Indianapolis Times, Volume 43, Number 160, Indianapolis, Marion County, 13 November 1931 — Page 17

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Lillian King Is Honored at Shower Mrs. Fred H. Ketthley, 706 South Sherman drive, entertained Thursday night with a miscellaneous shower honoring Miss Lillian King, whose marriage to Carl F. Hanske will take place Dec. 20. Decorations carried out rainbow colors and shower gifts were concealed in a “pot of gold” at the end of the rainbow. Guests with the bride-elcct and her mother, Mrs. John E. King, included: Mesdames Harry McDonald. Ralph Hart. Carl Svttcr. Elizabeth Bolander, Arthur Madison, Alfred Lademan. Jay Cox. Charles Van Busklrk. Donald Hlrschman. Geor*( Henderson, George Ross. May Smith. Misses Florence and Marjorie McDonald. Mary Armstrong. Pauline Plummer, Mildred Arnholter. Marian Whetstlne and Dorothy Lawson. The hostess was assisted by her sister, Miss Maxine McKay.

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IS there something you would like to get off your chest? Write to Jane Jordan, who will be glad to help you with her sympathetic advice. Write fully and completely, just as if you were writing to an intfmatc friend. Dear Jane Jordan—l am a divorced ■woman, 28 years old, with an 11-year-old boy. I never fell in love until three years ago, when I met a young man whom I know loves me. We are engaged to be married, but his mother opposes me because X am divorced and have a child. She says X am not a fit associate Xor him. She nags and nags at him and says he never could look at another man’s child. He feels like he should listen t.p her and she won’t stop until she parts us. I don’t want to give him up. He bought me a diamond ring and I feel he wants to marry me, but won't while she stands In our way. X hope you can help me, TRUTH. DEAR Truth—The day when divorce was a disgrace is dead. It has been proved time and time again that people who hate each other do themselves and their children more harm in living together t han they do by separating. Divorce does not mean that a woman is either good or bad, but merely that there was one man in the world with whom she could not get along. The fact that you failed in one marriage is no reason to suppose that you will fail in another. Your second husband will get the benefit of all the lessons you learned from your first. Don’t you know ten times as much about making a man happy as you did twelve or thirteen years ago. when you married at the age of 15 or 16? Haven’t you learned selfcontrol and forbearance and the value of holding your tongue when you want to break loose all over the ! scenery? Don’t you know more about housekeeping and economizing in a minute than some giddy young girl j can learn in ten years? Divorce has no harmful effect on the character of an essentially good woman. Your future husband and mother-in-law should judge you by what you are, not by the fact that you have been divorced. But let me tell you, Truth, that unless this man breaks away from his mother’s influence and learns to rely on his own judgment, not hers, you do not want him! It is almost as fatal to choose the wrong mother-in-law as it is the wrong husband! If your husband is dominated by his mother you haven’t a #iance for happiness! ITx matter how good a wife you are, she never will give you credit for a thing and will communicate her prejudice to your husband. You are right that your fiance should treat his mother with every respect, but he should not let her make up his mind for him. If he does this, you are lucky to lose him! Your main duty is to your little boy. Will this rfian be a good stepfather to him, or is he silly enough to be jealous of an innocent child just because his father was another man? Look out for this jealousy, Truth. If you’re going to have to stand between the child and his stepfather all your life, happiness is not for you! Be pleasant and agreeable to the man while he makes up his mind. Don't nag. Don’t throw his mother up to him. Don’t speak ill of her. But watch your step! It is dangerous to marry into a narrow-minded family! r a * Dear Jane Jordan—l am very much in love with a boy and he told me that he cared for me. Lately he has been trying his best to make me jealous. He is very jealous himself and I never do anything to make him feel mad. Lately he doesn’t act as if he likes me as well. What should I do? I think there is no one like him. X. Y. Z. DEAR X. Y. Z.—What you should not do is more important than what you should do. Yo.. ould not run after him, coax, scold, or show that you have noticed his indifference. You're worried because he acts as if he does not like you as as he did. Has it occurred to you to worry him by acting as if you did not like him as well? Jealousy, my dear, is a matter of pure vanity. You're afraid he will like somebody more than he likes you. You’re afraid you are going to lose the person who now makes the happiness of your life. It’s your happiness you are worried about—not his. Jealousy is the most selfish and destructive emotion on earth and constant indulgence in it kills love. Remember this —that love is not a duty and is not subject to the will. You can’t keep a man’s love by building a fence around it. If your boy friend sees all the girls that he wants to and still prefers you, you have something valuable. But if he rushes after every new girl that he sees, why do you want him? " Here's a little tip for you: The smart woman always compliments the woman her lover admires. When he asks you who your girl friends are, sing their praises and urge him to take an interest in them. This is a blow to his vanity which tends to make him work harder for your esteem. Os course R flatters your boy friend when he succeeds in making you jealous. That is why he works so hard at it. Fool him by showing no reaction at all. You’ll soon have him worried to death.

