volume 45, Number 209, Indianapolis, Marion County, 10 January 1934 — Page 9

JAN. 10, 1931

Longing for New Scene? Swap Homes Discontented City and Country Folk Could Make Trades. BY GRF.TTA PALMER Timr* Special Writer NEW YORK, Jan. 10. —There are complaints at this season from people who live in the country—commuting is difficult, train schedules are hard to remember and it Is nothing but a terrible bore to catch the 12-something after the theater. And the city-bound NewYorkers? They, dear ladies, do just as much grousing, as you will learn if you will expose yourself to the general conversation at any of the large cocktail parties which abound about town these days. We learn from the talk of the handsome lady in a hat just off the boat that she is heartily sick of taxicabs whizzing around on slippery streets and of the clatter of the elevated past her doors. What is her idea of paradise? A glowing red log-fire with an ingle nook on either side of it. the dinner smells of a two-rib roast coming out from the kitchen and the light rain of hail upon the window panes; that's her idea of paradise! You Lose Either Wav That there is a certain crude justice to both points of view, it is impossible to deny. Any normally integrated human being gets heartily sick of the sight of cows moping alongside a stream, no matter what the nature lovers may say to the contrary. Any one with a normal set of nerves gets occasional jitters over the hideous strain of trying to get through traffic to a given destination at an approximately correct hour. You can’t, as the cynics say, win. Well, a small and weary group of guests at a gathering the other evening wondered if you couldn’t. We are hereby announcing the institution of a corporation to be known as Metamorphoses, Inc. Two Will Try Plan John Vassos, whose wife is pretty sick of admiring country landscapes, is a prime instigator, and he has found, to his delight, a New York artist whose nerves are at the snapping point from too much New York. They have agreed to change diggings, moving in with wife, family and canary, for a period of one week. After that they will see. Perhaps they will have become so heartily sick of the unaccustomed sounds of town or country, severally, that they will rush back with enthusiasm to the home whose virtues they had derided a scant week before. Perhaps they will wish to stay put. In either ease they are ahead, in point of contentment, of the feverish state of unrest in which all parties presently ate picking at the coverlet. But there are further and far mere entrancing possibilities offered by the scheme of Metamorphoses, Inc. Suppose that the spirit, of wanderlust should still agitate the four of them. Suppose that each couple still yearns for a further change of scene. Cure for Discontent Then all they have to do is to communicate with the secretary of the association (who is still lulled by happy ignorance of his appointment). and they will be told that there is an opening for a nice young artist and wife in a studio in Detroit, or maybe Mexico City, or—God bless us—Hollywood! They swap quarters with the man ahd wife who want to catch a glimpse of Broadway, and everything is quite complete. Don’t write in to ask us how to do the thing; arrange your own association for yourselves. But the interchange of town and country residences for discontented couples might sa-e many a railroad fare to Reno. More than one wife who thought that she was tired of her husband had simply sickened of the airs of New Rochelle. Auxiliary Party Set Ladies Auxiliary to the General Protestant Orphan's Home will hold its monthly card party at 8 tomorrow night at the home. 1404 South State street. Mrs. Edna Gardner, general chairman, will be assisted by Miss Meta Wulff. Mothers to Entertain Mothers’ Club of the Irvington Kindergarten will entertain with a luncheon bridge party at 12:30 tomorrow at the Kindergarten. Donee Scheduled An “old time-new time" dance will be held tomorrow night in St. Roch's hall, 3600 South Meridian street. The public may attend. IF. C. T. U's to Meet Mrs Elizabeth Stearns, 1521 West Vermont street, will be hostess at 2 Friday for a meeting of Bay Laurel Union- Woman's Christian Temperance Union. Plans will be made for future activities under the leadership of Mrs. M. C. Norris. Mothers to Be Guests Mrs. Godfrey D. Yaeger will entertain mothers of Girl Scouts in Troop 40 at a welcome tea at her home. Keystone avenue at Seventyfifth street, at 2 Fridav afternoon.

