Indianapolis Times, Volume 45, Number 181, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 December 1933 — Page 24

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Hospital to Be Aided by Guild Party j Hundreds of Patients Share in Benefits Group Provides. BY BEATRICE KURGAN ! Timet Woman’s Pate F.ditor '\/'OU may dance and be gay with the spirit of the holiday season |at ?h p St. Margarets Hospital Guild Sdinner dance Saturday night at the Athletic Club. You |can be cheered by tne guests 7 support, for proceeds will provide help jgduring the winter to hundreds of Jppatients at the ritv hospital, t If you've never known the scope |of the guild's activities, a chat with aMrs. Donaldson Trone will be reve a 1 in g. “You

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know our guild is non - sectarian,” ihe explained as ihe described its founding. ‘ While Dr. Lewis Brown, -ector of St. Paul's Episcopal church, in 1907 was responsible for the. organization of a small group of women into a guild to assist with phil anthropic work at the hospital, religion is not con-

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Sidered in qualifications for mem- -’ t Mrs. Trone was enthusiastic about Burdsall unit, added to the hospital in 1914. “The walls of eight y ards were decorated with paintings fcy Indiana artists, who were paid Sv funds provided by the guild, and ‘two children’s wards were furnished "bv the guild. Patients enjoy seeing ‘the colorful pictures, which provide a cheerful contrast to the cold white walls of hospital rooms.” Bring Joy to Children It is a joy, she explained, to witjjrgs the children’s elation when they are given clothing, toys, games And books during Christmas and faster seasons. They anticipate With eagerness the entertainments and parties held for them at the fcospital by the guild. ’? The guild from the first has concentrated its attention on children’s Deeds. Cheer projects have been Continued, but the occupational therapy department is now considered the principal contribution to the rehabilitation of both children Anri adults. J Mrs. Grace L. Bennett, director, teaches the patients various crafts. Winch definitely aid correction of physical impediments. Trained therapists instruct them in weaving. Wood working, basketry, leather work and sewing, and the finished products are sold to enlarge the guild's funds. Maintains Library Mrs. Bennett describes the department's purpose. "It is meant to re-establish, re-educate and rehabilitate the patient, socially, mentally and physically,” she explains. Members who do not assist at the hospital, work at the lending library. maintained at 415 East Thirty-fourth street, or exert efforts to insure success of its two annual social events, a May day party and the Christmas dinner dance. As you dine and dance Saturday night, guild members would have you realize your contribution to the care and treatment of more than 1.509 patients at the hospital. c/.rs WILL GIVE INDIANA PROGRAM A Christmas program and observance of Indiana day will be field by the McGuffey Club at 2 Saturday in Cropsey auditorium ol Central library. Mrs. Mary Traub Busch, assisted by Carolyn Ayers Turner, will be in charge of the program. Mrs. Elva Fellars will sing, accompanied by Mrs. Gladys Bevis. Bobbie Bevis will give a piano recital. W. A. Mason will talk on Indiana. Others on the program are John Newlin. Catherine Hughes and Mrs. C. M. Cannadav. Board to Meet Junior board of directors of the Children's museum will meet at 10 tomorrow morning at the museum, 1150 North Meridian street.

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Manners and Morals BY JANE JORDAN ■

Are you unhappy? Put your situation before Jane Jordan, who will help you see the cause of your difficulty, and steer you in the rijht direction. Dear Jane Jordan—l have been married eight years and have a lovely home but no children. I am a good woman and respected by all who know me. I don’t know if my husband really doesn’t trust me, or if he just wants me to. think he doesn't, but, oh, the

tongue lashings I get from him! He insinuates that I nave men here at the house while he is working ind intimate with :hem. He says people have put him wise to what I am doing. He has more desire than I have. If I refuse he says, "Who has been here to and a y?” Some-

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times I comply just to keep from having a fuss, but that is cheapening and is killing my love for him. If I had been bad it wouldn't be so hard to bear, but I've always been straight, and now to have to take slurs like this is almost more than I can bear. He is not like this all the time. When he isn't, he is a wonderful man. BROWNIE. Answer—lt is impossible to make an accurate answer from the material which you present, but it may be that your husband is condemning you for sins which he would like to commit himself. Your letter reveals that he is more sexed than you are. Although you are not a frigid woman, you leave a large portion of ungratified desire for which your husband has found no outlet. His inhibitions prevent his set- j tling the problem by an extra- j marital arrangement, but no doubt j he wishes he could do so. His wish, j however, is blocked by his conven- j tional conscience. and pushed sternly back into the unconscious portion of his mind, where it lives to torment him against his will and almost without his knowledge. Now we come upon that curious psychological phenomenon whereby j the individual projects his unconscious conflict on to the person of another, and imagines the other to be guilty of the weakness which lurks within himself. He can not accuse himself with comfort, but he

