Indianapolis Times, Volume 43, Number 166, Indianapolis, Marion County, 20 November 1931 — Page 19

NOV. 20, 1931

Women Aid Shows for Poor Relief Indianapolis women are bending their efforts to making the benefit shows being presented by the Palace, Lyric, and Indiana theaters, Saturday night, a (great success. Proceeds from the venture will go to the Chamber of Commerce unemployed relief fund. Mrs. David Ross, chairman of the women’s division, has announced three organizations which will aid in the ticket selling campaign: A public relations committee of the Indianapolis Business and Professional Women’s Club, composed of Miss Glen D. Anderson, chairman: Dr. Marie B. Kast, Mrs. Stella Coleman, Misses Amelia Klipple, Mamie Bass, Mary Kynett, Pearl Holloway and Marie Tubor; a committee from Daughters* of the Union, and one from Woman’s Municipal Gardens Department Club. Chaperones for the Indiana ballroom also have been announced as follows: Messrs. and Mesdames Clayton Ridge, Everett M. Schofield, Fred H. Knodel, Dr. and Mrs. William J. Hoag, Mesdames Melissa Jane Polk, C. F. New, Louis Kreuger, Raymond Stoneklng, Carrie Hammcl, Belle Tutewller and Miss Margaret OrndorfT. Those who will act as hosts at the Lyric ballroom are: Messrs, and Mesdames William Bartholomew, William Freund, 8. H. Greenburg, W. H. Hacker, James E. Sproule, Albert Bretthauer, Mesdames J. E. Barcus, Jesse Marshall, Victor Hlntze, and E. L. Burnett.

MANNERS JORDA/y

Tj RING your emotional problems to Jane Jordan, who will help you to find a solution. Address your letters to The Times and they will be answered in this column as soon as possible. If you want a personal answer, send stamps. Dear Jane Jordan—Will you nlease : write something about how to avoid family quarrels? I think m,y husband is very unreasonable with our two daughters, though one of them nearly always can get around him some way or other. I am sick of trying to keep peace in the family. Can you tell me how to do it? PEACEMAKER Dear Peacemaker—The most difficult art in the world is the art of living together. Group life without conflicts is impossible, but a thorough knowledge of human nature helps to reduce the number of conflicts, and assists in their solution. If you wish to control behavior of your family, go about getting this result in an intelligent, scientific manner. Remember that you never can get what you want by antagonizing people, or by engaging in a free-for-all family quarrel. Nearly every family has its pet, from whom the rest of the family profitably could take lessons. Have you never seen a favorite daughter wrap her father around her finger, no matter what his reputation for unreasonableness with the rest of the family? “She knows how to work him,” you say. Well, why don't you watch how she does it? Unconsciously or not, she uses l sound psychology in her methods. “Father, dearest, you are so per- j fectly wonderful to me. You always I have given me everything I want. Please may I have six girls to luncheon at the club?” Analyze the effect of her statement on father. First, she has made him feel superior. She contrasted her frail femininity with his strong masculinity. She emphasized her dependence on him. She appealed to his protective sense, which is one of the strongest factors in the masculine makeup. She inflated his ego, and made him feel a sense of power. All this she accomplished with one swift, sure stroke and while he was enjoying the glow of this pleasant mood, she cleverly tucked in her request. The result is that father is far more helpless in her hands than if she had hit him on the head with a bludgeon. So you have a little psychologist in your family? It will pay the rest of the famih' to understudy her. u o a Dear Jane Jordan —We are three young high school girls, who want to hear what you have to say about necking. We find we are not popular with the boys unless we do a certain amount of it. Our parents think necking is terrible. BIG THREE. Dear Girls—Shall I let him kiss me? This is a question which puzzles dozens of young girls who, while they have no desire to indulge in promiscuous petting, still do not wish to make themselves unpopular by a too rigid standard of conduct. Few people in this modern day believe that a girl is abandoned just because she has been kissed a few times. A kiss may mean everything or nothing, according to the variety. There is the flavorless peck of duty exchanged between husbands and wives. Then there is the kiss of friendship, which, however, unsanitary it may be, certainly is harmless from a moral point of view. The lover’s kiss is the one under consideration, and for very good reasons it does not belong to the adolescent period of life. At this age the young are mentally immature and unprepared to cope with mature emotions. It is better, then, to avoid that which tends to stimulate such emotions. Every period in life has its pleasures. It is a grave mistake for youth to hasten into situations which require the adult viewpoint for intelligent handling. In mathematics we do not try to learn the back part of the arithmetic first, but solve each problem according to its place in the book. Life is much easier to live if we learn the simple lessons first, and do not attempt to solve its more complicated propositions before we have been prepared for them by preliminary experiences. DEMOCRATIC CLUB TO HOLD SESSION Marion County Women’s Democratic Club will hold a supper meeting Tuesday night, Nov. 24. at the Indiana Democratic club. The committee in charge is Mesdames George Dryden Yeazel, P. C. Kelley, and T. P. Sexton. Mrs. Yeazel is the president, and will preside. Reservations may be made with any of the committee, or at the Democratic club before noon Monday.