Daily Recipe BRAISED TONGUE WITH ASPIC JELLY Wash and scrub well 1 beef tongue in salt water; boil until tender, remove skin and place in pan with 2 onions, 1 stalk celery, 4 cloves, salt and pepper; cover with liquid in which it was boiled and add 1 teaspoon sugar. I blade mace, I bunch thyme and I bunch parsley; simmer 2 hours; remove tongue, add to liquid 1 box gelatin which has been soaked in 1 cup cold water, boll 2 minutes, stirring constantly, strain and pour over tongue; chill and serve.

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Manners and Morals

Do you need more light on. your problems? Write to Jane Jordan, who will answer questions about love, marriage, child training and business problems in this coiumn. Letters of comment are invited. Dear Jane Jordan—l am 16, but very sensible for my age. I went with a fellow for about a year and fell deeply in love with him. We split up and he started going with someone else, and so did I. He married someone whom he does not love and has a baby. Now he isn’t living with his wife and is suing for divorce. The fellow I am going with now

is very fond of me and is jealous as any one could be. He tells me if he ever caught me with any one else it would be too bad for both of us. I hate t <S hurt his feelings by telling him not to come back, but I can’t like him. I still love the first fellow I

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went with. When I see him I just can't express my feelings for him We meet occasionally and have dates. He still thinks a lot of me. because he tells me so. When I am with him I could stay forever, although sometimes he makes dates and does not show up. He always tries to explain, but I don't know whether to believe him or not. Please try to see my side and give me some advice. LONESOME LOVER. Answer —The hardest thing for a 16-year-old girl to see is that she is not' in love with a person at all. but with the act of loving. She feels a great need for an object upon which to lavish the affection which wells within her. She has not grown up enough to select a boy for his character traits, but chooses him rather for the way his hair grows, the way he laughs, or his finesse in making love. She doesn’t know that somewhere beneath his appealing looks and mannerisms there may lurk a sonality which she could never abide. It is enough that his presence produces a mysterious glow which is highly pleasant and easily mistaken for love. The glow 7 unfortunately is an unreliable basis for marriage and quickly dissipates under the stress and strain of daily living. This boy, for example, has little to recommend him. He has winked out on the responsibilities of marriage with great speed, probably because he wasn't equipped to carry them. Furthermore he has no conscience about making dates with you. and he keeps them or not, according to his own convenience. This leads me to believe that he is self-centered, and does not consider the feelings of others. I have no reason to believe that he would be one whit more satisfactory as a husband to you than he was to Ins first wife. Perhaps it would help you to read some letters from women who have married divorced men and regretted it. I do not mean that every second marriage is unsatisfactory, but only that the qualities which caused the first union to fail still are present in the individual who failed. Unless he knows what they are and is able to cope with them, he will repeat his mistake and blame everybody except himself. Thus is the past ever the enemy of the present. a a a Dear Jane Jordan —Often I read your advice to women in regard to their affairs with married men. If a married man never has left his home for you. you don't know the half of it! Ask me. I know! Ask yourself how you’d like to have the man you love trot back •home several times a week to see his children. Don't forget the mother always is there to hand out a hard luck story which usual-

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ly takes effect. Perhaps there’s enough money left for you to see a cheap show. If not, you pay the way. If you complain about his going home, there is certain to be a quarrel. The result is that he goes on the quiet and lies about it afterwards. You give him love, and in return you get a great big heartache. A married man plus a single woman equals a broken heart and broken down health. J. D. Answer—Your real trouble is fear that the first wife still holds a part of the affection which you feel belongs to you. It is your own feeling of insufficiency which haunts you, but it is much more comfortable to place the cause for unease on the person of another. No doubt the man’s conscience bothers him and he tries to atone for his desertion with money. Try to understand the man’s problem, which is difficult, and help him in his efforts to make peace with himself. Otherwise, he can not enjoy his life with you. Co-opera-tion on your part at this point would bind you more closely together instead of driving you apart. The trouble with you is that you are not willing to pay for your experience. Now that you have discovered there is a price penalty to marrying a man with a family, the only thing you can do is accept the facts. Dear Jane Jordan—l met a young man about four months ago and I thought I really cared for him. He is ten years older than I am and has been married before, but was divorced from his former wife when he met me. Everything was lovely for a while

