Indianapolis Times, Volume 41, Number 220, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 January 1930 — Page 13

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Love Needed for Success in Marriage 3V MARTHA LEE. Among the question.' asked frequently in letters is tlie* one concerning the advisability of marrying a person one admires, but does not love. Whenever that question is asked, I get a mental picture of the w riter. More often than not, such a person's ideas about love, and Just how love manifests itself, are gleaned from steaming novels and impossibly romantic movies. Such a person, at an early age. let us hope, gets a perverted idea about the whole business. It is not a question of proving time and again, by daring feats and ardent demonstrations that love is true and lasting. Times have changed. Love no longer comes riding on a white steed, clad in silver armor and scarlet plumes. Love is more apt to come in an old model T Ford, clad in a $25 suit and a $2.50 hat. But he proves himself to be just as sincere, by offering to share a two-by-four apartment and half of the pay check. Made of Combinations Asa matter of fact, love is a combination of so many things, and when it’s the real and lasting kind, no one of these stands out about the others. It is made up of a fourth tolerance, a fourth physical attraction, a fourth companionship and a fourth mental attraction. Those girls who write to say they admire the men they art going to marry, but do not love them are just the women who later keep gigilos in pin money, if they ever get to the point where they meet gigilos. They are the women who make patent leather matinee idoling a profitable profession for a good looking man. And many a pretty girl gets a lot of valuables because she looks romantic enough to be a Scott heroine. Dear Martha Lee: I have been Rolriß with a wonderful young man for about three years. He Is In love with me and has proposed, but I have not accepted as yet T admire hirfi very much. Miss Lee. but I do r.ot believe I love him. He is not my Ideal of a man. and especially, not my ideal of a husband. lias Fine Disposition He has good stable qualities that make him a Rood business man. He Is kind and iovinß and has a marvelous disposition, but he Is not Rood looking and is not we'l lersed in the little niceties and courtesies which I admire In a man. Do >ou think I could be happy married to this man, knowmsr that I do not love him as I always have thought a Riri should love the man she is Roinß to marry? J. R. C. Generalizing on the subject of marriage without love, the matter is solved in the individual desire for the sentiment, the frosting, the candy side of marriage. If a persons mental attitude on marriage is superior to those things, I should say tiie marriage had great possibilities for happiness. Has Fine Qualities In your particular case, it would be horribly unhappy. You are not suited to this man. Mentally, he is superior to you. Spiritually, he is superior to you. He has depths of - haracter that you can never reach. Besides, he loves you as you say you would like to love some man, and i hen some. You would make him miserable, I should think. Apparently, from the tone of your letter, the only reason you would many him is because he is a pretty good "bet' and became you haven't anyone fisc handy at the present time. Aiand by a while and your candy man probably will turn up.

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! seems to achieve so graciously with > S °And 'realize that here you actually have on view the famous Parisienne —an elegante, beautifully groomed and coiffured, quiet higher gestures U „// / 5 And this house favors the fairly //' i J { long skirt for afternoon wear, as iw' W well as for evening. To tell you the If ▼ 1 truth, it is the choice of all the

PARIS, Jan. 23. 'J'TIREE cheers for the Ardanse mannequins! And, the Redfern mannequins . . . and some others. But some others! But anyway, walk into the Maison Ardanse—you know, where Yvonne Davidson now is?—and sit upon one of the small white and gold chairs—and see lovely lady after lovely lady come through the closed black velvet drapes—wearing the long, slender, form-fitting lines that this house

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seems to achieve so graciously with | so little obvious effort. And realize that here you actually have on view the famous Parisienne mannequin at her loveliest and best —an elegante, beautifully groomed and coiffured, quiet in her gestures and stately in her walk. And this house favors the fairly long skirt for afternoon wear, as well as for evening. To tell you the truth, it is the choice of all the more elegant houses, even though j many very smart and popular houses do not favor it especially, j such as Jenny and Mag-Helly. And I dare any moaning male to j say one further word about dis- j liking long skirts, after seeing long j skirts as they can and should be j worn! an n CAPE or bertha collar, nobody-seems-to-who-cares. Anyway, it j looks mightly like an overgrown

Tomorrow! Selig s Once-a- Year! Brand New Merchandise! Regular Merchandise Given the Most Drastic Reductions in Our History! ♦ The new silhouettes. Black and every wanted new springtime color. Prints, /il\ crepes and lovely chiffons and georgettes jp* \ for street, afternoon and dinner. (85) Dresses sg* (95) Dresses $^.95 Were $lO |ffßl| Were sls M (18) Chinchilla, Rumble Seat, $4 Sports Coats, were SI 9 JL JL (35) Fur. Trimmed Cloth Coats $4 A were $25 to *39 50 (4) Fur. Trimmed Cloth Coats $A M were *49 50 and *59 50 ....

