Indianapolis Times, Volume 40, Number 93, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 September 1928 — Page 18

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Advises Girl to Quit Man for Respect HEN a man can blind a I.VY woman to his wrongdoings and make her, against all human judgment, think that he has been sitting up with a sick ■friend or working overtime at the office, he can not possibly have much respect for her. And that does not mean that every time h; dees, have to stay out over the allotted eight hours that he is out making whoopie: And therein lies a woman’s power to be When she is able to distinguish between a real situation ia pnd a cooked-up one. And when it is a cooked-up one and s'he knows ,ft, the next problem is to handle the ensuing discussion with dexterity. More often than not, it is cause for what the comics like to picture as a big pan and rolling pin throwing contest, with the husband on the receiving end. Or a big word squabble which is even worse, because it lasts longer and sometimes .word bruises are much harder to Jieal.

> I sincerely believe that a man tedmires a woman who he can not .Jpqt anything over on. At the game time he hates one who is constantly suspicious. And why can not women learn to be like men? To take things for granted until proven otherwise. I should have said, like jsome men, because unfortunately all Jnen do not possess this trait. But today I have a letter from .fe. woman who has foolishly blinded herself to at least sensible acting. jShe says: , Dear Miss—l love a man as most women fio some time in their lives, and he says he loves me. When I am with him Jits every action proves this to be true. He knows that I love him and that when Jie does anything wrong it hurts me terribly, but that doesn't seem to have tiny effect upon him, for he promised to prove that he loved me by avoiding another woman. Two days later he spent the afternoon with her. - He tells me he does not care for her, but I suppose he tells her the same thing about me. He tells me he avoids her all he can They are thrown together daily by her scheming to spend an hour a day in his office. I try to overlook that, but she would not come if he did not give tier soma kind of encouragement. Whenever I tell him I know when he has been with her it makes him angry. When he offers the slightest excuse I am ready to accept it because X love him so much. Should I break with him. He tells and even begs me not to. but turns right around and does the same thing over. I am miserable. Even my health is bad from so much worry. PUZZLED. You have no question, puzzled. I '.take It from your letter that you !ftre not married to this man, but 'just going with him. Thank your Stars for that. If you do not want to go with him when he goes with Someone else, breas with him definitely and let him find out. for himself which of you it is he wants to go with. If you don’t mind, keep Jstill about it all and continue to ■go with him. At least he gives you his evenings, if that means anything. -Why don’t you have other dates? Dont’s lose weight over such a *>roblem. UNDECIDED—I take it the young inan is too busy or not interested enough to continue the correspondence. Do nothing at all about it. By all means do not answer the letter. He surely will like you no better for having no pride about the matter.

YOUR CHILD Let Child Be Original ‘ BY OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON THE “headstrong” child! What about him? Is he a black isheep, an incorrigible, one to be lamented, berated and apologized fpr Not a bit of it. Quite the opposite. Be careful. II you have a ‘‘headstrong” son or daughter, you jhave a prize. But like all precious things, care Xnust be used in the handling. “I never could conquer John,” jsighs a mother unhappily. “He jiever listens to a word I say.” “Mary thinks she knows it all,” bays another mother. “She pays tio more attention to my commands than if I were a radio. I mean absolutely nothing to her.” Both of these mothers have made fearful admissions of failure. They are to be pitied, of course, but not go much because their children won’t stand, dictation as because they themselves are unconsciously showing their lack of knowledge of their children and their inability to cope with characters stronger than their own. By making children do exactly as you say, you may be getting submissive obedience, but are you getting other things? True, I would not throw obedience to the winds. No household an be without fundamental law. But you 'can do wonders with the "headstrong child by reasoning with Ihim and talking to him and showing ;him that not only others but he himself will suffer by thoughtless impulsive behavior. What he needs is guiding, not managing. After all what is child training but molding. And you can not always set your own pattern. You must mold according to the material you have. I get tired of hearing the weak, docile child praised and the strongwilled, so-called headstrong child condemned. The men and women who get to the top are almost invariably the ones who had minds of ttheir own as children. •“ Os course, there is such a thing -as incorrigibility—the nature that acknowledges no law and no master. But that is abnormal and not so common as people think. Such children need special attention. "They are really pathological cases. But don’t try to beat or bull-doze or nag a fine child into complete submission merely to satisfy your craving for superiority, or your desire to pattern him after an idea of your own. You would not try to make a mastiff into a lap-dog. Short Fur Coats For fall, emphasis is being placed upon short fur coats in mink, squirrel, rabbit and the novelty furs.