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Two Named to Attend Conference Mrs. Teetor Presides at State Meeting of Voters League. Mrs. Robert Sinclair and Mrs. W. I. Sterrett, Rensselaer, will attend a conference on the cause and cure of war, to be held Jan. 16 to 20 in Washington, as delegates from the Indiana League of Women Voters. Mrs. J. J. Daniels will be alternate. Delegates were named at a luncheon meeting of the state board of the league yesterday at the Columbia Club. Mrs. Charles Teetor, Hagerstown, state president, presided. Mrs. Charles Cory, president of the Lafayette branch, issued invitation to the league for the state convention the week of May 4. The invitation was accepted by the board. Regular time for the convention was changed from March to May, and fiscal year will begin May 1. Officers to Be Chosen A nominating committee headed by Mrs. Thomas D. Sheering, chairman, will report candidates at the May meeting when officers will be elected. The league’s registration offer to county clerks and chairmen was discussed. The offer by leagues throughout the state to take registration without fees will be accepted if the funds for this purpose are insufficientA committee appointed by the board will promote the sale of a revised edition of the voters’ handbook through public schools, political organizations and women’s clubs. The committee will be headed by a member of the Indianapolis league. Membership Grows Representatives from leagues attending reported an increase in membership due to the added interest in governmental affairs and more organized campaign. Sixteen board members, with Mrs. Teetor, attended the business session and luncheon with Mrs. Ralph Carter, acting executive secretary, and the following guests: Mrs. J. R. Anderson and Mrs. Prickett, Evansville; Mrs. Charles Q. Erisman and Mrs. Ralph B. Wiley, Lafayette, and Mrs. Sheerin. Next state board meeting will be held March 2 and the executive board will meet Feb. 2.

after we were married, and then he quit his work. Now I do it all. When we were going together he liked to do everything that I did, but now that we are married he doesn’t want to go any place but his mother’s house. He doesn’t want me go any place without him and doesn’t seem to understand that women like to be together to talk and visit. I am so unhappy that I feel I could find more happiness alone. I am still in my early 20s. Would I be doing wrong to leave him and get a divorce? UNHAPPY. Answer—The easiest thing to do do would be to divorce the man for nonsupport and forget him, but I wonder if it would be the wisest thing to do? If I knew why he quit work and what his efforts have been, if any, to secure other employment, I would know better what sort of material you have to work with. If he is a mother’s boy, who expects his wife to support him financially and emotionally in a renewal of the conditions of childhood, there is little hope. It would be interesting to know if his divorce was caused by the characteristics which threaten to wreck his second marriage. If you have done all you can to adjust to the man and found it to be impossible, it seems futile to perpetuate a mistake. What you learned in a real effort to make the adjustment will be invaluable when you are called upon to make a second choice.

Contract Bridge

Today's Contract Problem Bidding, in the following bond, is as follows: South, 1 heart; West, pass; North. 2 diamonds; East, 3 clubs; South, double; West, pass; North, pass; East, 3 spades; South, 4 clubs; West, pass; North, 4 spades; East, pass; South, 5 hearts; West, pass; North, 7 hearts; East, 7 spades. And now what should South do? A None VQ 9 4 ♦ A KQ 10 7 4 *QJB 3 A v * (Blind) w E (Blind) ♦ s ♦ * LDealerJ * s A 8 V AK J 10 7 ♦ 9 2 AAKIO 7 5 Solution in next issue. 2

Solution to Previous Contract Problem BY W. E. M’KEXNEY Secretary American Bridge League THE squeeze play for which every expert is on the lookout is the Vienna coup squeeze. While this play is not so rare in contract as in auction, nevertheless many players confuse an ordinary squeeze with the Vienna coup. ' Today’s hand was made by O. S. Emrich of Cleveland who, with his partner, Elmer J. Babin, took the lead at the end of the first session of the open contract pair event a* the recent national championship tournament in Cincinnati. Several players mistook the play in this hand for a Vienna coup, but it is not a Vienna coup, since the ace of clubs does not have to be played to execute the squeeze. Mr. Emrich sat in the South.

