Indianapolis Times, Volume 43, Number 171, Indianapolis, Marion County, 26 November 1931 — Page 8

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City Couple Wedded at i Holy Cross Holy Cross Catholic church ■was the scene of the marriage of Miss Clara Schell, to Theodore Bedell, son of Mr. and Mrs. G. V. Bedell, 1424 Marlow avenue, at 9 this morning. The Rev. William F. Keefe officiated, and Father Victor Goossens said the nuptial mass. A bank of white chrysanthemums and white roses formed the background for the service, with cathedral candles lighting the altar. Pews reserved for the fanfllies were tied with bows of white ribbon, and clusters of flowers. Elmer Steffen sang an “Ave Maria,” and ‘‘Oh, Promise Me.” The church organist played. The bride was given in marriage by her brother-in-lato, R. F. Sexton. She wore an empire gown of w’hite bridal satin, the long tight sleeves joining at the shoulder line with small puffs. The bodice was fitted, and the skirt very long and full. Mrs. Sexton Matron of Honor She wore a lace veil, fashioned with a cap, and trimmed At the sides with orange blossoms, and wore a strand of pearls belonging to the bridegroom's mother. She carried her grandmother’s lace wedding handkerchief. Her flowers were a sheaf of bridal lilies. Mrs. Sexton was her sister’s matron of honor. She wore a gown of pink satin, with fitted bodice, long skirt, and cape collar. She wore a white velvet turban, and white gloves and slippers, and carried pink roses. Miss Rachel McGoren was maid of honor, and Miss Myla Smith bridesmaid. Miss McGoren wore turquoise blue, and Miss Smith orchid satin, fashioned like that of Mrs. Sexton, with white velvet turbans, gloves and slippers, and carried pink roses. The bride’s attendants wore her gifts, crystal necklaces to match their gowns. Clarence Haslinger was best man, and Evon Boucher and Irvin Lavery were ushers. The flower girl, Ruella Marie Sexton, niece of the bride, wore green satin, with moline veil, and carried a basket of rose petals. The ring bearer, William Siebert, was dressed in a white satin suit, and carried the ring in a lily. Breakfast Is Given A wedding breakfast for the bridal party, and members of theif families was served after the ceremony. The table was centered with a wedding cake, on a plateau of pink roses. Appointments were in pink and green. The bridegroom’s mother wore a gown of black lace, and shoulder corsage of pink roses. , Mr. and Mrs. Bedell will be at home at 1230 Golf Terrace, Union, N. J. They will leave immediately after the breakfast for their home, going by motor, by way of the Great Lakes, and the Hudson river. The bride will wear a traveling suit of orchid tweed, trimmed with beige fur, with beige accessories. Mr. and Mrs. Bedell both attended Butler university, where she was a member of the Delta Delta Delta sorority.

Benefit Dance to Be Held at Indiana Dec. 11 Newly organized inter-fraternity and sorority council of Indianapolis will sponsor a benefit dance Dec. 11 at the Indiana ballroom. Proceeds will be used for the Made Work Relief fund, being sponsored by city officials. Charlie Davis and his orchestra, and the orchestra now playing at the ballroom will provide music. Burton Smith, a member of Phi Delta Kappa fraternity is general chairman. The council is composed of representatives from sixty-eight noncollegiate sororities and fraternities in the city. Others, not belonging to the council, who wish to join, and help with the dance are asked to notify Smith. TREASURE HUNT TO BE STAGED DEC. 5 Mr. and Mrs. Leon Desautels and Mr. and Mrs. George Hoster are arranging a treasure hunt to be held next Saturday night, Dec. 5 with the Highland Golf and Country Club as a starting point. A buffet supper will be served after 11. The treasure hunt is the second of a series being held by a group of young people, the winners acting as hosts for the next hunt. BROWNSTOWN GIRL TO BE MARRIED Tty Timex Special BROWNSTOWN, Ind., Nov. 26. The marriage of Miss Jean Kieffer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John E. Kieffer, to Frank Callier Martin, will take place today 'it the Brownstown Methodist Episcopal church. The bride is a graduate of National Park Seminary. Washington. D. C., and also attended Mary Baldwin Seminary, Stanton, Va. Mr. and Mrs. Martin will make their home in Columbus, Ga.