EASTERN GIRL TO WED T. F. BRADY ■ Mrs. wyiiam H. Frost of Chevy Chase. Md., announces the marriage of her niece, Miss Kathryn Patricia Cornette of Washington to Thomas !• rancis Brady, son of Mr. and Mrs. i Thomas W. Brady. 3557 Graceland avenue, Indianapolis. The wedding took place Oct. 31 in Washington, where Mr. Brady is a student at Georgetown university, j Mrs. Brady attended Fairfax Hall. The couple will live in Washington. Mrs. Tracy Hostess Mrs. Ernest A, Tracy, 321 North ! Seville avenue, entertained mem-1 bers of the Verus Cordis sorority j Thursday with a luncheon bridge j at her home. A short business ses- i sion was held.

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‘Open House’ to Be Celebrated by Sigma Chis Butler university chapter of Sigma Chi fraternity will hold open house from 3 to 5 Sunday afternoon at the chapter house, 423 West Forty-sixth street, in honor of the pledges, and that friends of the group may inspect the new house. In the receiving Mne will be Jones, chapter president; Calvin Nelson, pledge president; and the following pledges: Edward Nance, Richard Boles, Benjamin Cannon, Robert Chambers, Harry H. Garman, Robert Rodibaugh, Cleo Shul-

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lenberger, Ralph Baines and Robert Wilson. The committee on arrangements is composed of Jones, Frank Reisner, social chairman, and Burchard Carr, open house chairman. Active members will escort guests through the house. Sigma Chi was established at Butler in April, 1865. Merill Tent to Meet Catherine Merrill tent No. 9, Daughters of Union Veterans of the Civil War, will meet at 7:45 Monday night at Ft. FViendly, 512 North Illinois street, for nomination of officers. Relief Corps to Meet Major Robert Anderson Woman’s Relief Corps, No. 44, will meet Tuesday at Ft. Friendly.

PCBeta Phis’ Alumnae Club to Have Party Mrs. Samuel Q. Dungan, 2702 Sutherland avenue, will be hostess Saturday afternoon for the Indianapolis Alumnae Club of Pi Beta Phi sorority at a guest tea. Mrs. Dungan will be assisted by Mesdames F. Noble Ropkey, C. A. Hoffman, PauT ‘V. Brown, Robert Hammond, Robert Wild and Miss Fanny Miner. Mrs. Chic Jackson- will give a group of readings, and Miss Hope Bedford will sing, accompanied by Charles Hensen. Appointments will be in wine and

blue, the sorority colors. Blue candles and wine carnations will be used to decorate the tea table. Guests will include members of the Mothers’ Club of the active chapter at Butler university and friends of the alumnae. FLETCHER CLUB TO GIVE ANNUAL FETE Annual party of Fletcher Trust Women's Club will be held Monday night at the Ethelenn tea room, 3710 North Meridian street, according to announcement by Mrs. Merle Piper, president. The club is composed of approximately seventy-five women employes of the Fletcher Trust Company and its twelve branches. Miss Margaret M. Shipp, manager of the company’s safe deposit department, is chairman of the group

arranging details of the party. Dinner will be served prior to the entertainment. Members of Miss Shipp’s comftiittee include Misses Rosemary Bosson, Kathryn Hartley, Freflricka Wheeler, Bertha Rocap and Lillian Reinfels. Ijangford-Randalls Announcement has been received of the marriage of Miss Mary Langford, formerly of Indianapolis, to Ray Randalls of Indianapolis, which

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took place Saturday at the bride’s home in Kansas City. Mr. and Mrs. Randalls motored after the ceremony to Los Angeles they will make their home.

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