What’s in Fashion?

Coats With Dressy Air Directed By AMOS PARRISH

New YORK, Nov. 20.—We’re just back from lunch at the new Waldorf-Astoria in the Sert room, already famous and the Mecca of curious visitors because of its walls paneled in murals depicting the adventures of Don Quixote. And our first impression of the feminine lunchers there—the room was filled and a line waiting for places—was . . . how dressed up they look! It wasn’t tbecause they belonged to the moneyed class, either—though most of them did. We get the very same impression when - watching feminine office workers dash in and out of the'r business folks grill. Bulkiness Has Gone It was because of the new winter coats they are wearing. Anybody who wears a smart this-season coat lias to look dressed-up! In the first place all the old bundly, bulky, overcoat look has disappeared. Coats are fitted to the figure which gives you a much more elegant, trim look. The rich furs that are used and the luxurious ways they’re put on give this dressed-up look, too. Collars Decorative So many of those “precious” furs are being used . . . mink, kolinsky, Persian lamb, silver and blue fox, rich Hudson seal. And these furs blend their color with the coat color which gives them a sleeker, more elegant air. Collars aren’t just collars. They’re decorative. One of the most deco- ; rative is that Vionnet criss-cross ; scarf shown on the left hand figure, j You'll see this done in fox, as sketched, or in Persian. * And cuffs aren't just a band of fur, either. They make a double

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sleeve effect, as shown in the other sketch, or a spiral puff or balloon effect. Even sports coats are using more formal fabrics and furs to make them look dressed-up, too. Not a bit too early, is it, to make up the Christmas gift list? A framed picture is a gift generally greeted with a cheer —if it’s the right picture. Fashions in pictures change, too. Write to Amos Parrish, care of The Times, and he will mail you your copy of his suggestions on “the right picture in the right room.” No charge. ICoovrieht 1931. bv Amos Parrish! Next: Velvet wins in the bridge game, says Amos Parrish.

A Day’s Menu Breakfast—rBaked apples, cereal, cream, fried cornmeal mush,' milk, coffee. Luncheon — Baked macaroni and cheese, stewed tomatoes with croutons, rye bread and butter, canned peaches, cup cakes, milk, tea. Dinner — Blanquette of lamb, candied sweet potatoes, green beans in cream, pineapple and cabbage salad, chocolate bread pudding, milk, coffee.

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Club Hears Address by AH Curator Miss Anna Hasselman, curator of paintings at the John Herron Art institute, spoke Thursday night at the dinner meeting of Indianapolis Business and Professional Women’s Club. Frederick E. Shortemeier also spoke briefly for the Marion County Tuberculosis Association Christmas seal sale. A musical program by the La Shelle male quartet preceding Miss Hasselman’s talk, included old favorites and light opera selections. Miss Grace Norwood gave a report of the educational round table that was a part of the national convention held recently in Richmond, Va. Miss Norwood and members of her committee sat at the speakers’ table with Miss Lucy Osborn, president. Mrs. Mary Traub Bush was hostess for the evening. Miss Olive Faulkner, chairman of section nine of*the local organization, entertained members of her section at dinner in the green dining room at the Y. W. C. A. Wednes-

in | Amw L IfSPEM| i J M Q|H| 111 I pffigßh jgjsP V [Tj J j 8! \ BaL 4 BREATH TAKING FEATURES L V 1 I NEW SHIPMENTS! NEW MERCHANDISE! NEW VALUES! % P ) . / . All records have been shattered to smithereens! Crowds packed our store to take advantage of the most sensational bargains ever offered in our X \ |g history. We have been besieged with requests to continue this mighty M TiHfHWfiy X money-saving SALE. We’re holding it over until Saturday night. Come! X. % Sav . c? h Buy! Never again bargain* like these! Come m J Next Door to Lincoln Hotel