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Y.W.C.A. to Fete Draft Plans JSf|| Is Given for on (Hiting Bride-Elect The “setting up’’ conference of jwl Miss Helen De Veiling, 395 nembers of the inter-club council! ■ | Ruckle St, was hostess this after f high school Girl Reserves will be Wm ll noon at a bridge party and miscel teld this week at the Y. w. c. A. 1 j laneous shower In honor of Mis lamp Delight on White River, under J i ria g e to Richard L. Federmar he direction of Miss Jenna Birks, I ; Brookville, will take place Wednes iecatur. 111., new director of Girl j 1 HHi § day. teserves in Indianapolis. The con- 1 I Appointments and decoration ... , & WMCMmMi'WML / W I were in pink and blue, the brida erence is to discuss this year’s j* g| j colors . Garden flowers in thos ctivities. I shades decoratrd the house and th The council, composed of officers ices were served in miniature blu

Y.W.C.A. to Draft Plans on Outing The “setting up” conference of members of the intei;-club council of high school Girl Reserves will be held this week at the Y. W. C. A. Camp Delight on White River, under the direction of Miss Jenna Birks, Decatur, 111., new director of Girl Reserves in Indianapolis. The conference is to discuss this year’s activities. The council, composed of officers of the four high school clubs, will go to the camp Friday evening for dinner. Camp fire ceremonials will follow. A business meeting Saturday morning will be conducted by Miss Birks, and Misses Catherine Lewis, Alice Timmons, Eleanor Graham, Mary Hamilton, Thelma Flack and Nettie McFadden will give reports of the Girl Reserves conference at Saugatuck, Mich., where they were delegates. Individual club conferences will be held Saturday afternoon for the arrangements of programs. Saturday night the only social function of the conference will be held, a masquerade party, and the girls will return to their homes Sunday morning after devotions.

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Miss Mary Armstrong (right) L c on the rush committee of Alpha Delta Pi sorority of Butler University, which is entertaining with a Violet rush party today at the country home of Mr. and Mrs. Wallace O. Lee, Allisonvillle pike. (Bachrach Photo.) Miss Mary Irwin (left) is a member of the rush committee. (Bachrach Photo.) Miss Loretta Galm (below) is in charge of the tea dance given by the Zeta Tau Alpha sorority this afternoon at the Propylaeum as the first of the rush parties by that sorority this season.

New Officers Are Installed by Sorority Installation of officers of Phi Gamma Tau sonority took place at the annual banquet held Wednesday evening at the Indianapolis Athletic Club. The banquet table was arranged with a centerpiece of Aaron Ward roses, the sorority flower, and lighted with white tapers tied with orchid tulle. Favors were novelty bracelets engraved with the sorority crest. A bridge party followed the banquet. Mrs. H. N. Jones was installed as president. Other officers are: Vice president, Mrs. Orval Barnett; treasurer, Mrs. Paul Williams; recording secretary, Miss Edna Bleak - ney; corresponding secretary, Miss Catherine Comes; sergeant-at-arms, Mrs. William Pierce; historian, Mrs. Leonard Lennington, and chaplain, Miss Grayce Ferguson. The committee in charge of the banquet and installation was Mesdames Barnett, William Haine, Jones, Misses Bleakney and Dorothy Volkart. GIVES BRIDGE PARTY IN HONOR BRIDE Mrs. William Hopkins, who before her marriage Saturday was Miss Wilhelmina Kedrich, was honored at a bridge party and miscellaneous shower given this afternoon at her home, 2951 Broadway. A color scheme of pink and green was carried out in the decorations and the guests with Mrs. Hopkins included Misses Elizabeth Kohler, Josephine- King, Berta Claire Hedrich, Gladys Hooker, Virginia Sibel, Frances Parker, Dorothy Miller and Josephine Fitch. The hostess was assisted by her mother, Mrs. E. H. Emrick. GIVES DINNER BRIDGE FOR PANAMA VISITOR Mrs. Frank Firestine, Cristobal, Panama, was the honor guest Thursday at a chicken dinner pnd bridge party given at the Copper Kettle, Morristown, by Mrs. Emma Sandborn.. Garden flowers wefe used as decorations and the favors at bridge were Chinese embroideries. Those present w r ith the honor guest were Mesdames John Connor, Fred Wagner, Jack Orme, Amelia Walsh, Robert Wilcox, Harry Dickson, Ira Swartz, Clarence Tucker and Dr. Lillian Mueller. Eggert-H oiling sworth Announcement is made of the marriage of Miss Bernadine Hollingsworth, daughter of Mrs. Minnie Hollingsworth, 3360. Guilford Ave., and Russell Eggert, son of Mr. and Mrs. Alvin Eggert, 605 Parkway Ave., which took place Saturday. Card Party Saturday The Pythian Sisters of Irvington Temple No. 411 will give a card party at 8:30 Saturday evening at the K. of P. Hall, 132!£ S. Audubon Rd. Estella Thayer is chairman in charge of arrangements. Laundry Savings If you hang all your clothes of a kind together, when laundering, and sprinkle and iron in the same order, you will find much time saved in extra handling required in sorting afterwards.

