Indianapolis Times, Volume 42, Number 32, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 June 1930 — Page 11

JUNE 17, 1930_

Married at Cathedral by Bishop Marriage of Miss Katherine Mueller, daughter of Mrs. Charles G. Mueller, 2221 Talbot avenue, and John Hilary Hartman, Cincinnati, 0., was solemnized at 10 this morning at SS Peter and Paul cathedral. The Rt. Rev. Bishop Joseph Chartrand read the service and the Rev. George Dunn celebrated the nuptial mass. Mr. Hartman is the son of Mr. and Mrs. A. P. Hartman, Chicago. The altar was banked with palms and ferns and decorated with baskets of pink and blue flowers. It was. lighted by cathedral candles. Mrs. Block Attends Bride Elmer StefTin sang during mass. Muss Helen Shepard, organist, played a program of bridal airs preceding the service. Mrs. Thomas Black was the bride’s only attendant. She wore a gown of blue point d’esprit, with a blue horsehair braid hat, blue slippers and blue lace mitts. She carried an arm bouquet of lace flowers, com flowers and delphinium. Albert L. Fessler was best man. The bride wore pink chiffon with a pink hair braid hat, pink slippers and pink lace mitts. Her dress was trimmed with blue bows at the neck and at the short sleeves, and was belted at the natural waist line with blue ribbon. Her shower bouquet was of baby pink gladioli, Columbia roses. Sweetheart roses and forget-me-nots. *** Breakfast at Athletic Club A breakfast was held at the Indianapolis Athletic Club following the ceremony. The bride’s table was centered with a wedding cake, with a basket of pink and blue flowers at each end of the table.

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Miss Annabeiie Parr , Senior members of Butler university chapter. Kappa Alpha Theta sorority, were honor guests at a luncheon given today at the chapter house, 442 West Fortysixth street. Graduates are Misses Ruth Robison, Rosalie Schell, Mabel Erganbright, Eleanor Hadd and Annabeiie Parr. Miss Parr was toastmaster at the luncheon.

and lighted by ivory tapers in silver holders. Mrs. Mueller wore black and white chiffon, and had a corsage of lilies of the valley and gardenias. Mr. and Mrs. Hartman have gone on a motor trip, the bride traveling in a black and white ensemble with black and wihte accessories. They will be at home after July 1 in Fort Thomas, Ky. Mrs. Hartman is a graduate of St. Mary’s-of-the-Lake, Notre Dame, and Mr. Hartman attended the University of Illinois. Sorority Will Meet Alpha chapter, Omega Phi Tau sorority, will meet Wednesday night at 8 at the Chamber of Commerce building.

Marriage Is Risk Living With Family BY MARTHA LEE If it is true that the reason for marriage is so that two people, who have found they are so much in love it is misery to be separated, may have the maximum amount of happiness together, surely it also is true that certain recognized deterrents to that aim should be avoided. The first of these is living with the parents of either of the two. It is bad for every one concerned. The young husband gets so he depends upon the financial aid such an arrangement affords him. The wife, who instinctively resents the fact that she does not have her own home, is very apt to become terribly dissatisfied with the arrangement, to the point where her love for her husband will waiver. There is, along with the resentment, a resentment against the fact that her life and the life of her husband is being observed, talked

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over, and more than likely criticised by the older folk. And parents wouldn’t be human if they didn’t offer advice and suggestions. They would not be human if they did not enter into all the arguments and disagreements that come up between young newlyweds. So it just reduces the chances for making marriage a success. It is important that young people should have their own places, if it is only a room. If you want a real example of how important it is, read this: Dear Miss Lee: I have caused myself to Ret in a very difficult situation. I mißht as well start at the beginning and tell everything up to date. I am 35 and have been married three years. We have a girl nearly 2. My wife and I are separated and have been for nine months. She left because we were living with my parents. I will admit my wife did try to get .along with my mother, but you know how it is. They couldn’t do it. She asked me to get a place for ourselves, but I refused, because I couldn’t see the sense of it. She gave me one month to get a place of our own. When I didn’t, she left. Until then, I had not realized how much I loved her. I know now she deserves a place of her own. But mother talked against her to me. and I sided with my mothe-. Now I would do anything If she wou’ c ' me back to me. I have been to her a -uzen times to beg her to come ba ;k. J have offered to get a place for ou-selves But sh<* says my attitude has

made her lose an love for me. I suppose she Intends to get a divorce. Works For Baby She Is so good. She works every day. while her sister keeps the baby. She will not accept any money from me. When I offer it. she tells me to give it to my mother. I still am liwlng with my parents. Do you think she could be holding that against me? I love her so much that I have reason to believe she loves me. but she Is too strong-willed and independent to give in. Is there any way I could Influence her to come back? A FOOL. Since she will not accept money from you, it might be a good idea to send both your wife and child gifts each week. The gifts easily could be things they need. There isn’t much to do toward influencing her directly. Subtle things work better. Do nice little things for both of them. And since she does no* like you to talk about going back, hereafter when you go, say you have come to see the baby. A groveliig ex-husband is not a pretty sight You have your rights and your w*fe has hers. You had no business to refuse her a place of her own. That is essential to a woman’s happiness. Much more so than having a few extra dollars to spend. Your wife is quite bitter toward your mother. If you want her back, it might be a good idea to leave there. And as soon as you see your wife coming over to your

side, you rustle around and get the place ready, so you can jump right into it. And it might be wise to avoid the mention of your mother's name in her presence. At least until she feels a little different about the affair. WAR MOTHERS OF COUNTRY TO MEET Marion county chapter. American War Mothers, will meet at 2 Wednesday at the home of Mrs. Matilda Daugherty, 2459 Ashland avenue. Assisting hostesses, members whose birthdays occur in May or June, will be:Mesdames Ella Alexander, Ella Aker, William TANARUS, Newman, Mollie Prather, John W. Pohlman, Thomas A. O’Dell, Merritt Hammel, Lena Deisen, William Lory, Elizabeth Engelke, Clara Elilott, Minnie Rigg, Elds Doyle, Aca Bennett. Sorority Gives Dance Rho Sigma Chi sorority will give a dance tonight at Municipal Gardens. Miss Alma Meisberger is chairman, assisted by Mrs. Lorene Sheets and Miss Viola Surge. The Black Cat orchestra will play. A printed capucine red suit has a double peplum to its jacket that is cut very high in the front and swings down in the back.

MISS ROTTLER GUEST AT GARDEN PARTY

Miss Emma Rottler, whose marriage to J. Ed Burke will take place this month, was the honor guest at a garden party and kitchen shower given Sunday afternoon at lona Haven, country home of Mr. and Mrs. James Hodgson Foster. Mrs. Foster was assisted by Mrs. William T. Hereth and Miss Elsie Rottler. Guests were Messrs, and . Mesdames Charles P. Tim berm an, L. L. Gilliland, Robert Foster, Mesdames John Rottler. Lena Hereth, Arto Waterman, Harry C. Geisking, Misses Lydia Van Laaton, Emma Huebschman, Amelia Foster, Mamie Pursell. Mildred Hays, Esther Wat-

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erman. Mr. Burk, William Hereth* John Rottler Jr. and Walter Rottler. Arrange Campaign Russell N. Edwards, secretary of the Financing Construction Company, which is handling details of organization and construction tor the Woman's Club home, met with two groups of twelve campaign workers Monday to complete plans for the Indiana Woman’s Club subscription campaign. The goal is 2,500 members. The project is being sponsored by Indianapolis club women. Asparagus au Gratin A perfectly delicious supper dish is made of fresh asparagus creamed and baked with grated cheese long, enough to brown.