Indianapolis Times, Volume 41, Number 308, Indianapolis, Marion County, 6 May 1930 — Page 11

MAY 6, 1930

Good Advice Is Offered by Bachelor BY MARTHA LEE. An intelligent, sensible man has written such ah interesting letter, so filled with good ideas, I must pass it on to my readers. It isn’t a "problem ’ letter. He isn't asking any advice. He’s just putting out some good digestible material for those men and women who are contemplating marriage, or who already have married and found it a flop. He’s idealistic, but it's a nice practicable kind of idealism, that so easily could be applied to everyday life. Dear Miss Lee—l am a bachelor myself, but I've read so much about husbands and wives being disappointed In each other, and Ending their marriages irksome and the romance dead that I would like to tell you a little about how a young bachelor looks on marriage, and especially how he looks upon prospective wives. This may be a futile attempt, but 1 have a sort of personal definition for love. To me. It's a desire to possess the person who represents in my own eyes all good and all beauty. I suppose you will snicker over this, because I am a bachelor. Marriage should, if it is managed properly. include a constant Interchange of admiration, confidence and (this is important) applause. The man should be able to gather seif esteem from his wife’s love, and she in turn should receive the same. I do not believe a woman should subjugate herself to her husband's every wish, but I do think it is vey essential to the happiness of both that she attune her life to his. I'm not old-fashioned about women. I believe in them having minds of their own. heavens knows, for a woman without one would be unbearable. But I do not believe that a difference in opinion between husband and wife ever should be allowed to cause a quarreL. Now for prospective wives. I myself am in the market for one, so I have a pretty good Idea of what at least one man expects of his wife. All this talk about smoking, drinking and all that dees not interest me. K a girl smokes, that’s her business. If she takes a cocktail, that too is her own affair. If she takes too many it shows a lack of discretion that I should not care to have a wife of mine possess. And that’s that for all this talk about wild modern youth. Those points are unessential except as they reflect another trait of character. The girl I marry must be fine and honest. She must have respect for other’s ideas. She must be tolerant with the faults and idlosyncracies of others. (A girl would have to be to marry a bachelor of 35. I suppose.) She must have a sense of the proper, without being technically conventional in the small details. By that I mean that it would be horrible to be married to a woman who never knew that right thing to do, the proper thing to say. nor what to wear. But it would be even worse to be married to a frau who was a stickler for detail and made her life, and her husband's miserable because they didn't have this or that, or ho had said thus and so. and she was so embarrassed! You know what I mean. She must know how to spend money, when we have it. so that it will bring us the best for its value. But more important, she must know how to do without money, without being miserable, when we haven’t It. Which completely would solve the trouble over the finances problem. She must know how to enjoy being out with people, but she also must know how to enjoy staying home. She need not be a Follies beauty, as long as she is chic, intelligent and interesting. But she must be capable of making the most of her opportunities. A bachelor’s pipe dream? Nothing of the sort. That's a perfect description of an ideal, wholesome American girl of today. I know, because I've found one j of these rare gems, and I'm changing mv bachelor quarters soon. ANDY. Isn’t that a refreshing bit of idealism? And hasn’t Andy just about put all the beauty and permanency of marriage in a nutshell. You’ll never find an erring husband in a home where the wife is putting out (in the proper amounts and at the right times) admiration, confidence and applause. There’s 1930 romance for you. We females don’t sit in the arenas and applaud our boy friends to victory in the jousts any more. But we can give them a big hand when they turn a neat trick. It's just as satisfying to the old male ego, even when the audience consists only of the victor and the lady whose colors he wore. Meeting to Be Held Mrs. Agnes Brown, 16 North Rural street, will be hostess for the meeting of Alpha chapter. Pi Omega sorority, at her home Wednesday night.

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Guild Holds Meeting at Propylaeum Annual state meeting of the Needlework Guild was held today at the Propylaeum. Luncheon was served at tables decorated with bowls of tulpis, shading from pink to American beauty. Mrs. Oscar L. Lond, state chairman, presided at the luncheon and business meeting. The principal speaker was Miss Maria Halsey Stryker, Philadelphia, national junior director, who told about junior work in the United States. Mrs. C. A. Garrard and Mrs. Pond talked on the national meeting of the Needlework Guild, held at Buffalo, N. Y. Among those who attended were Mesdames J. S. Tarkington, George M. Speigel, H. A. Pfafflin, Claude Richie. Prank Yount, Carl S. Wagner, M. C. Setter, Peter C. Reilly, Frank Fishback, F. N. Hooker, M. E. Clark, H. G. Hoss, Ray Fatout, John E. Hampton, Janet Keith, C. K. McDowell, H. P. Clarke, Grace B. Ayres, Frank Mark, Misses Martha Griffith, Susan Chipman and Lillian Taggart, all of Indianapolis. Among those from out of town who attended were Mesdames J. J. Kline, Ft. Wayne; Mary Waldron, J. E. Moffett, Charles Springer and John Kerr, Bloomington; T. F. McNamee, Wabash, and Mayme Johnson, Franklin. Junior organizations of Indianapolis had representatives present. Mrs. Blake Francis and Miss Jean Adamson represented the Giri Scouts; Mrs Charles H. Smith and Miss Helen Nicholls, Camp Fire Girls; Mrs. Brandt C. Downey and Miss Jenna Birks, Girl Reserves; Mrs. David M. Smith and Miss Frances Engle will represent the Junior Catholic Daughters of America. Miss Louise Jaeger represented the Conucil of Jewish Juniors. tiny vivid green dots. The bias binding is in the green shade. Style No. 699 comes in sizes 14-16, 18, 20 years and 36 and 38 inches bust. Printed linen is effective in black ground with large splashy white pattern, with the binding in orange. For the boudoir, they are fascinatingly attractive in flame colored flat crepe silk. Pattern price 15 cents in stamps or coin (coin is preferred). Wrap coin carefully. We suggest that when you send for this pattern, you enclose 10 cents additional for a copy of our new spring fashion magazine.