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—WHAT’S IN FASHION?—

NEW YORK. Nov. 26.—1f on your travels on this Thanksgiving day you see dresses with high surplice closing—dresses with “buttonedover” effects—coats with crossed, buttoned scarfs—coats and dresses with pointed flares at the elbows . . . call tnese “Bruyere details,” and ninety-nine times out of a hundred you’ll be right. When you call them that, pronounce it Bru-yair, making that letter u a combination of oo and e, as the French do. Tills familiar fashion name wasn’t familiar as little as three years ago. Bruyere, who had been a designer of the famous Lanvin, was then just beginning to be known as head of her own design house. Known for Coats Her coats first brought her to the attention of Americans. She buttoned them high and used wide crossed scarfs on them—a fashion that made a wide appeal to the women who like to look tailored. She still excels in tailored fashions and in many of her afternoon dresses you find a somewhat tailored effect. She likes high necklines on her dresses. You can see in the left-hand figure how she manages some of them without actually using a high collar. Her surplice lines are built up higher than most others. They’re apt to button on the surplice point, too, because of all ways of fastening and all ways of trimming, Bruyere likes buttons best. Buttons Decorative She buttons scarfs down onto the dress' or coat. She buttons one color onto another. She places buttons at important points to draw the attention to those points and emphasize them. Some of her newest coats she closes with big bone or jet buttons — decorative as well as useful. Bruyere’s most popular coats still carry scarfs that button over—one side on the other—or down onto the fabric. Some of these newer scarfs continue on down into the. front of the coat to make the new fur plastron fashion. She uses lots of Persian lamb for coat trimmings and on one of her latest coats has had astrakhan dyed blue. In fact, blue is one of her favorite colors and just lately she has

(MAN N£M* nd MORALS! By Jan£ JokdAn XP;

EVERY Times reader should feel free to write to Jane Jordan for advice. The longer your letters are, the easier it is for her to help you. Write your letter now and feel better for pouring out your heart. Dear Jane Jordan—l hone von can solve this problem, and tell me just what I should do. I want so much to be fair and just. I was In the World war and am old enough to know life. I have been married and divorced. Mv wife ran away with another man. Now I am home, and right out In my own back yard I fall in love, a love that is so sweet and heavenly It has made me long for a home. For the first time in mv life. I can see that life is really worth while and is sweet. The woman is married. I have known her for years. She used to Play at our house and was just like a sister to me. Whpn she was fifteen she had bad luck and an illegitimate child was bom. She was turned down bv her own people, but she went out into the world alone, fought the battle, got a job and kept the child. When she was 18. she married another man. He knew the story of her past and promised to adopt the child. But after he got her. he would not accept the child. He does not allow his wife anv spending money or take her anv place where it costs money. In fact, he has made her hate him. I have lived next door to them for the last two veaTS and have loved her for the woman she is and the way she has tried to make a go of their married life. Now we have fallen in love and she wants to get a divorce and marry me. I am madly in love with her and would give the child mv name and think I was a lucky man to get a woman like her. I do not know whether her husband loves her or not. • He is a drinking man and I sometimes think it might break his heart and he would drink himself to death. I could make her a real nice home, far better than she has now. _and make her happy. So Miss Jordan, please tell me what I should do. FAIR AND JUST. Dear fair and just— you can’t do anything until the woman gets her freedom. For the present, this is her problem and not yours. As I understand it, you did not come between the woman and her husband. She learned to hate him before you came into the picture. Therefore, let her settle her problem with her husband first. Her action should be guided entirely by what is best for her child. She has stuck to the little one through thick and thin and become an outcast for its sake. She probably married hoping to make' a home for the baby. Her husband in the first flush of his love for her promised to care for the child, too, and then went back on his promise. Any mother would leave a home where her child was not welcome, and think a long while before she believed another man’s promises. I scarcely think that any man would drink himself to death over the loss of a woman whom he mistreats and whose illegitimate child he has not learned to love. Men have died and worms have eaten them, but not for love. In that mother's place I would not consider any man's feelings "who interfered with the welfare of my child. As someone has said, it is not the child that is illegitimate, but the parents! Therefore, an illegitimate mother owes her innocent baby the happiest environment she can find for it. You seem to know your own mind in this matter. I hope your estimate of the woman is correct. I hope she has repented and atoned for her mistake—that she has the courage to face he world alone once more for the sake of the happiness of the baby, who is her chief responsibility. If she is a woman cf this caliber, you couldn’t do a finer think than make a home for her and give your name to the child, when the time comes. But what can you do until she proves herself? Just be sure you know what you are doing. You have been deceived once and do not want to make a second mistake. Are you sure you

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brought out anew purlish-blue shade which i§ called ‘‘Bruyere blue.” Or all Bruyere still likes to belt her coats a • • and patent leather belts are a fa- 11 L ‘ m vorite kind with her. Bruyere (CoDvrlebt. 1931. by Amos Parrisht likeS buttOYlS Next—You’ll love the new winter “woolies” Amos Parish tells you about.