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can relieve his inner tension by condemning you. It may be that your husband works under conditions which are erotically stimulating. Os course this is only a guess at some of the factors which you do not know. If it is true, then it is natural that his pent-up desire should flow towards its chosen love-object. You, on the other hand, have not been exposed to the same stimulus, and do not respond. It is not wise for you to force yourself for such empty service nearly always rests in complete frigidity. The only sensible thing for you to do is to persuade your husband to go with you to some competent authority who can help you to make a more happy adjustment. n o a Dear Jane Jordan—l am 18, married to a boy 21, and we have a small son. There are many things to excuse a boy’s actions, but at times he is almost impossible. I have tried to live with his parents, but couldn't make a go of it. Now I am living with my parents while he is living with his parents. He comes to see me whenever he takes a notion. Sometimes every night and sometimes misses a week He stays in a good humor about two weeks and then wants to quit for good, saying that we don't love each other, and that he wishes he never had married. Then he is back again saying that he loves me more than life itself and will get a place for us to live. My parents say he is not worth worrying about. Should I go on this way or end it all by divorce? MRS. X. Answer—Your youthful husband shouldered a task far beyond his ability to perform when he became a husband and father before he was 21. You might as well ask a child who is learning the multiplication table to work a problem in integral calculus. There is something very deterio-

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Above (left to righti—Mrs. Edward J. Bennett, Miss Evelyn Chambers and Mrs. Ewing Sinclair. Below (left to right)—Mrs. Louis Hursmann, Mrs. Kenneth Ogle and Mrs. Kurt Pantzer. Junior League shop at 158 East Fourteenth street, will continue 1 its holiday ‘‘rendezvous” today i and tomorrow and will serve tea | to visitors in the afternoon. Miss Evelyn Chambers in the upper picture is selling Christmas decorations to Mrs. Edward J. j Bennett and Mrs. Ewing Sinclair, who is chairman of the shop. Mrs. Kurt Pantzer is modeling one of the shop’s negligee, which is being admired by Mrs. Louis Louis Huesmann and Mrs. Kenneth Ogle. The “rendezvous” began yesterday with the shop arranged with exhibits of work of the league’s departments. THREE ART SHOW ENTRIES ARE SOLD Exhibit committee of the Indianapolis Jtinior League reports the sale of three entries in the league downtown exhibit of work of Indiana artists at L. S. Ayres & Cos. Patrons attending have voted for their favorite picture in the exhibit and Mrs. T. Harvey Cox announces that ballots for the first contest will be counted tomorrow. A similar contest will be held next week. The exhibit will continue until Dec. 16. The exhibit has attracted many interested Hoosiers throughout the state. > H. A. C. GROUP TO HOLD PARTY Auction bridge section, Hoosier Athletic Club, will hold a Christmas party for members at 12:30 Friday. Dec. 15. at the Green Hat. Reservations are to be made Mrs. Donald E. Page by Tuesday night. Hostesses include Carl B. Shafer, Mrs. Page, Mrs. C. E. Hendrix and Mrs. Mary Hendren. rating to character in assuming problems to which the individual has not yet grown up. It often is discovered that the most incorrigible child is one who is pushed beyond his ability to learn. Remove the stress and the child becomes amiable. I know of no solution unless the two sets of parents will come to the rescue and help you maintain a modest residence apart from them If the boy could be persuaded to assume a certain amount of responsibility which would be increased gradually in proportion to his ability to carry it, he might function very well and become a useful citizen. But if he is expected to stagger under the whole weight with nc equipment, he only will escape or the useiess side of life and defend his weakness by childish laments and excuses.

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Miss Morgan Will Aid at Supper Fete ! Jniversity Women’s Party Will Be Held at Shover School. Miss Vera Morgan and the membership committee will be hostesses 1 for the buffet supper for members and guests of the Indianapolis branch. American Association of, University Women at 6:30 Tuesday at the Claire Ann Shover Nursery school, 3265 North New Jersey street. This will be the general j meeting of the association for December. Mrs. Harold Robinson will give a book review to be followed by special Christmas music, including the singing of carols. Miss Jenna Birks,' chairman of legislation, will give a summary of research relative to state support of public education. ■ Mrs. H. B. Pike, chairman of radio ! in education, will present “Radio As An Instrument of Education in I Modern Life.” Mrs. A. B. Carlile, social chair- ; man has charge of arrangements, I and Mrs. John Waldo, telephone 1 chairman, has charge of reservaI tions.

