Indianapolis Times, Volume 42, Number 5, Indianapolis, Marion County, 16 May 1930 — Page 17

MAY 16, 1930

Wrong Idea of Love Is Disastrous BY MARTHA LEE This eternal search for happiness leads us on some merry wild goose chases. We have a penchant for setting our eyes on an object that at a distance looks like happiness, only to find when we make the grade that it is the worst sort of makebelieve. And very often, on the road, we pass up the real thing because our eyes see nothing but our own personal and private conceptions of that thing called love, there's no telling them apart. A preconceived idea of love and what love should bring ruins many a marriage. These ideas play heck with a young wife who finally must be brought to the realization that all her married life is not going to be a continuous hcneymoon. And there never was a more misleading statement than the one about marriage making two into one. It can’t be done. Failings Are Betrayed There are disillusions to be met and overcome, whether we like the idea or not. Existence is not all we would like to have it. Nor are the people with whom we must live. Married folk should understand this before thev take the steo. Because the constant association with people who have taken on the roles of husband and wives is bound to betray failings and weaknesses and unexpected characteristics that tesr down preconceived ideas of how things should be, were things perfect. Dear Miss Lee—l am a man in my twenties, married and soon will be divorced. A (treat barrier arose between my wife and me which X could not forget, although I sincerely tried to put it aside. Things became so bad Anally we parted. Now most of the young people we used to chum with will not have anything to do with me. I cannot understand it. for I neither have said nor done anything to cause them to treat me this way. Recently I saw a school day sweetheart of mine. She still cares for me and X for her. She has been married and divorced and has a little boy. Do you think it would be wrong to revive that love we once knew and try to be happy together or do you think it best Just to be friends and forget the rest. H. M. W.

Do you feel yourself entirely justified in divorcing your wife? This barrier you speak of is nothing to the mental barrier your former wife will be in any future romance you should plan. Friends Side With Wife The fact that all your friends side with your wife looks rather bad for you. It would indicate that you had been unjust to her in some way. If you want to revive any romance, why net start reviving the romance and love for the woman you married? The school girl affair would ripen of its own accord if it were sincere. If you two are going to be in love you will be, no matter what I say or what you think. The fact that you ask if you should “try” to be happy together doesn't make the j affair look any too spontaneous. If; it’s happiness you want, better set j yourself right with your wife. Casino Band to Play The Epvorth League of the Beech j Grove Methodist Episcopal church •will preset t the Japanese Casino band in a spring frolic at 7:45 Tuesday at the Beech Grove school audi- : torium. Assisting artists will be Mrs. j Marjorie Brunsina and Miss Marcia Clapp; Miss Amelia Wiley, Ernie j Driskell, Johnnie Rugenstein, Billy McAree, Lee Davis, Eddie Lynn and Eddie Hicks. Mrs. Krick Is Hostess Indiana Wellesley Club will have j a card party Friday night at the j home of Mrs. Arthur Krick, 6851 ! North Meridian street. The assist- j ing hostess w’ill be Mrs. John Curry, Mrs. H. B. Pike. Mrs. G. B. Taylor, I Mrs. Robert Winslow and Mrs. I Eleanor Green.

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Miss Louise De Mart Mrs. Edna Leonard announces the engagement of Miss Louise De Mart, Indianapolis to her son, Harry V. Leonard. The wedding will take place in the near future. Miss De Mart just has returned from Miami, Fla.

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Musicale Scheduled for Sunday Woman’s League at Butler university will present its spring musicale Sunday afternoon at 3, at the Odeon of the Arthur Jordan Conservatory of Music, 106 East North street. Miss Imogens Pierson is chairman of the music committee. The program will be as follows: "Trio op. 18” Saint-Saens Miss Marguerite Billo. violinist. Miss Virginia Lcvenberger. cellist. Miss Edith Garrison, pianist. ‘'The Shephard's Song" Watts "Children of the Moon” Warren Miss Ruth Otte. soprano. "Etude ic D Flat” Liszt M.ss Pierson, pianist. ""'or Yev Alone" Geehl "Call of My Heart" Haigh Joe Macy. tenor. "Spanish Dance” Granados-Krcisler "Londonderry Air" Kreisler "Caprice No. 20” Paganlni-Kreisler Miss Harriet Payne, soloist. 3olect*d: Miss Frieda Heider. vocalist. "Fantasit and Variations” Serva.s Miss Lcvenberger. cellist. "Letters of Lorraine” Conner "Bells of St. Mary's" Adams Quartet: Victor Griffin. R’.-ell Moore. Hugh Thatcher and Mr. Mftoy. Playlet—“ln the Spring a Young Mir's Fancy.” _ „ Pupils of Miss Frances Beik. Miss Anita Wandell, Miss Lucille Wagner, Miss Virginia Harbaugh

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and Miss Gertrude Free will be accompanists. Miss Pierson’s committee includes Miss Evelyn Poston. Miss Bessalee Reavis, Miss Margaret Walker, Miss Marjorie Alexander. Mrs. Branch Is Honor Guest at Linen Shower Mrs. Manley Elliott Branch, Martinsville, formerly Miss Susan Woodbury, was the honor guest at a breakfast and linen shower given today at the Avalon Country Club by Miss Lorinda Cottingham. Guests were seated at one long table, decorated with mounds of spring flowers in shades of violet, pink and green, the bridal colors. Miss Cottingham’s guests were Mesdames E. F. Branch, W. A. Kennedy, Eugene Shireman, Martinsville; James E. Branch, Lebanon; Harold Haught, Misses Maria Hayes, Martha Ann Rundell, Evelyn Poston, Martinsville; Christine Houseman, Helen Noble and Martha Baker. The hostess was assisted by her mother, Mrs. Charles E. Cottingham.

ANNUAL RECEPTION IS HELD AT INDIANA U,

President and Mrs. William Lowe 3ryan entertained candidates for degree and members of the faculty of Indiana university at their annual reception in the Assembly hall at Bloomington. James W. Fesler, Indianapolis, president of the board of trustees cf the university, and Joseph Smith, Vincennes, senior class president, assisted Dr. and Mrs. Lowe in receiving. Six co-eds who assisted were Miss Betty Batman, Miss Mary Agnes Nurre, Miss Peggy Culmer, Miss Alice Lamb, Miss Martha Wright and Elizabeth Karsell, all of Bloomington.

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