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will make a kind and patient father, or will you give down, as the other man did? Was it all his fault, do you think? You’re old enough to decide these matters for yourself. But even if you die tomorrow, that rflother should refuse the care of any man who can not accept her little child also. n a Dear Jt.ne Jordan—ls there any harm In giving a boy friend a good-night kiss? I don’t mean that that includes “spooning” when ever he takes a notion, but just a godnight kiss. I went W'ith a boy for about a year and we kissed each other good-night until we quit. Neither of us was in love. Just good friends. What was wrong with that? Os course I don’t believe in letting every Tom. Dick and kiss you, and I wouldn’t, either. But what’s the matter with letting a good friend kiss you occasionally. Anything? TO DO. DEAR TO DO—I can see no harm in kissing as such. The trouble seems to be that it never stops with kissing. One thing leads ,to another until the young people find themselves involved in emotions which they can not handle. Most of the letters I receive deal with problems so much more serious than kissing that it is rather delightful to find one girl concerned with whether or not she should kiss the boys. But sometimes I think that there are more serious complications, started sometimes with a kiss. You seem to be a young lady of some discrimination and fastidious tastes. I imagine that if you always trust your better judgment, it will not lead you far afield. WOODRUFF PLACE TO HAVE DANCE Residents of Woodruff Place and their friends will be entertained at a Thanksgiving dance to be given tonight at the Woodruff Place club house. Mrs. John M. Dlls, social chairman for the season is in charge. Members of the assisting committee are: Mesdames Norman L. Schneider. William T. Randall, Edmund Berry, Walter Hiatt, Schuvler C. Mowrer, Harry Epley, Orris Stanfield, and Ernest Michaelis. Reservations may be made from any member of the committee, or chairman of each of the three drives.

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Bridal Dinner Will Be Given Local Couple Mrs. Ethel Siebert will entertain tonight at Cooper's Grille with a bridal dinner in honor of Miss Clara Schell, and her fiance, Theodore Bedell, who will be married at 9 Thanksgiving morning at Holy Cross Catholic church. Guests will be members of the bridal party, including Mr. and Mrs. Ruel Sexton, sister and brother-in-law of the bride; Misses Myla Smith and Rachel McGoren; Clarence Haslinger, Eton Boucher, and Irvin Lavery. Miss Schell will present her attendants with crystal necklaces, pink, in orchid, and turquoise, respectively ,to match their gowns. Bedell will give his attendants gifts.

Your Child Caution, Don’t Scold Tommy; He’ll Believe He’s Criminal

BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Do you know that many, many children worry because they think they are bad? I don’t know how we first got the idea that about half the things we do are wicked, but children have the idea of discipline so strongly impressed on them that this is probably the reason that we have grown up that way. We began by feeling that almost any natural impulse is wrong. Children have no sense of proportion, and when they are told repeatedly day in day out that they are bad, they don’t' know just what we mean and jump to the conclusion that they are worse than they really are. Perhaps Tommy has disobeyed orders and gone down to see a smashup or a fire. In our anxiety to impress on him the danger of crowds in traffic, we go for him right, tell him all sorts of things out of proportion to his case. His crime consisted first of all of disobedience, but remember that curiosity and impulse are natural forces under which obedience often falls. To disobey was wrong, but not criminal. Yet perhaps we called him dishonest in our excitement, or cruel to worry us so, or good-for-nothing, or even wicked. Perhaps he didn’t go to a fire, but merely broke a dish or got his shoes muddy, or lost his book. Our own bad humor and our own hysterical emotions cause an outburst absolutely unwarranted by the occasion. Tommy is left again with the idea that he is a worthless young scamp. And if the performance is repeated day after day, it is easy to imagine just what his opinion of himself is going to be, for children take us