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MRS, DILL IS ELECTED CHAPTER REGENT

Mrs. T. M. Dill was elect. ’. regent of the Governor Oliver Perry Morton chapter. Daughters of the Union, at a meeting held Monday at the horr.e of Mrs. A. W. Bowen, 5202 Washington boulevard. Other new officers are: First viceregent, Mrs. Thomas W. Demmerly; second vice-regent, Mrs. Clarence Finch: third vice-regent, Mrs. Bowen; recording secretary, Mrs. Thomas F. Larkin; corresponding secretary, Mrs. Walter Baxter; tredfcurer, Mrs. Louis E. Kruger; historian, Mrs. W. I. Hoag; registrar, Mrs. Walter N. Winkler; directors, Mrs. W. W. Gates, Mrs. George M. Spiegel and Mrs. William S. Tomlin.

BRIDGE SEASON HELD BY SUNNYSIDE GUILD

Members of the Sunny side Guild held their monthly luncheon bridge Monday at Green Gables tearoom. The luncheon tables were decorated with pink roses, hostesses were Mrs. R. H. Sturms, Mrs. Lynn Stone, Mrs. Richard Tuttle, Mrs. Byron Sunderland, Mrs. Boyd Templeton Mrs. Clyde E. Titus, Mrs. Robert Turnbull; Mrs. Ethel Wacker, Mrs. J. A. Wairender and Mrs. D. S. Sullivan. Mothers to Meet Miss Julia Landers, assistant director of recreation, would like to meet the mothers living in the vicinity of Garfield park who are interested in forming a Garfield park mothers’ club. Miss Landers will meet these women at 2 Friday at the Garfield park community house.

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Miss Kiser to Be Bride on May 17 A wedding of interest to a number of Indie napolis folk will take place May 17, when Miss Alice Kiser, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Otto Pearl Kiser, Knightstown, will marry Gordon MacChesney, son of General and Mrs. Nathan William MacChesney, Chicago and Libertyville. The wedding will take place at Hughes and the Rev. Dr. John H. Palmer, Knightstown, officiating. Miss Kiser was graduated from Butler university. She will have three of her college friends for bridesmaids—Miss Alice Armstrong i and Miss Mary Bundy, Knightstown, I and Miss Elizabeth BalesS, Ander- i son. Miss Coe Glade of the Civic Opera Company will sing at the church j sen-ice, and following the wedding a large reception will be held at tne Kiser home. Mr. MacChesney attended Chest-' nut Hill academy. His brother, j Brunson, who is attending Yale, will be his best man. Card Party Scheduled Miss Frances Murphy will preside at the regular monthly meeting of the Kappa Gamma Alpha sorority, meeting tonight at the Spink Arms. Plans will be made for the semi-annual card party. Club Women Meet Members of Catharinen Merrill Graydon Club were entertained today at the home of Mrs. Joseph Ostrander, 323 North Audubon road.

MRS, SHOWALTER IS HOSTESS FOR CLUB

Mrs. Charles Showalter, 323 Leslie avenue, was hostess Monday for the Mothers’ day meeting of the New Era Club. A covered dish luncheon was served at 1 o’clock. Mrs. I. W. Riggins was in charge of the program. Burdette Little spoke on "Mothers and Law Enforcement;” Miss Thelma Hawthorne, vocalist, accompanied bv Mrs. Riggin, and Mrs. Roy Kreipke, accompanied by Mrs. Ed Loomis, gave a musical program. Mrs. Showalter read a paper, “The Three Pictures of Jesus.”

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president; Mrs. Walter Wickliff, secretary, and Mrs. Earl Fullenwider, treasurer. Sorority to Meet Mrs. Harry Hilgemier, 2701 Allen avenue, will entertain members of Delta Theta Phi sorority at her home Wednesday night.