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Bridge Fete Is Given for Bride-Elect

Miss Helen De Veiling, 3954 Ruckle St., was hostess this afternoon at a bridge party and miscellaneous shower in honor of Miss Mary Alice Wishard, whose marriage to Richard L. Federman, Brookville, will take place Wednesday. Appointments and decorations were in pink and blue, the bridal colors. Garden flowers in those shades decoratrd the house and the ices were served in miniature blue

flower pots, with Butterfly roses. The tables were arranged with white tapers in blue crystal hflders, tied with pink tulle. The gifts were presented to Miss Wishard in a huge bride’s bouquet. Guests with the bride-elect and her mother were Mesdames Alice Irwin, F. N. Crowell, Donald Le Fuze, Lawrence Wrentmore and C. L. Masters, Brooklyn; Misses Edith Corya, Laura Templeton, Gertrude Insley, Helen Wilson, Marian Marshall, Mary Lee Orloff, Constance Johnson and Mildred Masters, Brookville. The hostess was assisted by her mother, Mrs. L. P. De Veiling.

Trousseau Tea Given at Home of Bride-Elect Miss Dorothy Moore, whose marriage to Gerald Raymond Redding will take place at 4 Saturday afternoon, entertained Thursday afternoon with trousseau tea at her country home, River View. Baskets of gladioli and late summer flowers were used in the home and on the porch. The tea table, at which Miss Florence Moore presided, was arranged with a bowl of white asters and pink roses and was lighted with pink tapers. Out-of-town guests at the tea were Mesdames Donald Webster and Sylvia Stoney, Detroit; Misses Leah Peters and Margaret Rose, Ft. Waypf, and Mesdames Walter Crooke and Dallas Crooke, Leesburg. SHOECALF BAG

A tailored bag of black shoecalf is made in wide pleats and has a silver metal frame. Bridge so * House Guest Honoring Miss Katherine Hall, Newcastle, who is the house guest of Miss Helen Louise Langston, Miss Virginia Sanders entertained with a bridge party Wednesday afternoon at her home. With Misser Hall and Langston were Misses Virginia Craig, Esther Giltner, Betty Ramey, Mary Young, Helen Ehrich, Virginia Osborne, Marporie Holcomb, Rhea Lewis, Betty Jeanne Balz, Muriel Millett, Mary Louise Wheeler, Eloise Welsh and Susan Auginbaugh.

