Indianapolis Times, Volume 42, Number 238, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 February 1931 — Page 7

FEB. 12, 1931.

‘Marriage Is a Lie ’ Club Told The marriage ceremony is a lie. - ’ Tearing at bridal veils and Lohengrin wedding marches with clear analytical phrases, David Seabury, eminent psychologist, startled members of the Women’s Department Club in an address before that body Wednesday. "The marriage ceremony is a lie because it misinterprets love. It "'ays ‘promise to live’ and. it should be ‘hope to love.’ Love is an emotion that can not be controlled by the word ‘promise,’” Dr. Seabury declared. He put a verbal dunce-cap on modem youth with “Nine out of ten college students do not know how to think. They make storehouses cut of their minds. The mind above ell is not a storehouse for facts and figures, but a thinking machine.” Parents Arc Criticised He romped on parents by blamutg them for youth being on the "wrong track.” Instead of teaching youth to study the idiosyncrasies within themselves, parents constantly subdue and repulse them. That is why insanity in this country has increased 30 per cent in ten years and divorce 300 per cent,’’ he asserted. ‘The four prime emotions are rage, fear, sex and wonder. Thcre re positive and negative outlets for each. Parents of today shut off and stifle youth’s attempts at outlet of three of the emotions, rage, fear and wonder. So there’s only one left, sex, through which expression could come.” Get Away From Worry ‘ Love and lust are the only exit channels for sex,” he asserted. Worry, he asserted, is the forerunner of mental senility. "Get away from terrible anxiety, accept yourself as you are. and make the best you can of it,” he advised in conclusion. Edward Tomlinson, adventurer and South American traveler, will be the club’s next speaker or March 11.

College Club Entertains at Valentine Tea Faculty and students of Indiana Central college were entertained from 3 to 5 today at the annual Valentine tea of the college Home Economics Club. Red and white Valentine hearts and tall tapers were used in decorations. Miss Leona Stuart, professor of home economics and sponsor of the club, and Miss Ghlec Walker, club president, had charge of arrangements. Their committee included: Misses Trudie McConnell. Hazel Carpenter, Irene Hiatt. Ilene Tripplehorn. Dorothy Key, Esther Franklin, Lena Weller. Ella Ahif. Dorothy Millikan. Mary tashbrook, Florence McAra and Esther Franklin

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Just Every Day Sense

BY MRS. WALTER FERGUSON

A CITY girl is upset over marital troubles in her’ family. “My sister,” says her letter, “is suffering bitterly from one of these thieving women who worked for her husband and was treated very nicely—even coming to dine with the family. She stole my sister's husband and is breaking up the home. If we had an organization of women to protect decent homes, there would not be a chance for such serpents to poison and wreck lives.” Such wails as this probably went up in Paleozoic times. And they will ascend so long as men and women are prone to evil. But no organization could mitigate this unhappiness. We might, however, offer this consolation: The women who set about deliberately to break up homes may succeed in doing so, but never do they obtain happiness for themselves or the men. And if a wife can keep her head it is not so easy to break up a home as it sounds. ana SOMETIMES very decent, kindly men appear to succumb to the lure of a friend or office helper. Now and then they really think they are suffering the pangs of a great love. But if they are mar- % ried to sensible, loving women, if they have children, this aberration will not last for long. They usually come to their senses with a bang. To the wife who is obliged to suffer the ignominy of seeing her husband's attention stray to another, the best advice is that she look after her children and her house and retain as best she can her sense of balance in the face of disaster, and that, she try to possess her soul in patience. One day, by using this meth'od, she will have a penitent husband at her feet. We have built up a sort of glamor about these women we call “home breakers.” A good many of them are pitiful victims, too, of life and circumstance. About the really guilty ones, those who make a business of preying upon married men, there is nothing glamorous. They usually are cheap, shoddy frauds. And sooner or later every man who deals with one of them will find it out! Alumnae to Be Feted Miss Adrienne Schmedel and Miss Imogene Mpllins will entertain members of the Indianapolis alumnae chapter of Phi Omega Pi with a Valentine bridge party at the home of Miss Schmedel, 4144 North Capitol avenue, at 2 Saturday afternoon.