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Miss Lillian Pickens Tells of Experiences in India

BY ELIZABETH CARR “I always bring a bit of India with ' me to challenge people's minds.” j explained Miss Lillian Pickens, evangelist and social worker from Satara, India, as she arranged bits of oriental finery about the Y. W. C. A. lecture room yesterday afternoon. Miss Pickens, who is in the city for the United Foreign Missionary conferences, spoke at a tea under the auspices of the Y. W. world fellowship committee. She is well acquainted with women of all casts in India, having worked many years in welfare centers. It was through the Y. W. conference in Colorado that Miss Pickens got the idea of mission service. "I was standing at the top of a great mountain looking into space, when I decided that if I only had one life to live, why not invest it where there was the most need?” Asa result Miss Pickens traveled to India where her father took charge of a school in Bombay and she taught a group of boys. Later she spent all her time working with girls. It is Miss Picken’s idea that America and Americans need to respect India. “I want to show that India is not poverty stricken, although impoverished.” she said. “In one section is a group of men and women, who, although they live on 5 and 6 cents a day, can produce beauty in weaving and embroidering material and articles of clothing far beyond our conception.” She explains that they have artistic sense of color value, passed down to them from generation to generation, without any of the family have education, even sufficient to read or write. "Caste separates people so drastically in India, and each caste has its own method of worship,” she said. "The Mohammedans loath idolatry, and the Hindu make idols of everything.” Miss Pickens, who has been active in the organization of Girl Guide work, explained how rapidly the interst grew after the native leaderst themselves became interested. She told of one young woman who

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worked in the training camps and traveled thousands of miles in organizing the Girl Guides. “And all this training was passed by word of mouth as until just a few weeks ago, there never was a book printed on the subject, in their language. This was no light matter for women to take the pledge of guiding. In all the two hundredodd languages in India there is no work for ’honor’,” Miss Pickens said. Miss Pickens told of the Mohammedan woman who made light of a Hindu worshipper, remonstrating to her with. “After all, she is merely asking for blessing in her own way. Can’t we respect their spirit of idolatry and their attempt to be Christ-like, for after all, as Dr E. Stanley Jones said, "God was in India before we got there.’ ” Dr. Rebecca Parrish, who recently returned from the Philippine Islands, and Mrs. Former S. Cannon poured at the tea table. Mrs. John E. Seybert is chairman of the world fellowship committee and Miss Amy G. Bruce, general secretary. Brookside Dance Set Women’s Club of Brookside community will sponsor a dance at 8:30 tonight at the community hall.

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DEC. 8, 1933

Primping to Be Revived in New Era Return to Grand Manner of Living to Bring Many Changes. BY C. RETT A PALMER Timrs Special Writer. NEW YORK. Dec. B.—Now that the Lillian Russell tradition is coming back, it is going to be a great deal more work to be a woman. For the era of casual, windblown charm is at an end. We were allowed to go uncorseted for a long time. We could get away with slamming little felt toques on one side of our heads and slinging a sweater over a tweed skirt and calling it a costume. It was down-

right bad taste to look too j soignee, too pre- ! arranged. The j idea was to be I effortless and I "cute.” I Well, nobody ; is going to be ' encouraged to |be cute from now on. It simply does not fit ■ into the picture of Lucullan j feasts and Burj gandy with the j game course ! and all the othi er paraphernalia

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|of rich living. Sumptuous is what you’ve got to be, my girl, and you | may just as well realize now that ! it is going to cut into your day. Daily Hair Care Required Curves will be popular, but the curves will have to be in the right places, and that means an attention to the scales and to the tape meas- | ure unknown in the old lighthearted j days, when it was enough to be j skinny. You will find yourself tak- | ing an inch off your abdomen at | the same time as you are adding i an inch to your bosom. Then you | will enclose the whole into a very | grand, made-to-order corset —no 1 more of this casual bundling of the form into a four-inch band of 1 rubber. I Already the hairdressers have j done all in their power—with the I full co-operation of the milliners—jto make a visit to one of their ] establishments a daily necessity. \ Those so charming little curls that | will not stay in for more than j twelve hours at a time already have cut into the time many a woman used to spend with her children. More is to come. Manners to Be Better Sloppiness of manners has accompanied sloppiness of dress among women of the post-war generation. Now we shall have a taste of the grand manner. A lorgnetted j point of view will make its appear- ; ance. We are going to have to learn [ a lot of things about stature and carriage and the proper number of calling cards to leave if the tidings are not mistaken. The return to gracious living will have its undoubted aesthetic appeal. But there will be.no more of this running a comb through your hair and dashing to a speakeasy straight from the office. Rearrange your schedule now. In another few months you will have to find a good hour in the afternoon for the making of your toilet before you are worthy to appear at the lavish dinner parties which the new times are bringing.