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Miss Boren, C. J. Huesing Are Married Miss Alice Margaret Boren, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edward D. Boren, 4549 N. Rural St., became the bride of Carl Joseph Huesing, son cf Mr. and Mrs. Joseph B. Huesing. 121 N. Gladstone St., at a late summer wedding held at 9 Thursday morning at St. Roch'.s Church. The service was read before an altar banked with palms, ferns and pink and white garden flowers and lighted with cathedral candles, by the Rev. Peter R. Pfeifer, pastor. Preceding the ceremony a group of bridal airs was played by Miss Julia Colbert, organist, and Mendelssohn’s “Wedding March" was used for the entrance of the bridal party. Attended by Sister Miss Evelyn Boren, sister of the bride, who was maid of honor, wore a gown of pale pink georgette crepe, made with a tight basque and long lace trimmed skirt with uneven hemline Her hat was pale pink horsehair braid, with pink and orchid velvet streamers that hung to the waistline. She carried a bouquet of Columbia roses and larkspur tied with pink tul^e. Little Betty Dwyer, niece of the bride, in a flesh colored taffeta frock and lace bonnet, was flower girl. She carried a basket of Premier roses and larkspur. Charles Schunck, Selina, Ohio, cousin of the bridegroom, was best man. The bride wore a gown of bridal satin, made with a fitted bodice and long tight sleeves. The long full skirt was edged with lace and clusters of orange blossoms hung from the waist to the bottom of the skirt. Her full length Duches lace veil was caught cap shape with clusters of orange blossoms. She carried a shower bouquet of Bride’s roses and valley lilies, tied with white tulle and wore a strand of pearls, the gift of the bridegroom. Breakfast at Marott Following the ceremony, a wed ding breakfast was served to the bridal party and members of the immediate families in the gold room at the Marott. The table was centered with a tiered wedding cake on a mound of roses and lighted with pink tapers in crystal holders. The bride’s chair was marked with a bow of white tulle. A reception at the home of the bride’s parents followed. Mr. and Mrs.. Huessing left for a motor trip through the East, the bride traveling in a brown crepe ensemble and brown hat, with accessories of tan. They will be at home after Sept. 15 at 3701 E. Sixteenth St. Out-of-town guests included Mr. and Mrs. William Etter, Springfield, Ohio; Mrs. 9. M. Wade, Noblesville; Mrs. Margaret Schunck, Selina, Ohio; Messrs. Edward Wyatt, Bridgeport, and Carol Harper, Martinsville.

Family Menus j BY SISTER MARY BREAKFAST —Peaches, cereal, cream, crisp broiled bacon, blueberry biscuits, milk, coffee. LUNCHEON—Tomato and ham sandwiches, cress and apple salad, DINNER— Salisbury steak, horseradish cream, baked new potatoes, wax beans, cucumber and lettuce salad, filled cantaloupe, milk, coffee. During the summer months when much fresh fruit is served “au naturel” for breakfast, the housekeeper will save herself many stained napkins if she will provide finger bowls with the fruit course. Boiled cabbage ham is cut in slices about one-quarter inch thick and browned quickly first on one side and then on the other. Mediumsized ripe tomatoes are peeled and cut in slices of the same thickness. These are dipped in melted butter and broiled quickly. Ham and tomato slices are arranged in alternating layers in a hot dish and tiny sprigs of parsley browned in the ham fat are sprinkled over just before sending to the table. This makes the tomato and ham sandwiches suggested in the luncheon menu. Blueberry Biscuits Two cups flour, four teaspoons baking powder, one-half teaspoon salt, three tablespoons butter, about three-fourths cup milk, one cup washed and dried blueberries. Wash berries and spread on a soft towel to dry Mix and sift flour, salt and baking powder. Rub in butter and add berries. Cut in milk. Roll on a lightly floured molding board. Cut in rounds and bake in a hot oven for fifteen or twenty minutes. Serve warm with lots of butter. Announce Betrothal Mr. and Mrs. W. F. Klinge, 4950 Graceland Ave., announce the engagement of their daughter, Bertha Ann, to Gilbert Malone. The wedding will take place at 8:30 Wednesday, Oct. 10, at the Emmaus Lutheran Church.

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Mrs. Sally Thornton, Chicago, who has been visting her sister, Miss Lena Hubbard, 2150 College Ave., for the past two weeks, has returned to her home. Mr. and Mrs. Eugene S. Fisher, 2604 Broadway, are motoring through Wisconsin and northern Michigan. Miss Dorothy Clune, 1911 N. Alabama St., who has been visiting with Miss Frances Kreig at Wequetonsing, Mich., has returned. Misses Janet and Imogene Shaw, 2009 N. Pennsylvania St., will be at home informally from 3 till 6 o’clock Saturday afternoon for Mrs. Alfred W. Pick and her daughter, Miss Mary Virginia Pick, Denver, Colo. Mrs. Pick was formerly Miss Grace Briggs. No invitations have been sent out. Dr. and Mrs. Frank C. S. Wicks, 111 E. Forty-fourth St., are in Martinsville for a short stay.