day. Miss Pauline Keller, chairman of the ten sections into which the club members are divided for service, was an honor guest. Following dinner, tables were arranged for cards and bunco. Covers were laid for: Mesdames Camille B. Fleig. Amy B. Higgins. Ruth M. Hilkene, R. Harry Miller, Bertha B. Tilton. Mistes Wildie Bowser. Jessie E. Boyce. Theta M. Byrkett. Mame Calpha, Caisv Grafltey. Katherine Graves, Blanche Irish, Alma R. Kampe, Mabel N. Kregeio, Grace Norwood, Cora B. Shepperd and Leafle Williamson. SHRINE LEADER IS IN CITY ON VISIT Mrs. Edwin M. Smith of Philadelphia, grand high priestess of the Ladies Oriental Shrine, is in Indianapolis for an official visit of inspection of the Tamm council. She was entertained by officers of the council at luncheon Thursday at the Lincoln, and met with the group at 8 at the Lincoln. Mrs. Mary Hubbard heads the local group, and Mrs. W. D. Keenan is in charge of arrangements for entertaining Mrs. Smith. W. C. T. U. to Gather Brightwood W. C. T. U. will meet at 2 Tuesday at the Brightwood Methodist Episcopal church, Mrs. Robert McKay, county president, will be the guest speaker. Visitors are invited.

Sigma Alpha lota Chapters to Pay Tribute to National Head

Zeta and Nu Zeta chapters of Sigma Alpha lota sorority will join in a nation-wide tribute to Hazel E, Ritchey, national president of the sorority, at 4 Sunday at Meridian Heights Presbyterian church. Program given at Minneapolis for the national convention of the group will be repeated. Similar programs are being arranged over the country for the same hour. All members of the sorority and friends are invited to attend. The program, which opens with a processional of officers and mem; bers with Mrs. Harold Larsh at the organ, is as follows: Invocation — Lucia Murphy, national chaplain. Mrs. Lenore Roberts. Zeta chaplain. Organ—“ Chorale from Suite for Organ” Bartlett Mrs. Harold Larsh. Organ—“ Chorale Herzlich thut mich verlangen” Bach Miss Marv Elizabeth Johnson. Tribute—"To Jfiss Ritche>.” Elizabeth A. Campbell, founder. Miss Freida Heider. past national president. Vocal Ensemble—- “ Before the Daybreak” Nevin “Lift Thine Eves From Elijah” Mendelssohn “Open Our Eyes” MacFarlane Lissa Cox, Dorothy Bartholomew. Mildred Moore. Edith Pile. Ethelwyne Arnholter. Helen Thoms. Ruth Jones and Elizabeth Whistler; Mrs. Francis

Johnson, director; Miss Mildred Sweeney. pianist, and Miss Johnson, organist. Violin —“Le Deluge" Satnt-Saens Miss Olive Kiler. Mrs. Dorothy Knight Greene, accompanist. Organ—“Resonet ib Laudibus from Cathedral Windows” Karg-Elert “Tu Es Petra” Mulet Miss Johnson. Voice—- “ Litany” Schubert “To the Infinite God” Schubert Mrs. Gladvs Blake, contralto. Mrs. Greene, accompanist. “President's Message”... Hazel E. Ritchey Mrs. Ruth Jones. Vocal Ensemble—" Choral Benediction.” Organ—“ Lead Kindly Light.” Mrs. Larsh. Mclntyr e-Chapman Mr. and Mrs. Fred Mclntyre, 113 Greeley street, announce the marriage of their daughter. Miss Wilma Lorine Mclntyre, to Avery Chapman, son of Mr. and Mrs. Shady Chapman, Jamestown. Ky., which took place Nov. 13. On their return from a wedding trip in Kentucky, Mr. and Mrs. Mclntyre will entertain for them. Mrs. Brigham Hostess Mrs. E. M. Brigham, Marott hotel, entertained at luncheon Thursday at the hotel tor twelve guests.

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Tribute Is Paid Mrs. Kealing, Club Founder “Principles of Real Republicans! ism” was the subject of a talk by Judge Noel C. Neal Thursday at the luncheon meeting of the Woman's Republican Club of Indianapolis at the Columbia Club The speaker paid tribute to Mrs. Joseph B. Kealing. founder of the club, saying tffat she was one of the most ardent Republican workers the state ever had known. Mrs. Walter Krull, president, presided, and Mrs. Edna E. Pauley, recording secretary, introduced the speaker. Judge Neal told the club women that until the redistricting of the statt, it was up to them to work harder than ever before.

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