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Committee for Lecture Named by Club Group

Mrs. Joseph Ostrander, chairman of the Irvington Union of Clubs, has appointed the committee for the j ticket sale for David Seabury’s: lecture. Feb. 7. at school No. 57. Subject of the talk will be "The Riddle of Human Relations.” The committee includes Mrs. A. j H. Gripe, Mrs. Howard Ca!dwell, Mrs. G. C. Bosely, Mrs. Louis Bruck, Mrs. Kenneth Badger, and Mrs. D. E. Kramr# The me: ting of the council was held at the home of Mrs. Carl S. Wagner, 5744 East Michigan street. It was announced at the meeting that the second annual exhibition of Irvington artists will be held late in February.

bertha collar, going as it does all the way around the neck and falling to just below the elbows. But then, hocus-pocus or geeleygeeley, as they like to say in Paris, you untie it and it comes ofl and just isn’t a collar any more! OttO BUT then sometimes it doesn't untie and come off—and then everybody looks surprised and thinks it ought to. Personally, I don't care whether it does or not! It's smart on certain types of dresses and cute or. people who can afford to be cute. a an AND then a Jean Magnin evening ensemble, which proves again that one can be chic without being extreme! This dress is a combination of black satin and faille, embroidered in black pearls, and the coat of black velvet has white incrustations, which are covered with gold embroidery. Fine imagination, quite good taste, and there you have it! non The Couturier JEAN MAGNIN is pronounced "Man-yan,” no especial accent on either syllable—these have all been easy ones lately: so easy you don’t have to say them ten times, but just wait! a u tt Two yards and three-quarters of material, our expert assistance via a 2-cent stamp to the Dare Department of The Times and you will have a darling princess nightgown 'and a figure-fitting combination. Princess nightgowns are such a delightful change from these we have been wearing for so long—you’ll be glad if you send for the leaflet! a o o A a Revoir!

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Miss Clara Bolling, a niece of Mrs. Woodrow Wilson, has just made her debut in Washington society. She is shown here in her latest picture. Prior to her marriage to the war-time President, Mrs. Wilson was Mrs. Edith Bolling Galt, a widow.

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Miss Hedges Is Hostess for ’ Surprise Party b _ f Miss Allcne Hedges, 925 North ' Tacoma street, entertained Wednesday night with a surprise miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss 1 1 Mary Jolliffe, whose marriage to Robert E. Ewbank will take place the latter part of February. The bride’s colors, poudre blue and rose, were used in decoration. The guests, who included members and pledges of the Delta Phi Beta sorority, were Mrs. H. W. Joliffe, Mrs. Carl M"" : ng. Mrs. William H. McDonald. Mrs. Virgil Parsley, Mrs. i ! L. D. Ritter, Miss Martha Jolliffe. Miss Marie Swartz. Miss Grace Jaus. Miss Frances Duncan, Miss Elizabeth Duncan. Miss Donna Jacob i sen. Miss Evelyn Mann, Miss Louise Pritchard, Miss Donna Morris and 5 Miss Alice Smith. The hostess was I assisted by her mother, Mrs. W. G. Hedges, and Miss Jaus.

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Tweed Turbans The tweed turban has reached an übiquitousness that ranks *lt above all other "Fords” this season. The newest ones are two or three colors. Ascot Scarf The newest and youngest looking scarf is the Ascot. One in brown and orange has a rich monogram on the top end.

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Purse Frame A black antelope purse ha* the left half of Its frame red enamel and the right sidestepped up slightly and done in green enamel. The ornamental clasp is green and red. outlined in crystals. Rich brocades make stunning little costume blouses and gilets, worn with black velvet skirts that dip and trail to beauty.