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West’s opening lead was the four of hearts, which East won with the ace. East returned a small diamond, which Mr. Emrich, in the South, won with the ace. # tt MR. EMRICH returned the eight of hearts, trumping in dummy with the ten of diamonds. The eight of diamonds was returned from dummy, Mr. Emrich winning with the king. Three rounds of diamonds were taken, West discarding two hearts and a club. Dummy discarded three clubs, and it was immaterial what East played. The last diamond then was played and West was squeezed. If he dropped a spade, the four spades in dummy would be good, while if he dropped the jack of clubs, declarer would discard a spade from dummy and lead the ace of clubs, dropping West’s king. The dummy then would be solid. (Copyright, 1934, by NEA Servic, Inc.) MRS. ZUMPFE TO BE PARTY GUEST Miss Mildred Huffman will entertain tonight at her home, 2410 Carrollton avenue, in honor of MrsEdgar A. Zumpfe. formerly Miss Louise Brunell. The hostess will be assisted by her mother, Mrs. J. F. Huffman and her sister, Miss Betty Huffman. Appointments for the miscellaneous shower and bridge party will be carried out in pink. Guests will include Mrs. H. W. Brunell, mother of the honor guest; Mesdames Bruce Morton and Lloyd Jackson and Misses Jessie Brunell, Marjorie Zsigler, Jean Farwell, Jane T ~~ .’-n- wic e< Marjorie Horne and Mary Buckler.

A Day’s Menu Breakfast — Baked pears, cereal cooked with raisins, cream, cornmeal pancakes, brown sugar syrup, milk, coffee. Luncheon — Kale scalloped with bacon, celery and apple salad, graham rolls, caramel rice pudding, milk, tea. Dinner — Pot roast of veal with gravy, riced potatoes, kohl-rabi in mock Hollandaise sauce, stuffed prune salad, steamed cup puddings, milk, coffee.

When Your Cough Hangs On, Mix This at Home Saves Good Money! No Cooking! If you want the best cough remedy that money can buy, mix it at home. It costs very little, yet it’s the most reliable, quick-acting medicine you ever used. The way it takes hold of stubborn coughs, giving immediate relief, is astonishing. Any druggist can supply you with 2Vi ounces of Pinex. Pour this into a pint bottle, and add granulated sugar syrup to make a full pint. To make syrup, use 2 cups of sugar and one cup of water, and Stir a few moments until dissolved. No cooking needed. It’s no trouble at all. and gives you four times as much cough medicine for your money —a real family supply. Keeps perfectly and tastes fine. It is surprising how quiekly this loosens the germ-laden phlegm, soothes and heals the inflamed membranes, clears the air passages, and thus ends • severe cough in a hurry. Pinex is a compound of Norway Pine, in concentrated form, the most reliable healing agent for severe coughs. It is guaranteed to give prompt relief money refunded. -Advertisement.

MRS. NESSLER IS NEW LEGION HEAD Mrs. Frank Nessler was elected president of the Hamilton Berry chapter, Service Star Legion, at a meeting yesterday at the home of Mrs. William L. Horn, 3020 Washington boulevard, Mrs. D. M. Par-

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ry. retiring president, was chosen honorary president. Other officers are Mrs. Olla McDowell, first vice-president; Mrs. Bruce Maxwell, second vice-presi-dent; Mrs. Linton Cox, third vicepresident; Mrs. George Spiegel, fourth vice-president; Mrs. F. M. Conner, fifth vice-president; Mrs. H. L. Waterbary, corresponding sec-.

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retary; Mrs. E. H. Purcell, recording secretary; Mrs. Horn, membership secretary; Mrs. O- E. Green, treasurer; Mrs. Cora Young Wiles, historian; Mrs. Ethel Rathert. Gold Star chairman, and Mrs. D. H. Fatout, chaplain. A social hour followed the business meeting.