Maps Plans for Parley of DA. R. The annual State conference, Daughters of the American Revolution, which will be held at Terre Haute, Oct. 9, 10 and 11, will have as its keynote "The Defense Work of the Daughters of the American Revolution,” according to plans presented at tiie meeting of the board, 'held Thursday at the Columbia Club. Principal speakers at the State conference will include the Rev. Lewis Rocca, Fort Wayne, who will address the gathering Tuesday night, Oct. 9; the Rev. George McGinnis, LaGrange, 111., who will talk on “National Defense From a Christian’s Viewpoint” at the Wednesday, Oct. 10, afternoon session, and the Rev. Walter Scott Elliott, Wheaton, 111., whose subject will be “A Christian Missionary’s Experience in Old Carthage.” The annual banquet will be held Wednesday night, Oct. 10, and headquarters for the delegates will be at the Hotel Deming. Those who attened the board meeting Wednesday were Mesdames J. B. Crankshaw, Fort Wayne, State regent; James M. Waugh, Crawfordsville; John Campbell, South Bend; Truman Yuncker, Greencastle; Ray Mayse, Indianapolis; Edgar Mendenhall, Fort Wayne; Roscoe Olßryne, Rockville, and J. F. McFaaden, Gory. Meeting Tonight The opening of the fall meetings of the Sigma Phi Gamma Sorority will take place with a regular meeting at the Columbia Club this evening. New officers will be elected and Miss Josephine Hoffman will be pledged.

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Miss Harriet Shoemaker, 826 West Dr.. Woodruff Place, is on a trip to Columbus and Gallon, 0., where she is visiting friends. Dr. Virgil E. Borer and daughter Adele, 1916 N. Meridian St., have returned from a two months’ tour of Europe. Mr. and Mrs. Edward Nell. 2625 N. Meridian St., will return next week from Petoskey, Mich. Nell will resume his teaching at the Metropolitan School of Music Sept. 10. Mr. and Mrs. Strawfa and daughter, Katherine, and Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Annarino have returned from Wabash, where they attended the weddig of Miss Josephine Corso and Mike Mindaro. Don McGaughey, 5219 E. Washington St., son of Dr. and Mrs. Samuel McGaughey, left today for Purdue University to continue his studies.

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Hiram M. Stout According to an announcement received from the president’s office, De Pauw University, Hiram M. Stout, 44 W. Thirty-Second St., has been appolrjed instructor in the political science department for the coming year. Stout recently completed studies for a diploma in political science in Oxford University, England. Election Planned Election of officers for the women of Avalon Country Club will be held at a luncheon to be given at the Indianapolis Athletic Club Thursday.

.SEPT. 7, 1928

Tennessee Girl Weds Local Man Miss Opal Carolyn Wilson, daughter of W. L. Wilson, Mountain City, Tenn., and Dick D. Wright, son of Mr. and Mrs. B. C. Wright, Indianapolis, were united in marriage Wednesday evening at the home of Mrs. Charles Yeagerline, the Rev. G. H. Gebbhardt, pastor of the Carrollton Avenue Reformed Church, reading the servic ein the presence of the immediate families. The service was performed before' a fireplace banked with palms, fe*ns, garden flowers and lighted cathedral candles. Preceding and during the ceremony a group of bridal airs was played. The bride, who was unattended, wore a white crepe gown, with fitted bodice and full skirt, her leng tulle veil was arranged cap shape, with clusters of orange blossoms at either side. She carried a shower bouquet of bride’s roses tied with white tulle. A reception was held following the ceremony. Mr. and Mrs. Wright, have gone on a motor trip througlr Michigan, the bride traveling in a blue crepe ensemble with hat to match. They will be at home after Sept. 20 at 4504 Winthrop Ave. The bride was graduated from Indiana University and is a member of the Chi Omega Sorority. Wright attended Butler University.

Alpha Omicron Sorority Gives Bridge Party Alpha Omicron Pi Sorority of Butler University, entertained with the first rush party of the season Thursday afternoon at the home of Mrs. O. M. Jones, 5260 N. Pennsylvania St. Garden flowers were used for decoration in the house and on the veranda and bridge tables were arranged on the lawn. The guests were entertained with cards, dancing and music. Misses Ethel Malloch and Gladys Hawickhorts, in rustic costume presented a stunt, and Miss Buelah Phillips sang sorority songs. Miss Mary Elizabeth Johnson, presented a group of piano numbers. Favors were old-fashioned nosegays of pastel colored straw flowers tied with tulle bearing the sorority monogram. Miss Ruth Lundenborg was chairman in charge of arrangements, with Misses Frances Shcrra and Alice Hill as her assistants. The next party will be a rose dinner Sept. 14 at the Marott. Full Sleeves' On the new sleeves, the fullness is concentrated between the wrist and the elbow.