Club Women to Convene at Vienna

First congress of the Internation Federation of Business and Professional Women scheduled for the last w’eek in July in Vienna, is the principal objective of the fourth annual good-will tour of the National Federation of Business and Professional Women’s clubs, which will take one hundred or more American business women to Europe this summer. Three groups will sail on July 11 on S. S. St. Louis from New York, following the biennial convention of the national federation at Richmond, Va. Miss Marion H. McClench, Ann Arbor, Mich., will lead the delegation as president of the national organization. Two Groups in Tour Miss Lena Madesin Phillips, New York City, president of the International Federation, also will sail. Miss Phillips will lead the first group of women at close of the congress, on their first tour of the Balkan countries and the Near East. A second group will go to England, Holland, Belgium, Switzerland, Germany, France and Italy. On three previous tours the women have visited sixteen European countries to establish friendly contacts and to promote the International Federation, which now is an accomplished fact. Clubs to Celebrate Miss Phillips is sponsoring observance of February as International Relations month on both sides of the ocean. Clubs all over the country will celebrate during this period. “We have pushed the skyline back and rejoice in the world fellowship of business and professional women,” reads Mrs. Phillips’ message to 1,250 clubs in the United States and foreign countries. .“The three great projects to which we should devote our united efforts and strength are advancement of higher standards for women in business; opening of new opportunities for women, and the creation of a great public desire for peace.

SORORITY TO HOLD VALENTINE PARTY Miss Harriett Clory is chairman of a committee in charge of valentine bridge tea to be held by Alpha Tau chapter. Phi Pi Psi sorority, Sunday at the Lumley tea roomThis will be the first of a series of rush parties the sorority will give within the next two months. Misses Kitty Pursely, Martha Cross and Ruth Lanham will asisst Miss Clory. The bi monthly meeting of the sorority will be held Monday night at the Antlers. W. C.T.U. Officer Dies The meeting of Central W. C. T. U., to have been held Friday, has been postponed on account of the death of Mrs. Dean H. Craft, corresponding secretary.

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Disc to Initiate Five Butler Freshmen Girls at Services

Disc, Butler university league for Jewish women, will initiate five freshman girls at the Spink-Arms Sunday night. Candlelight services, attended by senior members in cap and gown, will be followed by a formal dinner in the blue room. Those to be initiated are Misses

Miss Marsh to Be Honored at Bridge Party Miss Nance Marsh, whose marriage to Harry Easton Godwin will take place at 3:30 next Thursday, will be honored tonight at a bridge party and lingerie shower to be given by Miss Jean Peterson and Miss Betty Jeanne Davis at Miss Peterson’s home, 4400 North Pennsylvania street. Decorations will carry out / the Valentine motif. Red tapers will light the tables. The hostesses will be asisted by their mothers, Mrs. Edward Peterson and Mrs. Ralph Davis. Guests with Miss Mareh will be Mesdames Bruce Savage, Harold Gauker, John Bolte, Misses Katherine Kinnaird, Mary Bingham, Barbara Jane Butler, Edith Robinson, Margaret Gabriel, Mary Elizabeth Davidson and Dorothy Grimes.

SORORITY TO GIVE DANCE AT HOTEL Kappa Gamma Alpha sorority will entertain with a dinner-dance tonight at the Antlers. Miss Evelyn Boyd is chairman of the committee in charge. A color scheme of pink and silver will be carried out in the decorations. Music will be provided by the Pagans. Muscular-Rheumatic Aches and Pains T'YRAW them out with a “ counter - irritant.” Distressing muscular lumbago, soreness and stiffness—generally respond pleasantly to good old Musterole. Doctors, call it a “counter-irri-tant,” because it gets action and is not just a salve. .Musterole helps bring soreness and pain to the surface, and thus gives natural relief. You can feel how its warming action penetrates and stimulates blood circulation. But do not stop with one application. Apply this soothing, cooling, healing ointment generously to the affected area once every hour for five hours. Used by millions for over 20 years. Recommended by many doctors and nurses. Keep Musterole handy; jars’and tubes. To Mothers—-Musterole is also made in milder form for babies and small children. Ask for Children’s Musterole.

