Indianapolis Times, Volume 42, Number 28, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 June 1930 — Page 9

JUNE 12,1930.

Child First ..to Suffer in Family Fight BY MARTHA LEE. In the general run of affairs, the rights of mothers and fathers to their children rarely is questioned. When family life is normal and smooth running as family life in America can be. the mother has her . special duties toward her children, *nd the father has his. The mother sees that the children Are fed and clothed properly; that their education is pursued along the lines required; that their needs, both physicial, mental and sometimes spiritual are cared for. And father is the one who provides the wherewithal for these things. He usually supervises the hours between dinner and bedtime. When things are running smoothly between father and mother, the children get along fairly well. too. They have things done for them, and there rarely seems any occasion for quarreling about which parent should do what. Each one sewns to have his definite duties and definite rights. Children Suffer First But just let there be a strain on the family ties, and the first severe sufferers wiii be the children. Things that never before have been points of difference will rise up like mountains of trouble. And the children are the ones who suffer, while their parents argue and haggle. The mother usually has the best of the bargain. Almost without exception, mothers are judged the more suitable to keep the cnildren. Father contributes to their support and sees them when he can, which makes it pretty tough for a man ■who has a real paternal instinct in his heart. Dear Miss Lee: I would like you to help me solve a problem. I married a fine girl, but I guess I do not understand her. We have a baby boy lust a few months old. Mv wife says she loves me. X want to believe she does. After our marriage, we staved with her parents almost a year. I did not like it and told my wife so. I worked hard trying to get a home for us. I gave mv wife all of my money every pay day, allowing her to give me my spending money. She saved the money and bought clothes with It, when I wanted to buy furniture. Living at her parents’ home became so unbearable I Anally persuaded her to leave with me. Although we didn’t have our own things. It was our own place at least. We got along fine until I got laid off. She became unbearable and Anally left. She will not even speak to me. In Court Twice Since she left, she has had me in juvenile court twice for not supporting the child. I will not live at her parents, and she will not live at mine, because her mother has told her mv mother dislikes her and talks about her. I am not even allowed to see my baby because I haven't got the amount of money the court says 1 must pay each week. Should I divorce her or Just let her alone? Everyone worries almost to distraction when finances are shaky. Especially with a small baby to care •ior. Right now, there is nothing you can do. After you find a job, try to save monay and buy seme .furniture. Then ask her to bring the baby back. - Under the circumstances, I can .not see how she can refuse to let you see your little son. It seems unnecessarily cruel. - Don’t divorce your wife. She is young and has a lot to learn. Once she is away from her parents, things will be different for both of you. And besides, you have your little boy to think of. It isn’t fair not to be with him when he is growing up. Here's a tip though. When you .and your wife do go back together ragain, don’t be quite so easy. No jwoman admires and respects a man she can twist around her litt’e finger.

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Miss Gordon Will Wed in Home Rites Marriage of Miss Bessie Gordon and Orville D. Price will be solemnized at 8:30 tonight at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Alonzo D. Shepherd, 729 North Riley street. Miss Gordon is Mrs. Shepherd’s sister. The service will be read by the Rev. O. R. McKay before an improvised altar of fims, palms and garden flowers. Preceding the ceremony a trio 'Composed of Miss Mary Esther Lawler, pianist; Miss Mildred Lawler, cellist, and Robert J. Shultz, cometist, wifi play “O Promise Me,” ‘‘To \ Wild Rose” and ‘‘The World’s Waning for the Sunrise.” Miss Ruby Fuehrer will sing “I Love You Truly” and “At Dawning.” Miss Blanche Gordon, sister of the bride, will be maid of honor. Miss Feuhrer and Mrs. Stacie Gordon will be bridesmaids. They will wear gowns fashioned alike of chiffon with high waists and long circular skirts. Brother to Be Best Man Miss Gordon will wear rose with hat and slippers to match and carry Columbia roses. Miss Fuehrer’s gown will be green with hat and slippers to match. She will carry pink roses. Mrs. Gordon will wear yellow and carry yellow roses. Orval D. Price will be his brother’s best man. The bridal party will march to the altar down an aisle formed with two wide white satin ribbons, leading from the stairway. The bride, who will enter with Mr. Shepherd", will wear a poudre blue chiffon gown, fashioned with a fitted bodice, large cape collar and long circular skirt. She will wear hat and slippers to match; long white kid gloves and a necklace of crystal and pearl, a gift of the bridegroom. She will carry a shower bouquet of white roses and lilies of the valley. Reception Is Arranged Following the ceremony a reception will be held for wedding guests. The bridal table will be centered with a tiered wedding cake on a mound of flowers and lighted with candles in crystal holders. Mrs. Shepherd will receive in a gown of blue georgette with a corsage of roses and sweet peas. Mrs. Price, mother of the bridegroom, will wear blue georgette and a corsage of red rosebuds. The couple will go east on a trip, the bride traveling in a green and white sport ensemble with accessories to match. They will be at home after July 1 at 730 North Bancroft street. Out-of-town guests will be Dr. and Mrs. Jack Fr.ucett, Franklin; Dr. and Mrs. D. K. Schuyler, Monon; Mrs. Florence Sample, Miss Ethelyn Sample, Connersville; Miss June Sarrella, Detroit; Miss Frances Fox, Morristown, and Charles Roach, Cincinnati.

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