Indianapolis Times, Volume 42, Number 106, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 September 1930 — Page 11

SEPT. 11, 1930_

Mere Love Not Enough in Marriage BY MARTHA LEE It is amusing the stupidity most people show in choosing their life mates. Even the wisest men and women, who have been so successful in other lines of endeavor, seem to specialize in this one line of failure. In the first place people mary, for the most, for two reasons. One is love. The other is money. Sidetracked from these two main arteries of “causes for committing matrimony” are temporary loneliness, a fear complex of growing old alone, a sudden manifestation of the maternal, paternal or domestic instincts, a desire for an existence separate from family and marriage of necessity. These are exceptional cases, however. Nine-tenths of the men and women who marry do so for love or money. Marriage for money rarely is a success. Marriage for love Bnd love alone Is as apt to be a lailure. Attraction Necessary Love, in the accepted sense of the word by moderns, means physical attraction and nothing else. And there is nothing as short lived as love based entirely upon physical attraction. It is absolutely necessary that there be that attraction between a man and woman contemplating marriage, but it is just as necessary that there be other elements in the affection they term love. It is absolutely necessary for a man and woman who are going to marry that they like each other. This is entirely separate from their emotion called love. It means that they will be able to bear with each other and all the tough little roads that married people must travel. A man can love a woman for her beauty and intelligence, her charm and wit. But he can not possibly like her if she is slovenly about her person, if her idea of a meal is a can of beans and a delicatessen pie, if she prefers reading all day to keeping her house clean. Girl Is Boisterous A woman can love a man for his character and personality, but she can not like him if he is careless about his personal appearance, if his manners are impossibly rude, if he is selfish and opinionated. It is how much we like a person that makes living with them day after day possible, not how much we love them. If men and women who contemplate marriage, would sift the emotion Os love out of the problem for a time, and itemize the reasons why their future mates can be liked and admired, there would be happier, more permanent and contented marriages. Dear Miss Lee—l am engaged to marry a voung Kiri with whom I am madly In love. We are to be married soon. But there are things about her that annoy me terribly. She is very loud and boistrous. She is ! not as neat as I would have her. She has | a good sense of humor, but she is not i quite as particular about the things she j laughs at and the things she says to get laughs ns I would like. When I am with her I do not mind so much. But when I am alone, thinking about our future. I wonder if these things which annoy me now are going to make a difference in our happiness after we are married. Is it possible to be in love with a person, and still dislike things about her? . BILL. Trails Are Annoying It is as essential that you like this girl you are going to marry as it is that you love her. If these traits annoy you now they are very apt to become issues after your marriage. It would be better to tell her about them now, explain to her how .you feel than to wait until you have married her. Perhaps she does not realize you dislike them, because you have never told her nor even acted as though there was anything about her you would have changed. When you do tell her, she may have a few suggestions to make herself that would make life more pleasant.

New Officers Are Installed by Study Club Irvington Catholic Woman's StudyClub observed President's day today with a luncheon at the Lumley tearoom. Mrs. George A. Duffy, who again will hold the office of president, was presented with a corsage. The luncheon table was decorated with fall flowers. Mrs. George W. Faulstlch read a paper on “The Star-Spangled Banner,” the anniversary of the writing of which will be celebrated Friday. Little Mary Jane Singleton gave several readings, and littl Kay Lau gave several book illustrations, charade fashion. The following officers were installed: Vice-president, Mrs. Fauistich; second vice-president, Mrs. L. M. Means; secretary, Mrs. Albert Ehrensperger. and treasurer, Mrs. William J. Betz.

CHICAGO VISITOR IS HONORED AT PARTY Mrs. Ruth McManus, Chicago, who is visiting her sister, Mrs. L. L. McCarty, was guest of honor at a bridge party Wednesday night at the home of Mis Helena Wanner, 2121 North Capitoi avenue. The hostess was as 1 ' ‘ed by her mother, Mrs. Mary G. Wanner and her sister. Mrs. Fred L. Thomas. Guests included Mrs. Fred D. Slater, Mrs. Edward L. Beyer Jr., Mrs. Duane G. Newton. Miss Cecil Frye, Miss Winifred Brown and Miss Marie Shay.

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Church Supper Slated Members of the Women’s Home Missionary society of Capitol Avenue Methodist Episcopal church will give a covered dish supper in the annex basement of the church at 6:30 Thursday. New members and honorary members will be guests of the organization. The Rev. Abram S. Woodard, pastor of the Meridian Street Methodist Episcopal church will be the speaker.

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Short Story Classes to Hold Party Members of the short story classes conducted last year by Mrs. John Hays Bailey at the Y. W. C. A. will be entertained Saturday afternoon at her home, 2724 North Talbott street. Mrs. Bailey, who attended the Passion Play last summer at Crberammergau, will give her impressions of it and other phases of her twomonth trip in Germany, France, Belgium, and Denmark. Miss Naomi Adams, a class member, will read a group of her short stories which have appeared in current periodicals. Mrs. Glenn Diddel, Spanish teacher in the Y. W. C. A.

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