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MOTION PICTURES STARTS SATURDAY m (Ronald 1 COIMAN S deviitomW UXUTTA ' VOUNC Gay . . carefree . . audacious and | therming, he did all everything wrong Be . . but vvay always ga right in a woman’s 1^ eye!

Sylvia Ecktman, Beatrice Oppenheim, Irene Smulyan, Helen Davis, and Rebecca Cohen Mrs. Edna Christian. social director at Butler, will be the guest speaker, and Miss Myra Auerbach will be toastmaster Reservations have been made for twenty-five, including representatives of national Jewish sororities. The membership committee, in charge of arrangements for the banquet, is composed of Misses Esther Sacks, chairman, Dorothy Anne Forman, Hilda Rabb, and Vivian Friedman. LUNCHEON IS HELD BY MRS. GLIDDEN Mrs. L. T. Glidden, 5526 Guilford avenue, entertained with a luncheon bridge at her home today. Candelabra with red tapers centered the luncheon tables and appointments were in keeping with the Valentine season. Guests included Mesdames Jack Adams, L. T. Oblinger, Don Hastings, J. H. Kemper, John Leech. Eugene Sims, Gene Dehmer, and Miss Caroline Molter.

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Mrs. Martin to Give Tea for Women Mrs. Clarence R. Martin, 2027 North Delaware street, will entertain with a tea for members of the State Assembly Woman’s Club at her home Wednesday, Feb. 18. Wives of the judges of the supreme and appellate courts who will assist the hostess are Mesdames Alfonso Wood and Noel Neal at the tea table and Mesdames Charles Remy, Elmer Lockyear, Julius Travis, Fred Byers and William H. BridwelL A group of girls from Shortridge high school, who also will assist, includes Misses Jane Martin, Stella Allig. Coribell McDonald, Constance MacDonald, Mary Buckler, Rosemary Burton and Mary Rossbell. The tea table will be decorated In

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keeping with Washington’s birthday, .with a centerpiece of Jerusalem cherries and lighted by red tapers. Mrs. Charles Bebinger is in charge of the program, which will include selections by: Mrs. Fosrv Kime. vocalist; Mis* Josephine Fitch, reader: Miss Geneva Potts. Columbus, piano; and the Mary Traub Busch, trio composed of Mrs. Mildred Cathcart Warick. pianist: Miss Marcena Campbell, celist. and Miss Mary Rogers, violinist. Officials of the Real Silk Hosiery Mills have invited members of the organization for a tour of the mills Thursday. Feb. 19. Members will meet at 1:30 at the Claypool. A luncheon meeting will be held Feb. 25 at the Marott, with Mrs. Laura S. New of the Charles Mayer Cos., as the speaker. Members of the club held a

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Last Was She Right in Telling A1I? DAYS DOROTHY MACKAILLin SSSnr | We Predict — THAT THIS EXPOSE OF* MODERN MARRIAGE AVILL CREATE A SENSATION AMONG ALL THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED—HAVE BEEN MARRIED OR CONTEMPLATE MARRIAGE if A OARING DRAMA, BEWILDERING /f ft YET UNDERSTANDABLE, ABOUT /J l M A girl who demanded marriage / V fgl and freedom ... to live as she /|B •■ • > B pleased ... to forget conventions. /iV - ... to love on inspiration .. . /Jff fIM those were her startling the- fa | || ories. See what happens \ M .when she carries them out. j|V \%A UNCLOAKS— The Mysteries of Marriage * Vlf EXPOSES— M | B A Modern Girl's Adventures /^H ttß in Stolen Love. ICjj \ 1 BARBARA STANWYCK /f ! t> Charles James jpU j s Butterworth Rennie liS Starts Saturday / m ffUtBAA/

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luncheon and business meeting Wednesday at the Claypool. Mrs. John Hewitt was in charge of arrangements. The table was centered with red roses, with appointments in Valentine colors. Sorority Will Meet Gamma Phi Alpha sorority will meet tonight at the home of Miss Katherine Fcndall, 424 North Forrest street.

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