Leave for Honeymoon in Chicago Miss Wauneta Reynolds, daughter of the Rev. M. H. Reynolds and Mrs. Reynolds, 312 North California street became the bride of Beniamin F. Stoker, son of Mr. and Mrs. G. H. Stoker, 2157 North Capitol avenue, in a ceremony at 8 Wednesday night at the Memtt Place Methodist church, of which the Rev. Mr. Reynolds is pastor. The brides father officiated. , Palms and ferns were banked in the chancel, and interspersed with baskets of autumn blossoms. Miss Isabelle Mossman, organist, played, and accompanied Clifford, Long, who sang “To a Wild Rose. Sister Only Attendant Miss Gertrude Reynolds was her sister's oply attendant. She wore blue taffeta fashioned with fitted bodice and flounced skirt, with large pink bow marking the natural waistline in the back. She carried pink rose buds, and wore pink lace mitts. , ~ Haldon Stoker, brother of the bridegroom, was the best man. Paul Antler and George Thompson were ushers. The flower girls, Dorothy Jean Reynolds and Joan Busby, wore pink and blue net, respectively, and carried pink rose buds. Wears Princess Gown The bride was given in marriage by her brother, Frank Reynolds. She wore a princess gown of white satin, with veil of white tulle, falling from a cap of lace, trimmed with orange blossoms. She carried a shower bouquet of brides roses. A reception at the home of the bride’s parents followed the ceremony. Mrs. Reynolds received in a gown of blue crepe. Mr. and Mrs. Stoker have left for a honeymoon trip to Chicago, Mrs. Stoker traveling in a frock of black crepe, with black accesories. They will be at home at 2010 North Meridian street, Apt. 217.

BIT OF EVERYTHING —'IDEAL CO-ED’

By United Press EVANSTON, 111., Nov. 26.—The “ideal co-ed,” as described by Northwestern university fraternity men in answers to a questionnaire: Must pet on the first date. Be an intimate dancer. Have a good figure. Have poor technique so she can be taught how to pet. She need not be beautiful, only nice looking. She must have good tatse in dress, must not use cosmetics to excess, nor chew gum. She should be a perfect companion, sympathetic, understanding, devilish, wistful, dominant, inspiring, neat and dean, unselfish, and if not intellectual, at least capable of talking about something. And another thing, she must not wear Empress Eugenie hats. %

literally—how can tliey guess that we are only letting off steam and do not mean half of what we say? Words sink in and eventually leave their mark. In time, of course, Tommy gets hardened, but that does not lessen his idea that he is past saving—in fact, it is largely because of this notion that he does get hardened. When a child is thoroughly saturated with the idea of his worthlessness, he loses all ambition to be honorable. Perhaps he feels that he may as well have the game as the name, or perhaps it is because all the finer feelings dry up when self respect is gone, or he may just feel that it is useless to try to be good because he gets blamed no matter what happens. WASHABLE BLACK GLOVES STYLISH Sincle black gloves are so fashionable it’s a comfort to know that washable black gloves now are obtainable. Here are the directions enclosed with a pair of black kid gloves discovered recently: 1. Wash in hot water with pure soap. 2. Rinse thoroughly in clear hot water until the soap is extracted completely. Be sure no soap remains in the gloves. 3. Blot dry, flat in a towel, to prevent water from running on gloves. Then blow into the gloves and hang up to dry in a moderate temperature. Keep away from fire or radiators. Before completely dry, put them on so as to reshape them. When dry, rub on the hands.

Miss Virginia Gabard to Marry in Rites at St. Paul’s Church

Marriage of Miss Virginia Gabard, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Athos E. Gabard, 615 Orange street, to Clarence Stevens Jr. will be solemnized at high noon today at St. Paul's Lutheran church, with the Rev. H. M. Zorn offiicating. Only members of the bridal party will be present. The bride will wear a gown of deep blue transparent velvet, with two white gardenias at the neckline, abd will carry white chrysanthemums. The bridesmaids will be Miss Dorothy Gabard, sister of the bride, and Miss Marian Landmeier. Miss Gabard will wear blue velvet, and Miss Landmeier blue satin. They will carry yellow button chrysanthemums. The bridegroom's attendants will

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be Elmer Egerding and Kenneth Click. A breakfast for the families of the bridal party will be served after the ceremony at the home of the bride's parents. The table will be centered with a wedding cake and lighted with white tapers. The bride and bridegroom will spend their honeymoon in Chicago and will be at home Monday at 1306 Olive street. The bride will travel in a frock of black wool crepe, with black accessories. Dolls Vo Eugenie ’ Even the well-dressed doll has gone in for Empress Eugenie fashions. Anew one wears her hat, a real tricorne, tip tilted down over the right eye.

.NOV. 26, 1931

Mrs. Goodman to Be Hostess at Luncheon Mrs. Jack Goodman will bo hostess for the luncheon at the Indianapolis Athletic Club Friday for Jehan Warliker, following his appearance at 11 at English's under the auspices of Indianapolis Town Hall. Warliker, who is Prince Seeodia of India, will speak at English’s on, “A Panorama of India.” He will bo introduced by Hale Mac Keen, director of the Civic theater. Members of Mrs. Goodman’s committee include Mr. and Mrs. Mortimer Furscott, Mrs. Raymond Van Camp, Mrs. Kathryn Turney Garten. Mrs. Arthur Meyer and Jacob Miller.