Indianapolis Times, Volume 41, Number 189, Indianapolis, Marion County, 18 December 1929 — Page 11

DEC- 1?, 1920_

Wife Must Do Her Part in Marriage BV MARTHA LEE Young woman, you are going to be married. It is the most important step you ever have taken in your life. It is your big job. It is your opportunity for doing well by yourself. And you are signing up for life—a life contract with your compensation to be adjusted according to what you put into the concern just the same as any firm would do. First of all, fix it in your mind that permanent and lasting happiness and contentment is what you want most, of all In life. Never let anything interfere with those two things. Money is nice, position, luxuries are desirable, but they must never be aims of your marriage. Your aim remains the same. Happiness, peace and contentment. Next, make it a commandment with yourself always to be completely honest and truthful. Be the sort of wife that your husband can depend upon. When you tell him something, he will know it is so. That will eliminate cure of the horrible bugaboos of marriage—distrust. Husband Is Individual Remember that your husband is an individual, with inherent rights of freedom. Never, under any conditions, make him feel shackled. Remember that he is there because he loves you and wants you. But that does not necessarily mean that lie does not like to go out once in a while on his own. You are marrying him because you love him and trust him. Because you think your future is safe

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in his hands. Because you firmly believe that he is going to love you and only you the rest of his life. Now. if 113 says, “I guess I'll walk down town and see the fellow’s.” don’t doubt him. * Never doubt him until he proves by some overt act that you positively know about, that he no longer is worthy of your trust. And then, because it is human to err and devine to forgive, give him one more chance. Make it definitely one more. And make him know with certain conviction that there is no danger of it being any more than that. Then, if he breaks faith with you agam, keep your word to yourself.

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The chance has passed. There are more unhappy marriages and broken homes by wives saying “just one more chance” and then making it ten, than you can shake a stick at. You know, one of the drawbacks of marriage Is the possessive atti-

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tude some women assume as soon as they have the little band on the third finger. No man can bear the possessive attitude in his wife. It’s one of the tyrannies of matrimony that, if abolished, would make the union more attractive to those standing on the outside looking in. A curious thing is that young

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people, just about to be married, never think of themselves as grown old. They never think of how things are going to be. when some of the romance and passion has gone from the affair. Be wise. Think of this man who is to be your husband as a person with whom you must sit and talk

or Just sit. day in and day out for years. There must be something besides physical attraction. There must be spiritual and mental attraction and admiration. These absolutely are essential, if the marriage is to be successful and permanent. There are lots of things that

could be said which might prove to be little signposts to happiness. But the little ones will come naturally to you. The big. important ones are honesty and faith and a sense of respect for the individuality of another. Your love is fresh and beautiful. Cherish it, take care of it as you

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would any lovely thing. Make every day as beautiful as you possibly can. It Is your duty. It Is part of your work as a member of the firm. A Christmas banquet for members of Alpha chapter. Alpha Beta Pi sorority, will be held Thursday night at the Marott hotel.